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livewirehere

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CIVIL WAR NO MORE Posted: 2/27/2006 11:04:53 AM
I've never thought so, but I've had a lot of guys tell me they believe women do have the upper hand, in dating, marriage, etc... Sooo, I honestly don't know~~

livewirehere

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Are men and women over 30 but not yet 40 the crankiest out there? Posted: 2/27/2006 10:48:08 AM
You are so right Deborah... Both push us to a limit we never knew we'd reach... Yet, we survive~~~~

livewirehere

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Music - IV Posted: 2/27/2006 10:44:48 AM
Ffrosty and Cameo, we seem to have most of the same tastes in music.. I love Fuel.. My favorite is Million Miles and coming in 2nd would be Won't Back Down (Bring You Hell Remix)** Papa Roach--Last Resort~~

livewirehere

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Music - IV Posted: 2/25/2006 4:26:50 PM
Sheryl Crowe--Are You Strong Enough to be my Man~~

livewirehere

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Music - IV Posted: 2/25/2006 9:15:58 AM
My son actually turned me on to Offspring a few years ago.... I love em~~~ STP--Plush~~

livewirehere

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Would You Rather Your Parents Beat You? Posted: 2/25/2006 9:05:17 AM
My mom never hit us either, just did the "silent treatment"... My dad rarely hit us. Once I called him a MF while on the phone with a friend (I think I was about 15). Woohoo, big mistake, because he heard me. I won't even tell that story--might scare y'all.. One punishment I hated was having to wash and wax my dad's ski boat on a Saturday.... I've never waxed anything again in my life. Or, he'd make me cut the grass.... I've never done that again either~~~I used to find ways to screw up the lawnmower and he finally quit using that as a punishment>>>>

livewirehere

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Music - IV Posted: 2/24/2006 10:20:24 PM
The Pretenders--Middle of the Road~~

livewirehere

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Are men and women over 30 but not yet 40 the crankiest out there? Posted: 2/24/2006 10:12:59 PM
I needed a good laugh today~~~ Thanks y'all~~

livewirehere

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Would You Rather Your Parents Beat You? Posted: 2/24/2006 10:02:29 PM
I think that's something totally different Longtoe... Have you ever seen the documentary "Bullied to Death"? If not, try to find a way to see it. It's not humiliation necessarily, it's the cruelty and bullying that they put up with for years and years, most of the time that leads to the violence and revenge....It really opened my eyes. I see nothing wrong with the public humiliation thing. I know for me, it would work. Yeah, it would work for me. I can't stand being humiliated.

livewirehere

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Alot of women on POF are from the healthcare industry why is that ? Posted: 2/24/2006 9:57:04 PM
Because we know better than to date doctors, residents, or interns~~

livewirehere

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One of my favorite covers of All-Time.... Posted: 2/24/2006 9:44:05 PM
I'm not like them, but I can pretend~~ I think I'm dumb, maybe just happy--I think I'm just happy~~ We float around, hang out on clouds~~ Have a hangover>>>

livewirehere

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Music - IV Posted: 2/24/2006 9:17:25 PM
Motley Crue--Kickstart my Heart~~

livewirehere

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Music - IV Posted: 2/24/2006 5:37:21 PM
Black Crows--She Talks to Angels~~

livewirehere

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Is It Wrong To Misrepresent Yourself In Order To Get Laid? Posted: 2/24/2006 11:00:37 AM
And just what would a guy/girl say to get laid>? I just don't get it. If there aren't 2 willing parties, how does it happen>? I get confused so easily lately>>>

livewirehere

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Music - IV Posted: 2/24/2006 10:51:24 AM
I have to say Cameo, that Come out and Play is my favorite Offspring song. In fact, I think Leafslady mentioned it on here once and told her not so early in the morning because it makes me feel a little crazy~~~ Gin Blossoms--I Found Out About You~~

livewirehere

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When is it ok 2 cheat? Posted: 2/24/2006 10:46:08 AM
There are no rules regarding this subject... It has to do with having compassion, caring and feelings for another person.. There's nothing like kicking someone, ahem.... you know~~~

livewirehere

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Would You Rather Your Parents Beat You? Posted: 2/24/2006 10:42:11 AM
I know I've seen cases where judges have sentenced people (only adults that I've seen) to "public-type humiliation" such as you mentioned. I think it's great, and if I would have had to do something like that I don't think I would have ever repeated whatever got me there in the first place. My parents did the grounding thing. I hated it, and used to tell my dad to just hit me and get it over with so I could go out with my friends~~ I know, not funny, but when I look back on it, it's funny to me>>>>

livewirehere

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Music - IV Posted: 2/23/2006 9:13:57 PM
Goo Goo Dolls--Name~~ No Doubt--Hey Baby~~ ((one of my favorites videos... that dude feels the need to always get naked))

livewirehere

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At what age do people get over playing games? Posted: 2/23/2006 8:47:31 PM
Alas, some never do, which is why you need to use your "gut instinct".....

livewirehere

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Do you know what your dog is eating? Posted: 2/23/2006 8:00:44 PM
I'm sorry you guys, as I know this was intended to be a serious thread... I just couldn't help myself. Dogs eat really gross stuff.... I don't care whether they leave the yard, the house, etc... They will always find something gross to eat, and they totally relish it~

livewirehere

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Music - IV Posted: 2/23/2006 7:46:34 PM
Big Black Horse and the Cherry Tree--KT Tunstall~~

livewirehere

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was kurt kobain very clever? Posted: 2/22/2006 11:43:42 PM
I'll just make one more comment.. He did a few "fun" songs; Been a Son, Lithium, and Smells like Teen Spirit, just to name a few... Maybe the songs come across to everyone differently. He's always made me think, let's put it that way~~~ And Lithium is one of my favorites of all~~~

livewirehere

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Has your taste changed? Posted: 2/22/2006 11:32:14 PM
I'd say in the last 5 years mine has.. I used to be mostly a "top 40's" type person, but now my brothers call me a "metal head"... I'm not that either. I like a little bit of everything~

livewirehere

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Music - IV Posted: 2/22/2006 11:24:36 PM
That's why I love this thread... It gives me ideas for lots of new stuff to listen to... Can't stand the same old boring stuff over and over ((okay, a few of them)).... Santana and Rob Thomas~~Smooth.... Yes, it's smooth~~

livewirehere

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Are men and women over 30 but not yet 40 the crankiest out there? Posted: 2/22/2006 11:08:40 PM
Lot's of personalities "mixing it up" on here.. You have to remember that and learn when to make a comment and then run real fast~~

livewirehere

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Do you know what your dog is eating? Posted: 2/22/2006 11:06:00 PM
My neighbor had about 5 cats, and let's just say that was quite a delicacy for my dog--he loved it~~Oh yeah, and he'd eat just the heads off any fish we caught...

livewirehere

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Music - IV Posted: 2/22/2006 9:23:27 PM
Mmmmm... Love Goo Goo Dolls--everything they've done. John Mayer--Your Body is a Wonderland~~

livewirehere

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are men necessary? Posted: 2/22/2006 9:24:02 AM
LMAO deagleninja~~~

livewirehere

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Should you get roaring drunk before a 1st date? Posted: 2/22/2006 9:14:23 AM
I'd say if you tend to puke and pass out, it's not a very good idea~~

livewirehere

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Music - IV Posted: 2/22/2006 9:11:29 AM
That's my line Cameo~~ One of my all time favorite Metallica songs>>>> I still haven't had time yet to download The Killers and Bloodhound Gang, but I will eventually... Lennis Kravitz--I Want to Fly~~ Michelle Branch--Are You Happy Now~~~

livewirehere

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How to judge a First Impression??? Posted: 2/21/2006 11:05:17 PM
Being the animals that we are ((and we all know how animals react to someone they don't think is "right"))-- I think we need to use our "gut instinct" and go with it.. It usually tells us the truth, whether we want to hear it or not~

livewirehere

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my date had pet rats ! Posted: 2/21/2006 10:38:11 PM
Womanofcurves---I need to set you up with my ex... If I would have let him, we would have had a zoo at all times.. We even had a racoon at one time, plus all of the various snakes, iguanas, other lizards, fish, dogs, cats, birds, you name it---we had it~~((sorry, I lied, no pigs))

livewirehere

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A look into modern social problems and how it translates to dating Posted: 2/21/2006 10:23:50 PM
The most important thing I've learned is that the only person I can "truly" count on is myself. Nothing seems to be forever, no matter what our ideals may be~~ And, there are really some women out there who work just as hard as a man--harder, but I'm not bashing. When I was married for almost 20 years I did almost everything (except the mechanical stuff); paid the bills, read all the fine print, cleaned, cooked, did the laundry, worked full time, took care of the kids and stayed home with them when they were sick, and even went back to college 10 years ago while still doing all of that. I"m sure there are women out there who may take advantage of it, but hopefully more of them are doing what they feel they need to do than just doing it for "revenge or power">? ((Not sure if those are the words I'm looking for))...

livewirehere

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Music - IV Posted: 2/21/2006 10:12:08 PM
Marcy Playground--Sex and Candy~~~

livewirehere

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getting kissed by a complete stranger Posted: 2/21/2006 11:49:02 AM
There are times it can be the best thing in the world...

livewirehere

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What do you Notice first in a Person? Posted: 2/21/2006 11:45:04 AM
Attitude and being comfortable with themselves, uniqueness, whether they can hold an intelligent conversation, and then they have to be able to make me laugh--or laugh at me--whatever comes first.....

livewirehere

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Music - IV Posted: 2/21/2006 11:35:01 AM
Elton John--Tiny Dancer~~~He'll always be GOOD~~~

livewirehere

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my date had pet rats ! Posted: 2/21/2006 11:25:52 AM
Actually, rats can be very good pets (and no, you don't get them "off the street") LOL~~ I never "woulda thought it", but it's true. Better than the guinea pig we had, who bit everybody~~~

livewirehere

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do past bad relations affect the presant? Posted: 2/21/2006 11:13:33 AM
No matter how many times we say we have "no baggage" I think everything that's happened to us and every relationship we've had affects us. The past is part of the present~

livewirehere

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have all the girls gone crazy? Posted: 2/21/2006 11:01:28 AM
You can't determine the future by sleeping with someone one time.. My ex (of 20 years) and I slept together the first night and the next 6 nights as well... If there's chemistry, there's chemistry. I find denying all of that to be playing a kind of game. I respect a guy who respects a woman, but that goes both ways. My ex respected me and I respected him, no matter what happened on the first date. It's what happened afterwards that counted.. Get what I'm saying>?

livewirehere

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Music - IV Posted: 2/21/2006 10:53:23 AM
I have to check out The Killers now (Where is She) Cameo~~ As well as Bloodhound Gang... You have me goin----Curiosity killed the cat, but we have 9 lives, right>?

livewirehere

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Music - IV Posted: 2/21/2006 10:48:32 AM
Maxie Priest--Close to You~~ "Tie me up with elastic words"

livewirehere

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what put a major smile on your face today? Posted: 2/21/2006 10:45:51 AM
Ladypagey put a huge smile on my face since I just saw her post~~~ Crackin me up lady~~

livewirehere

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my date had pet rats ! Posted: 2/21/2006 10:37:40 AM
LOL~~~ When I met my ex he had a phython as well as "Daddy Rat"... He also purchased rats to feed to the python, but never Daddy Rat, of course...

livewirehere

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For the ladies...Ever go on a Man Hunt? Posted: 2/21/2006 10:35:01 AM
LMAO~~ My GF and I used to go to the beach hunting surfers....

livewirehere

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doing it in public Posted: 2/21/2006 10:33:59 AM
Nothing better than that risk of being caught~~~

livewirehere

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How do I meet girls that aren't tramps? Posted: 2/19/2006 9:47:27 PM
Maybe by not being a tramp yourself>? Hmmmm... I'll have to think on that one>>

livewirehere

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Music - IV Posted: 2/19/2006 9:39:05 PM
It's Peaches and Herb, Bambi~~ The Cardigans--Love Fool~~

livewirehere

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hot guy when met in real life was anything but sexy Posted: 2/19/2006 8:08:12 AM
Umm, it seems to be a part of this online dating thing.. Always be ready for the "unexpected". It's happened to me more times than I care to say. Which is why I always drive myself somewhere and only meet in a public place (easier to bow out gracefully that way)... It's frustrating, I know. But--I have to say that I've also met quite a few guys who are NOT like that and who actually look like their pictures. Don't give up just yet~

livewirehere

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How do you guys/girls deal with rejection Posted: 2/19/2006 8:04:13 AM
As the very old bumper sticker said, "Shi# Happens". Then I move on.... Plenty of fish, right>?

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