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Demi Moore/Bruce Willis divorce, if you could, would you? Posted: 1/28/2009 12:51:23 PM
I have the same relationship with my ex and his wife. It was determined during separation that our KIDS were the most IMPORTANT. With both of us coming from a past with messy divorces, we did not want our kids to go through the terrible things that we did. We don't share vacations or holidays together, but his new wife and I communicate daily to discuss the kids. It's like one big extended family for the kids, and they know that they cannot play us against each other on anything - communication is key. This has been the best thing for my children, and I can say that I get comments all the time on how well the kids have adjusted to the divorce and new marriages. But, let me say that this arrangement is rare in today's society. I get strange looks from people when I explain that we all get along. . . .divorce does not have to be messy. Both parents have the capability to put their feelings/dirty laundry aside and look at the effects on their children. They are our future. I borrowed plenty of books from the library on the subject from the get go.

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Would a man seriously date a woman with three kids Posted: 1/17/2009 1:30:32 PM
Of course there are men out there who will accept the fact that you have three children! I have three myself, and in my dating experience since the separation/divorce in the past four years has proved that there were no problems finding men who were interested in me and knowing that the kids were a part of my life. Children are never baggage; they are a part of YOU, and don't let anyone ever tell you otherwise. As in any relationship, you find time to spend alone together and with the children, finding that happy balance. Be strong, be happy, be a wonderful mother . . . all endearing qualities that will attract others to you. (I am getting married in a few months . . .so there is hope for the single mother of three. . . . love, life and happiness) - please stop me before I get any more sappy LOL Good Luck!

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Heinous or no? Posted: 8/15/2006 7:53:57 PM
Ha ha ha!! OMG, I thought I was the only one who ran into a guy like this! I was sitting next to my date on the couch watching a movie, and his hand kept going down below. I thought he had an itch. . ok. Well, it kept persisting, and the next thing ya know, I look down and he's doing more than "scratching." Oh my, I was rather shocked. . like dude, what the heck are you doing??? Thanks for sharing with us. . . it just shows that yes, there are all kinds. Your guy actually has luck with that line? Wow.

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Did you change ANYTHING about your physical appearance? Posted: 8/12/2006 6:14:43 AM
I joined the gym and lost 75 pounds,and been going back on forth between blonde and auburn hair and growing out longer. When I see the ex (because of the kids), I see the approval in his eyes, but that gives me the satisfaction that I look good and he can't have me. . .ever! I guess you would call it my "revenge" after all the crap he put me through over the years. How sweet.

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~~High School Dances...remember?~~~ Posted: 8/11/2006 9:14:49 PM
82-85 I went to a few dances. I was the shy girl in the corner who didn't go out and dance and felt really sad when the slow songs came on and no one asked me to dance.

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how many people have you met from this site? Posted: 7/23/2006 7:51:55 PM
I've only met three. Still fishing

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CINCINNATI/ N KY LETS PUT A PARTY TOGETHER TO MEET Posted: 7/22/2006 6:18:39 PM
This is a great idea! Please keep us posted on any future Cinci/NKy get togethers :)

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Why are you single? Posted: 4/17/2006 6:33:53 PM
It's been fun reading everyone's reasons for "singledom." Personally, I am single after settling for 14 years with someone with whom I had nothing in common with. I wouldn't say all that time was a waste, but I was young and didn't make very wise choices. The ex left to be with his longtime girlfriend, but we are still friends for the kids sake. I've been dating mostly online for the past 1.5 years and have met many different people, including the liars, cheaters, and players. I'm not in a big rush to get serious right off the bat, but would be happy to meet someone who can put up with my goofiness and appreciate me for who I am. I'm optimistic that it will happen one day. Life is too short, so have fun. You never know who you might meet when you least expect it. . . at least that is what I have been told.

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do you look like your pictures? Posted: 4/11/2006 7:54:35 PM
I like to keep my pics up to date and post new ones every month. I have heard many times that I look much better in person than my pictures, and that makes me smile. I have had several dates where the guys were using pictures from 10 years ago and they looked nothing like them. To me, that is a form of dishonesty. Kudos to everyone/anyone who takes the time to tell the other person about their pics . . . It makes it easier to meet the other person in a public place (instead of wondering "is that him?") Besides, even I don't look the same that I did ten or more years ago. . and I don't think it would be fair if I posted those and then expect people to think that was "me" now. (Of course, I do have a Glamour Shots picture from '90 .. hmmmmm LOL)

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