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vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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Blatant lies in forums - what is to be gained????? Posted: 5/10/2006 9:58:38 AM
Below are three statements.. .. and only one of them is the truth.. .. can you tell which one? I weight 250 pounds at 5'2" I have 14 kids I love the "lies in the forums thread " You know you can pretty much say whatever you want... truth....close to the truth....little white lie....bold face lie.. .. and some of us will never know the truth.. . .some of us will be Sherlock Holmes and try to call you on the lie.. .. and some of us prefer that you lie....because we know the truth would be far worse....lol! ~Ain't nothing but a chicken wing

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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Need your advice/input please!!!!! Posted: 5/10/2006 9:48:59 AM
What the fcuk ever.. .. OP you're damn right you had a reason to be snippy.. .. sex once every other month and only if you start it up.. .. WTF.. .. I would have been snippy too! I'm sure you took it as a sign that you have seen many times before...the oh no..I'm too tired....or my neck hurts.. .. ohhhhh my tummy.. .. shessshhhh! Pop the movie in.. .. fire up the toys.. .. and have fun your dayum self!!!! ~Ain't nothing but a chicken wing

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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Warning: Apologies cannot overcome everything Posted: 5/10/2006 12:02:23 AM
Who are you telling.. .. this thread.. . looks like Dr. Phil threw up all over it.. .. it made my head hurt so bad.. .. I had to do 2 shots of Vodka....just to be able to look at it again.. .. but this is the last time...I'm not coming in here anymore.. .. I don't care how bad of a train wreck it is....I WON'T LOOK....I WON'T LOOK......I WON'T LOOK ~Ain't nothing but a chicken wing

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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Is there anything better than revenge? Posted: 5/9/2006 11:58:13 PM
LMAO! I'm sorry...but I thought both of the guys revenge stories were funny as shyt.. .. and I bet you both feel a whole lot better.. .. good for you! DISCLAIMER: I DO NOT ENCOURAGE THIS SORT OF BEHAVIOUR ~Ain't nothing but a chicken wing

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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Ever said you're sorry? Posted: 5/9/2006 9:04:17 PM
Yeah.. . .both ex-husbands said they were sorry.. .. the 1st said it a million times....and never meant it once! The 2nd.. . what he had to be sorry for was.. . .screaming in my face.....To bad you didn't just die when you had breast cancer! I forgave him.. .. it was his birthday present.. .. two weeks after I left him ! Oh, and I didn't say sorry for nothing.. .. cuz' I did NOTHING! ~Ain't nothing but a chicken wing

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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women's phone numbers Posted: 5/9/2006 8:55:54 PM
I give this number out.. .. to people that I just "bump into" 212-479-7990 ~Ain't nothing but a chicken wing

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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lost sheep needs help Posted: 5/9/2006 8:54:00 PM
I think that's called physical attration.. . .if you want to be next to her ! ~Ain't nothing but a chicken wing

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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A casual dating question? Posted: 5/9/2006 8:52:43 PM
Is it fair.. . .when you are in this type of situation.. .. say with 3 guys.. .. but you are only having sex with one of them.. .. and the one that you are having sex with knows about the other two??? Oh, and the other two know about the one sex guy.. .. I think it's fair.. .. I also think that the one sex guy.. .. goes out of his way.. .. to make sure that I never have a need to have sex with either of the other two guys.. .. and is it okay.. .. that I stopped seeing the other two a long time ago.. . .but do not tell him.. ..because if I do he might stop trying so hard! If I'm wrong just tell me.. . I can take it! ~Ain't nothing but a chicken wing

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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New addition to profiles Posted: 5/9/2006 8:45:53 PM
I have seen this on several "male profiles"....now ask me how many I thought were accurate ~Ain't nothing but a chicken wing

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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Does the spring change your willingness ? Posted: 5/9/2006 4:02:42 PM
Spring is in the air.. .. let's all do it like the birds and the bees do it ! ~Ain't nothing but a chicken wing

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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Warning: Apologies cannot overcome everything Posted: 5/9/2006 3:52:18 PM
Amor~ Babydoll.. .. I wasn't bashing you for trying to talk through your problems...but it's getting a little out of hand.. .. I'm glad that you're not a callous pig.. .. in fact in another thread I took up for you.. .. but it's turning into a whine fest.. . rise above it....that's all I'm saying love! ~Ain't nothing but a chicken wing

vanilla~spice

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Your too nice Posted: 5/9/2006 3:49:44 PM
Your too nice = No puzzy for you.....lol ~Ain't nothing but a chicken wing

vanilla~spice

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Warning: Apologies cannot overcome everything Posted: 5/9/2006 3:41:27 PM
Amor ~ Sweets.. .. I understand...really I do.. .. but enough is enough....it's starting to get OLD.. . .you fcuked up....she doesn't care......move on .. . and stop relating everything you post to her.. .. the crying in your beer....is soooooo overdone already.. .. "said lovingly" ~Ain't nothing but a chicken wing

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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Women! So you're smart, funny, independant and single.. Posted: 5/9/2006 2:55:04 PM
Troth~ Get a life dude.. .. who gives a rats azz what the difference is.. .. stop trying to prove that you're smarter than what's his name.. . just because he's handsome doesn't mean he is dumb.. .. so don't bust his chops to make yourself look better....it's not attractive! I don't even get how you guys felt the need to add all this dribble in the first place.. . it wasn't even that serious of a thread.. . .but you blabber mouths always have to go off half****d and flex your muscles.. .. ((for those that have some)) and bow out your chest... like you're strutting around the chicken coop hoping one of the chickens will think you said something smart enough to catch their attention.. .. shhhheeeesssh! Lighten up ! ~Ain't nothing but a chicken wing

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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The Definition of a FLIRT/GOLD-DIGGER Posted: 5/9/2006 11:51:33 AM
I'm a flirt.. . but I ain't no gold-digger.. .. price of gold just ain't the same as it used to be...lol! ~Ain't nothing but a chicken wing

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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Yes, I just want to be friends Posted: 5/9/2006 11:49:16 AM
^^^That is a very good point!!!

vanilla~spice

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Your Best Two Cents Worth... Posted: 5/9/2006 11:17:06 AM
WoW! Some good advice.. . .some positive.. . some negative.. .. but we sure are giving our two cents worth.. .. I'm a little shocked...some of our great hopeful romantics haven't left a comment! I bet if Pour was allowed to post in the forums....she might say! Don't sweat the small stuff and grab life by the horns...if you see a fellow you like...grab him...throw him to the ground .. .. and take what you want!!!

vanilla~spice

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Yes, I just want to be friends Posted: 5/9/2006 11:13:43 AM
And ((most)) men will agree to be your friend...with the hopes of getting in your pants..by being your friend.. .. and come on they're red blooded men....what do you expect????

vanilla~spice

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Tentative Plans?? Posted: 5/9/2006 10:54:32 AM
I admit.. . I'm a tentative plan maker.. .. I can't help it.. ..I hate to set solid plans and then have to back out.. .. but I always tell the truth as to why I have to break them.

vanilla~spice

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Your Best Two Cents Worth... Posted: 5/8/2006 4:34:33 PM
If you were Dr. Phil. . . or Joyce Brothers.. .. what is the best two cents worth of advice you could give to a single person looking for love ? Mine would be: Give twice as much as you want to get back, at least that way you have half of what you expected. Our fellow lovers.. ..

vanilla~spice

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Has anyone ever broken the bed? Posted: 5/8/2006 3:01:33 PM
It's so funny.. .. this thread made me think back to my honeymoon.... .. 2nd marriage honeymoon.. .. we went to Italy for 16 days.. .. and I was trying to remember if we broke any beds of the more than 12 different ones we slept in while touring the whole Tuscan country-side.. .. and not only could I not remember breaking any beds.. .. I don't even remember the sex at all.. .. .. what does that mean.. .. I'm telling you I don't remember one night of the sex on our honeymoon.. .. don't get me wrong...I'm sure "we" had it.. . but nope....can't remember it!

vanilla~spice

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what does it mean? Posted: 5/8/2006 2:57:17 PM
Princess ~ It prolly means the same thing as it did when I used to say...I love you to my ex-boyfriend...and his reply was always...."Do you?".. .. well he asked one to many times and I finally said...Ummmm to be honest...NO I don't....not anymore !

vanilla~spice

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Women! So you're smart, funny, independant and single.. Posted: 5/8/2006 2:50:27 PM
You can find me in my front yard.. .. mowing the grass....trimming the hedges.. .. washing down the sidewalk.. . or maybe painting the trim...washing the windows even.. .. you can find me...Mon-Fri.. .. at work.. . .you can find me at the gym most evenings.. .. I don't bite.. . I don't fight.. . and I take compliments very well.. .. so show me whatcha got.. .. and just and FYI.. .. it's not as hard as you guys make it out to be.. .. keep it real.. .. tell the truth...stop pretending to be something you're not.. . and maybe just maybe...when you're ready.. . and you really are done with playing games...you just might find the love of your life that you've been looking for.. .. you know....a smart,funny independant single female that doesn't need a man to complete her...but sure wouldn't mind if THEY mowed the freaking grass now and then .. .. .. lol!

vanilla~spice

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Putting yourself on 'hold' Posted: 5/8/2006 12:19:42 PM
Give him a week and ask him again.. .. the thing about mistakes ...we feel horrible when we get caught making them.. .but the remorse....slowly fades.. .. and we move on. We either learn from our past mistakes or we are doomed to repeat them. I won't put myself on hold for anything...life has taught me to live every day like it's my last....as it almost was a few times!! Roses smell wonderful.. .. I try to watch every sunset like it's my last....not one of them has disappointed me either!!!!

vanilla~spice

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I'm Not Attracted To Men My Age.... Posted: 5/8/2006 12:16:15 PM
I didn't know Dragons had brows at all.. . I figured they would be cinged off....lol I'm attracted to men that are my age.. .. not in years mind you !

vanilla~spice

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What nationality [ethic background] are you? Posted: 5/8/2006 12:04:21 PM
For some reason this topic makes me think of an episode of Sienfeld.. .. When Elaine was dating a guy she thought was black.. ..and he thought she was spainish...they were both really into each other until they found out they were both just Caucasian.. ..and decided to go shopping at the Gap.....lol! Does it really make a difference.. .. .. I bet most of us don't even know what our genetic background is made of.. .. but I'm pretty sure if we trace it back far enough we all came from the same place.. . .whatever place you may believe that was.. .. God....Apes....or the big bang.. .. blood is blood!!!

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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Difference between Booty calling her and Dating her! Posted: 5/8/2006 11:47:57 AM
A man can not make you a booty call.. . .you have to allow this to happen.. . if you don't want to be one.. . .then don't put yourself out there.. .. easy enuff! VVV Would be booty call for said...Xneo !

vanilla~spice

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False Profiles Posted: 5/8/2006 11:21:22 AM
Bandito~ your above statement is so true.. .. it's not safe here.. . and none of us should ever assume that it is.. .. I know for a fact.. .. well as factual as possilbe...that this site has underage users on it.. .. and they may or may not be.. .. "real" underage...they may just be...the bait.. .to catch the perverts that prey on them.. .. if you know what I mean...I'm trying to be vague here...so not to reveal.. . what I really know....if you get my drift...wink-wink

vanilla~spice

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Remember when we used to hear? We weren't like that! Posted: 5/8/2006 11:14:34 AM
I agree with you snglbrothanlbc~ the most common thing of today's generation that I just don't get is the lack of manners.. .. it is rampant! Young men...don't hold open doors for anyone.. . and young ladies...have some foul mouths on them these days.. . and they don't care where they are or who is around when they spew it from their mouths.. . half of the time I want to grab them by the ear and drag them home to their parents and ask if they know how their children are acting in public

vanilla~spice

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First time at a club Posted: 5/8/2006 10:57:49 AM
^^ That is so true.. .. I go to the club every weekend.. . Friday and Saturday night. But I don't go to pick up a man.. .. I go with a group of friends.. . we meet at my house around 9:00.. .. drink a little....talk a little.. .. laugh a little.. .. then head out to the club....to shake what our momma gave us.. .. we all go together and we all leave together.. ..we don't get approached and we don't do any approaching.. .. it is just a good time to unwind and hang out .. .. all out sometimes.....lol

vanilla~spice

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False Profiles Posted: 5/8/2006 10:49:07 AM
Sometimes.. .. a false profile needs to be executed.. .. so that some of us can speak our minds.. .. of course.. .. I always tell the truth about who I really am.. .. regular posters of the forums know exactly what I'm talking about.. . .for the rest of you pay no attention to this post.. .. I don't want to get "found out".. .. .. lol ! On a more serious note.. .. when I first joined this site.. .. I made a really good friend...he was young...and cute.. .. and we had a big sister.. .. little brother type of relationship going.. .. we chatted and then we started talking on the phone .. .. and he came up to visit.. . .he was a real cutie.. . I tried to fix him up with some of my younger female friends but nothing worked out....anyway we are still friends.. . .. so on with the story .. .. he told me he started talking to this really hot female on this site.. .. they took it to MSN.. .. and the female asked him to send her a naked picture.. .. so after about two weeks of chatting (no verbal at this point) so he sends her a few pictures. A couple of days go by and he gets an email.. .. it's from a man.. .. the man tells him that he has been masturbating to his pics for two days solid and can't wait to __________________! You people have a good imagination...fill in the blank yourselves....lol~ He was so freaked out.. .. he deleted his account from here .. ..and swore off ever trying to talk to someone he hasn't met face to face first!

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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What's the fastest you've ever fallen HARD for someone?? Posted: 5/8/2006 10:22:02 AM
The fastest huh?? Okay the fastest would be my 2nd husband.. .. .. we met at a night club.. .. we were both designated drivers on a Thursday night.. .. it was the week before St. Patrick's Day.. .. we had one dance....exchanged phone numbers.. .. talked on the phone and emailed each other for a week.. . .then the following Friday.. .. we had our first date.. .. .. okay please don't judge me.. . her comes the how fast I feel part.. .. .. he requested that I not wear any panties when he comes to pick me up for our date.. . .. okay, so he walks in the door.. .. and 5 minutes later we are in bed.. .. .. doing all kinds of things.. .. I would be far to embarrassed to write here.. .. but guess what.. .. he never left.. .. he stayed all weekend.. . then on Sunday went to his house....got his stuff.. .. moved in with me.. .. and one year later we were married and bought a house together.. .. .. and it lasted 4 years!!

vanilla~spice

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Are there men out there that are not going to run back to their exs? Posted: 5/8/2006 9:53:29 AM
Well, If my ex is on this site.. .. he's fair game for you honey.. .. I wouldn't let him come running back.. . for all the money in the world.. . don't get me wrong he's a nice guy...lol

vanilla~spice

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??? whats the deal ??? Posted: 5/7/2006 10:40:04 PM
Maybe we don't all HAVE to wathc the forums.. .. but we all have to READ the rules.. .. and better to let him know his thread is going to get deleted so he knows it and doesn't just sit there scratching his head and wonder where it went.. .. or worse yet start a new thread that says "hey where did my thread go" Just a heads up

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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what is wrong with my profile? Posted: 5/7/2006 10:37:46 PM
Well I cleaned up the spelling and the grammer.. .. .. please just copy and paste the below into your profile.. .. . as for any other suggestions.. .. .. best of luck getting any "hits" with this profile. Mostly just looking for a chick to hang out with, whatever that includes... as it says above I’m not looking for anything too serious, nothing long term for sure... not gonna write too much, if you want to get to know me drop me a line and you can get to know me... its easy DONT BE SHY! MESSAGE AWAY First date? as said before, I am easily amused I mean there’s a million things to do but the best thing is totally dependent on the person I am with ideally it would involve some sex... ha-ha, don't hit me, I am half kidding.

vanilla~spice

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i need some advice!!! Posted: 5/7/2006 10:32:00 PM
Good lord the nice guy bandit is running rampant in the forums tonight.. .. must be my clue to go to bed.. .. with that said.. .. let me give you some advice.. .. shyt in one hand and wish for women that like nice guys in the other and see which one gets fuller faster.....lol

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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??? whats the deal ??? Posted: 5/7/2006 10:29:06 PM
You know I was going to paste a bunch of the threads that are already out there about this non-stop...beat a freaking dead horse to death thread.. .. just so the OP would understand how tiresome it gets to see the same subject brought up over and over and over again.. ..but you know what.. .. most of them were already "locked...deleted...redundant".. .. just like this one is going to be .. .. oh say around 8:00 am when the MODS get to it....lol

vanilla~spice

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Have you given up hope of finding your fish? Give this a try.... Posted: 5/7/2006 10:23:35 PM
^^^I'm pissing my pants right now...thanks a lot! For the OP .. .. the herbal bath sounds wonderful.. .. just to do it.. .. not that I would expect it to bring me a fishy.. .. but it would be relaxing!

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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Advice NEEDED Posted: 5/7/2006 1:48:31 PM
I wouldn't do it.. .. not for all the money in the world.. . .sorry..I'm not a jaded cold hearted female that hates all men.. .. I actually love men.. . they're wonderful ...but once a cheater always a cheater.. .. and dare to anyone to prove otherwise~

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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Why do some guys write they want friends first? Posted: 5/7/2006 1:29:30 PM
This should be common sense to anyone. Very well said! To bad there are some shady acting folks that just don't understand that!

vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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why wount he meet me??? Posted: 5/7/2006 1:27:39 PM
I second that^^^ That was some pretty good comentary right there.. .. take it to heart!

vanilla~spice

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Favorites! Posted: 5/7/2006 12:04:39 PM
If I get added...and then don't get an email.. .. I will if interested in the persons profile send a quick "Hi, noticed I'm on your favorites list...do you want to say HI" email....if I don't get a response then I remove myself from their favorites.. .. If you take a look at how many people favorite lists I'm on...you'll see how well that's been working for me

vanilla~spice

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emotional baggage Posted: 5/7/2006 12:01:13 PM
I consider emotional baggage a lesson learned.. .. you need it.. .. to help make sure you don't make the same mistakes twice.. . .but it shouldn't be the thing that is in the for-front of your mind all the time.. .. what I mean is...don't allow it to hinder any future relationships by thinking all men or all women are going to be just like every other past relationship.. .. check the baggage in the over head compartment until you need it.

vanilla~spice

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Why do some guys write they want friends first? Posted: 5/7/2006 11:57:27 AM
I can honestly say that I wouldn't have sex with a man that I wasn't friends with first

vanilla~spice

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AM I TOO HONEST Posted: 5/7/2006 11:55:51 AM
Trash it.. .. .. and start over.. .. we're not buying it!

vanilla~spice

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make up sex Posted: 5/7/2006 11:47:13 AM
Make up sex you ask? ? ? ? ? ? Ummmmm.. .. .. I would take "ANY" kind of sex at this point....LMAO

vanilla~spice

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Where to meet available women? Posted: 5/7/2006 11:45:53 AM
Before I started the whole online dating thing.. .. I was in two marriages.. .. I met the first one while I was in high school.. .. the second one.. .. 14 years later at a night club.. ..I also met people at work.. ..when I look back.. .. I think most of the men I've dated since my divorce have been from a place I worked.

vanilla~spice

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what's the best way to turn someone down that you're not interested in? Posted: 5/7/2006 11:40:52 AM
If you don't want to have to send a "no thank you" reply to every single person that contacts you .. .. put it in your profile.. .. say.. .. something like.. .. If I don't respond..I'm not interested.. .. move on .. .. nothing for you here.. .. or you could use more tact...I guess...I'm just not that nice...lol

Vanilla~Spice

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Between a rock and a hard place.. .. help? Posted: 4/12/2006 3:47:34 PM
PSOM another Pisces I had not read that days horoscope. I did read today's Once you understand your unconscious drives, you can get out of your own way when it comes to career success and love. Make an effort to go deep, or you could get stuck in the same endless cycle. I think it's trying to tell me to piss or get off the pot!!! He is coming in to town in 2 weeks. We are going to talk about it. I know some of you said he should move to me but his work contract in Australia is for two years. His children live with their mother in DC so he does come home every other month. I am really considering putting a lease on the house and just giving it a try! Keep your fingers crossed that I make the right choice Thanks again for all the wonderful comments

Vanilla~spice

Joined: 4/3/2006

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Give me some advice, please! Posted: 4/6/2006 8:46:03 PM
Mthr2kds~ Please be careful.. .. last year I was in the same situation.. .. I was emailing and chatting with this guy online from NJ.. .. his profile said he was 39 and a Naval Officer.. .. had a great pic of him in his uniform.. .. he was very sweet.. .. we spent hours chatting...getting to know each other.. .. as friends.. . .but then the more I got to know him the more I wanted to meet him.. .. to at least put a face with the emails.. .. so I gave him my number and asked him to call me so we could discuss meeting.. . .well he refused to call me for two weeks.. .. so I said...either we talk or I think or chatting needs to stop. So he calls me.. .. now you're sitting down right?? This 39yr old Naval Officer is really a 69 yr. old shut in.. . that lives in a senior village with his two dogs! ! ! I kid you not.. .. you just never know! Good luck hon.. .. and get a voice soon!

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