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 Author Thread: Getting over Shyness? >.>
 njjp
Joined: 9/25/2009
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Getting over Shyness? >.>
Posted: 10/28/2009 6:44:01 PM
I am basically like you, I can talk to perfect strangers about anything. Put an interesting girl next to me at a bar, and I want to talk to her but I feel like I curl up into a ball. I lock up.

Only thing I can say is dont sweat it. Try to relax be yourself. If your on a date with someone. Just remember this is a new person your meeting, and dont think of how pretty they are. Ask questions about them, if its someone you met here, well you know some stuff already dive into more conversation of what you guys talked about.

Basically relax be yourself and have a good time. If theres no connection don't sweat it.
 njjp
Joined: 9/25/2009
Msg: 8 (view)
 
review my profile please
Posted: 10/5/2009 6:28:57 PM
yeah the cuddle bunny is deceased lol.

I changed it around, but man its a bit difficult to write about yourself without starting with "I"
Suggestions noted and coming up soon :)
 njjp
Joined: 9/25/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
review my profile please
Posted: 10/5/2009 6:14:02 PM
And that is the last time, I let my friend give me advice. She came up with the headline lol
 njjp
Joined: 9/25/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
review my profile please
Posted: 10/5/2009 6:12:14 PM
thanks for the reviews, it was an eye opener.
The line about the being specific on the size of a woman was a bad judgment call.
 njjp
Joined: 9/25/2009
Msg: 75 (view)
 
How do you stop missing your ex because it's so hard...
Posted: 10/5/2009 5:43:09 PM
While it is hard to let go, it's not the end of the world. I recently been there, I deleted her number and daughters number, her email goes to trash. All pictures and texts are gone from phone, camera and pc. All the stuff she gave me, while at 1 time meant the world to me were thrown out of my truck window on the highway.

Its not difficult to forgive, its a pain to forget. But, its doable. Keep the mind active, enjoy your family and friends, but most importantly enjoy yourself. Love yourself

Remember what don't kill us, makes us stronger. Life is a learning experience school is always open have a seat and be active.


( on a side note, I just re-read what I wrote I just cheered myself up )
 njjp
Joined: 9/25/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
review my profile please
Posted: 10/5/2009 5:30:06 PM
My writing ,well leaves much to be desired. Of course honest reviews from woman would be what I'm looking for here.
I find it hard to describe myself, I know I should post more pictures of myself. Thats they only recent one I had.

Thanks
 
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