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 Author Thread: Vitamins and supplements questions
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Vitamins and supplements questions
Posted: 5/1/2007 12:53:38 PM
There is a diet system that uses vitamin B shots - I think they're once a week.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Favorite sides & appatizers
Posted: 5/1/2007 11:42:37 AM
Florentine Artichoke Dip (Source allrecipes.com)

<div class="quote"> 1 (10 ounce) package frozen chopped spinach - thawed, drained and squeezed dry
1 (14 ounce) can artichoke hearts, drained and chopped
3 cloves garlic, minced
1/2 cup low fat mayonnaise
2 (8 ounce) packages low fat cream cheese, softened
2 tablespoons lemon juice
1/2 cup grated Parmesan cheese
Optional addition: 1/2 can mushrooms
DIRECTIONS
Preheat oven to 375 degrees F (190 degrees C). Lightly grease a 7x11 inch baking dish.
In a medium bowl, mix together the cream cheese and mayonnaise until smooth. Mix in the artichoke hearts, spinach and Parmesan cheese. Season with garlic and lemon juice. Spread evenly into the prepared baking dish.
(Or just throw it all in the food processor and blend it together )
Bake covered for 20 minutes. Remove the cover, and let the dish bake uncovered for 5 more minutes, or until the surface is lightly browned.

Serve with veggies such as celery for healthy version, or pita bread or crackers for slightly less healthy version.

Tapenade is really good, too, but the last recipe I used had orange zest - I like the savory kind better.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 28 (view)
 
grooming questions
Posted: 4/30/2007 9:58:26 AM
My current SO didn't even use shampoo until I told him bar soap is hard on your hair and makes it feel you've got hedgehog head.

But he does trim nose hairs. THAT's something guys tend to be picky about. And I know that my ex used to use a razor between his brows to avoid the unibrow look. So yeah, a razor, a pair of little scissors and I would suggest the guy have a change of underwear and socks.

Yuck - I'll go sockless before I'll wear yesterday's socks.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 136 (view)
 
ask a handyman - mitre saws.
Posted: 4/25/2007 10:52:46 AM
I guess it's a 4x4, not an 8x8, from the comments. Unless you are doing it in metric, which confused me in the first place.

Thanks, all. I will get a 10 incher. Size matters! And an extra blade.

( I have a stud finder and use it all the time for hanging pictures and stuff. Much more efficient than knocking your knuckles on the wall, and produces fewer holes than trial & error :) )

Essential tools: a drill with screwdriver attachments. Easier than having a million different screwdrivers. at least one hammer and preferably two for when you lose the first one. A package of different sized screws. (Nothing more annoying than getting your curtain rod home from Ikea only to discover it didn't come with screws).

A level. String with a heavy nut tied on the end for a plumb line. I like my laser level for doing stripes when painting walls, or for putting up shelves or curtain rods.

 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Looking for a recipe for anything? No matter how weird?
Posted: 4/25/2007 10:46:06 AM
I'd like the recipe for Pizza PIzza's garlic dipping sauce. I have a friend who goes through TONS of it!!!
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 128 (view)
 
ask a handyman
Posted: 4/24/2007 9:03:20 AM
Hey all,
I have another question relating to "essential tools". I'm looking into buying a mitre saw. The prices range here from less than $100 to almost $1000! WTF?

I will definitely be doing baseboard and crown moulding with the mitre saw, but also saw some plans for a kids outdoor play area that mitres the 4x4 posts. Or 8x8?

I also want to expand my deck this summer. But the first project should be building a shed, since I am running out of storage room in the garage.

So, is the $200 mitre saw good enough ... what do I look for? Do they all adjust height-wise?
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
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Vitamins and supplements questions
Posted: 4/24/2007 8:54:22 AM
Yeah, many doctors don't recommend multivitamins. But certain medications and certainly alcohol leach certain vitamins, mostly Bs I think, and as has been mentioned the Bs and Cs are water soluble.

For fat soluble vitamins you have to have some fat in your diet, which is normally pretty easy to obtain, for them to be properly absorbed.

A nurse friend of mine used to poke fun at people taking supplements by saying they had "expensive urine".
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 89 (view)
 
Dog People
Posted: 4/24/2007 8:48:19 AM

oh yes, how many of you have to hide the cat litter from your dogs? my english setter thinks it trouffles


YUM! We have the back bedroom barred with a baby gate to keep Boomer out of the cat box. Of course, it saves ME having to clean it, but the thought of eating cat poop -
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Your favourite products discontinued---WTF?!
Posted: 4/24/2007 8:41:12 AM
I'm pretty sure I've seen Count Choculas around.
McDonalds discontinues anything good that's vegetarian. The pizzas, veggie burgers, you name it. I think they're discouraging healthy eating.

I'm more amazed by some of the stuff that hangs around forever, like Sweet tarts & pop rocks candy.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Future RN
Posted: 4/20/2007 9:55:19 AM
Hey Spankin!
Yes, I've used Epocrates many times. You can get a sample access for a couple of months for free. Their educational handouts are nice and clear, better than the drug stores'.

I'm glad you see the positive. By shortage of RNs I mean the people, not the position. But yes, in 1995 there was a surplus of RNs and not enough work.

No, they don't downsize housekeeping - they outsource it. Anything to save a buck. But there are lots of travel opportunities and lots of opportunities for advancement. The pay has gotten alot better over the last few years. When I started I made less than an RPN and I took a rehab therapist job to make more money.

The schooling situation is what maintains the shortage. 30 positions going into school per year, so probably 20 or so, maybe 25 graduating every year. There are that many openings in my hospital alone, not to mention other area employers.

Yeah, a world of opportunity awaits.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 145 (view)
 
Canada ban on Perfumes
Posted: 4/13/2007 12:34:13 PM
yeah ^^^ a typical long term care unit smells like pee, no argument there!

I don't realistically see the manufacturers of perfume going down without a fight, though. They are a big money power themselves and money talks. Plus, people buy the stuff. Someone will cry about being put out of business because their products don't smell right and will sue someone else for that.

Cigarettes would have been banned long ago if the tobacco companies weren't so powerful. Although there may be other conspiracy theories to that end...

As far as what kids are eating, there's a push on to decrease obesity especially in children because childhood is where habits form and once you establish a pattern of overweight it is much more difficult to treat as an adult. Hmmm methinks that not using scented products should therefore start with the younger generations - make it "not cool" or "so yesterday" - problem solved- future generations will spurn it
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
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Dog People
Posted: 4/13/2007 7:49:45 AM
I got an e-mail today with some great dog lovers quotes. Unfortunately, it's a slide show so I can't send the pictures, but the quotes are:

There is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face.

The reason why dogs have so many friends is because they wag their tails instead of their tongues.

If your dog is fat, you aren't getting enough exercise.

My goal in life is to be as good as person as my dog already thinks I am.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Future RN
Posted: 4/13/2007 7:38:31 AM
Hi Spankin! I've been an RN for 14 or so years. I started out in the 90s when there was a recession and stuck with it until we got to a shortage phase. I've seen layoffs of people with 10 years of experience. Fortunately we are in a phase now where nurses are a little more appreciated.

That said, I have seen many people leave the profession because they either burn out or get fed up with the beaurocracy. The latest thing my hospital has done is an attendance management procedure where after a certain amount of illness you are expected to get a doctor's note every time you are off sick regardless of how long for. This is a cost savings on the backs of nurses, who are recognized as having one of the highest rates of sick time. Some of the contributing factors to the sick time include shift work, job stress and overtime.

Some key things to focus on: critical appraisal. There is so much information out there that knowing where to find the best information and who to believe is crucial nowadays. I've had a client come in who was surfing the net and getting other patient opinions and doesn't want her aggressive son on medication because of some quack's opinion, when the research evidence supports the use of medication in this situation.

If you don't want to be a shift worker pick an area such as occupational health, or dialysis or day surgery to go into. I originally went into brain injury because that was the era of repatriation of behavioural challenging folks who had been receiving treatment in places like Texas. I grew to really enjoy it. Likewise, I hated psychiatry when I did it as a student but once I got to know it better I appreciated the work of psychiatric nurses much more.

The positive thing is that you are in your thirties already so are less likely to burn out from juggling young kids, or pregnancy, with full time work such as shift work.

LMAO at above poster who can take pee, poop, etc but hates saliva! Same here. I hated suctioning so much it turned me off from neurological nursing. Still, there's nothing quite like doing anal stim for a quad and having the feces splatter into the pail below the commode while you are kneeling down there. (yes, you wear a gown over your uniform for that!)

I highly recommend joining your local nursing association. The system in Ontario is that the Registered Nurses Association is separate from our union. The RNAO promotes nursing and has set up things like Best Practice manuals. The College of nurses monitors licensing. In BC it's different - the organization are combined. So if you have an association that's not mandatory, j0in it at least for a few years.

Good luck.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 105 (view)
 
ask a handyman
Posted: 4/13/2007 7:21:50 AM
agreed on the odd ways of setting up GFCIs. I had 3 in my former laundry room, all coming from different water using areas of the house.

thanks for the electrical lessons guys.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Horatio Kain vs Grissom
Posted: 4/13/2007 6:43:01 AM
Mac Taylor is far more interesting a character.. and Gary Sinise is so much better looking.. than Grissom or Horatio.




Although Grissom (sp?) was a compelling character at first, he is so socially inept, and Horation so overdone, that I've moved on to Mac. The history channel has CSI NY every day. yay!!!

And primroselane, yah, the show isn't realistic at all. Like real CSIs walk around without booties on their shoes and with their hair hanging all over the crime scene. Not to mention the boobs hanging everywhere. Hardly professional looking, but great for Tv.
 counsellortroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Home Exercise DVD's
Posted: 4/11/2007 10:49:44 AM
I've heard good things about the Carmen Electria fit to strip dvds but haven't tried them myself.

My faves are the Crunch ones - Pilates, boot camp, best arms & abs for a few examples. They are easy to modify to be beginner or advanced, and can be a heluva workout if you do them right.
 counsellortroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Bi-polar spouse,divorce
Posted: 4/11/2007 10:41:41 AM
As far as not getting a lawyer, that advice stinks. And any good lawyer will tell you that he/she can only advise one person. You have to have 2 lawyers. That said, the separation agreement is separate from the divorce. You hammer out money exchange and child support before you get to court so all that is done and court costs are kept minimum.

(I recently saw a lawyer and will be going through my own separation, setting custody arrangement into law and all that in the coming months).

As far as your ex being bipolar, make sure she has some sort of payment plan for her meds, whether you keep her on your benefit plan or make sure she has one of her own. They are really the cornerstone of treatment for bipolar. For depression alone you can look to cognitive and psychological therapies. True bipolar is actually pretty rare. And keep in mind that there is a genetic component - your daughter may succumb to the same infliction.
 counsellortroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 41 (view)
 
~ How to get Pregnant!! ~
Posted: 4/11/2007 10:25:59 AM
OMFG Having had my one year old nephew and 2 1/2 year old niece here for Easter I think you are a VERY BRAVE woman for even considering such a thing.

They are busy busy busy. No peace and quiet. No piece either. Hell, I have trouble finding sex time and my youngest is 6!!!

That said, advice above is good, no smoking, cutting back on drinking, taking folic acid, limit caffeine, get or keep your weight down.....

I hope your older two will help out with babysitting!
 counsellortroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 250 (view)
 
American Idol!! Any one watching it tonight?
Posted: 4/11/2007 10:20:51 AM

You cannot argue the American Idol has launched some huge careers. Past talent have given new meaning as to what a good selling debut album is. The show has also revealed performers who are the best at their genres. Chris Daughtry, Kelly Clarkson, whoever that blonde country one is..


well put Nascar lmfao!!!

whoever that blonde is, she must be good -tee hee!
 counsellortroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 69 (view)
 
words that annoy...
Posted: 4/11/2007 10:17:34 AM
irregardless (agreed!)

limit exceeded.

fat. phat.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Ok... Who went where?
Posted: 4/4/2007 9:17:45 AM
I am going to Niagara Falls today but it's not going to be warm and sunny. However, I am going to two different indoor water parks, so I will be warm and having fun in the water even if there's no sunshine & snorkelling.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Weight Problems
Posted: 4/3/2007 12:34:48 PM
I say you will likely lose weight being more active. I've put weight on since changing to a sedentary job, unfortunately, and would love to have more reasons to get moving on the job.

My cousin who delivers mail is a bone rack and can't keep weight on because of all the walking she does at work.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
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Greens+ ... anyone try this?
Posted: 4/3/2007 12:32:58 PM
I tried the Greens brand years ago and didn't notice a big difference. But my diet is usually fairly healthy.

If you don't get your 3-5 servings a day of fruits & veggies it's worth a try. Keep us posted!
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Dog People
Posted: 4/3/2007 12:21:23 PM
OMG Random, if you want a low energy dog don't get a beagle! The little ones are worse than bigger dogs. Apparently the great dane is the laziest dog going.

Beagles and other smaller dogs may get more running area out of a smaller yard but they are also escape artists who love to dig under fences. I had a beagle who escaped while I was putting the garbage out (gate open) and ran in front of a car. :(
I have heard of lots of adoption alernatives. Adults are definitely lower energy than puppies, and greyhounds need adopting.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 25 (view)
 
On being 39...soon-to-be 40
Posted: 4/3/2007 12:09:18 PM
Another Centennial baby here!

Bad Catholic, sounds like a car that hits that point when everything breaks down.

OP, be happy that you are turning 40 in a month that isn't full of evil viruses that prevent you from celebrating another milestone. I will have to share my 40th (in May) with my SO because when he turned 40 in February he was so sick he didn't want what I offered him for his birthday present
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 81 (view)
 
Ontario Apartments Smoke Free !!!!!
Posted: 4/3/2007 11:27:43 AM

But someone else here says they "need" to be able to use their vehicle- just like they


I DO need my vehicle. It's a condition of my employment that I go out and visit people in the community and am available by pager to go immediately for urgent situations. But the average person doesn't need their vehicle - most transit systems allow you to bus/subway in the city instead of drive.

It's not that ridiculous to offer non-smokers a non-smoking apartment building. The use of lead-free gasoline was legislated, why not have smoke-free buildings?

And smokers may pay $6 a pack in taxes (if you smoke the expensive ones) , which helps to fund the health care system, but there are other costs such as loss of employability, costs to the employer, added health costs such as for drugs that are either out of pocket or paid by insurance, that aren't covered under the health care system. So actual cost of dying from a smoking related disease, on top of missing out on seeing your grandchildren grow up, is more than just what the health care system absorbs.

anyway, the topic is going from legislating smoking in your home to how beneficial smoking is and how it doesn't kill you from smelling it once. (although if you're allergic, it's possible). No, it kills you from repeated exposure and that it why the employees of the bars and restaurants have been provided protection from secondary smoke.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
harry potter--anyone preordered yet?
Posted: 4/2/2007 9:39:39 AM
I will most likley buy it but not pre-order. I will wait for soft cover, as it's cheaper.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Dog People
Posted: 4/2/2007 9:11:48 AM
yes, jimi, you're strange.

My golden just had his surgery last week. No babies for him. Totally agreed on the amount of hair they shed. But we got a doggie door (patio door insert) so he'll be a bit less work now. He LOVES it! Now to get the cat to use it.

Boomer is a total sucka$$. He is in obedience classes now and learning quickly. He loves to cuddle and have his belly rubbed. Life just wouldn't be the same - the house was so quiet when he was overnight at the vets!

My cousin's rottie is just as much of a lamb as yours, princess. There's a rottie pup in the obedience class and my SO comments weekly on how cute it is.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 49 (view)
 
Favorite Cookbook?
Posted: 4/2/2007 8:35:04 AM
great thread OP! I love my cookbooks. Allrecipes (or recipezaar) has not replaced them and never will.

I have the Moosewood, too. I made an onion confit with carmelized onions and goat cheese yesterday, and that recipe was from one called "Fields of Greens". I don't remember the author offhand, but it's from a restaurant - the first book I've had to use some less usual things like blood oranges, roquette (arugula) and Vidalias. Some of the recipes can be time consuming but they're worth it.

I also have the 5 Roses flour one and it's great for when you can't find a recipe for something anywhere else. Like dumplings.

I also have one put out by the Legion which has the best baking recipes.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Restroom Etiquette
Posted: 4/2/2007 8:19:43 AM

If someone in a wheelchair comes along, what are they going to do? Nothing, because they are in a wheelchair and I could kick their ass.


very funny!

I know someone with MS who actually hates to be treated like he's disabled. He walks with a cane and insists on doing everything for himself.

There are other disabilities besides being in a wheelchair, and other reasons as mentioned for using or wanting a larger stall. Yes, the toilets are higher and they have grab bars. Particularly helpful if you are in late pregnancy and forget what your toes look like.

I agree that everyone should wait their turn, but take into consideration that if someone is waiting for one stall in particular they'll have a longer wait than if any stall will do. So when the handicapped stall opens I think the disabled person should get it even if they're not next in line.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 88 (view)
 
What were you taught about sex while growing up?
Posted: 4/2/2007 7:42:51 AM
It really is sad that so many people got no education, or support, from their parents. Our role models.

I, too, got nothing. Mom sent my older sister in with a booklet. I learned stuff in health class. My mother told me "nice girls don't like it". And if you have sex the boys won't respect you any more.

I am WAY more open with my children. My mother asked me if I've had the "sex talk" with my kids and I told her it's on-going. It's not one talk, it's any time they have questions.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 
How to do something
Posted: 3/30/2007 7:53:27 AM
First, begin.
That's the first thing.
You begin and then you proceed.
Proceed is next
Proceed for quite a while
That is the main part:
the proceeding.
After a while the proceeding gives way to the wind-up.
The finishing.
This transition is delicate.
Too soon is bad.
Too late expends needless energy.
At the very instant something is at last done
Fade the proceeding and move directly to finishing.
Finish instantly.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
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borderline personality disorder-any info?
Posted: 3/30/2007 7:47:47 AM
How can I help the BP in my life?

Explain all the logal reasons for the BP doing what you want/don't want. Repeat.

Explain all the emotional reasons for doing so. Repeat.

Make threats for the hundredth time. Do not carry them out. Do it again.

Pay no attention to your own life. Fixing the BP is what matters. Then you will be happy.

Wait for a miracle to develop in its own without clinical intervention. You never know.

Ignore behaviour you find totally unacceptable. A person like you wouldn't love someone capable of this, so it can't really be happening.

Keep changing yourself according to the BPs wants and needs until you make them happy. If they are unhappy you must not have changed yourself in the right way. Try again. Repeat.

Stop asking for anything in the relationship. Stop talking. Don't let the BP know what you think. This will avoid a variety of fights and work in the long term.

Remember, no one will ever love you as much as the BP. They have demonstrated their love repeatedly. And no matter what they do, they are not responsible for their behaviour (after all, they have Borderline Personality Disorder). No one will ever love them as much as you do or be able to change them and make them happy.

Seek professional help from people who know less about BPD than you do. Do what they say even if your intuition tells you it is the wrong thing.

When your friends and family all tell y0u the same thing about how negatively they see the relationship and how worried they are, ignore them. They don't understand how wonderful the BP really is and how great the relationship can be. Don't try to remember the last time it was like that.

Never question the essential rule of the relationship: the BPs needs are more important than yours, or even those of your children. It is your responsibility to make things work and your fault if they don't.

..... etc.
Source: bpdcentral.com/resources/library
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 41 (view)
 
ask a handyman
Posted: 3/30/2007 7:30:57 AM

Now is the perfect time to trim. Lilacs are just starting to show buds now here.


I took this to mean that you trim your lilacs, not that when the lilacs bud is time to prune, which is I guess what you meant. Absolutely it's a good time to trim some plants. Trees that fruit, where you want to increase the energy going to the fruit and decrease the energy going into sustaining growth of the tree, for eg. Evergreens, which don't bloom.

Just don't prune your lilacs. Other plants that you can prune now include those that get old growth, like weigelia (sp), the kind of plant that gets too thick in the middle. You cut back the old branches right down to the ground and this promotes new growth and more flowers, because the older stems don't flower as well. I actually just pruned a bunch of roses this week, because you can trim them back in fall or wait for early spring.

As far as the electrical goes, I don't think this was the intention in my house, but it's certainly interesting the options that you have. In my last house all the ... ground fault circuit interrupters, or whatever those things are that you use around water, those were all run to the laundry room, so they used regular outlets near the bathtub, and then the ones with the little test buttons were in the laundry room all together. (they had to be replaced, they weren't even working). Then I had to replace a breaker. And I had a friend check the outlets in that house, and some of them were wired backwards. So I've seen a few options in electrical, but knowing the way the rest of my current house was just cookie cutter, contractor special stuff, it's not likely that the electrical was deliberately done this way. Kudos to you for doing higher quality stuff.

But, I will have a look at those outlets, try to get to it this w/e in between furniture assembly and maybe some painting on top of the regular weekend cleaning. I'll get back to ya on it.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 71 (view)
 
Ontario Apartments Smoke Free !!!!!
Posted: 3/30/2007 7:14:53 AM

I bet not one non smoker would be willing to part with their cars or trucks would you!!.


well firmbear, since my car is a requirement for my work I certainly couldn't afford to part with it. Cigarettes on the other hand are not necessary. They don't help you get your groceries home or get your kids between cities to their dad's house. They don't have much in the way of clear benefits. Sure we should all use our vehicles less. Walk more, bicycle more.

But I still don't get the comparison with cars & cigarettes. Sure, they both polute, but transportation versus an unnecessary indulgence? Apples & oranges.


That way the smokers(quitters)in a sense would pay less taxes than the the non-smokers

wouldn't we all be paying the same then? And supporting the tobacco farmers as they change crops. Do you honestly think that the taxes on your cigarettes is enough to pay for the chemotherapy, radiation, palliative care that cost taxpayers millions for cancer therapy?
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 1284 (view)
 
Why is smoking pot a crime?
Posted: 3/29/2007 9:32:56 AM

HOW DANGEROUS IS MARIJUANA
COMPARED WITH OTHER SUBSTANCES?
Number of American deaths per year that result directly or primarily from the following selected causes nationwide, according to World Almanacs, Life Insurance Actuarial (death) Rates, and the last 20 years of U.S. Surgeon Generals' reports.
TOBACCO 340,000 to 450,000
ALCOHOL (Not including 50% of all highway deaths and 65% of all murders) 150,000+
ASPIRIN (Including deliberate overdose) 180 to 1,000+
CAFFEINE (From stress, ulcers, and triggering irregular heartbeats, etc.) 1,000 to 10,000
"LEGAL" DRUG OVERDOSE (Deliberate or accidental) from legal, prescribed or patent medicines and/or mixing with alcohol - e.g. Valium/alcohol 14,000 to 27,000
ILLICIT DRUG OVERDOSE (Deliberate or accidental) from all illegal drugs. 3,800 to 5,200
MARIJUANA 0
Regardless of how accurate the source is, these numbers seem fair and believable to me.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 39 (view)
 
ask a handyman
Posted: 3/29/2007 9:26:24 AM
It's not in a kitchen it's in the basement. And all the other outlets in the house work - why only the bottom of these couple?

Result? 40 amps on two breakers at each duplex receptacle. viola


I still don't get why you would want duplex receptacles that don't work on the bottom?
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 75 (view)
 
Shattered Images......
Posted: 3/29/2007 9:22:01 AM

I have to say that after reading the forums I have learned a lot about some people.

It's not just other people, but looking back at how I expressed my own opinion can be an eye opener! I've made the odd ****y post, just because I was tired of being civil.


It also is pretty apparent of how some others treat others. You can bet ya when I see someone disrespecting others in the forum and I see this behaviour and have my mind made up that in person, I would not want to befriend them

Absolutely! If you are rude you are rude. Although I do consider you may have been having a bad day, and can forgive one or two snippy posts. But some of the mud-slingingin I've seen on here just curls ma toes!

PS it is normal for sh1t to stink.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Tomb of Jesus 'found in cave'???
Posted: 3/29/2007 8:59:02 AM
If you look at the villains of the Bible (Eve, Mary Magdelaine, Job's Wife, Moses' temptress Egyptian lover) women are splattered everywhere. Why is that? The history of the Judeo-Christian religion and the books that are the staple of modern western civilization were written by MALE religious clerics. They were writing these scriptures to mould a society in their image. A MALE DOMINATED SOCIETY. Who are Jewish clerics? Men. Are there any Female Bishops or Cardinals in Roman Catholic Churches? Nope.


Yes, control the flow of information and you control the way history is shaped. And let's not forget that words change in their meaning over time. Olde English is not the same as our modern version. I've heard that the original meaning of "virgin" was related to being virtuous, being a good person, and not at all related to whether you had sex for procreation.

aaaahhh enlightenment!
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
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Ontario Apartments Smoke Free !!!!!Whats Next...
Posted: 3/29/2007 8:23:51 AM
I have a pleasure also
I like a can of beer now and then
The residue of my pleasure is urine
Would you be annoyed if I stood on a chair
and pissed on your clothes without your consent?
Can we have a demo Jennifire? lmfao!

I don't see why a landlord couldn't put it in as a condition of tenancy that there is no smoking. If you sign the lease and agree to no smoking then violate that condition the landlord has the right to request eviction.

Not that eviction would then therefore be easy, just legal.

Certainly the air filtering systems could be upgraded and cracks filled that allow smoke to filter between apartments. But there's always the smoke that gets out of your door and stinks up the hallway when you are coming and going.

I like the idea, especially for seniors and people with small children, of a non-smoking building. There are also people who are highly sensitive to cigarette smoke who I am sure would love to have a smoke-free apartment building.

but legislating it? How about just legislating the rights of landlords to provide the option. Big brother is watching us.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 216 (view)
 
American Idol!! Any one watching it tonight?
Posted: 3/29/2007 8:07:35 AM

UH i thought this was canada??? why are we supporting american stuff once more??

 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
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obesity network
Posted: 3/29/2007 7:39:27 AM

Is obesity a mental health issue?
In the last 20 years, scientists have learned a great deal about weight control. It is an intricate feedback system in which energy expenditure and food intake are balanced. The brain responds to hormonal signals that maintain body weight by telling us when to start and stop eating and how much to consume. One central player is leptin, a hormone produced by fat cells in the stomach, which suppresses appetite and stimulates energy expenditure. Other weight-regulating hormones are ghrelin (an appetite stimulant), insulin, the orexins, and cholecystokinin. The neurotransmitters serotonin, norepinephrine, and dopamine are also involved. When fat stores diminish, hunger increases and metabolic processes slow down to use energy more efficiently.

The system is remarkably accurate, but over a lifetime even a slight imbalance adds up. To gain a pound a year, an adult need eat only an extra 10 or 20 calories a day. How much it takes depends partly on heredity. Weight is as heritable as height, and nearly two dozen genes are known to control the production of weight-regulating hormones. Heavier people do not necessarily eat more than average, and they are not necessarily less active. There is evidence that the obese have congenitally low sensitivity to leptin. Experiments on mice suggest that individual variation in the tendency to gain weight may depend on the action of weight-regulating hormones during early development.

The National Weight Control RegistryThis database, established in 1993 to identify strategies for long-term weight control, contains records of more than 3,000 people who have lost at least 30 pounds and maintained the loss for at least a year. The data hold no surprises and reveal no special solutions. People who lose weight and keep it off join support groups, exercise intensively, restrict the amounts and kinds of food they eat, and carefully monitor their weight and food consumption.

Abundance and frustration

Obesity becomes a serious problem when the human evolutionary heritage expressed in the body’s weight-control system collides with modern social conditions. In the environment in which humans evolved, food supplies were unpredictable, and finding enough to eat could be hard work. We had to store energy beyond our immediate needs. The body’s signals tell us to eat when we can because there may be no food tomorrow. We are especially attracted to the sweet, fatty, and salty tastes and textures that once indicated scarce essential nutrients.

But in modern industrial society, most people don’t need to store fat for an uncertain future. Food is all around us in great quantities and in such variety that we do not become satiated because of monotony. We take little time to prepare our food, and we eat fast, possibly so fast that the body cannot alert us when to stop. Many of us engage in hardly any energy-consuming physical activity. We drive cars instead of walking, and we sit for hours in front of television sets. So the balance of energy intake and expenditure is upset. The average American weighs 7 to 10 pounds more in 2004 than in 1990.

The name of the self-help group Overeaters Anonymous proclaims an analogy between overeating and addiction to alcohol or drugs. Some scientists who investigate food cravings take that idea seriously. Brain scans and animal experiments are suggesting that some of the same brain centers are active in both food addiction and drug addiction. And the same social changes may be involved as well. The industrial revolution that has provided some parts of the world with abundant, highly processed, easy-to-eat food is also loosing a flood of chemically pure injectable drugs of abuse.

Mental health and weight

So a case can be made that blame for the American (and, increasingly, world) weight problem rests entirely on the temptation of fast food and the tyranny of genes. The American Psychiatric Association has never regarded overeating or excess weight as a psychiatric disorder, and most obese people do not qualify for a psychiatric diagnosis. Most studies find no clear association between mental health and weight. In a review of 16 studies, 6 found that obese people were more mentally healthy than average, 7 found them to be less mentally healthy than average, and 3 found no difference. Some studies link depression or behavior problems with obesity in children, but the evidence is incomplete and inconsistent, especially after taking account of their parents’ emotional problems. Overweight children who seek treatment, or whose parents seek treatment for them, may be a group with especially low self-esteem or critical parents.

But even if weight and emotional problems are unrelated in most cases, there is plenty of room for exceptions among the millions who are overweight. Some research suggests that depressed persons are more likely to develop a metabolic syndrome (insulin resistance, high blood pressure, excess abdominal fat, high cholesterol) that often accompanies excess weight, especially when it is deposited around the waist. In a survey of 40,000 Americans, high body weight was associated with symptoms of depression in women, although not in men.

Research in mice and humans suggests that food high in fat, sugar, and calories lowers the body’s response to chronic stress. In animal experiments, weight loss activates the stress response. People may console themselves with "comfort food" because they are anxious, lonely, angry, or suffering from low self-esteem. There is a characteristic type of depression with symptoms that include lethargy and overeating.

Like most mind-body interactions, this one goes both ways. Obesity can lead to ill health, which is linked to depression and anxiety. Overweight people are also more likely to lose the psychological benefits of exercise. If they feel rejected as unattractive or suffer social discrimination, the further emotional strain may cause further weight gain. The problem is worse if they fail to lose weight and are blamed (or blame themselves) for lack of self-control. (Some believe anorexia nervosa — seemingly voluntary self-starvation — is the out-of-control result of an attempt to demonstrate a capacity for self-control.)

Therapeutic approaches

Treatments for obesity include self-help groups like Overeaters Anonymous and commercial programs like Weight Watchers. A common approach is behavioral therapy, often in groups directed by a dietitian or psychologist. The pillars of the therapy are self-monitoring and stimulus control. Self-monitoring means carefully recording weight, physical activity, and the kinds and amount of food eaten. Stimulus control means avoiding occasions of temptation — staying away from fast-food restaurants and convenience stores, food shopping from a list rather than at whim, not snacking in front of the television set, storing food out of sight, keeping portion sizes small, and learning how to handle high-risk situations like parties and holidays. Exercise is also important, not only to expend energy but, some believe, to set the weight equilibrium point at a lower level. Cognitive therapy may help dieters repel self-defeating thoughts and reject unrealistic goals (they will not likely achieve an "ideal" body weight). Psychotherapy or psychiatric drugs can relieve depression and anxiety and help them live as full a life as possible no matter what their weight.

Most weight-control treatment works for a while, but the body’s drive is not easy to frustrate. It’s believed that more than 80% of people who lose weight through diet, exercise, and behavioral programs gain it all back within five years (although they might have gained even more without treatment). The success rate may be higher with follow-up in person, by telephone, or by e-mail (for a record of some successes, see "The National Weight Control Registry," above).

Weight control for children and adolescents makes many people uneasy. If a 12-year-old wants to go on a diet, the true problem may not be weight at all, and she may be in danger of anorexia. But an increasing number of children are obese and in need of help. The most effective treatments combine group with individual counseling and parent participation in frequent sessions, with gradual weight loss through diet and exercise. Results have been a little more encouraging for children than for adults. One study found that a third of children entering a weight-control program at ages 6–12 lost 20% of their weight or more, and 30% were no longer obese 10 years later.

Drugs for weight lossIf weight gain is a physiological problem, why can’t there be a chemical solution? The trouble is that interfering with the complex mechanisms of weight control brings unwanted consequences. Appetite-suppressing drugs have a long history of failure, and the more seemingly effective they are, the more serious their side effects. Amphetamines are addictive and potentially dangerous for other reasons. A combination of fenfluramine and phentermine (Ionamin and others) was banned because it caused heart-valve defects in some patients; phentermine alone is still widely used. The anticonvulsant drug topiramate (Topamax) has been found effective for the treatment of binge eating in one controlled study, but it comes with adverse effects on memory and concentration. The antidepressants bupropion (Wellbutrin) and fluoxetine (Prozac) cause weight loss in some patients. The only drug officially approved as an appetite suppressant is sibutramine (Meridia), which inhibits the reabsorption of norepinephrine and serotonin. Orlistat (Xenical) represents a different approach to weight control: It acts in the digestive tract, preventing the absorption of fats.Drugs should be used for weight loss only as part of a program that includes behavioral counseling, diet, and exercise. Their effects are modest, and tolerance almost always develops within a few weeks or months. There is no magic pill. Although researchers are looking at drugs that act on receptors for ghrelin and other weight-regulating hormones, no weight-loss medication has been presented to the FDA for approval in the last five years.

Binge eating

There is one potential psychiatric diagnosis that is closely related to obesity, even if it is only "proposed for further study." In the American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic Manual, binge eating disorder is tentatively defined as a condition that involves at least three of the following symptoms occurring at least twice a week for six months: eating very fast, eating until uncomfortably full, eating when not hungry, eating alone, and feeling disgusted or guilty after eating. It’s distinguished from bulimia by the absence of fasting, exercise, or vomiting to compensate.

As many as 5% of Americans may be binge eaters at some time in their lives, including nearly half of the people enrolled in commercial weight-loss programs. Like body weight, binge eating disorder is highly heritable; a Norwegian twin study found that 40% of individual differences in susceptibility had a genetic basis. Binge eating is associated with depression and even more strongly with anxiety disorders, including panic disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and post-traumatic stress disorder.

Both cognitive behavioral and interpersonal therapies have been found to be effective treatments. Patients find other ways to cope with situations and feelings that provoke eating binges, and they are helped to reject self-defeating beliefs about body shape. But even successfully treated binge eaters do not necessarily lose a great deal of weight, and some doubt that people with a binge eating problem (or bulimia) should diet at all. They believe dieting is part of the problem, not part of the solution. The body will resist, hunger will return, and more binge eating will be followed by further depression and anxiety.

Looking forward

As long as society and biology conspire to promote weight gain, victory in the battle against obesity will be hard to come by. At the level of basic research, this complex problem will require studies in genetics, physiology, nutrition, and neuroscience. Behavioral research may reveal more about the reasons for food choices and why we start and stop eating. In July of 2004, the statement that "obesity itself cannot be considered an illness" was removed from the Medicare manual, opening the way to insurance coverage of any treatment that is proved to be effective. The change will stimulate research, including studies of behavioral and psychological counseling as well as diet and exercise programs and gastric bypass surgery. In the weight wars, depression, anxiety, and low self-esteem deserve attention even if they represent only a small part of a big problem.



related links:
WEB SITE:link (http://health.msn.com/dietnutrition/articlepage.as..)
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
obesity network
Posted: 3/29/2007 7:30:31 AM
Americans Need More Fruits and Veggies
(Ivanhoe Newswire) -- You are supposed to have two servings of fruit and three servings of vegetable each day, according U.S. health guidelines. However, the vast majority of Americans are missing out on these healthy foods.

Two new studies reveal most Americans are not eating the recommended amounts of fruits and vegetables. In fact, researchers from Johns Hopkins School of Public Health in Baltimore report only 11 percent of Americans are incorporating five servings of fruits and veggies into their diets each day. Only 28 percent are eating two or more servings of fruit each day, and only 32 percent are getting three or more servings of vegetables each day.

Many Americans are not eating any whole fruit, as opposed to fruit juice, or vegetables. One study reveals 62 percent of the adults surveyed did not consume any whole fruit servings, and 25 percent reported eating no daily servings of veggies.

"With two thirds of the U.S. adult population overweight or obese, the implications of a diet low in fruits and vegetables are extensive," wrote study author Tiffany Gary, Ph.D.

Researchers from both studies emphasize the importance of encouraging people to eat more healthy fruits and vegetables. This week, Fruits & Veggies, More Matters! a new national program aimed at increasing awareness of the need for healthier diets is launching and will replace the 5-A-Day for Better Health program.

SOURCE: The American Journal of Preventive Medicine, published online March 19, 2007



Less Activity = Fatter Kids
(Ivanhoe Newswire) -- It stands to reason kids who get less exercise are at risk for obesity. But because many of these kids also tank up on junk food, it has been hard to tell for sure whether it's the lack of physical activity making them fat or the things they eat.

British researchers used sophisticated new technology to help inform the debate. Their study measured body fat in about 5,500 12-year-olds using an X-ray emission absorptimetry scanner and physical activity with a device called an Actigraph accelerometer. These two devices produce accurate measurements, allowing the investigators to get a true handle on the role of both diet and exercise on obesity in children.

Results revealed body fat went up as activity levels decreased. The effect was more pronounced in boys than in girls and was stronger for moderate and vigorous physical activity (MVPA) than for total physical activity.

The investigators believe theirs is the first study to use accurate measurements of body fat and activity levels to assess the effects of diet and exercise on obesity in children.

"Our findings, if confirmed, suggest that public health policies that increase physical activity levels and in particular MVPA in children may help to reduce the prevalence of childhood obesity," write the authors. "These associations suggest even a modest increase of 15 minutes MVPA might result in an important reduction in the prevalence of overweight and obesity."

This article was reported by Ivanhoe.com
SOURCE: Objectively Measured Physical Activity and Fat Mass in a Large Cohort of Children Ness AR, Leary SD, Mattocks C, Blair SN, Reilly JJ, et al. PLoS Medicine Vol. 4, No. 3, March 2007


There is a network called the Canadian Obesity Network which is working to educate people about obesity. I've been reading some of their articles as I have children at the delicate pre-teen age, which is apparently when you form lifelong tendencies toward obesity. An 8 year old who is obese is more likely to battle weight through her/his lifetime than a normal weight child.

What does every one think - did YOU get your servings of fruits and veggies today?
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 36 (view)
 
ask a handyman
Posted: 3/28/2007 12:10:07 PM
NOOOOO!!! now is the absolute wrong time to trim if you are talking about spring blooming plants. If you trim your lilacs now you will cut off all the young buds which develop into flowers. The time to trim spring blooming shrubs or trees is right after they bloom. This gives maximum time for flower buds to develop for the next year.

As far as trimming your tree, never take more than 1/3 off at a time when pruning any plant. Make sure you cut smaller branches near an outward facing bud or you will end up with branches growing in toward the tree trunk, which not only looks messy but impedes air flow and you will end up with some fungus or other.


Back to my questions,
The pipe is that black plastic stuff, I guess it's PVC. It's possible it's leaking further up and just running down the pipe. But any further up and I will have to tear walls apart to get at the leak . It's about 3 inches in diameter.

As far as the electrical, I haven't actually looked at the box, but a friend tells me the bathroom fan is connected to the light at the box. There is an empty place where there should be wiring under the second switch. That is, there's a switch that turns on both the light and the fan, but the other switch does nothing. There's only one set of wires in the bathroom switch and they run both the light and the fan. So in order to run the fan separately I would need to run extra wires to that empty slot in the electrical box.

The ceiling fan box I haven't looked in, but the fan turns on and off with the switch on the fan regardless of what position the light switch on the wall is in. The light switch is completely separate from the fan switch. I have to turn the fan on or off by pulling the hanging switch at the ceiling fan. The speed adjustment also works on the fan. but the light switch pulldown on the fan doesn't work. The light only turns on or off with the wall switch. And there's only 1 switch at the wall.

I also have outlets in my house where the upper part of the plug works and the lower part doesn't. I haven't tested it to see if the wiring is backward or what the heck, but it's just a sign to me of more poor workmanship. I also note: everything seems to be going in this place at once. The furnace just got replaced, the door knobs are breaking, and I'm replacing all the original brassy finished stuff with decent quality knobs. The place is keeping me busy!

I'd be happy to answer your gardening questions !
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 98 (view)
 
Staying friends with your Ex
Posted: 3/28/2007 11:59:30 AM
I don't know that it's a matter of cutting ties or deliberately not being friends for many people. But unless you and your ex belong to the same group of friends I don't see why you would be "friends" ... as in getting together for drinks or coffee, or being activity partners like for scuba diving.

The exception is if you live in a small town. Then you've got no choice but to at least be civil. But I live in a city of half a million people. The likelihood of me bumping into exes is pretty slim unless they are with friends of mine. I don't go out of my way to contact them, because they aren't part of what I'm doing with my life right now.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
then came history now tracked threads ?
Posted: 3/27/2007 12:10:07 PM
what IS a tracked thread & how do I do it?

Can I see what other people are tracking?
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 46 (view)
 
To the Vegetarians out there...
Posted: 3/27/2007 12:06:57 PM
I was disputing pinballdoctor's assumption that everyone NEEDS supplements BAR NONE. The food guide says you MAY need them if you don't have an adequate dietary source.

I think the cafe au lait is half milk or a much higher proportion than regular coffee. Some people don't even take milk in their coffee ~gasp~

Yeah, the bit about cow's mik being the best source is probably related to the fact that the food guide is sponsored by the dairy farmers of Canada. Given the high percentage of milk intolerance in Asian countries and they have a much lower rate of osteoporosis, too. I didn't say it was infallable, but the food guide IS a more reputable source than what you can google on an average day if you're looking for information on supplements.

And if you tolerate them, dairy products are an okay source of protein, although they can also be a VERY high source of fat.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 29 (view)
 
ask a handyman
Posted: 3/27/2007 11:57:54 AM
oh boy a cool thread!

I have 2 questions.
1) I have a drainage pipe out of the bathroom that drips (fortunately it drips above the air condition drain in the furnace room). Can I just pop it apart, put some kind of tape or glue on it, and put it back together to seal the leak?

2) the electrical connection for a ceiling fan in the bedroom has 2 leads to it. That is, the fan turns on at the switch on the fan but the light is activated by the switch on the wall and neither affects the other.
The adjacent bathroom has a fan with a light on the same lead, so obviously someone goofed and put 2 leads to the ceiling fan in the bedroom instead of to the bathroom where it's needed to suck the damp air out. What do I do with the extra wires going to that ceiling fan it I want to replace the fixture? I'm not really comfortable just capping it and leaving it - Mike Holmes wouldn't do it! But to take it back over to where it was supposed to be in the first place might be a bit of a job. (I've only done fixture replacement, installed dimmers, that sort of thing.)

thanks guys!
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 1133 (view)
 
immigration
Posted: 3/27/2007 11:46:58 AM
I haven't gone back through since this thread is getting pretty lengthy, but wanted to note that Canada's population increase was mainly due to immigration in the last census.

The US population increase was due to births. Per capita we admit more people per year than the US. We're trying to avoid the brain drain. Immigration CAN be good for a country.
 counsellorTroi
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 71 (view)
 
call me crazy...
Posted: 3/27/2007 11:32:21 AM
Well, it's better than feathering it back , like Shaun Cassidy or whatever his name is..... or gawd forbid - hockey head!

lmao though. Shit sticks, too, ya know. I think we better move beyond being "the shit" dante. It's too distubing a subject
 
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