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Just an Observation
Posted: 4/16/2006 8:19:44 AM | | Ok....first ,I am new here.....I am not a writer.....and I am over 50.I have read a lot of profile and yes.....I DO READ THE PROFILES........the "what I am looking for" and the "about me" and if there are pics I look at them too.It seems to me there are a lot of people looking for a "perfect match" in an "off the rack world".Most people will not meet all of your requirements. To find that "perfect relationship"you must work at it.It takes a lot of give and take by both parties to find that middle ground where you BOTH feel comfortable.I guess it comes down to starting with a profile that has certain traits that are "must have" for you(and here is where a lot of people get picky)don't sweat the small stuff,contact them(see if you can compromise on the "things that don't have to be set in stone")get to know them a little bit and see if there is "something."Keep it lite, but BE HONEST.Who knows, you two may be able to CUSTOM tailor the relationship into a PERFECT fit.But as I said it takes work on both sides,and lets face it we want to find PERFECT right off the rack(it is soooo much easier in this hectic world to just find it and go)don't have time to alter it and adjust it.Well as I said I am not a writer and this is more writting than I've done since HS.....lol.But for what its worth this is my opinion.Good luck with your searches'and hope you find someone to be happy with. | | | |
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