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 Author Thread: Do you want a ruthless review?
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 483 (view)
 
Do you want a ruthless review?
Posted: 4/28/2006 8:23:09 PM
Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm what about mine?
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 394 (view)
 
Morning SEX..... LOVE IT or HATE IT!!!
Posted: 4/28/2006 2:11:33 PM
Kind of hard not to love it when you wake up with a throbbing raging hard on every morning anyway. BTW, that gives me the idea for another thread....................

There's also nothing better than waking your girl up with head between her legs. She'll love you forever.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 149 (view)
 
Can you sleep when you are cuddling?
Posted: 4/27/2006 10:32:50 PM
I actually love it, and I am very picky about sleeping. The temperature and darkness have to be perfect, so one would assume I would hate it. But the closeness and intimacy factor is great. Nothing is better than falling asleep to the melodic heart beat (or breathing) of the woman you love. I know it may sound corny to some, but I'm secure enough to say it.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Execution by Brutal Honesty
Posted: 4/26/2006 9:48:06 PM
alright, docholiday740, show me what you got. As I am sure you will notice, I really was not kidding when I said I would throw things onto my profile as they came to my mind. Also, what the hell do I do to break that middle paragraph up a little bit?
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 449 (view)
 
Do you want a ruthless review?
Posted: 4/26/2006 9:45:10 PM
Go ahead and take a shot. Just know that I really did pour whatever came to mind right onto my profile, as I am sure you will notice.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 100 (view)
 
Has anyone ever broken the bed?
Posted: 4/26/2006 9:34:18 PM
No, but when I was in college there was a "large" couple that would sleep together in one of the dorms I lived in. They broke 2, that's right 2 beds, then complained to the school that they should have a "more accomodating" bed provided. If that were me, I would have been too embarassed to even bring it up to anyone, let alone make an issue out of it. They even discussed suing the school because it was their right to have a bigger bed provided since other couples didn't have that problem. As if it were discrimination or something. I know this sounds crazy, but it's 100% true. Can you believe that?
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Single... It Sucks!
Posted: 4/26/2006 3:35:49 PM
Im just curious, who's decision was it for him to become your "ex"? Who ended the relationship? I was in a similar situation once, from your ex's point of view. One of my ex's cheated on me and actually was still with the guy she cheated on me with when this happened. I was out with a girl I was seeing and I ran into her at a bar/club. She pretty much did what you did and started crying and made scene about how she still loved me and she couldn't stand seeing me there with another girl. Again, keep in mind, she cheated on me and we had been broken up for nearly 2 years at this point. I must admit, I lost a lot of respect for her when she did that. Anyway, I hope you weren't like my ex in these circumstances. I can see where the guy you were currently seeing would get spooked by that. My ex is only lucky the guy she was seeing wasn't there to witness that disasterous incident. Hell, last I heard she is engaged to the guy, and she STILL tries to get in touch with me. Go figure.

Anyway, you are an attractive girl judging by your profile so I don't think you'll have any problem finding another guy. But, maybe you should enjoy being single for a while and get to know yourself a little bit better.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 226 (view)
 
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 4/26/2006 10:54:50 AM
or......................... After he falls asleep, straddle his face and play a nice little game of uncle, he doesn't get free until he earns it
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 225 (view)
 
Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you?
Posted: 4/26/2006 10:50:41 AM
I'm just going to reply with what I put on a similar post. If he wont do it because he doesn't know what to do, that's one thing. But if he refuses, drop him. There aren't many guys who would put up with it, so why should any woman have to......

I LOVE going down on a girl. Every single ex that I still talk to has admitted that I seriously spoiled them in that department. There have been numerous times where I have gone down on a girl and REALLY expected NOTHING in return. The best time is either right before they would go to work(or class back when I was in college) or right after they would come home or maybe even both ;-). To me, there is nothing more rewarding than seeing the glow in a woman's face as she walks out the door after you start her long day with a good cum. And the looks on their faces when they had seen that I legitimately expected nothing in return were priceless, It's like a kid on christmas morning. Besides, (GUYS PAY ATTENTION) I've learned that if you show your woman that you have a genuine concern for her pleasure, she will often be willing to return the favor at another time and the sex is MUCH better.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 38 (view)
 
How shollow are you????
Posted: 4/25/2006 10:54:11 PM
EVERYONE is "shallow" to an extent. It's called having preferences. Whether its blonde or burnette, big or small, short or tall, we are allowed to prefer one over the other. Lets face it, there has to be a mutual physical attraction or all else fails. The problem is when you allow one little insignficant factor prevent you from being with what may otherwise be a great person, just because you are afraid of what other people may think.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
What do ya think???? PART II
Posted: 4/25/2006 10:38:12 PM
Made some improvements. Even figured out how to crop the photo a bit. Any more suggestions, comments, critiques, etc. The feedback has been great so far....
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
How long to get over a serious relationship?
Posted: 4/25/2006 9:52:23 PM
they say it usually takes about half of the time you were with someone to get over them. So if it was a 2 year relationship, it may take 1 year to completely get over them. From my experience that seems fairly accurate.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Hmm....do men know how creepy they can be sometimes?
Posted: 4/25/2006 4:35:37 PM
I'll be the first to admit that some guys really are strange. I have no clue why a guy would ask such stupid questions in the first conversation with a woman. It makes me wonder if an of that shit has EVER actually worked on a woman. Sometimes, I'm even embarassed for all men when I hear some of the crazy shit guys do. Then, we normal guys have to walk on egg shells so that we don't come off like that. Then again, some women are really crazy, as I am sure many of you ladies can attest to. I have many female friends who have talked about stalking, crazy phone calls, starting an argument for no reason, etc. You just have to remember to be careful, but also not judge an entire group for what one person does.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 72 (view)
 
Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long?
Posted: 4/25/2006 3:08:11 PM
I've experienced both extremes. When I was a teen, all a girl had to do was breath on my****and i would explode(lol, exaggeration) But now I have much better control and try to last as long as possible. It's funny, I've actually had girls complain that I didn't cum soon enough and they would become self concious or something about it. I guess that's just the nature of the beast/women(joking of course.) I try to get my woman off at least once before I do. It's only fair, right? I do have quite a few friends who will just get off, turn over, and fall asleep regardless of their girls needs. I think they are out of their damn minds.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 145 (view)
 
why is the young girl image so apealing
Posted: 4/24/2006 11:23:38 PM
Least we forget, there have been numerous arrrests of WOMEN having sex with younger BOYS as of late. Look at all of these teachers who have been caught sleeping with their students. Also, take a look at the hypocrytical double standard that exists in this situation. Almost every woman who has been caught having sex with a teenage boy gets a slap on the wrist in terms of punishment. Why is it acceptable to just say that these women were fulfilling a fantasy of theirs yet a man is a pervert just for fantasizing about such a thing regardless of actually doing it? I do not condone any of this myself, but this is a growing phenomenon and I don't see anyone raising nearly as much concern about it. So I guess my question is this - Why has the young male image been so appealing to older women??? do you think it is the same thing? Is the double standard right or wrong because of the switch in male/female roles?
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 32 (view)
 
revealing too much
Posted: 4/24/2006 11:02:44 PM
I think this is a classic situation where common sense goes an incredibly long way. You obviously don't need to tell every single thing about yourself when you first meet someone. That's what the entire dating process is for - 2 people gradually getting to know more about eachother. However, there does come a point (i.e. marriage) where your partner should know almost everything about you. Afterall, if you cannot trust them with that information, than don't marry them at all. Besides, I wouldn't want to find out my wife has another family somewhere or was in prison or god only knows what else AFTER I married her. If someone really loves you than those things shouldn't matter to them anyway, but the fact that you are keeping things from them will matter a lot. It's just like any big scandal that takes place in the media, it's not the event itself that gets people into trouble most of the time, it's the lies and cover-up that does.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Do you know people who stay in a relationship solely for the purpose of being in a relationship?
Posted: 4/24/2006 10:52:52 PM
yeah, sometimes I think maybe there should be a law that 2 people must be single for at least a year in their adult life before being eligible for marriage. Then maybe there wouldn't be so much divorce and people might be happier in general.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
What do ya think??????????????
Posted: 4/24/2006 10:38:41 PM
just did a little more tweeking.............

Thanks for the feedback, it's been great so far.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Best Advice you have ever received
Posted: 4/24/2006 8:48:00 PM
3 things actually

1.) It doesn't matter what career you choose, just be sure you choose a career you are happy with

2.) It's not the size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight in the dog.

3.) ALWAYS be sure to please the woman in your bed.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Do you know people who stay in a relationship solely for the purpose of being in a relationship?
Posted: 4/24/2006 8:21:03 PM
I also noticed that most of my friends in this situation are females, and that seems to be the consensus here as well.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 14 (view)
 
What do ya think??????????????
Posted: 4/24/2006 7:36:21 PM
okay, some changes made. Any more suggestions???? still not sure about that picture
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
argueing for the sake of argueing
Posted: 4/24/2006 6:34:33 PM
I have never been in a relationship like that, but I do have TWO roomates like that. They just argue/debate back and forth ALL THE TIME. It's actually extremely annoying. Guess what, I can hear them doing it right now. I would NEVER be able to actually be in a relationship with someone like that.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 74 (view)
 
How do you enhance your sexiness, to attract the opposite sex?
Posted: 4/24/2006 6:26:20 PM
C-O-N-F-I-D-E-N-C-E. That's it. Any woman will tell you that confidence is sexy.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 35 (view)
 
How important is me time in a relationship?
Posted: 4/23/2006 10:57:32 PM
Me time is EXTREMELY important. I usually refer to the first 6 months of a relationship as the "honeymoon" time, where a couple is inseperable. After that, if couples spend too much time together they probably start becoming impatient and moody. That may be what it is. It also probably takes about six months for someone to finally start letting their guard down and show who they really are without constantly trying to impress you. So it could just be that.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
UH OH! I accidently have the same post in 2 different forums[locked]
Posted: 4/23/2006 10:37:44 PM
I put a new thread in the dating/love advice forum, then I realized it would be more appropriate in the relationships forum so I put it there. Now it is in both. SORRY [DONE/Dog]
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Do you know people who stay in a relationship solely for the purpose of being in a relationship?
Posted: 4/23/2006 10:34:02 PM
I have quite a few friends who it appears are more concerned about being in a relationship than actually enjoying their partner in that relationship. I have friends who do nothing but complain about their bf/gf, constantly fight with their bf/gf, or as soon as they break up with someone they immediately need to start seeing someone else. Whenever I suggest being single for a little while they look at me like they cannot even comprehend the idea. Many of these people have never been single since they were in highschool. It's like they allow their relationships define who they are. Do you know people like this?

After 7 years straight of serious/committed relationships, I have been single for the past 2 years and I couldn't be more greatful. I have been able to decide what I really want for myself out of life and I have been able to approach those goals on my own. Personally, I think everyone should experience some single time and get to know who they are and what they truly want for themselves. After all, how can someone possibly have a strong and secure relationship with someone else if they haven't even got to know themselves and become secure with who they are as individuals?
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Good looking guys and good looking girls!!
Posted: 4/23/2006 10:28:20 PM
I often find myself wondering why I see gorgeous women with "goofy" looking guys. Then, as soon as I ask myself that question I realize how shallow it sounds. But hey, we all have a certain element of "shallowness" I guess. I suppose a lot of it is just jealousy, whether or not we are willing to acknowledge it.

What I really cannot understand, and I am sure this topic has been exhausted already, is why gorgeous women stay with ***hole guys and vice versa. Just last night I was at a bar/club and I saw this really attractive girl being screamed at "shut the **** up you ****" by her boyfriend, right in the middle of the damn bar. I was ready to put the guys head through a window from seeing the way he was screaming at her but I was so surprised at her lack of reaction. Instead of telling him off and leaving, she actually just stood there took it all. This scumbag was a loser with the 1990 after school special haircut and all, I mean really out of her league. She really could have any guy she wants who would do absolutely anything for her. It turns out that they were fighting in the parking lot when the bar closed and he apparently hit her and got arrested. I didn't see any of that happen but I did see the cops take him away in a cop car. Rest assured, if I did see it, I probably would have been arrested for putting that scumbag in the hospital.

Anyway, sorry for the rant but this topic just reminded me of what happened. I guess my point is that it can be a lot worse than a hot girl with a guy who isn't exactly Brad Pitt. As long as they treat eachother right, thats all that matters.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
What do ya think??????????????
Posted: 4/23/2006 8:00:44 PM
Thanks for the advice. Will change the paragraph.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Why did my post about how long one can go w/o sex or masturbating get deleted????[CLOSED Redundant]
Posted: 4/21/2006 8:05:17 PM
Why did my post about how long one can go w/o sex or masturbating get deleted???? It broke NONE of the rules. I know because I checked. Nor was it redundant. I know because I checked for that too. It had lots of feedback, all of which pertained to the original post. I am really annoyed, especially when I see some of the rediculous topics that remain. I know this post breaks the rules, but I don't know where else to post it. Besides, when I followed ALL of the rules, I got deleted anyway.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 3 (view)
 
What do ya think??????????????
Posted: 4/20/2006 10:44:38 PM
I see what you mean. Nothing on the photo is even on purpose, it's just a shot that a girl took of me that happens to have me in that position with the flag behind me. Unfortunately, I don't have many other digital pics. I don't know if it would be better to take that pic off for now so people don't just see the photo and move on, or to keep it on so people can at least have an idea of what I look like until I get a better one. I certainly don't mean to look like some right-wing jerk-off(I couldn't be much more opposite) but I can see where I may come off that way with that photo. Forgot to put down my job, i'll put it on there. Same with the first date. Let me know if you have any ideas about leaving the pic on for now or taking it off. Thanks a lot for the input, I obviously would have never noticed those things had no one pointed them out.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
What do ya think??????????????
Posted: 4/20/2006 7:54:00 PM
What do ya think of the profile? Suggestions, comments, whatever......
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Dealing with culture
Posted: 4/17/2006 1:22:08 AM
I have no problem dating other cultures personally. However, I dated an Indian girl once and we really got along well but cultural differences with her parents were just way too much. We had both graduated from college and she still had a 10 o'clock curfew. I am a very independent person and having to work around an unreasonable curfew, or any curfew for that matter was just way too much to deal with. She is extremely attractive and everwhere she goes she has the attention of every guy in the room, but once they go on a date and she says she has to be home by 10 at the age of 22, guys never call her back. Being in your 20's and having to act like you are in middle school really sucks. I can honestly say she was a 12 out of 10 but after having to rush her home at 10p.m. all the time I just couldn't put up with it any more. I was always afraid her parents would find out and I would have ruined the family or something.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 191 (view)
 
Living together before marriage a bad idea?
Posted: 4/17/2006 12:59:52 AM
I personally MUST live with someone before I marry them. You NEVER truly know someone until you live with them and are around them all the time. Then you will know if you can really tolerate the person enough to marry them. You to live with them to know if you can survive their little "quirks" and habits.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Are lookers (guys or chicks who are checking out others, while in a relationship), more or less li
Posted: 4/17/2006 12:56:57 AM
It's definitely human nature to look at other people who you find attractive. The problem is if you or your significant other are only looking at others and not giving you any attention.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Giving up due to complete waste of time
Posted: 4/17/2006 12:47:09 AM
yeah man, I would definitely not talk about hating "fat chicks." Women are very insecure about their appearances to begin with (most are too hard on themselves in my opinion) so talking about how you hate fat girls isn't exactly going to have the ladies flocking to you.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 519 (view)
 
Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 4/16/2006 11:33:54 PM
First, I can't blame a girl for not posting a pic on here with all of the crap that takes place and crazy stalkers who probably use this site(no offense to those of you who are not crazy stalkers, but I think you know what I mean). Second, I posted my pic because I have confidence in myself. You obviously don't know all of my features or anything but at least you can see that I look like I describe myself in my profile, such as my age, my body type, etc. Besides, I would hate to talk to someone, start to like her, send her a pic and then she suddenly stops talking to me. If you are on this site in hopes of dating, then don't you think you owe other people the same courtesy (i.e. knowing what you look like) that they would get by meeting you in person at a bar or wherever? I don't think that you are required to have a picture up on your profile for everyone to see, but I do think you owe it to someone to send them your pic early in the conversation process, like before you meet in person for the first time. Sure, some may say "but someone can give you a fake picture and you meet them and they are horribly different than the picture looked", but can't you also meet someone who looks good at a bar and after you go on a couple of dates they have the ugliest personality imaginable??? Afterall, you take the risk of facing either extreme by dating, but THAT'S JUST THE POINT! That's why it's a date and not marriage. To those who have horror stories about meeting people with no pic, a fake pic, or whatever else the problem was, I'm pretty sure that the same kinds of horrible dating experiences took place long before online dating came along.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
When it comes to knowing if a girl is into me, I am COMPLETELY OBLIVIOUS! advice???
Posted: 4/11/2006 11:48:41 PM
As the title says, I am oblivious when it comes to knowing if a girl is into me. There have been numerous times when I have been out with friends and talking to a girl who is "obviously" into me and I just talk to her like normal but I make no moves at all. Then my friends point out what an idiot I am and all of the signs I should have picked up on. So I guess I am wondering a.) what exactly are the signs that a girl is into you? and b.) How the hell do I move things forward once I realize she is into me? I know the obvious answer is that if she is talking to me then just ask if she would like to "go out sometime." But it's not that simple. I constantly see guys talking to girls at bars and the she talks back to be nice but all the while is looking for an excuse to leave while the guy makes an ass of himself. So I guess my other question would be, how do you know the difference between a girl "being nice" and one his is actually interested? I'm sure this topic is posted quite a bit but I'm new here so sorry if you're sick of seeing it.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Anyone ever use 3rd degree burn??? It's a fat burning supplement.
Posted: 4/4/2006 11:33:24 PM
Anyone ever use 3rd degree burn? Considering getting it to use along with my workout routine. Heard it works really well. looking for more opinions because I know most of these pills are garbage.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
cheated on in the past, can't get into serious relationship now. what the hell do I do????
Posted: 4/4/2006 11:04:47 PM
damn man. after hearing what robby had to say I think the best thing to do is not date anyone ever again. Just kidding. But seriously man, sorry to hear about all that. See, now its easy for me to sit hear and tell you not to think like that and you will find the right person. But obviously, I have trouble living by that example myself.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 36 (view)
 
so if a guy never calls hes just not that into you right?
Posted: 4/4/2006 10:38:56 PM
not necessarily. It could be just the opposite. He may very well like you a lot but be intimidated or for some reason have the impression you do not like him. I have no idea if that's the case, but its a possibility.
 greyboxerbriefs
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
cheated on in the past, can't get into serious relationship now. what the hell do I do????
Posted: 4/4/2006 10:29:32 PM
After being with someone for 5 years she cheated on me. It took me over a year to completely get over it but I did( it has since been 4 years). The problem now is that I have dated several wonderful women and I cannot seem to get myself to commit to them. I don't cheat or anything like that, but I cannot bring myself to move a relationship to the next level. Once a girl starts telling me she loves my it's like I can't bring myself to believe it or something. I have trouble opening myself up and completely trusting someone now. I feel like because my ex cheated on me after swearing that she "loved me soooo much" and wanted to "be with me forever" and "could not live with herself if we were apart" that now whenever someone says the same things, I just think to myself "I have heard that one before." Obviously I don't conciously think that but I feel like my sub-concious tells me that. I feel like absolute garbage whenever this situation occurs and I don't know how to explain myself when it does. My biggest fear is that I will always be like this. It's to the point where I am almost afraid to even begin a relationship now because I am afraid I will hurt someone again. Anyone have any advice, stories, etc??? greatly appreciated!!!
 
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