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wat if she lied about age ? Posted: 5/8/2008 7:03:38 PM
To be honest Dave . I think if it got that far before I suspected anything , I would be inclined to forgive . That said ,if I met a person , for the first time ,and strongly suspected they had lied about there age , i'd be out of there .

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culture? Posted: 5/8/2008 6:55:29 PM
I would say , Don't close any doors because of it . But if you meet the person and the chemistry isn't there , noneed tofeel bad even if it seems to be because of the culture. I think if you met the right person , those types of baries could iin at least some cases be over come . Like most things though . It's not going to be for everybody .

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Thanks, mom and dad... Posted: 4/2/2008 8:00:33 PM
My partents were married for 49 years , until my fathers death . They were a model of strength ,in religious and social princples .One should have been able to learn more from witnessing than I did . But it would not have changed the out come of my own 20 year marriage .

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What if you meet someone on here thats bipolar and is an alcoholic? Posted: 4/2/2008 7:35:00 PM
You havn't said if either of these atributes was something you were seeking , if they are ,then wonderful . If not , the combination definitly could cause the person to be less than a perfect partner . You might want to move on .

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Never marrying again.... Posted: 4/2/2008 6:52:11 PM
You never said whether you current relationship , is live in 24/7 , or if you would consider that . Mostly I feel the same way you do on the issue of marriage , sort of been there done that .But I don't plan on spending the rest of my life alone either . In 10 years , like mine ,your children will leave the nest , and go off and make lives for themselves , by then you may need to have done the same thing.What i'm trying to say is , you may not want to get married again , but I don't think that is any reason to deny your self what might be still be the relationship of life time .Good luck

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Would you go out with someone in the 45 plus group that has never been married? Posted: 3/31/2008 8:08:00 PM
I don't think not being married or not having children ,makes you more or less of anything , but you have to click on ,over 40 and no children , and get load of her

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Would you go out with someone in the 45 plus group that has never been married? Posted: 3/31/2008 7:57:57 PM
I don't think I would let it bother me to much . There is likely a host of reasons why people might not have tied the knott. That and most people in this age group have picked up at least some bagage , in there trip through life . Everybody has some problems .

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Is dating during separation cheating? Posted: 3/31/2008 9:26:46 AM
I've been separated six years , I'm not yet divorced , and I don't have trouble living with my self dating. I think cheating isn't about whether your separated or divorced . It's about being forthright about what you are doing .If you are not seeking to reconcile and you have made that clear to all , you might as well start rebuilding your life Good luck

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What Exactly Did He Mean? Posted: 3/26/2008 8:35:37 AM
Your taking some liberty , with my definition of straight.What makes you think , he's not gay ?

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Is it wrong for husbands to sexually neglect their wife...but still expect commitment and faith?? Posted: 3/26/2008 8:21:15 AM
What you dicribed Jess begs some questions .The short answer .If you are comitted to and faithful to another person . Then in all cases you should be able to expect that in return.Now you did not give any clue as to why there was no sex in your marriage or whether there was physical affection shown outside of sex.You should exaust all other options though , consider therapy etc .Then make the person aware that you can no longer remain comitted to a relationship without sex ,if that was the case ,but a lack of sex in a comitted relationship don't in my mind justify seeking it elsewhere ,if that is what your asking .

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Are there dating rules for us Boomers? Posted: 2/21/2008 10:42:07 AM
Are we talking about , sex on a first date , or are we talking about , somone not interested in it at all ? I don't think it makes a guy a jerk , if he is seeking a long term relationship , that quite rationally these days , would at some point involve sex , and he looks further , when he is told that it definitely will not .

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Males disapproving of women having male friends Posted: 2/25/2007 3:18:46 PM
I think mostly , this gets down to what your girlfriend is calling a friend . In this day and age with most working , you have a problem with parinoia if you cringe everytime she mentions a person of the oposite sex by name . However if you girl friend is going out with a differant guy off a list three nights a week and calling them friends , you don't have one , or desperitely need to find out where you stand with her . I believe it is possible for a girl to have a true male friend , but the plural was used here , and she would be fortunate to have one .

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Not just guys . Posted: 11/2/2006 9:02:35 AM
I can really relate to what your saying , and it is not just guys that look like they stoped careing for then selves ten years ago at 50 .Two other things . One is what is age ? Is it how long you lived , or is it more where you are in mind and body ?The other is how critically are we really looking at our selves . Have we put the 50 years in better than most or can we just see it better in the oposite sex ?

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distance problems Posted: 10/29/2006 1:31:11 PM
Sound to me like she just enjoys email chat . No danger of the relationship deveoping with you that far away .

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comeback? Posted: 10/8/2006 6:08:58 PM
When was that in fashion ?

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avoid it or be open about it? Posted: 10/8/2006 5:58:38 PM
I avoid it , i've found an agreement after two hours that my ex and hers were ***holes does very little to tell you what the person you meeting is really about .

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New role.. Posted: 10/8/2006 5:42:03 PM
Hmm , I'm not seeing anything hard to put up with here . But ,how is the chemisry with this new guy .I find my self wondering if your not questioning your sanity because feelings you had for your ex , just can't be found for this guy that is so sweet .

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What are you running from ? Posted: 10/1/2006 12:02:33 PM
If the guy hasn't called you back , you may have been knoch on his belt . Other than that you worrying about nothing .Running ? From what ? Sounds like you might be about ruin something worth while . Hang in there , it should only get better.

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Do WOMEN outnumber men? IF so what is the ratio??? Posted: 9/16/2006 11:37:59 AM
Thanks for the research I'll have to take a look , and see whether the 15-65 age range is broken up any .I certainly would have thought that at least right here , Compitition in the 45-55 range is a little stiffer than that .

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Is it okay for a woman to hit a man? Posted: 9/10/2006 5:50:58 PM
Not sure where your getting your facts from .A women who is voilent don't get off quite that easy . When my ex refused to attend therapy , I had her taken out in handcuffs .Not sure how she made out on it , i've barely seen her since except in court , but you need a pretty good excuse.

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Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 9/10/2006 5:24:20 PM
To me it's excepable for other people to what ever they please as long a it is concentual. For me, i'm in no position to be a sugar daddy, i'm barely eating paying my ex .And I wouldn't be anybodies lap dog for any amount of money.

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Sugar Daddys and Sugar Mommas Posted: 9/10/2006 5:23:24 PM
To me it's excepable for other people to what ever they please as long a it is concentual. For me, i'm in no position to be a sugar daddy, i'm barely eating paying my ex .And I wouldn't be anybodies lap dog for any amount of money.

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Mail order brides Posted: 9/10/2006 5:05:41 PM
I think you answered your own question .It obviously can work , it did for your friend. I have had a quite a few coffee dates from on line though , and not all turned out as expected . I would be pretty reluctant to make that kind of comittment without meeting the person first .

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what was your life like 10 years ago? Posted: 8/20/2006 11:40:34 AM
Ten years ago , I was living in a town house in south Oshawa . Had just started working midnights , and then wife had just got licence to sell real estate . since then a lot happened . I ended up going into the real estate thing (getting a licences) my self to try and put it in the black . Marriage and all eventually gave way to stress , and here I a'm .

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Where did you go to high school? Posted: 8/20/2006 11:14:21 AM
Went to North Hastings High School in Bancroft Ontario , for a few years .

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