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 Author Thread: Revamped! Give me a second look!
 planher1
Joined: 9/30/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Revamped! Give me a second look!
Posted: 11/7/2009 4:47:45 PM
Thanks guys! I appreciate it!
 planher1
Joined: 9/30/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Give it to me straight doc, am I going to live?
Posted: 11/7/2009 11:41:45 AM
Okay well my opinion on your profile is that is kind of all over the place and nondescript. I think you should elaborate a little more...be specific about your interest. The part about your job is to vague and doesn't really say anything. I think the pics are a little cheesy and should showcase the things you are into. The pumpkin just has to go! lol I just went through a review of mine and took all opinions into consideration and revamped mine and I think it is much better. The main photo is to far away....you can't see your face at all and I think people will move on and not read your profile because of that. Just a few things to think about!
 planher1
Joined: 9/30/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Revamped! Give me a second look!
Posted: 11/7/2009 11:23:32 AM
Thanks again for all the feedback especially from the guys. Nice to have a guys point of view! I tweaked it a bit again and changed some of the pics around. This is exhausting! lol
 planher1
Joined: 9/30/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Revamped! Give me a second look!
Posted: 11/6/2009 11:26:23 PM
So I took into consideration the feed back I got and rewrote my profile closer to what it resembled before getting frusted with the kind of emails I was receiving. There is not much I can do about the way I look and as such my pics are what they are. I am just someone who is comfortable with who I but there is a lot more to me once you get past the photos. As for my age preferences it's just me and I know what I like. I am very young at heart but am always open to anyone that wants to contact me. If there is something in common then we can go from there.
 planher1
Joined: 9/30/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Does it read to harsh?
Posted: 11/6/2009 4:42:44 PM
Thank you both for honest opinions. I truly appreciate it! I do get a lot of jerks and I had a more normal all about me before and no on ever read it and it got frustrating so I changed it. I guess I should start over again.
 planher1
Joined: 9/30/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
any tips?
Posted: 11/6/2009 4:35:00 PM
I agree with previous comment. It is a hard read and honestly if I came across a profile that says Activity Partner for their headline I would move on. Makes it sound like you are just looking for sex and is going to scare off someone that is looking for something more than that. Hope that helps!
 planher1
Joined: 9/30/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Does it read to harsh?
Posted: 11/6/2009 4:16:52 PM
Hello I am curious to get some feedback on my profile. I don't know if I am coming off to harsh or standoffish. I would love to hear peoples opinions so I know if there is anything that I should change.
 planher1
Joined: 9/30/2009
Msg: 335 (view)
 
Everyone Wants a Cougar
Posted: 10/3/2009 2:17:29 PM
Not all younger men want a Cougar just for sex (great sex BTW) not just sex as you refer to in your post! Just cause a woman is younger doesn't mean the sex is better...let's just get that straight. I get approached constantly from men of all ages but it seems to be more the early 30's guys that are really into the older woman. Especially if they are divorced with kids....cause the older woman has been there done and now it's just all about having fun together. With a younger woman most want marriage, kids and the white picket fence. The Cougar really wants a companion to have fun with..... should it lead to something then great. I dated someone 8 years younger for 3 years and I didn't want to marry him so I ended it so he could move on with his life. We are not desperate women we are just women who have a zest for life. Don't get it twisted! lol
 planher1
Joined: 9/30/2009
Msg: 789 (view)
 
What makes a woman over 40 sexy?
Posted: 10/3/2009 1:02:16 PM
It's definitely the confidence and the way you carry yourself. We know what we want, we know how to use what we have and we were way past the needy drama stage. We are comfortable standing on our own and that is attractive and appealing to men.
 
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