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produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 27 (view)

pee Posted: 11/22/2009 9:17:49 PM
I've never done it, but I have heard of it, also in the case of someone who was really drunk. I've done some stupid stuff when i was really hammered but I can honestly say I never peed anywhere other than a toilet, alleyway, shrub, tree, squirrel...no wait scratch taht last one I don't think I did that..... The OP may want to start looking for guys who cut themselves off when they hit the really good stagger stage of drinking though.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 39 (view)

What do Atheist Call Out During Sex? Posted: 11/20/2009 4:05:41 PM
I'm not really a screamer, I'm more of an "mmmmmm yeah mmmmmmmm" kinda guy.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 128 (view)

Dating a Married Man Posted: 11/20/2009 4:00:20 PM
While telling him you know he's been doing might be sweet revenge in some ways it might also tip him off that he hasn't been careful enough. In the future, as he continues to cheat on his wife he might be even more careful. Since he knows he's a cheat and obviously doesn't care hit him with something he will care about. Tell him he really sucks in bed. Even if he was the best you ever had instead tell him you have been faking it all along hoping he would get better. Tell him sorry but you couldn't take his fumbling attempts at sex anymore and that you have found someone who knows what they are doing, then tell him goodbye!

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 379 (view)

Hair pulling during doggystyle Posted: 11/10/2009 7:45:24 PM
Its totally cool unless the guy starts to call you a good little filly, makes constant references to your "mane", asks you to put on fake rubber or leather hooves and insists on wearing his cowboy hat and chaps while doing all of the above.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 46 (view)

So he/she USED to be Gay/Lesbian! Would you still date them? Posted: 11/10/2009 7:39:50 PM
Well if they are someone who is actually bi then there should be no issue. They may have thought that their explorations meant they were gay and hadn't actually realized that they were bi. If they used to be gay but no longer are because they went to one of those "X-Gay" groups, often run by christian fundamentalists that use religion to "cure" people then run like hell. These people have been shamed and brainwashed to make themselves adapt to a lifestyle. Eventually they will be unable to continue living the charade and you and anyone else who has a vested interest in your relationship will be hurt.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 151 (view)

Sucking during and after sex? Posted: 11/9/2009 1:31:13 PM
Not weird, just hot.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 102 (view)

Best friend was hitting on your spouse. What would you do? Posted: 11/9/2009 1:28:39 PM
Trust in my partner to them him to that it was never gonna happen and t0 knock it off before it damaged our friendship. I don't believe in big territorial displays, if I can't count on my gf to reject people on her own then I shouldn't be with her in the first place. If she tells him and he won't stop, then that's crossing the line into harassment, then I would step in or involve the cops, depending on the creepy level involved.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 65 (view)

do men like getting more then giving Posted: 11/7/2009 2:51:03 PM
I'm way more into giving than getting. I'm almost greedy about it lol

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 130 (view)

Robot lovers - yes or no? Posted: 10/28/2009 8:32:30 AM
Heres another thought I just had on this topic. Most of us don't think twice about the fact that our partners have been with other people before us but how many of us would actually go out and buy "used" sex toys, at say, a garage sale? What will happen with used sex bots? Factory refurbishment?! How degrading for them! It might spark some kind of revolution or even more likely, all the hot bots would hook up with each other because we humans would be too imperfect for their tastes! lol

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 113 (view)

Robot lovers - yes or no? Posted: 10/28/2009 12:11:29 AM
Just think, future versions of plentyoffish will have threads with titles like "If your bot cheated on you with the toaster would you take it bake?" , "How many service calss is too many?", "Is anal sex with a bot gay?"

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 98 (view)

Robot lovers - yes or no? Posted: 10/27/2009 7:45:45 PM
I think even if we got to the point of making Blade Runner Replicants there would still be issues that might pop up. For one they had horribly short lifespans which would make a long term relationship tough. Then there is also the free will aspect of things. Could a bot actually "choose" to love/desire/want you? Or is it just being programmed. Kinda like meeting a really hot woman, falling in love, having the best sex of your life then finding out your buddies had paid her to do it and she really thought you were a desperate schlub.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

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Fetishes - Friend or Foe ? Posted: 10/27/2009 8:50:42 AM
I think the key to having a long term relationship with anyone is to figure out where you can compromise and set limits. When you throw fetishes and or other less common sexual activities and proclivities into it then communication is even more important. The person with the fetish my need to try to come up with other ways to experience what they want without full involvement from their partner or less frequency than they want but accept that its better than none. The partner without the fetish needs to understand that it is a turn on for their partner and to indulge them as far as their personal limits will allow and not belittle or judge them for it. In order for things to work it could take something as minor as doing something once a month that one partner waits eagerly for and the other swallows a giggle to see the joy on their partners face to something as big as allowing one of them to step outside the relationship to keep them sexually satisfied and not have them sneaking off to get it.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 34 (view)

Robot lovers - yes or no? Posted: 10/27/2009 8:42:27 AM
So in other words a very expensive version of what my hand can do for free? Think I'll pass, unless they get subsidized lol.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

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Oral anal play? Posted: 10/26/2009 11:11:15 PM
Rod479 nailed it on the head. Its only gay if its a guy with another guy.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 43 (view)

Is gay cheating the same? Posted: 10/24/2009 11:30:56 AM
Cheating is going outside of the boundaries you and your partner set up when you got together. If you didn't actually discuss what would or wouldn't be cheating to you then you have to base it on what you honestly think their reaction would be to anything you do.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 23 (view)

eharmony ... Really? I'm a match with a troll? Posted: 10/20/2009 7:06:00 PM
Never heard anything good about it, well unless you count their ads. I met an awesome woman here so now I will never need to find out how bad eharmony is

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 22 (view)

Not cumming from sex. Posted: 10/15/2009 8:28:37 PM
I seldom cum during sex. I can usually cum through masturbation. In my case its probably a mixture of age and having used the same rather rough technique for jerking off for far too long. Check out Dan Savages advice about easing up on the "Death Grip". Also make sure you aren't falling into the rut of always fantasizing about the same thing, especially if its not something that is actively happening in real life. The combination of always thinking about the same thing while jerking off the same way can make it hard to cum during sex.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 30 (view)

Dating a person with mental illness scare u? Posted: 10/15/2009 7:06:35 AM
There is a simple dating rule to follow. It applies to everybody, healthy, sick, rich, poor etc. Treat each and everyone on a case by case basis. You can generalize all you want but in the end everyone is an individual and every relationship is unique. Kinda like snowflakes.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 22 (view)

do men like getting more then giving Posted: 10/15/2009 6:55:53 AM
I'm totallya agiver. In fact its a deal breaker for me. If I met a woman who didn't let me go down on her it would be over before it started. As far as receiving goes, I get very little out of it so I can definately go with less, maybe not none but less lol.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 163 (view)

How important is a THREESOME??? Posted: 10/12/2009 6:27:47 AM
A threesome or just watching my partner be with another woman has always been a huge fantasy of mine, but the key to has always been that she would have to enjoy it too. If it did nothing for her or had to be coerced out of her then it wouldn't turn me on. You did the right thing. Everyone has their deal breakers and he really should have made it clear way way way before he did that he had a deal breaker on this fantasy so you could have said you did too, then you could have parted before things got too intertwined. Communication people, its the key.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

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Hickeys? What do you think? Posted: 10/12/2009 6:19:12 AM
Its totally high school but it feels so damn good when its happening its worth the occasional regression!

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 20 (view)

Not sure what I should do next ... Posted: 10/12/2009 6:13:35 AM
If you were trying to start something with a guy that you friend was actively pursuing and it seemed like he might be interested in her then I would tell you to wait and see what happened with them first. Thats not the case so go after whomever you want. I really think we need to get over this whole marking of territory thing that people tend to do. It is not only childish but it also assumes that the target has no option but to like the person who saw them first, and thats not how it works in the real world.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 291 (view)

Have you ever been caught Masturbating? Posted: 10/11/2009 4:19:27 PM
Yup, by girlfriends and usually they stopped to watch, joined in or said "We don't have time for that now! We're already late so get your damn pants on and lets go!"

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 111 (view)

Sucking during and after sex? Posted: 10/11/2009 3:17:12 PM
Its not just common its also damn hot!!!!

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 62 (view)

Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral? Posted: 10/11/2009 3:15:32 PM
I like running my fingers through a woman's hair at anytime. During oral is good too, maybe making a small fist of hair too, but I wouldn't use ot to tug, that can lead to serious biting!!! As far as having my hair played with I like it but since mines short there isn't much to play with. She could always grab my ears though if she really needs me to grind my face in there!

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 27 (view)

Can a bad relationship trigger a change in Sexual Orientation? Posted: 10/11/2009 3:08:00 PM
It depends on how you view things. If you think there is only gay or straight, no inbetweens, no mostly straight or mostly gays, then yes you are going to have to believe that bad relationships can switch a persons orientation. If you see sexuality as a range of possibilities, well then the whole question doesn't really matter lol. One thing though, from a psychological perspective I have read that the one instance where doctors say a persons sexual orientation can be changed from what it was is in cases of chronic sexual abuse. In particular women who were sexually and physically abused as children and then as adults. I suppose yo could argue that the ones who do change may have had a Kinsey score that wasn't at one end of the scale, and again its something I read years ago.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 11 (view)

I know some will consider this sacrilege, but... Posted: 10/10/2009 8:46:35 PM
The first time with a new partner might be the most exciting but its never been the most satisfying.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 563 (view)

do guys like the smell of a woman's natural vagina? Posted: 10/8/2009 10:46:25 PM
Never encountered one that smelt bad, personally I think they are either a myth or someone with an undiagnosed yeast infection.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 24 (view)

Would you date a cheater Posted: 10/8/2009 1:12:22 PM
It would depend entirely on the circumstances. Why had they cheated and when? Was it way in their past in a really bad relationship, before they had matured enough to know how and when to just walk away? There can be lots of reasons why a person cheated other than a desire to get their rocks off. You have to look at every situation in its own right and not just pigeon hole everything, but remember to go in with your eyes open and watch for warning signs.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 21 (view)

Do i stick with it for the kids Posted: 10/8/2009 1:07:17 PM
When people stay together for the kids they forget one thing. Children are perceptive, they learn from watching us and often grow up to mimic various aspects of our behaviour. In a situation like this they are very likely to grow up thinking that they have to stay in an unhappy relationship because that's what they saw their parents do. Do you really want your kids to grow up and make the same mistakes? Trying to make the relationship work through counselling is okay but you have to recognize when it just won't work out and move on. They are other types of security that we need to provide children with other than the basic material ones. It may be a struggle but in the long run it will be better for them than growing up in a dysfunctional household.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 135 (view)

That guy smells like pussy! Posted: 10/8/2009 11:46:24 AM
Wear it? No Suck back a whole bottle on a lonely night...probably

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 28 (view)

I am not sexually attracted to my own ethnicity Posted: 10/8/2009 11:45:02 AM
Its not weird so long as you aren't objectifying them based on their ethnicity. As long as you aren't assuming they they have certain traits/physical features/kink level etc based on what their background is or isn't then its not an issue. If you are dating people who aren't part of your ethnicity until you plan to get married then you are going to look for someone from your ethnic group or you are only dating people to get a reaction from your family or friends then there is a problem Personally I have no boundaries based on ethnicity and I find it strange when people do, therefore I often suspect their motives but maybe I'm just being some kind of paranoid lefty lol.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 86 (view)

any ideas for masturbation ? Posted: 10/6/2009 3:05:15 PM
Just remember, In the end the one with the most toysa always wins!...or is it the one with the most toys in their end always wins? Meh same thing lmao

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 82 (view)

Asexuality: a different kind of orientation Posted: 10/5/2009 7:57:41 AM
Whether or not its an actual sexual orientation or not doesn't really matter but it should probably be thought of as one simply for communication reasons. When asexual people get into relationships and don't "come out" to their potential partner early it can lead to long term problems. Asexual people don't understand the emotional impact that not having sex can have on their sexual partner. Likewise the sexual partner can't understand why the asexual partner doesn't want to have sex with them. Often what happens is they have sex once every few weeks or months, both resent it and often the sexual partner has to end or step outside the relationship to satisfy their needs. Perhaps if monogamy wasn't such a huge factor in our society it would cause less strain on otherwise happy relationships but thats not likely to change anytime soon. Rather asexual people should start to see themselves as an orientation, sexual people should educate themselves and learn more about what it means to be asexual and everyone can go into potential relationships with a better understanding of what the future holds for them. ps not gonna lie stole most of my knowledge from Dan Savage columns lol

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 71 (view)

How soon do you discuss sexual preferences???? Posted: 10/4/2009 7:49:43 AM
Sooner rather than later and not just your kinks but also how important sex is to you. Vastly large differences in how often both of you want to have sex can become a huge issue later in relationships.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 21 (view)

My own worst enemy....help! Posted: 10/4/2009 7:46:01 AM
Just because you have been single for a year always mean you are ready to get into a new relationship yet, especially after a long relationship. Different people take different amounts of time to be ready to get back into dating. Maybe your compromiseiphobia is just a way to protect yourself from something you aren't sure you are really ready for.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 231 (view)

Why Are Men Over 30 Drama Shy? Posted: 10/4/2009 6:56:42 AM
I have a very simple view of what I consider a "drama free" person to be. They act like an adult when it comes to communication. When they have a problem they come right out and say it or if its not important enough they keep it to themselves and deal with it. No passive aggressive games, no go-away-come-here push pull crap. No trying to use emotional manipulation. It fits for both sexes and its vital to maintaining a relationship, well for me at least.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 138 (view)

Pierced Tongues Posted: 10/4/2009 6:48:46 AM
I think they are very sexy but its far more of a mental thing than actually a difference during oral.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 146 (view)

Birth Control Pills...PLEASE NEED PEOPLE OPINIONS Posted: 10/3/2009 9:02:23 PM
1. Kick him to the curb so fast it takes a week for his body to catch up with his ass. 2. no 3. no 4. He obviously isn't smart enough to understand no matter how and how often she said no!

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 36 (view)

Is it possible to like both very voluptuous women and super-skinny ones? Posted: 10/3/2009 4:23:37 PM
Oh its possible. I have been with women who were on either end of the spectrum and in between.

produceninja

Joined: 9/30/2009

Msg: 42 (view)

Straight men and Anal play - yay or nay? Posted: 10/3/2009 4:22:19 PM
I've had a few women I have been with try to stimulate me with some anal play but it seems that I'm one of the guys for whom this is not an erogenous zone. As for guys fearing that it might be a sign of some closeted homosexuality, they only need to worry if they are wishing that the woman who is playing with there bum was actually a dude!

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