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 Author Thread: GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 3256 (view)
 
GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 11/19/2009 1:37:44 AM
I don't know if I responded to this thread already...I think I have ...but what the heck.
Hell no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Try before you buy...I don't care if its shallow. Sex is important when you can still do it. Not so if you're frigid/impotent. I am thinking that's another good idea for Markus (Big Fish). Plenty of Frigid Fish for women and Plenty of Limp Eels for the blokes...these guys need somewhere to meet someone with no harsh judgments and unrealistic expectations...like keeping it up for 1 minute. Digressing as per usual.

No..not waiting. Only virgins wait...and if there's anything The 40 Year Old Virgin proves...that stuff only works in the movies. And its a comedy.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 8 (view)
 
When should I move on?
Posted: 11/19/2009 1:29:13 AM
Giulia --- such a beautiful name. Is that your real name?
Welcome to this crazy world...it'll frustrate you, but every now and again a gem surfaces. You'll find these people tend to have these characters on their user name ~
Some have mustaches for Mo-vember.
Some have latino names.
Very rarely some come from Australia. But rare is good...like a collectible classic...fine antique piece.


 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Why can't I just move on?
Posted: 11/19/2009 12:47:03 AM
You know, sometimes I appreciate the blackness and the whiteness of my world. No grey areas...as little as guessing in as much as possible. In all honesty, I cannot live my life assuming stuff. All that lovey dovey stuff that you do...things lovers do....making love instead of a straight out bang fest....then one party cuts it off like making love out of nothing at all...sorry Air Supply reference there...sucks big time.

Then what's worse is you are made to look like a fool for asking the question. I remember stuff like that in school. Are you mad at me?, No...why would I be mad at you. See you tomorrow then? To the cinema? Nope. How come? I'm busy. Next week? In a fortnight? Next month? No. No. No.
Then you move on scratching your head wondering what the feck just transpired there.

So, in the Black and White world of Pedro Sanchez, its important to establish early on if a relationship exists. Does love...which believe it or not, people still think as the sacred cow and the end all be all Hollywood stuff.... need to be present in that ceremony? Its awesome if it can...but a hint of it is a good enough of a start. I mean I'm awful at gardening but I've learned to nurture stuff.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 102 (view)
 
Do large women like large men?
Posted: 11/19/2009 12:15:55 AM
Im not particularly attracted to buffed,athletic types.....


Awww feck...there goes all my hopes.

I've taken up some weird habits lately. Have a regular drinking schedule...only because I needed an outlet of some kind, or I'd go mad-er than I already am, plus all my peers drink --- we work and share house together ----at the same time I've become a mad fitness buff. Can you imagine? Nothing like a drunk who can throw a mean roundhouse kick to the solar plexus with precision.

I found that fitness is very much like an addiction too...I get a bit grumpy when I don't get my adrenaline fix. At nearly 40 years old, I think I still got it...although I found its not body size, nor type. No kidding, the younger women seem to be okay with me, but I am at a stage where I pine for someone my age. Weird huh? Grass is always green and crap.

To be honest, I'm not attracted to large women....and I'm not being politically correct here....only because their personalities tend to suck. If I find a jovial, larger than life woman who can laugh at herself and me and not take everything seriously, I'll do her for life even if she's a size 22...I mean those plus sized models from Dove are mighty sexy. Brains over looks, legs over bewbies, heart over botox, fidelity over beauty queens. Beauty queens are overrated and frankly, most of 'em suck in bed. In a bad way.

I have a question though if I may. Why do fatty boom-bas always wear cute tiny backpacks on their backs...I always wanted to ask that but was somewhat afraid to do so. Anyone?
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Wants to know about past realationship
Posted: 11/18/2009 11:30:29 PM
Well, I have no qualms telling if asked...problem is they probably cannot handle some truths. Regarding ex that is currently on detention...hopefully, something minor like shoplifting and not murder.....because if it is, I have all the freaking right to know, if only so I can put on a nice pair of white trunks while asleep just in case I get axed. I mean gone are the days of being run over by a bus in nice undies....

Apart from that, you OP are not in any obligation whatsoever. 5 weeks means jack. 8 1/2 would be a good time.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 26 (view)
 
dumped on facebook
Posted: 11/18/2009 11:10:43 PM
Let's not be too hasty here...methinks at the very least you got informed, and that's something. How many of us here have been working ourselves silly and finally had two days off work and come rushing with two dozen dark red roses, a nice red vintage....nice new Ermenigildo Zegna pair of hoofs, splashed half a liter of Vintage Tabarome and be confronted with wacha doin here...yo ass been dumped like two weeks ago...I mean that's like being sacked without notice, only there's no union to fall back on when the shit hits the proverbial fan....I mean that sort of thing can happen...its a possibility...just saying....
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Silent Sex
Posted: 11/18/2009 10:50:40 PM
I've experienced this...ex partner with kids and stuff. She bit my shoulder to stop making so much noise...I ended up biting the pillow to prevent myself screaming from the vice grip bite...its rather silly looking...let's get that image out of our heads for a moment....thinking of a Cornetto....maybe a pistachio gelati...
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Would you have sex with a machine?
Posted: 11/18/2009 10:41:29 PM
My Sharp EL735 Financial calculator is looking mighty sexy tonight....I'm thinking of dressing it up with a sleek leather case....yeah....I think we'll have an early one tonight.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
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Is collecting Naked pictures of Women considered disease
Posted: 11/18/2009 10:33:35 PM
I dunno dude...once you start hiding anything, a little alarm bell goes off...imagine if the bible and what it says is all true...that bit about when you die, and your whole life would be played out before Jesus, a few trillion angels and the rest of mankind since Adam down to your latest ex-wife. I mean I am sure some angel would be quick on the fast forward button for those embarrassing Kodak moments.

I can just imagine your grand aunty going eeeeeeeeeeeeeew that grand nephew of mine...I always knew he was up to no good, locking himself upstairs after dinner...

What would Bruce Wayne do in a situation like that.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Hes my fallback guy but I want something new.
Posted: 11/18/2009 10:07:17 PM
Uggh...this is so offensive, I just wanna quit my day job and form a dating police posse. Lucky, you're young and that gives you grace.

However, I have come across people in their 30-s and 40-s that do this as a matter of course. What does that tell you? They probably did it when they were 19.

Relationships 101:
1) You do not keep a back up like some spare tyre. If tyres had feelings they'd roll away knowing that they'd be kept in the dark all of their useful life until required (which may never come...maybe...try living your life not knowing).
2) There is no such thing as a reserve boyfriend/girlfriend. Although a part-time lover can exist...Stevie Wonder said so.
3) You will not dare to put someone "on hold" and pick up another "call" then forget the first call. Its rude to make first caller listen to Beethoven for Babies all day long while on "wait".
4) It does not matter if you're 19 or 38 or 42. People that do this are simply called idjits.
5) No one knowingly likes being made a back up. Imagine if we did. The whole world would be in chaos, cos everybody feeds on the insecurity and ALL will definitely have a back up. Therefore, those that have a back up now are what is colloquially called a cheat. Are you OP? Naw....but only because you are young. Imagine the old chooks that read this and think they can still get away with it....the cheating old crumpets.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Dumped/Back together advice ???
Posted: 11/18/2009 1:37:43 AM
Who cares about logic...you're committed to the fight now. Make the best out of this...she's taking as much a risk as you are in getting back together, knowing your track record of complacency.

So forget about what if, what could, who slept with who and how many. Run with it, with both hands. Apply what you've learned in that lost year...especially bits about yourself.

Reward her trust in you by trusting in her...completely. You can make this the most awesome thing to ever happen to you...go the whole hog.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 107 (view)
 
Workout Routines for Real People
Posted: 11/16/2009 10:39:44 AM
Having a training partner and access to a pool is another good alternative....I've been doing this lately. Do laps in the pool while partner runs for 2.4 kilometres. As soon as she's back, she jumps in and you get running the 2.4 kilometres. The longer one takes running, the longer the laps in the pool. Do 3 sets.

Twice a week is good. Then work heavy on back and legs....plus your usual weight training. My goal is really just fitness and muscle tone...so far so good.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 48 (view)
 
What's the difference between affectionate and clingy?
Posted: 11/16/2009 10:07:07 AM

Pedro - nobody is saying that displaying affection is clingy. If you read the aforementioned responses, you'll see that people are saying there's a difference.


Ah, thanks for that...for some reason, I got the impression that it was a matter of degree, it seemed to me that some posters on this very thread equate affection and clinginess within a hair's breadth --- clingy = if its unwanted, --- I was merely questioning how people can be with people and not be accepting of affection even if its a tad too much. I am on that side of the fence where affection is awesome and no such thing as too much of it...I dunno. Unwanted affection from someone you're not in a relationship with is something else entirely....maybe that's the clinginess part that people are alluding to?

I can not imagine myself in a relationship and be intolerant of their affection....just one of those minor quirks that is still acceptable to me. I mean, I can't tell them hey, will you chuff off...you're annoying the beejeesus out of me wrapped all over me like that and in the same breath goddamn, you're a heck of a woman honey....I really am crazy about you. I mean is it just me or what? Do people actually enter a relationship like this?

Oh god...I'm in the wrong era.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Right or Wrong? Your Take on This ...
Posted: 11/16/2009 2:09:41 AM
What was the original intent again? Yes of course nobody is under any obligation....maybe some ethical issues to contend with. But then, rules can be made up as we go along...

Wasn't the original intent for you and Joe to meet up, get to know each other and so forth? Larry tags along, suddenly intent was totally forgotten and that part is conveniently irrelevant. Joe fades away....maybe heartbroken...but who gives a flying burrito....nice one.
Yep, turn this the other way around and us men become pigs and playas....it really has become who's the quickest at the draw.

On the other hand...it won't hurt to have a chat with Joe and clarify everything. For all you know, he's not that keen on you anyway.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 42 (view)
 
What's the difference between affectionate and clingy?
Posted: 11/15/2009 3:57:33 AM
Why would people be with people and not want their attention....jeebus....you spent all this time searching the world over..turning every stone...now is not the time to be all stoic...and be acting like yep...its cool. To me that's freakin juvenile.

It won't kill you to hold hands...kiss their shoulder while they browse the bookshelf of that book shop...wrap your arms on their waist as you walk, hold on to their arms on the way to anywhere. Affection is never a bad thing...seriously folks...withholding affection is a terrible terrible thing. One day, it will be all over, and you'd want to kick yourself to the curb.

When you judge your partner as being clingy due to a show of affection....its clearly a mismatch and one wonders why you're hanging on. The problem is not theirs.

Who's the clingy one now???
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 26 (view)
 
bf has bad time management
Posted: 11/15/2009 3:32:07 AM
I'm sorta with you on punctuality as a sign of respect....I can dig that. In fact I want that...30 minutes is acceptable but nearly 4 hours no freaking way! That's just the height of dissing.....Aretha will not be impressed with that sorta behaviour. I'd say kick him to the curb.

However, like you say...its still a lesser offense than cheating. Not that far off though. Taking you for granted ----and you are taken for granted when the lateness is habitual --- is a major deal.

There's no excuse...I wouldn't do it to a peer, workmate or an acquaintance....to the one I claim to love? Its never going to happen. The only valid excuse he's got is this:

had a shit attack

I mean that one is pretty cut and dried.... hard to dodge.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 42 (view)
 
BF will not tell me his birthdate or where he works - is this wierd to you guys?
Posted: 11/13/2009 11:20:59 PM
Just do what women do best...give him an ultimatum.
Its national security or me...what now, Mr. Bond, James Bond?
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 10 (view)
 
MATCH.com V p.o.f
Posted: 11/13/2009 6:00:02 PM

..his date decided to tell him on the 4 th date after she slept with him....
Bahahaha, suckers.

I don't have any other profile elsewhere, so I can't really tell you. However, empirical data would suggest that paying for membership does not make a difference to the result....after all, results are gained from the number of actual members plus the usual filtering mechanisms in place.. In that regard, a free site offers a wider selection as well as bringing in characters who would be iffy in paying for it. Admittedly, there's the occasional psycho trash....but's just like anywhere in life.

While its true that any idjit can join a free site, any idjit can also pay for membership....I am sure they all come out of the woodwork. I found that people who pay are somewhat desperate and will pay for love...some on dating sites....some on the girl friend experience escort services

It does not matter. The only thing it would suggest is something along the lines of a fool and his money and something about parting. That's a lovely dating potential right there.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 88 (view)
 
Dating a person with mental illness scare u?
Posted: 11/13/2009 3:19:48 PM
^^^^Faaaaaark....that's prolly why we shouldn't date mental cases. Always handy to bring a mirror just in case. It won't be a bad idea to bring some garlic cloves as well.

The best compromise methinks is if you're looking for a short term relationship, nothing beats a bi-polar. Biatchy, violent, passionate, cold as ice, fiery as hell, tactile, predictable...as in if she says turn left, you better turn right....sex is a 9 on the Richter scale.

Long term, you'd be better off with someone normal. That way you can have a standard latte, mild chit chat and grow old together. Sex is prolly a 5...but that's okay. Compromise is always a 5 out of 10 in anything.

I've been with a bipolar afflicted person. That was hell on earth. I got to questioning my own sanity after awhile, and wondered if it was contagious due to a whiff of that bipolar germ. The symptoms seem to me to be similar to rabies. I had stuff thrown at me, like a make up compact while she was powdering her nose (something I said?)...hit me right on my brow....gushing blood and all that, and she went crying hysterically, doing first aid on me with isopropyl alcohol, iodine and kissed me passionately while she was crying and begging for forgiveness. Meanwhile I was just a stunned idjit wondering what to make of all this. I was just waiting for her to start foaming at the mouth and start talking in a male satanic voice or something.

A few months later, it happened again...this time she threw a vintage 1950's telephone, yeah those black funky things...I dodged that one though cos I'm good with my Chuck Norris moves.

I had enough and tried to manage it with her....paid for all her half an hour (120 GBP) sessions with some specialist in Kensington (London). She was always happy at the end of it...I asked her what they would talk about...you, me...us...our future. Ay caramba.

Then a week later she'd be off. It really was like being in a room with someone flipping the light switch on and off to emulate a strobe light. Someone get me out of here!!!! God heard my prayers when I checked my visa...woohoo....must exit the country. I thought that was a sign...the two weeks couldn't come fast enough.


Dating a person with mental illness scare u?

Umm, yes. I learned how to pray and sleep with one eye open.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 217 (view)
 
Dating Male Virgins
Posted: 11/13/2009 3:23:07 AM
There's something quite not right for males to be claiming to be a virgin...I mean most of them look pretty demure and stuff, and I believe 'em....like would that be considered a reward for a female suicide bomber? Is that the promise that they hold on to? A bunch of nerdy males in heaven in white robes that would most likely to prematurely ejaculate?

C'mon guys...admit it now. You're a virgin not by choice...go on...its gonna be ok...
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 7 (view)
 
What's the WHOLE story with success stories?
Posted: 11/13/2009 3:11:50 AM
Success stories are just there to annoy the tar out of us....sentio aliquos togatos contra me conspirare.

Just as well we're not bitter, jaded and envious of these clowns.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
a v v v short fishing season indeed...
Posted: 11/13/2009 2:21:58 AM
I think I need to tone down on my bait. All I am catching are piranhas and the occasional barracuda.

Err congrats OP.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Do you think less of lady if she has sex on first date?
Posted: 11/13/2009 2:10:20 AM
Nope...only have sex when the kundalini is ready, and funnily enough, its always on the first date!
Alright...I know. Just a gigolo and all that.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Today Was Our 6 Month Anniversary
Posted: 11/13/2009 2:00:50 AM
All of you have made me want to kick a solid piece of granite!!!!

Congratulations. Time flies when you're having fun, eh?
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
From internet to wedding.
Posted: 11/13/2009 1:49:23 AM

Have your boarding pass ready, because once it leaves the station it will not be coming back. When its time to jump, Don't listen to anyone.


Yep. Cheers mate....we read ya. Err...are we there yet? I just hope this train doesn't get jinxed and be derailed on its way to the platform. I know I'm looking like an idjit here holding up my pass since yesterday.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 12 (view)
 
This site just isn't working for me
Posted: 11/13/2009 1:36:16 AM

recently I had a conversation about pof with a young person

they basically said

Pof was a F*ckfest for the young
a whinefest for the old
and a breading ground for aids

I had no argument with him


What were you doing talking to a young person?

Well Cybury I love Canada and been there in total 5times over the yrs!!!


Any chance of you liking Australia at all? Even a teeny weeny bit? I personally think we're suited...look, we both have no pics! That's saying a lot you know.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
i have a blind date - i'm SO excited - NOW WHAT ?
Posted: 11/13/2009 1:03:41 AM
Aww feck...my boss did this to me one time. Set me up on a blind date....I was just the willing social experiment. Blind dates can cause severe trauma. Some promotions are dependent on how you get on with the boss' best friend from high school.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Successful Coffee Dates?
Posted: 11/13/2009 12:51:38 AM
I have to admit, I haven't taken anyone that I am interested in on a coffee date...mainly cos I'm such a coffee whore. Yep, I'd be the one with two or three espressos...you know the one...the selfish **stard in the corner reading the paper.

The women that I happen to drag into these joints never seem to be coffee mad, instead they'd have oolong , chai, and umm lemon tea! The nerve! Maybe its the old fashioned in me....a "date" is something you make an extra effort for, and coffee seems to be so...ummm, unless you happen to be a coffee connoisseur....too expedient?

First dates are usually straight into a sushi bar and watching their reaction to the magical properties of too-much-wasabi. Or the old fashioned dinner at the bistro or tapas bar. The coffee joints I frequent are sort of rough, off some hole in the city...always packed with no room to move, so a private conversation is out of the question....plus what's with the loud Cuban 50's style music lately? I love it...

I suppose if people are out on 50 dates, coffee dates would be practical. Its that quantity vs quality argument again.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Chemistry and Feelings versus just a piece of @ss. I don't get it.
Posted: 11/11/2009 10:17:53 PM
This is like Revenge of the Nerds (1984). Those nerds are a threat to our way of life.

Actually, nerds get quite a bit....maybe Lewis is right...'Jocks only think about sports, nerds only think about sex.'

OP, I salute you.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 121 (view)
 
What someone does that really turns you on?
Posted: 11/11/2009 10:02:04 PM
Watching her read a national paper, in deep thought chewing on some cud....I mean, nuts.
Making me coffee while she's still half asleep in the morning...messy hair...eyes half closed.
Putting on her robe, straight after ummm...that bit...to go for a wee.
Chopping garlic and vegetables...crap....I dunno why, it just does. I am not sexist in any way or form.
Hugging my dog....I dunno why.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Deleting past relationships, any regrets?
Posted: 11/11/2009 9:28:11 PM
All I have are unsent letters, which I plan to bury or chuck in some furnace when I get around to it. I can't just chuck it on the rubbish tip....heck...all of my soul are written in those. Maybe a couple of photos of my longest 'serving' ex...but that's that.

The rest I managed to collate into a box....cards, thousands of the things, little notes on scrap paper, theatre tickets, hotel receipts, boarding passes, concerts, crappy useless gifts we received from friends...like a sexual position dice....wtf?????....hundreds of photos and polaroids....postcards...answering machine messages, when it was still on mini tape...snippets of video footage.... jewelry, yep a lifetime of crap basically. All of that went to the tip.

Actually, I was hesitant to destroy it. But what freedom straight after!
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 13 (view)
 
too fast, too soon!
Posted: 11/11/2009 9:05:30 PM
My heart goes out to you, Lakefront. It will be much easier for you to bear the pain of leaving her than leaving the young son. I say this because you are a caregiver type man who, like me, has a strong desire to take care of people, even when it is to your own detriment. Of course, that is why you became a firefighter. And that is precisely why you have been so attracted to two BPD girlfriends in a row -- the very women that other men run screaming from after about six months. The problem is not we like to help people. Instead, it is that our desire to be needed (for what we can do) far exceeds our desire to be loved (for whom we already are). At some point in our childhoods, we started thinking that "being needed" is the same thing as "being loved." (If you want to know about that, I will be glad to give you a link to Shari Schreiber's website, where she explains it.) Hence, leaving the woman and her son is something that goes against every fiber of your being, as it is mine.


This paragraph jumped at me. A wise poster this....and why would I be surprised. An economist no less. Jeebus...I am screwed....suddenly all of my armor fell off. Cheers (and to the OP for the thread).
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 152 (view)
 
Whats with the harems?
Posted: 11/11/2009 4:37:45 AM
If the mountain does not move....Pedro will. I'd swim maybe until port Melbourne, chuck a u-eey to the paddle steamer launch pad in Tasmania. I believe its straight all the way from there. I just need to do a risk analysis on Great Whites and stuff.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 112 (view)
 
People With Freckles
Posted: 11/11/2009 4:23:11 AM
Yes, that's well and good...some people on here claim to have freckles when in fact what they call freckles is another man's warts....like body types, slim is another man's obese, 35 is another man's 48 1/2....

I don't believe its freckles until I've seen it with my own eyes.

Doubting Pedro
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Confront or Ignore
Posted: 11/11/2009 4:14:02 AM
What does it matter? I mean you're not even dating...just talking. Like anyone can claim to be whoever, wherever just to gee people up. You'd find out the truth if you got stood up on Saturday for coffee. 'Why did you not turn up? My eyeballs were turning white waiting for you to show you up!!! Do you have any goddamn valid ass reason why you weren't there?' She responds with

'Yeah feckhead. I was somewhere in Manitoba. And I wasn't on vacation or anything, just shopping at the local mall. Is that valid enough for you? I'm breaking up with you, even if we're just talking and not dating. We're done, sunshine. I don't appreciate you tracing my IP address. '

Then you will know she was IN FACT in Manitoba. And she lied about being in Ottawa last week. SO the question really is...would you rather be right? Or would you prefer to be happy?

Confront, it will result in the above scenario = she dump yo ass.
Ignore = all good.

Either way its a win-win or lose-lose. Depending on which side the audience is putting their money on. I'm betting $5.00 on you, that you get yo ass dump if you mention anything remotely related to Canadian Geography.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 69 (view)
 
Breaking up and reading POF comments from the loser
Posted: 11/11/2009 1:19:28 AM

What exactly you gonna do about that?
Point the finger at me? I dont think so.

K. Can you cook hungarian goulash? I don't think so.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 150 (view)
 
Whats with the harems?
Posted: 11/11/2009 12:54:25 AM

They surfaced here in 1918....where they sniffed everything female


Aww crap. Its a fullmoon tonight...I feel my flesh tearing up...claws...actually, I'm just a werebeagle. I'd like to know where I can find these women with low self esteem and morals, cos dammit, they've all gone upmarket on me.

Feck this little thing called the Pacific Ocean....I want new meat from Canada.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Torn between morally right & right to be happy
Posted: 11/11/2009 12:24:28 AM
Her eyes are unbelievable!

Yes....I know the one. That's where it all goes to shit...it starts with the bloody things.

Through those you see an empty shell, a longing for something else other than her reality....and the thing is, its so similar to the look of desire, yes? The look of love apparently according to Dusty. A bit of sheen and glaze...too lust-like. But you'd be mistaken. Its the look for an alternate reality.

Reunions are notorious for those. Much like yourself, I bumped into an ex crushee. A bit of ooomph here and there, but the eyes look pretty much the same as when we were 15. She led me astray as a young 15 year old to her parents beach house...classic summer school break romp....crashing of the waves and all that....of course she dumped me for another guy, cause I had no freakin clue 'how to get it on'. I ended up with her sister....and she taught me a thing or two

Fast forward 20 years. Tap on the shoulder and I turn around to see those freakin eyes again. I asked about her, her kids....a husband. I didn't fall for those eyes this time around though. The conversation always got back to the kids....not us...not then, not what could've been (although she joked about it). Errr, we were just 15!

She offered to take me to town that evening and to drive me to the airport the next day (I was leaving for Frankfurt). The 15 year old got sophisticated this time around...and recognised a very bad idea. Some people just never ever change.

Sometimes I can be proud of myself.

Oh yeah, your question...sorry got distracted by the memory.


Should I pursue her with the hope that we could have something special & she deserves to be happy or should I let this go as she is married & 12 hours away too?

Yes..you have the right to be happy and just as the Beastie Boys would have said, to party too. But never at the cost of someone else's. Aww what a preachy bastard I've now become. Feck, I must be nearing 40.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 209 (view)
 
If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 11/10/2009 11:04:39 PM

On the more serious side, single men or women sometimes need a partner, not for sex, but to avoid arriving at the opera or such alone, where and when that would be inappropriate.

Indeed. One must not forget the symposium. To attend one alone, is....how would I put this.... anathema to our code as distinguished fine purveyors of women, cigars and tea.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 146 (view)
 
Whats with the harems?
Posted: 11/10/2009 10:54:55 PM
Jeebus (sorry Jesus) if this was a dinner table conversation, I am losing track....can someone get back to the harem bit. I just want to know the intricacies of the harem. Is it necessary to be....ahh never mind...who am I kidding.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Looking to move in with my GF but family doesn't agree
Posted: 11/10/2009 10:31:56 PM

Your focus seemed to bypass the purpose of this thread.

I was going for the subtle drop hint...ahhh never mind

That just didn't sit well with me

Ok. I aim to please.




Well too bad! That's life....
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Is it just me, or has the world gone mad?
Posted: 11/10/2009 10:52:10 AM
What's normal is that people behave now much as they behaved 10, 50, 100 or 1000 years ago. Morals/ethics/honesty/dishonesty/lying/cheating/using are part of the human condition, have always been and doubtless always will be.


True that. I have a feeling God will be nuking us again pretty soon, just like the Sodom and Gomorrah experience...I'd like to see some jubes turned into salt.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 198 (view)
 
If you found out he used an escort
Posted: 11/10/2009 10:45:27 AM
Hahaha...that would depend on the type of escort service he used. If its a $15 for every half an hour set-up...well he's a dirty pig and no different to picking a woman at the bar.

If he used a $1000 an hour escort service, well, I dunno. The man's got taste.

You can turn this question around and ask a woman if she's ever been in a FWB type relationship. There's your answer right there.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Looking to move in with my GF but family doesn't agree
Posted: 11/10/2009 10:40:23 AM

Please sir put a lid on it...

You had me at Please. The sir was awwww, a bit too much....icing on the cake.

I know the mention of a Ferrari was a bit over-the-top. It just does not have the same effect for say...a Ford Pinto maybe?
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 21 (view)
 
I'm so confused!
Posted: 11/10/2009 8:05:25 AM

The one with the great job that keeps him gone all the time, or the one with the decent job and always home every night? I'm so confused and it's not fair to either one of them


Both have jobs.
One is absent for long periods.
One is always at home.

Hmmm.....funny as that seems, that's pretty much how women think in the long term. Both are obviously attractive to you. Both are polite to your mother. Both are healthy in the head. Both make you laugh. Both are effective in bed. Both have strength in character. Both have the fortitude to carry on even during trying moments. Well I don't know....have you asked your friends? Friends are good in making decisions on your behalf. I know I am....making decisions for someone else is the best thing, especially when its them who'll suffer any consequence if your little social experiments turns ballyhoo. That's like investment banking with someone's money.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Is it just me, or has the world gone mad?
Posted: 11/10/2009 7:46:30 AM
She's lucky to be learning some harsh realities now. I've known women in their late 30's and early 40's running around thinking exactly the same AND STILL NOT ABLE TO FIGURE IT OUT. These lamb chops are rather silly women.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 59 (view)
 
80's PUNK
Posted: 11/10/2009 3:35:23 AM

45 year old in a moshpit is just ridiculous

One time a bunch of us must have been thinking exactly the same thing when this middle aged dude got up the stage getting ready to crowd dive. I caught his weird disbelieving look mid-air when the crowd thought exactly the same thing...I am not going to be the one head where his fat sweaty hairy ass lands on...lemme just check out for a sec over there, in the corner SPLATTT!!!

Although, you gotta give it to the middle aged punks though....not giving a flip and all that. I work with a 50 year old who listens to Holiday in Cambodia by the Dead Kennedys. Its sort of normal and weird at the same time.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Being single = having no life ??
Posted: 11/10/2009 3:19:13 AM
Having no life does not equal being single.
Having no options = having no life. Partnered or single.
Or, one can argue that a negative attitude to EVERYTHING = having no life.
Like, no woman=no cry.
I mean that's a pretty fecked up flawed argument that makes a lot of sense.

So, while we cannot change the externalities, we can surely change ourselves, thereby affecting the externalities. Whatever!

Party on dudes and party hard. Write that effin love letter to the PoF lady that you've been having an on-line crush on for weeks now...what's stopping ya? Rejection? Pfft...strike before alzheimers does. Time is slowly creeping up on us. Quicker for some.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Fictional Characters
Posted: 11/10/2009 2:26:13 AM
I think I'll encourage them with all those characters...let their imagination run free I say. In fact, I might sit them in front of the computer one day, looking at a bunch of fictional characters here on PoF:

Here son, look at this (fictional) profile. Yababa1010101.
Study hard, so you don't end up like that. See that photo? That's what you shouldn't be aspiring to. Look how he tries to impress the girls, saying all the right things (but clearly he knows jacksh1t). See his pretensions of being the ideal lover? Does he make himself puke, typing that crap? That's a winner right there, my son. On paper. I guarantee though that that is one fecked up loser. His only achievement is having the second highest score in Bendigo playing Mario Bros.

Look at this PsychhoBiatch50009809wawaneebloop.
See how bitter she is? That's why when you marry one day, you need to check that she's alright up there. Uhuh. See how she's desperate for attention, posting crap for shock value? That's a loser right there. Notice the numbers next to the column that says Age? That's a magic number pulled out from a hat that's rigged to not exceed 40.

And all manner of weird and wonderful characters here on PoF. They're up there with Santa and the Toof Hairy. Keeping them in the fantasy world is better for ya...the reality could shatter all hopes and may cause childhood trauma and dysfunction. Some could even cause a urinary tract infection by sheer will.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 125 (view)
 
Whats with the harems?
Posted: 11/10/2009 1:46:40 AM
Ok, I know I am not a religious nut.
I am not as ugly as you'd hope.
I am not gay.
I am competitive, but know when the game is over. Or is lunch time. Or time out.
I work for a living.
I have good taste.
But heck, for the life of me, I love being monogamous...love being faithful and loyal as a dog. My dream is to find one woman who can make hungarian goulash. And I despise goody-two-shoeses....yep.

So, the challenge is keeping the eye on the ball. There's lots of balls bouncing about....I pride myself in not taking my eyes off that ball. Have you ever seen a dog in deep concentration?
[No, that wasn't a haiku]

Jeebus. Not all NORMAL men are dreaming of a harem...in the same way that not all kids despise vegetables.

One woman is high maintenance enough.

And this crap about real men are highly confident because of their conquests with women? Men that I know that do this, are the biggest freakin cowards I've ever met. Think about it.

Being a man-whore cheap ass slut is dead easy. Feck, you don't have to do jack sh1t,...not even account to yourself. No standards...and even if there is, one would say its fairly low, don't us agree? That faithful/loyalty stuff???? Freakin hard work. Fortitude. Stamina. Endurance. Not everyone will have that. Certainly not your man-whores.
 
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