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hotchiq

Joined: 4/7/2006

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Single Mothers W/ Children: Do you do anything to compensate for the extra work of dating you ? Posted: 6/12/2009 6:08:12 PM
I totally agree with you blueyedbobbie

hotchiq

Joined: 4/7/2006

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Single Mothers W/ Children: Do you do anything to compensate for the extra work of dating you ? Posted: 6/12/2009 6:06:48 PM
I'm a single mother myself and I wouldn't take my son on dates ( that's what baby sitters are for ) and if my son did come along I wouldn't expect my bf to pay all the time for the both of us I would be considerate and pay some times or you can always go and do free things with the 3 of you

hotchiq

Joined: 4/7/2006

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plz..some new ways to marinate/ cook chicken Posted: 1/28/2008 10:12:23 PM
my mom makes chicken breast with artichoke hearts, lemon and white wine. you just make a creamy white wine sauce then add in the artichoke hearts and lemon slices. it's delicious with white rice

hotchiq

Joined: 4/7/2006

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Has anyone ever been dumped via email? Posted: 9/12/2007 5:33:56 PM
I have. it was really lame too. he just kept on saying the same thing over and over again but writting it in different ways. in a way i was laughing at the email more than i was crying about being dumped.

hotchiq

Joined: 4/7/2006

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Would You Take a Cheater back AFTER he's been gone a year? Posted: 9/12/2007 5:31:07 PM
I wouldn't take him/her back. Because once a cheater always a cheater, they may say that they have changed but is there any real proof that they have? well besides taking the chance of getting hurt again.

hotchiq

Joined: 4/7/2006

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9/11 and how you experienced it ( personal stories) Posted: 9/9/2007 2:47:43 PM
god i was in texas at the time trying to have a nice holiday but then 9/11 happend. it wasn't so nice after all

hotchiq

Joined: 4/7/2006

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Date and Fraud Posted: 8/24/2007 1:58:48 PM
I totally agree with what Sindee says. you should contact your police and let them know what happend and change your phone number.

hotchiq

Joined: 4/7/2006

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Am I crossing the line doing background checks on a suspicious date? Posted: 8/24/2007 1:51:46 PM
Heck no, i don't think that you are crossing the line to do a background check. I've had background checks done on a few of my boyfriends ( now ex's of course) i think it's a smart idea to get one done, for your safety. especially these days who knows who would do what to you or anyone. plus it's better to be safe than sorry.

hotchiq

Joined: 4/7/2006

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Hang-ups...rude or necessary? Posted: 8/15/2007 9:21:50 AM
i think it's rude to hang up on someone in the middle of a conversation ( wether you are fighting or not) but i also think that there are times when you have to hang up on the other person ( like if they are harassing you or threatening you)

hotchiq

Joined: 4/7/2006

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Why are you on here? Posted: 8/11/2007 11:24:20 AM
I'm on here because my best friend told me that I should give it a shot because this is where she met her fiancee. Plus I could have more friends ( you never can have too many of those) but if something more happens then GREAT! but if not then still great I would have one more friend to add to my list.

hotchiq

Joined: 4/7/2006

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He Says Lose 30 lbs and He Will Give you an Engagement Ring.....Would Ya???? Posted: 7/24/2007 9:08:51 AM
I would get rid of that jerk, no one should make you change who you are, actually no one can except for yourself. so i say shove the ring right back in his face and tell him to go to hell.

hotchiq

Joined: 4/7/2006

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Internet dating: sucks for guys, good for women. Posted: 7/20/2007 10:36:07 PM
I totaly agree with you frankiethepunk you can't be picky about who you want to have a relationship with. It's not that easy for us women on here either, there's a good portion of us who aren't the supermodle type so it's not all that easy for us to attract men. Plus I don't think that it all should be about the looks, yes that is important too, but what I think is more important is that you find out from a wide variety of people what they are really like and you should look on the inside for the true beauty of someone. And another thing is don't give up.

hotchiq

Joined: 4/7/2006

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Is dating with kids possible?? Posted: 5/30/2007 12:23:16 AM
I'm a single mom of a son who is almost 7 months and man, it is hard for me to find time alone because the father of my son is completly out of the picture, i haven't heard from him since 5 months prior to our sons birth. And I agree with you...Is there such a thing as a guy who isn't afraid of starting a relationship with someone who has children?

hotchiq

Joined: 4/7/2006

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Single Mom's and Dad's Posted: 5/22/2007 6:27:56 PM
I'm a single 26 year old mom of a 6 month old son. I know exactly what you are talking about gypsygirl07. you hear about all these nice guys and know people who have great guys, but where are they all hiding? but gypsygirl07 once you find out where the nice guys are, please let me know. lol.

hotchiq

Joined: 4/7/2006

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Question about putting him on the birth certificate Posted: 1/21/2007 11:06:33 AM
Well I had my son in November 2006 and I never put his fathers name on the birth certificate because I knew it would be the best thing for my sake and my sons as well. I left my sons father when I was about 5 months along and it was for our safety due to him being abusive, but in your case you should do what you think is right. Well good luck to you.

hotchiq

Joined: 4/7/2006

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I want my baby's dad out of our life!! Opinions please!! Posted: 9/20/2006 2:45:26 PM
i know exactly what you are going through, right now i am 7 and a half months pregnant with my exs son and i had to end the relationship because he was abusive and would not take any responsiblities. he has not tried to help me out in anyway that could be helpful towards the birth of our son ( mentally or finacially). he didn't cheat on me like your ex did ( well he said that he didn't, but i got a different feeling) and he was abusive. but i do not think that you are being selfish when you say that you do not want your ex in your life or your childs life, there is a point when you have to put your foot down and stand firm on your ground ( that's what i did). well i wish you the best of luck with you, your son and your guys future.

hotchiq

Joined: 4/7/2006

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How many sinle parents have their kid or kids with no help? Posted: 9/17/2006 8:51:42 PM
well i'm about to have a baby with out any help from my ex. he told me that he would help pay for child support because i can't work, but i haven't seen one penny from him and probably will never see a penny. so it will be very interesting on how i'll beable to do this on my own.

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