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Joined: 4/8/2006

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Is being too indepent and strong a blessing or curse? Posted: 4/9/2008 8:21:08 AM
I'm speaking just for my self.. YES, I find when men find out I"m more than self supporting, own my own car and home in a sought after address, that I don't need to be taken care of or rescued, they seem to gravatate towards those who "need" them more. This is just what I find in my travels. I would love to have a partner, friend and lover, I just don't need one to survive.

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People who are here only for the forums Posted: 3/29/2008 6:22:01 AM
I have to agree with not- for- you., I originally signed up to possibly date, but the forums are way more entertaining than any guys mailing my POF box from my home town... more sincerity here too.

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omission of the truth is not a lie and it's not being deceptive either Posted: 8/7/2007 4:24:35 PM
There are many degree's of lies.. omission is one absolutly!!! I just went on a coffee date with someone who left something major out, I completely felt I was lied to. I have always taught my childern leaving this out is lying by omission... think about it, common sense in my books.

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CAN A NON/DRINKER--DATE A DRINKER? Posted: 8/3/2007 3:46:34 PM
In my opinion the answer to your question is NO. As a non drinker I don't like the smell, I won't kiss someone who has been drinking, and I don't like how everyones personality changes when drinking. Many men have said to me they can take it or leave it... they never seem to leave it!!! Any NON drinkers out there? All the ones that message me and put "no" they don't drink ,seem to drink... I think they try to lure women in... be honest... Iam

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Valentines Day for the Broken Hearted Posted: 1/29/2007 5:26:46 PM
Its my Moms birthday, so it's always about her, this will be my first single one though, I think I will just give my love to others, and I will feel alright

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online women Posted: 10/23/2006 8:37:23 PM
I think some of the women on here are great, beautiful, educated, terrific jobs, sucure,I would have to say the pots calling the kettle black here, you dated 200 women? On what planet is that not a serial dater? i'm pretty sure many that you dated over lapped.Bless you and i hope it doesn't take you another 200. sereine

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am i banging my head against the wall-help Posted: 9/23/2006 6:35:37 AM
My heart goes out to you, she wants her cake and eats it too, she needs to make a choice, and you'll have to force her hand, I know it hurts, some of us can not turn on and off our feelings like others. I pray for a good out come for you. Sereine

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Can a Date Get Any Worse Posted: 9/15/2006 6:59:47 PM
Honestly guys, Im willing to bet she walked and talked liked a duck, but you thought she just might be a princess in disguise!! Sereine AKA Princess

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Once a cheater, always a cheater Posted: 8/29/2006 8:20:13 AM
Honestly most women I know myself included, would not go near a married man, most true ladies and women, would also not date a friends ex, or flirt with either. I gues your question was once a cheater always one? In mature men I would say yes, I have seen younger men out grow it once they grow up. Good luck my dear, you see the writting on the wall, I would run. Sereine

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ANYONE else seeing the RED FLAGS, that I see? Posted: 6/28/2006 4:15:34 PM
Go now!!!! He hits kids, drinks, controlling are you looking for a black eyes, and a world of being inside? lots of fish in this sea keep, searching Sereine

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no fault divorce.....is there such a thing???? Posted: 6/28/2006 4:05:50 PM
Wow angel, you gave way too much of your self, "I lost weight etc.) for him? He did not ever love you for you, I would not change a hair on my head for anyone, learn to love you and a great love will come into your life, your beautiful inside and out.... too submisive and sweet, ever need someone to talk to the girls here I'm sure have seen a movie or two as have I. I know your heart....takes one to know one, we must learn and move the heck on Sereine

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Few words for the broken hearted.. Posted: 6/27/2006 5:01:33 PM
Very nice and very true, I don't regret my past, nor wish to shut the door on it, (some will know where that comes from) Through pain comes growth, we love, we learn,I'm not bitter about any of it and am very open to love again........soon I hope. I do miss love, the feeling and being with someone, I know, I will have that gift to share with a amazing guy, when ever it's going to happen. Forgivness is key to moving on. Again thanks ,nice to hear someone thinks like me. Sereine.......

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Sex was great...but am I crazy?! Posted: 6/27/2006 6:38:34 AM
For me, I need to have more than just sex to make love and I think part of you dosen't want to let go, how do you feel after? are you thinking about what might have been or still could be?....Seen it don't it been there, save your self the pain and wait for the right guy, and take care of the rest your self! Sereine

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Do men realy think that blonds are more attractive? Posted: 6/23/2006 1:19:36 PM
God I sure hope so!!! Sereine

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I feel as I am being punished.. Posted: 4/29/2006 8:50:47 AM
My heart truely goes out to you, I know you feel like this won't pass,You are not being punished Angel. There are lessons to be learned here, look for them in one of your good moments, treat your self as though your recovering...you are. Take long baths read up lifting things, light a candle and let him go, get a massage, positive human contact is so important. Last but never least, know you are loved, mabe by friends, family, Higher Power? As one human who has felt that pain... I love you. sereine

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Getting Your Heart Broke....And Trusting Again..... Posted: 4/27/2006 9:13:29 AM
I totally agree with both posters, although it is so hard to trust, its about having faith and knowing there are wonderful people with big hearts out there. I do and I'm not termanally unique! I love what Jarbarian said about learning from the past.... if you had a self centered high maintenece person...look for someone more down to earth. If we don't learn from the past relationships....we will repeat them. Some say I'm soo picky, well no, Ive just been around a while,most people know what they don't want...but have you really looked at what you do want.... I have and i will have faith and wait for the right one..... but we can't do that sitting at home, go on the dates, learn about others and in turn learn about you! I met a man on a blind date 12 years ago, we married for 10! You never know till you trust and try. love and light Sereine

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are all the guys on here looking for sex? Posted: 4/21/2006 8:08:40 PM
Are women not interested in sex? We are we just have a dance we need to do first, personally I need the passioante kiss first to even see if it's going any further...crappy kiss....done. Sereine

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what's wrong with me, why can't I be loved? Posted: 4/19/2006 7:38:14 PM
We attract what we are at the time, I know when I'm healthy.body mind spirit some excellent people, not just men enter my life...when I'm F...up so are the folks I attract....guys I'm Healthy!!!! l

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