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home made salsa Posted: 8/8/2008 8:18:32 PM
I would use green onions instead of white. and add some fresh cilantro to it....other than that, looks darn good!!

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Anyone Ever Dated A TRUE Narcissist? Posted: 7/31/2008 8:31:44 AM
Wow Quad MOM..........this thread has brought a new light to a relationship that I am having with a woman. Your definition below fits sooooo perfectly with the attitude and actions of this woman I know. I had a feeling she was a narcissist because I heard that word before being used and I thought to myself. Hmmm maybe she is? What you described below fits exactly. Joined: 11/6/2006 Msg: 9 view profile History Anyone Ever Dated A TRUE Narcissist? Posted: 2/19/2007 303 PM For those other than Margo who have responded with laughter and jokes, its a personality disorder. I've got as good a sense of humor as the next chick, but this was a serious and painful experience in my life that has even affected my children. And VERY few people see it before its too late because of its very nature. Moon-fish, had you ever dealt with one, you would know what I'm talking about. These people have been known to even be misdiagnosed by professionals and blaming the "victim" in this case, myself, is also a tactic they use to make themselves look big. I refuse to tell myself I should have seen it when there are trained professionals that miss it. And Salamandar, he didn't declare himself one. Believe me. He still doesn't accept it. This was a therapist that declared and after a lot of research, I agreed. Its not a bit funny for someone whose lived it. Someone with NPD will go to any lengths to keep up the illusion he is projecting. Usually its one of success, honesty, all the good personality points people usually admire. Once the illusion begins to unravel (i.e. you find out they are lying about something) they feel cut off from there "source". A source for someone with NPD is ANYone who admires them. They HAVE to have your admiration and respect. Thats the entire point. Once the illusion is shattered, they have to find another supply, which usually means infidelity. Usually narcissists are male, but there have been cases of female narcissist. These people will go to elaborate lengths to maintain their facade. And believe me, I know. THANK YOU Margo! Just seen your post. What you are saying sounds like my life! He truly DID try everything in his power to break me once I became aware of what his problem was and what hedoes. He floats from one woman to the next...as if this will solve his problem and he is merely misunderstood. Whenever I asked him how something he was claiming was even possible, it suddenly became MY fault and he flew into a rage. The end result was me never getting an answer to the question. This man began to berate me and attempt to make me feel as if the problem lay with me. When he realized he couldn't convince me of this, I ceased to be worthy of him evidently. Which was good because I got a restraining order to get him out of my house. He even tried to cut me off from my family and friends. Anyone who could show me the difference between reality and the world he had created and we were both living in. It took me 4 yrs to get out of it, so I truly do know what you are saying and don't give me too much credit for getting out of the situation. It took time to even begin to understand that there was truly something mental going on with him. His life is a cycle of nothing but big plans and no action. Big dreams and big talk. Thats it.

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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 11/23/2006 4:18:01 PM
Do you women even bother to read OUR profiles. I read yours, I send a message with thoughtful questions and trying to strike up a conversation using your interests and what you put in your profile. I take time to do this and the majority of you will just unread/delete it. Maybe if you think for a couple of secs that someone is actually interested in what you have to say instead of just checking out the eye candy, more people will have luck in here. Just my two cents worth and am looking for some change back LOL

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