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womens labia (vagina lips) Posted: 11/27/2009 10:05:27 PM
Ooooooooooooh man. All I can say is that if anybody dismisses their partner based on how appealing the look of her vagina is to him, he's a damn fool. The same goes for any other genetic trait one cannot control .

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Re: Titties: real or fake? Posted: 11/27/2009 9:53:30 PM
Though there are some things about my body that I'm not completely happy with, they're a part of who I am. I wouldn't get plastic surgery if offered to me by the most reputable surgeon for free. (Also, I don't think people realize the risks that come along with certain procedures. Are you really willing to risk your health for an elective surgery that may not even turn out all that well?)

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Eating Healthy on a low income? Posted: 11/27/2009 9:38:43 PM
Rice and pasta are dirt cheap. Vegetables from the garden. Hunt for your meat. My parents' grocery bill is very low, but we're all huuuuuge eaters and eat extremely healthy food. ...but that's because my dad thinks he's living in a different era as a hunter/gatherer.

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How many messages a day do u get on average? Posted: 11/27/2009 9:34:31 PM
From the get-go, I had "single/not looking" and a few sentences stating that I'm just here for the forums, am committed to my boyfriend, and am not looking for anything sexual or romantic on here. Then I started to personalize my profile and filled it in with random thoughts and beliefs of mine. Why? I don't know, I like to write. But I kept the above statements in there. The messages came flooding in. I'd say about 30-40+ a day. I assume this is a pretty big number. The vast majority of them were simple, "hey sup hun" ( ), leading me to believe they looked at my pictures, liked what they saw, didn't even bother reading my profile because either they normally don't read profiles, or because they usually do read profiles, but my lengthy one was a deterrent to do so. So then I shortened it. Started to get less messages, but still some people persisted that I should see what I'm "missing" with them. (again, ). I finally deleted everything except for the part about me being taken and just for the forums. So far, 0 messages. ;)

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why can't i meet a girl who just wants sex? Posted: 11/27/2009 2:26:28 PM
this is so unfair why can't i meet a girl interested in a one night stand? seriously it's like they are hidding! sydney seams to be laughing at my expence You can. It's called prostitution.

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Her name keeps following me - what gives? Posted: 11/27/2009 11:38:39 AM
Tell me about it! My ex and I broke up in August of '08. A few months after, a Marco approached me at a Chapters and asked me out. A few months after that, a Marco at a gas station asked me for my number. A few months after that, I started to develop feelings for a friend of mine named Marco. A few months after that, a different friend of mine (named Marco) confessed having feelings for me. I think I'm destined to be with a Marco. ...which is a bit disturbing, since my brother's name is Marco. :P

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stop dating now! Posted: 11/26/2009 8:23:33 PM
Actually, I find I'm more productive when I'm dating and having sex because my mind is at peace and I'm completely relaxed. If I go without sex for an extended period of time, I feel extremely tense, which distracts me.

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Back pain need a new mattress Posted: 11/26/2009 6:47:24 PM
To those of you who switch to sleeping on your stomach in your sleep: Advice health care practitioners will usually give their patients/clients is to tape a tennis ball onto your stomach. It sounds ridiculous, I know, but it's very useful. This way, when you switch over unknowingly in the middle of your sleep, the tennis ball will make this position uncomfortable, and will cause you to switch to (hopefully) the fetal position once again without waking up. The reason why sleeping on your back is not the greatest (unless you sleep with your knees flexed so that the soles of your feet are parallel to and touching the mattress...which is just plain weird, lol) for you is because this position forces your low back into hyperlordosis (a greater curve) by jamming the facets (the small joints between each vertebra of your spine) --> definitely uncomfortable. Flexing your knees, however, will gap these joints (which is why it's recommended you flex your knees when in the fetal position, as well). Give it a shot.

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Back pain need a new mattress Posted: 11/26/2009 5:44:54 PM
You should be sleeping in the fetal position, with a pillow between the knees. That's the most orthopedic way to sleep. As for your mattress, I second what Monalee said. Don't forget to get a good pillow! This can contribute to neck pain and/or headaches. Good luck!

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M.S. breakthru? Posted: 11/26/2009 5:43:26 PM
Nothing against yoga, but I do other things for good health. And any prospects would hopefully read my profile to see that I'm just here for the forums, as I'm already taken. ;)

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7th date and she has stood me up......is she still interested Posted: 11/25/2009 3:16:18 PM
She had to reschedule (not cancel) the first date. She can't make the seventh date because a friend of hers is coming into town. She made the second, third, fourth, fifth, and sixth dates. Apparently they were all great. From that information you perceive this woman to be someone to mess with his head? Someone disrespectful? Really? I took it as somebody who is genuinely interested in him, but unfortunately leads a busy lifestyle and is trying to balance things...

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7th date and she has stood me up......is she still interested Posted: 11/25/2009 3:08:10 PM
How about you ask her?

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Do the Holidays add an extra yearning ? Posted: 11/25/2009 3:03:35 PM
Oh yes, absolutely.

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FEMALE CONDOMS Posted: 11/25/2009 3:01:17 PM
I tried Magnum XL but still snug and uncomfortable. Just had to throw that one in there, didn't ya?

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Kissing....... Posted: 11/25/2009 8:05:43 AM
^^^hence why most guys like the field trimmed...I can 'kiss' for hours and hours...at least until her bearded clam irritates my skin. A legitimate request to me! :)

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Men don't like TALL women Posted: 11/25/2009 8:02:16 AM
Maybe some of us short women just so happened to fall in love with tall men- not because of their height, but the height came with the guy. Are we not allowed to do this? I'm 5'2". My last long-term relationship was with a guy who is 6'8". Trust me- I wished many times that he is closer to 5'8"-5'10"ish, but I wasn't going to trade him in for it. My current boyfriend is 5'9". Perfect height for me.

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Bodily Imperfections......what can you/can't you deal with? Posted: 11/24/2009 9:11:57 PM
Bad hygiene- Brush your damn teeth and look presentable, please. Being overweight- you don't have to look like a model, but can you at least eat and live like you care about your health? I don't care if there is pudge on top of a healthy body. The rest I don't care about. Body hair, scars, big nose, balding...whatever. Bring it on.

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LTRs and boredom versus boring Posted: 11/24/2009 8:40:00 PM
I haven't been bored since I was maybe 16, and that's by myself, with one other person, or with a group of people. I think people who get bored easily have stopped appreciating the simple things in life.

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Have you ever received a Xmas present that made things a deal breaker? Posted: 11/24/2009 8:33:58 PM
Yes. Expensive jewellery. Before all the women attack me, let me explain why I didn't want the jewellery and refused to accept it: I was 17 and he was 20. We had only been together for about 6 months or so. I'd describe the relationship to be more of a good friendship. A companionship. Unfortunately he loved me (looking back, I really think he did, as did he at the time), but I didn't love him. I had never said "I love you", but at the same time thought that what we had was as serious as people get, since we got along well. What did I know? I was 17. Anyway, he gave me this beautiful expensive-looking bracelet for Christmas. The first thing I felt was guilt. The second was discomfort. I told him that although it was beautiful and incredibly sweet of him, I just couldn't accept his gift. He looked absolutely crushed, but I knew I had to tell him the truth. I just couldn't wear his bracelet, because it made it all that much clearer that we were on different pages in the relationship. Since then, I have told my boyfriends that unless I'm engaged to the man, I really don't want any jewellery. I think it's because I don't want that type of gift to be devalued, and I fear it would be if I repeatedly received it as a gift, especially from different boyfriends over time. I'm probably alone in thinking this, but it's the only gift I could think of that really affected me negatively.

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Birthday Lies and Truth - When Posted: 11/24/2009 8:18:21 PM
The fact that this (little, in my opinion) lie bothers you so much and that you want to tell her is really telling of your character. You sound like a great man, completely devoted to your girlfriend. Tell her. I don't think it's a problem. Good luck. :)

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Can our own emotions, attitudes at a given moment in time causes us to judge a person too hastily? Posted: 11/24/2009 8:12:21 PM
Of course. Think about what it means to judge somebody- it is your impression of a person at any given point in time. One's opinion is temporary in this case, and is only subject to change after time has passed and more information has been gathered. So if an opinion is formulated in a short period of time, a very limited amount of information is known. This limited amount of information will be processed depending on one's beliefs, past experiences, and current mood. Characteristics of the world and its counterparts are more subjective than objective, thanks to our perceptions and perspectives. :)

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M.S. breakthru? Posted: 11/24/2009 8:04:40 PM
Thanks for the thorough response, monalee. Much appreciated. All I can say to people is to do whatever they feel comfortable doing with their minds and bodies. If how you live has been working for you, then who am I to criticize it? All the best to you, Julia. (P.S. I don't actually do yoga. I was posing like that as a bit of an inside joke between me and the photographer. :))

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Trigeminal Neuralgia Posted: 11/24/2009 6:16:05 PM
What I am most curious about is the loss of hearing. I really do bet that your TN could have been caused by an inner ear infection. See if there is a way that can be examined. Not to worry you, but when thinking of differential diagnoses (or in your case, causes of the trigeminal neuralgia), I like to think of the least serious, most serious, and a few things in between. In your case, it very well might be a tumour that is pressing on the trigeminal nerve. I'm sure this has been considered already, but if not, it doesn't hurt to take a look. And MS, as I've already mentioned. Other than ways to deal with the pain, I can't think of any other questions to ask. Good luck, sweetie!

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web cam - oops Posted: 11/24/2009 5:33:24 PM
Bahahahahaha! Mistake my ass.

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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not? Posted: 11/24/2009 4:21:34 PM
If you've never been intimate before, and thus there has been no previous consent, then yes, I think it's safe to say it's rape (or something along those lines). If it's two people who have been intimate with each other before (regularly), then I don't think so. There is no hard and fast rule, though. Every situation is different. For me? Best way to wake up :D

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Her Orgasm Posted: 11/24/2009 4:19:31 PM
Both are responsible. Women more than men, initially. If a woman hasn't explored herself and isn't able to communicate to her partner what gets her off, then how is he to know? If she's guided him and he refuses to do what she likes, well, that's pretty bad on his part...

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rape/molestation victims and dating..... Posted: 11/24/2009 4:16:53 PM
From my experience, every woman who mentioned she was a victim was either: (a) Very sexually open and have less issues than most ("sex is dirty if you don't love them") women when it comes to fooling around. or (b) A basket case, but just think they have a few issues when it comes to things about sex. Oh? And what about those of us who were the lucky victims attacked by a complete stranger, in the middle of the day in a very safe and wealthy area while on her way to school? OP, strangely enough, although I am (and forever will be) still affected, it doesn't affect my sex life/intimacy. Not anymore, anyway, and it's been almost 2 years. I still have recurrent nightmares and am very easily spooked, though. I met my current boyfriend after this happened. I told him within a month of being together, because I thought it was fair for him to know. He's been extremely supportive. "If this is the only negative you've got, then I think I'll keep ya." Rose-coloured glasses methinks, but I won't complain. :)

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Why Do Men Think All Women Like Their 12 Inchers????? Posted: 11/24/2009 4:09:43 PM
Noooooooooo kidding. As I told one guy before, "I like to be sexed, not impaled." 'Average' exists for a reason, ladies and gents. A skilled swordsman relies on his technique more than his weapon ;)

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Masturbation=cheating Posted: 11/24/2009 4:07:57 PM
It's not cheating at all to me. Go ahead. Go nuts!

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Kissing....... Posted: 11/24/2009 4:07:01 PM
I could kiss for hours, and hours, and hours, and hours. It's bad when my skin becomes irritated from his stubble/facial hair, though. :P

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Silent Sex Posted: 11/24/2009 4:05:50 PM
Silent sex is horrible. I'm attracted to passion, and I enjoy all expressions of passion when we're having sex. Plus, it's validating to know I'm doing something right.

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Families...how much time to spend with them Posted: 11/24/2009 1:27:45 PM
I'm part of an extremely tight-knit family. My brother goes to school in Australia, but we still talk several times a week. I live with my parents and won't be moving out for another few years. Every Sunday, my family goes to my nonna's house for dinner with the rest of the aunts/uncles/cousins. We spend all holidays (including new year's eve) there. I adore my big family and couldn't imagine stopping the traditions. Hopefully my future husband is just as enthusiastic, or at least willing to compromise. Also, if/when my parents' health problems require somebody's help, I would be there in an instant (though they're stubbornly independent and would probably refuse I do anything for them ). They've done so much for me. It's the least I can do.

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Do ANY Men Read Profiles (First or at all?) Posted: 11/24/2009 8:24:43 AM
It baffles me that even though my profile says: I'm not single/not looking; I'm just looking for talk/email; and IN BOLD I have a boyfriend and am just here for the forums that men still message me saying they "loooooved" my profile, and they want to get to know me over a drink sometime. To the men who do this (and I'm sure some women are just as guilty): Do yourself a favour and invest a few minutes of your time to get to know the woman you're pursuing. It might just get you somewhere.

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Success, then utter disgusting failure Posted: 11/24/2009 8:20:59 AM
... WOAH. I just don't know what to say.

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M.S. breakthru? Posted: 11/23/2009 8:40:56 PM
I'm very fascinated by this. Looking forward to what comes next... Monalee, just a quick question for you- you seem to think that pretty much EVERY health issue is solely due to "toxins". I'm just interested in hearing what makes you think this? I mean, even the experts in the field don't know what causes MS. I do agree that the best way to live is as naturally and conservatively as possible, but I don't think anyone can deny that medicine and surgery are sometimes the best option to treat/cure a health concern. However you've got to be the most anti-medicine person I've come across here. Have you had a bad experience?

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small face issue Posted: 11/23/2009 8:36:52 PM
I have the same...problem? Seriously, though, I have to wear child-sized glasses and hats because my face is very small. Can't do anything about it. Accept it and focus on the more important things. ;)

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Would you cheat on SO for alot of money? Posted: 11/23/2009 7:48:50 PM
You can't put a price on true love. I could never live with myself if I cheated on my boyfriend for any reason. Just couldn't. I'd expect the same from him.

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Low Iron Posted: 11/22/2009 8:48:02 PM
Kunik, First off, the majority of women are low in iron. I have thalassemia minor, and so my iron level is low as well. You need to discuss this with your doctor before doing anything. There is a difference between being iron deficient, and having a malabsorption problem. Treatments will vary depending on this, and overdosing on iron is not something you want to do. Chin up. This is common! :)

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How Much Should I Disclose? Posted: 11/22/2009 6:10:34 PM
I completely agree with chameleonf.

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Trigeminal Neuralgia Posted: 11/22/2009 3:55:21 PM
Hi Huggles, A few thing: 1. What is worrying about MS is that it isn't until the condition has progressed for quite some time that signs and symptoms start to show. The reason why this is is because the brain is able to compensate for the loss of myelinated neurons (myelin covers neurons to make nerve transduction faster) early on. However, after awhile, the brain simply isn't able to compensate for all that loss of myelin, thus the reason why signs/symptoms start to show. Because MS affects the whole brain, any "odd" behaviour can be related. Usually the first thing to be affected is vision, but this isn't always the case. Anyway, an example of an early-MS patient could be somebody who presents to the doctor one day with strange vision problems. Later on, the patient comes back saying her fingers tremble too much. Later on, the patient comes back with some other strange complaint. After imaging, MS is certainly a reasonable differential diagnosis here. 2. You have been having hearing problems. Though the cause of trigeminal neuralgia is unknown, it's sometimes associated with a middle ear infection that has spread to the mastoid process (located right behind your ears). I assume this has been checked for, though...?

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Communicating every day Posted: 11/21/2009 10:11:09 PM
I'm not sure if it's because I'm younger, but I can't imagine not talking to a boyfriend daily. The conversations don't have to be long, but at least for 3-5 minutes. Even if it's just to say good morning or goodnight. Hearing my boyfriend's voice is one of the highlights of my day, and I'll take whatever I can get.

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Wouldn't it be nice Posted: 11/21/2009 11:43:32 AM
Then there's always the generic version, and the last one on the shelf that has the mangled box. Well done.

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Was there ONE thing that made you want to meet? Posted: 11/21/2009 10:51:51 AM
Some people are just fascinating. They're people you'd love to sit with and listen to them talk for hours. That would be the only reason why I'd be tempted to meet someone from here.

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Have relationships made you bitter? Posted: 11/21/2009 10:11:01 AM
Bitter? No. Not so naive and a bit cautious? Yes. Then again, I'm a young'on' and have lots of time to become bitter. :/

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Wouldn't it be nice Posted: 11/21/2009 6:51:25 AM
I'm willing to bet some serious money that if this option were available, very few people would be happy with what they've "ordered". Assuming, first of all, that we even know what we want in a partner, perfection really is boring. It's the little quirks and mannerisms that attract me to my boyfriend, but had you described my boyfriend on paper and offered it to me a year ago, I wouldn't have been interested.

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The first meeting Posted: 11/20/2009 8:52:57 PM
Damn. I'm 22 and even I know your friend is definitely on the wrong track. :/

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Cleansing diets? Posted: 11/19/2009 9:14:25 PM
Are we all without functioning livers anymore? Eat a balanced diet, exercise, get enough sleep, love, laugh, have sex, stimulate your mind, find a hobby. Why are people constantly jumping to the next fad to make up for their own laziness/denial?

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When should I move on? Posted: 11/18/2009 7:51:25 PM
Your first priority is keeping your kids safe. Your second priority is keeping yourself safe. Your third priority is being happy. 2 words: Restraining order. Or if he's not actively trying to harm you (and you're just worried/paranoid), seek therapy. I don't mean this as a criticism, and wish you the best of luck.

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Would you message someone if you knew they weren't going to respond? Posted: 11/18/2009 7:22:19 PM
Even though I have a boyfriend and am only here for the forums (my profile states so before anything else), I still sometimes browse profiles, both males' and females', out of curiosity. I sometimes come across profiles that make me smile- ones that give me the sense that the person is genuinely good, or maybe one that makes me laugh my head off, or one that's especially thought-provoking. When I do read these profiles, I send a quick message to the person, stating why I appreciated his/her profile, and wishing that person the best of luck. Hey, I like giving compliments when they're deserved. If I don't hear back, I really don't care, as long as I get my message across, and hopefully make the other person smile.

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Chiropractors: low velocity or high... all the same to me Posted: 11/18/2009 4:04:23 PM
Perhaps it is because no one treatment works for everybody? The orthopedic surgeons, physicians, physiotherapists, rheumatologists, neurologists, and massage therapists who refer to the chiropractor I work for readily call him doctor. As do the hospital staff who happily hired him. When practiced properly, chiropractic can be an incredibly helpful, non-invasive, and cost-effective way of relieving musculoskeletal pain, provided the problem is amenable to chiropractic care in the first place.

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