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 Author Thread: Psycho Girls--- who's had one
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 178 (view)
 
Psycho Girls--- who's had one
Posted: 11/11/2009 12:34:21 PM
What's with bringing back these 4-year old threads? It's annoying. Are people that bored?
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 84 (view)
 
When You Aren't Attracted to Someone Who Seems Perfect For You
Posted: 11/10/2009 12:16:09 PM
If you aren't attracted to him, then he's not perfect for you.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 315 (view)
 
Why are guys afraid to ask women out?
Posted: 11/10/2009 11:31:32 AM
I'm surprised no one mentioned sexual harassment complaints. That's a big reason I don't even flirt with women most of the time.

But then again, I got fired from a job once over a sexual harassment complaint when I never interacted of even looked at any of the women there. So I guess if someone has it in for you, they're going to get you anyway. But better to increase one's chances of staying off the radar...
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Open mic night...
Posted: 11/10/2009 11:20:17 AM

Also, when most guys wear skinny jeans, you can see a bulge. Not so with this guy. These things are relevant to some women, sorry guys.


Thanks for the heads-up. I didn't think anything was relevant to a woman who would date a guy in skinny-jeans.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Mixed Signals?
Posted: 11/9/2009 11:39:25 AM
Sounds like you know why he's a single dad now.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 64 (view)
 
She said she dosen't need men for sex, because she has her toys
Posted: 11/9/2009 11:38:21 AM

It was my first date with this lady & I had only driven out of her driveway for less than one miniute when she wanted me to know that she really didn't need men for sex because she has her toys.


Well, which is it? Was she a lady or did she say that?
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 54 (view)
 
fighting because of facebook.....
Posted: 11/9/2009 11:29:33 AM

Ludacris is on Facebook??? He seems more the type to say it with tweets.


Haha...pop-culture is really dumbing-down our society, isn't it?
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 53 (view)
 
fighting because of facebook.....
Posted: 11/9/2009 11:19:18 AM

Facebook has been known to cause problems like these between people.


Yeah, just like guns cause murders. Get a brain.

Her jealousy and/or insecurity caused this issue. Dude needs to let her know that won't fly, period.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Right or Wrong? Your Take on This ...
Posted: 11/9/2009 10:41:54 AM
Joe might have gotten more an more intimidated as you talked to Larry.

If I were in Joe's situation, I might have assumed that you were interested in me and that it would be safe to bring along a better-looking friend because I was there for you and Larry was there to have fun.

I'm sure that it wasn't the volume of conversation that was an issue. I'm sure Joe would have seen the difference in the way you looked at Larry and the way you looked at him.

Putting myself in your place, I would have done my best to ignore the friend and concentrate on the potential date whom I directly invited.

He gave you the chance to prove you have some class, and I don't think you did.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Being single = having no life ??
Posted: 11/9/2009 10:34:21 AM

Sorry, simple things like cooking dinner together, showering together, waking up together, holding each other and watching a movie together...... or just having someone there to listen to you...


Well, being single doesn't preclude these things at all. You can still have someone, or a few someones, to do these things with while still being single and unattached.

If, by "single", you mean no one at all to date or any friends with benefits, you can still cook and watch movies with friends.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 213 (view)
 
Why some men never want marry?
Posted: 11/9/2009 10:05:00 AM

Choice. Marriage is a choice, not mandatory. The distinction between the two, seems to be lost upon you.


You seem to have no ability whatsoever to comprehend what I write in fairly simple English and keep responding with complete non sequitur. I'm done engaging you.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Have any other women experienced this?
Posted: 11/8/2009 11:12:57 PM
Honestly, I don't know how I am on dates. I'm myself, and it seems to work.

But I think it's easy to get spooked reading these fora. From what I gather reading these posts, men shouldn't talk about themselves because it's conceited and self-centered, they shouldn't ask questions because that's an interview or an interrogation, and they shouldn't sit there saying nothing because that's boring and awkward.

Did I get that right?
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 73 (view)
 
Have any other women experienced this?
Posted: 11/8/2009 11:03:52 PM

Seen some of the guys at the gym fascinated by their own images reflected on the mirror LOL


Could it be they're just watching their own form while working out?
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 136 (view)
 
Girls making the first move???
Posted: 11/8/2009 10:56:36 PM
Oh, it was a fun job. It was more on the upscale side, but we still had our share of winners who needed to be shown the door. And we were all about watching out for the ladies. If she said he needs to go, he went.

My favorite part was when someone wanted to go hands-on. We'd take care of business any way we needed to and the cops would just come by, scrape the idiot off the sidewalk, and tell us to have a great night, no questions asked.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 204 (view)
 
Why some men never want marry?
Posted: 11/8/2009 10:50:38 PM

Soooo... don't use my toilet paper. Oh...don't you dare eat my organic blue corn tortilla chips


I really hope you're not putting your groceries on a credit card...


Your solution is overly simplistic, and displays a lack of experiential or empathetic understanding.


No, your interpretation of what I said was overly simplistic, and displays a lack of understanding of, well...the English language.


Yawn...when one is losing a debate, they often insinuate that the other person's stance is stupid...because, yeah sure, it will show the insinuator's ability to reason.


Haha! Is that what you got out of that? It's not what I said at all. You seem to have your own little world going on. It's really hard to argue with someone who is arguing with herself.


Life is as unpredictable, as it is a pattern that we follow.


Life has unpredictable elements, yes. But the pattern to follow, or whether or not to follow any pattern, is (or at least SHOULD be) under your control.


One may become disabled during a relationship, or one may enter a relationship with a disabled partner knowingly. One may encourage a parent to stay home, and not further advance their career, which would be disadvantageous to their future. Etc, etc...


This is true, but I stand by my assertion that none of it is relevant to marital status, but only to fiscal decisions made as a couple.


Uhmm...no...I was merely presenting a hypothetical scenario...


Well, I reacted with an equal but opposite hypothetical scenario.


But they can just as easily happen outside of marriage, leaving one party without recourse of action.


Recourse can be sought either way. Alimony is an option for the married, but financial damages can be sought in any case. The key is to manage correctly in the first place, then NEITHER should be necessary. Sad to say it, but one really needs to plan these days as if the marriage or relationship WON'T last forever.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 134 (view)
 
Girls making the first move???
Posted: 11/8/2009 10:41:22 PM
I almost never go to bars. When I do, it's because some friends wanted to just hang out in one. I don't think the whole premise of getting hammered and trying to pick someone up, or trying to pick someone up who is probably hammered is the most constructive one.

In fact, the only time I've actually ever been hit on in a bar was when I was working as the bouncer.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 73 (view)
 
Are professional pictures better?
Posted: 11/8/2009 10:16:55 PM

i have only 2 professional and the rest 'normal'


Can't tell which is which!
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 72 (view)
 
Are professional pictures better?
Posted: 11/8/2009 10:14:43 PM
It's ok to have a professional pic or two AS LONG AS you have a couple of candids to go with them. Perhaps a professional one as the main pic to grab someone's attention so that he looks at your profile, and the candids so he knows what to really expect.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 201 (view)
 
Why some men never want marry?
Posted: 11/8/2009 9:55:02 PM

JC you did get the part of who would care the debt... And it is the person who's name it was in...That very well can be the woman just as easily as the mans...


I never said anything to the contrary. I was merely pointing out that there are two possible outcomes to either situation. Gender is not an issue in this argument.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 449 (view)
 
How do you tell if you're a victim of Racism?
Posted: 11/8/2009 9:51:01 PM
Wow, OneHelpMomma, I've never seen a white racist against whites before. This is a new experience for me.

I think I'd give all of those "privileges" up to not have to compete with Affirmative Discrimination.

Oh, and btw...the President of the United States (a Mulatto) got 95% of the black vote. Do you think that was because of his political views?
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 448 (view)
 
How do you tell if your a victim of Racism?
Posted: 11/8/2009 9:44:00 PM
Don't worry about racist thoughts or comments. It's a free country, and we, as Americans, are free to say and think anything we want, whether or not it's a popular sentiment or you agree with it.

Where racism becomes wrong is if you are denied some sort of opportunity based on your race, for example, you are denied a job (or promotion), housing, equal pay (to people with comparable experience, education, certification, etc.), or something along those lines, or if some sort of act of violence or other crime is committed against you.

People in this country love a good fight. Political correctness has gotten out of control as to what we "can" say and what we "can't" say, which violates the spirit of free speech this country was founded upon. People are always trying to control what others say and think, which is probably the most un-American thing I can think of one person doing to another.

I lived in Thailand for a few years. They are a Buddhist country and very laid back. One thing I learned there that I carry with me to this day is that there are two types of people: Those worth listening to, and those NOT worth listening to.

If you don't like what someone has to say, walk away. There's actually no better way to shut someone up than that. If you fight with someone, he'll fight back. If people just start walking away, he has nothing to do but think about his words.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 91 (view)
 
What someone does that really turns you on?
Posted: 11/8/2009 9:33:09 PM

And I'll triple the comment about men shaving.............what is that all about? LOL


Hahaha....I was like, "Have I been wrong all this time for shaving IN the shower?"
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 198 (view)
 
Why some men never want marry?
Posted: 11/8/2009 9:25:45 PM
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If one is disabled, lost their job, was a stay at home parent, etc, and their non-spouse up and decided that the relationship was over, and said to non-spouse that they had two weeks to leave the house (that was in the non-spouse-who-wants-the-relationship-to-end's-name), meanwhile leaving the rest of the bills in the other non-spouse's name, the legal system would work in their favor regardless of gender.

Because wouldn't it suck, if one was kicked out, stuck with the majority of the debt (other party having no intention of equal responsibility of joint accrued debt), no place to go, relying heavily on friends, very little in available finances, and no legal course of action?


The simple solution to that is you buy you need and the other person buys what he needs. What you're saying here is that marriage is a protection from the liability of stupidity.


When cohabiting, finances conjoin (and this happens with separate bank accounts...just by cohabitation the finances are conjoined), debts are accrued, and there needs to be some kind of accountability.


Are you talking legal liability? Finances are NOT "conjoined" by virtue of living together unless that is how you decide to make it.

And furthermore, you're assuming, for some weird reason, that the party who is getting broken-up with is the one bearing most of the debt in his/her name. Unfortunately, that isn't always the case. If you're married and your spouse decides the marriage is over, then you might bear a significantly higher percentage of the joint debt than you accually accrued. If you're single and get broken-up-with, you leave with the debt that was in your name, and joint liability for any joint debt you were foolish enough to accrue.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 132 (view)
 
Girls making the first move???
Posted: 11/8/2009 9:16:30 PM

Men are not as emotional as females and we take rejection harder.


Whoah....where did you get THAT?
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Strange situation... should I, shouldn't I?
Posted: 11/8/2009 9:11:47 PM
I don't know what to say...I'm not a big fan of gossip, and I generally like to judge people on how they are with me, but on the other hand if someone tells me it really hurts to put my hand on a hot stove, I'll be inclined to listen.

My experience with people, especially on the dating scene, is that they act totally differently in the beginning from when you get to know them. It's usually better in the beginning. So right now he's acting the way he needs to to get you interested. What happens after you start dating him might be another story altogether.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
I'm so confused!
Posted: 11/8/2009 9:04:09 PM

I have started talkin to two great guys at the same time. They both are the types I would like to be with. It has come to the point to where I need to make a decision.



What? Are you only talking to them, or have you come to the point where you need to make a decision? It can't be both.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Why lunch or dinner?
Posted: 11/8/2009 1:29:57 PM
Well, eating contributes to homeostasis. It's something that most people feel very comforting, and can help them relax in an otherwise uncomfortable situation. There also might be alcohol involved which, used responsibly, can calm the nerves even more.

Not only that, but the majority of time many families spend together is at mealtimes. It's a good way to tell if you can tolerate the other person in that situation. You seem to think that watching someone eat is unromantic. Well, with some people it can be EXTREMELY unromantic, and it's good to know that up front. I don't see anything wrong with watching a beautiful woman with grace and good manners eat.

And the fact that it's not as romantic as you'd like is precisely the reason why you might make some of your dates earlier in the relationship over dinner. You don't want to push the envelope. Taking a date for a romantic walk on the beach at sunset for a first date would most likely make her think you're moving WAY too fast and scare her off.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Hate being single!!!!
Posted: 11/8/2009 1:02:15 PM
I think your thinking will definitely make you susceptible to making the wrong decisions when an opportunity presents itself.

Being okay being alone, in my opinion, is the key to a great relationship. You don't worry as much because if you end up alone again, you know you'll be okay. You'll also put less pressure on your mate. A woman who is okay with being alone will also let her mate spend whatever time he wants alone or hanging with friends or such, and that will in turn endear him to her more.

I need a lot of time alone. I'd say I prefer to spend half of my free time alone when I'm in a relationship. I need a woman who's comfortable enough in her own skin to let me be that way.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Should we HELP others with their profiles here?
Posted: 11/8/2009 12:55:48 PM
My rule of thumb is not to give advice to anyone who has in no way solicited it. If they've asked for it in the review section, then yes...by all means.

The profile isn't necessarily an indication of the degree of a person's boredom-factor, their education, or whether or not their psychotic (a term I think you overused in a very pejorative sense).

Some people just can't write. Some people can't think of things to say about themselves, which might be considered an admirable quality as I've met some who couldn't STOP coming up with things to say about themselves.

Some people are very humble and think it's unbecoming talking themselves up.

Our profiles are sales-pitches, and we're not all marketing executives. It's not a bad idea for people to get help. Somewhere along the line those of us who have decent profiles learned how to write decent profiles, so why not share the wealth?
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 86 (view)
 
What someone does that really turns you on?
Posted: 11/8/2009 12:43:58 PM
I love it when a woman walks around the house wearing one of my dress-shirts and nothing else.


Anyway, great post. No one has ever told me any of these things before. It's nice to know the more subtle things about me that women might find attractive.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 186 (view)
 
Why some men never want marry?
Posted: 11/8/2009 10:55:03 AM

Many callously view it as a 'piece of paper'. - Well, that piece of paper can provide you many legal protections. - more than you will ever realize.


Aside from not having to testify against your spouse if you happened to marry a criminal, what legal protections would you be referring to?

In my eyes, it IS a piece of paper as long as the state is involved. The state, in my opinion, has no business in marriage. It's between two people and God (if they believe in Him).
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Why do men have to see you before trying to get to know you?
Posted: 11/7/2009 10:01:24 PM
From a strictly Darwinian perspective, dating is a mating ritual. Mating is for reproduction. A male's instinct is to pick the most attractive female possible to pass on the most attractive genes possible, increasing the odds that his offspring will also mate, which increases the chances of perpetuating his own DNA long after he's gone.

This instinct does not dissipate when the man passes the age at which the female reproductive cycle has ended.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Mention of having been hurt/cheated on in profiles
Posted: 11/7/2009 9:53:55 PM
Rule of thumb: NEVER put ANYTHING negative on your profile.

I'd also caution against using too many of the "Must be/Must not be x" things that PoF has available. Pick the top 2 or 3 and go with them. Any more than that and you're going to risk looking way too demanding, even to people who fit into your preferred profile.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 251 (view)
 
what do men consider overweight?
Posted: 11/7/2009 9:50:41 PM
I think what the medical weight guidelines say is overweight is a pretty accurate measure.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 486 (view)
 
Do men realy think that blonds are more attractive?
Posted: 11/7/2009 9:20:14 PM

I'm not sure it's actually true either, but it's a common conception among the white media elite - and one generated by them.


The media elite (white or otherwise) are in la-la land, totally out of touch with any semblance of reality.


My problem was with the word 'all men.' As far as blonds go, it's race subjective.


It was a gross exaggeration even IF one were referring only to the white race. Even if one were intentionally race-specific in such a remark, adjusting it to say MOST men prefer blondes, it would still be a gross exaggeration (probably based on the false media image you referenced).

I'm not saying I don't like blondes...I CAN, but it's far more likely that a darker woman will be attractive to me. And I don't really like the stereotypical California tanned, hardbody blonde. I'm more attracted to the Scandinavian blonde who also has very light skin. For example, I find the actress that plays Natalie on Monk incredibly attractive, but I don't find Jessica Simpson attractive at all.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 1095 (view)
 
Who do you ask out?
Posted: 11/7/2009 9:09:08 PM

In my experience, it's the exact opposite. Ugly outside, ugly inside.


I've had a few experiences with very hot on the outside, very ugly on the inside. As soon as I see that nature, she's gone. For me, a woman needs to be beautiful on the outside AND the inside.


Ugly chick will hold it inside... keep it trapped.... And believe me you don't want to be around when she starts to puke that anger ....


Thanks for not mentioning names
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 3 (view)
 
I'm not interested... but I'm going to continue to talk to you anyway?
Posted: 11/7/2009 11:26:44 AM
Doesn't sound like enough info, either from you or from him.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 19 (view)
 
hairdressers
Posted: 11/7/2009 11:19:57 AM
Now that I think about it, I have this fetish with mini skirted bob cutted thigh high leather booted hairdressers


Well...my barber is a very hot Vietnamese woman, and the process, while not as involved, isn't too far off from what you described.

And no, I don't go to her because she's hot and I like her touching me. It actually took me about 2 years to find a barber who cuts my hair the exact way I want when I moved to CO.


you guys have nada good to say about hairdressers, but ya all love lookin' at em, and dreaming! We're the ones that make you look good. cuz ya can't do it on your own.


Sorry, but I've tried many hairdressers (hair-cutting-wise, that is) and have never found one that did a good job. It seems you can describe anything you want to a hairdresser, but she has her own artistic vision in her head and that just can't be overcome. You're fine for women, but you think like you're working on a woman when you're working on a man, and that just doesn't work out.

I'd date one on the condition that she never touch my hair.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Pre-Date Agreements
Posted: 11/7/2009 11:16:41 AM

I do set pre date agreement - that we do a meet only, that it's quick, inexpensive, and if one or both of us isn't interested we don't meet again.


No pressure there.

I prefer to do a date the right way. A nice dinner at a decent restaurant, a couple of hours of conversation, etc. It doesn't even have to be romantic. If the spark isn't there, it's two friends hanging out. If it is, then you don't have to wait for the next 10-minute "coffee-date" to enjoy each other's company.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 1090 (view)
 
Who do you ask out?
Posted: 11/7/2009 11:13:32 AM
though men who are secure in themselves will not judge anyone by "looks" and enjoy in the moment with a particular individual.


That's not true at all. It totally depends on the circumstances.

If I'm in a situation where I'm working with or are somehow otherwise in close social proximity to a woman who is nice but not what I would consider terribly attractive, then I might find myself liking her and decide to date her.

However, if it's a woman I don't know at all, i.e. online dating, someone I just run into in public, etc., and I don't find her physically attractive, there's no way in hell I'm dating her. If I don't know for a fact that there's another reason to date her, then I wouldn't even try.

There's no reason to lower my standards just because I'm "secure in myself." Your comment was only a back-handed way of insulting men who have looks requirements for getting to know someone they otherwise would have no reason to get to know.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 65 (view)
 
Creepy
Posted: 11/7/2009 11:06:04 AM

I'm working on the boundary stuff.


I mean this in the most constructive way possible...

Drop the pop-psych crap and just use common sense. It works better and is a lot easier to understand.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 481 (view)
 
Do men realy think that blonds are more attractive?
Posted: 11/7/2009 11:03:44 AM

Why don't people realize that stuff like this is race-specific.
It appears that white men may have a preference for blonds


I'm too lazy to do so, but I think if you tally the responses here, you'll find it's absolutely not true. It's some guy talking out his ass thinking that because HE sees blondes as the end-all/be-all that every other guy thinks the same way. This guy probably adores a woman with a fake set of tits and collagen injections too.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 477 (view)
 
Do men realy think that blonds are more attractive?
Posted: 11/7/2009 2:24:39 AM
CCG, I lived in Thailand for a few years. The women are amazing...polite, well-mannered, well-educated, in shape, and just plain beautiful.

It's been very hard for me to get myself to date here since I got back.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 179 (view)
 
WHATS THE WORST DATE YOU HAD ON POF
Posted: 11/7/2009 2:22:01 AM
WT, why didn't you just walk out the moment you saw he was drunk?
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Safety issues at POF
Posted: 11/7/2009 2:17:24 AM
No one steps foot in my home for at LEAST a couple of months. It's my space, and no one is welcome until I start thinking that I might be interested in actually sharing that space.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 16 (view)
 
hairdressers
Posted: 11/7/2009 2:10:52 AM
Hmmm...perhaps men are afraid they'll have to give up their beloved barbers?
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Pre-Date Agreements
Posted: 11/7/2009 2:09:08 AM
"We have pre-nuptial marriage agreements. Why not pre-date agreements?"

A date is a negotiation. You meet and see what the other person has to offer. If you like what's being offered, and the other person likes what you have to offer, then you take it to the next step.

What's the point in negotiating the negotiation?
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 1088 (view)
 
Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 11/7/2009 2:07:21 AM
OP must have confidence issues...I've dated TONS of really hot women...even married a couple, lol.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 173 (view)
 
WHATS THE WORST DATE YOU HAD ON POF
Posted: 11/6/2009 2:06:57 PM

There was the one that would not tell me how tall she was or show more than a older looking face pic, when I met her she was 6'6 and I'm quite sure over 350 pounds. She ordered TWO meals and made two trips to the salad bar first as we had them hold the order for a extra 30 minutes. Then as we are sitting there in a room filled with people she starts telling me she wants me to come home and all the things she wants me to do to her and everyone within 20 feet could hear it including children. A friend was the manager of the place got a complaint and he came over and asked her to leave but said I could stay and brought her a box for the food, she asks for a another one which he brings and she proceeds to wipe out half the desert bar.


Holy crap, dude....the writers of Deuce Bigelow, Male Gigolo couldn't have written a scene for their movie better than that.


She got transfered to Boston, I hate that whole state so I stayed.


What? You don't like The People's Republic of Massachusetts?

Sorry to hear about all the disrespect...some of these stories are horrible. Good move with the crank-head. Glad you're code 4.
 jcboston69
Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Creepy
Posted: 11/6/2009 1:45:17 PM
he's a creep because he wasn't interested in OP... but that's okkkkeeey. Op wasn't interested in him either... but drove for 40 minutes anyway...


People have an innate 6th sense about other people. We all have it, but some are more tuned-in than others.

In addition to that, she used the word "creepy," not a word an observer might have used like "jerk," "a$$hole," etc. The word has the connotation of something just not being right about someone, and perhaps in a way that might be dangerous. It's probably not a word she would have used if she didn't feel that way about him somewhere in the back of her mind.

_______________________________________________________________


She has ;
Although I was warned, I still think he's a jerk.


I meant for the original post.

One CAN be a jerk and a creep at the same time.....I am :P
 
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