I have often wondered, if we lived somewhere that has summer all year round would people loose weight so they could wear heat appropriate clothing. Would they exercise more because they weren't hiding in the house from freezing temps?

OK I have never really dated and I did try it once I met a guy online from india and he was a DR. I thought he'd be normal and respectable We went to dinner then for drinks he stopped to check into his hotel and made the comment I was like a cow and asked if he could milk me, and by the end of the date he actually asked if i'd be interested in a little role play and calling him brother needless to say he never got a call back and my friends still moo at me. I was offended not knowing wheather to laugh or slap him but I do find the humor in it that was a definate dating disaster

What would be your lesson to a younger student of the same sex for dating or relationship success ?

Got me !!LOL well the consensus was hes a doper and hes not gonna change!!LOL and Yes I did think Maybe I could get him to uh cutback, quit all togther..???????I know I know what a dreamer...I guess I just dont want to be alone but its not worth the aggravation and I just dont know How to say good-bye..well he came and got his things so I guess thats the first step ...looks like!! he did have good quailitites he was a gentleman,he was kind,gentle,caring etc etc those were the things I tried to focus on

ust kidding, of course. My point is, no need to be mean (though I suppose you know the person well, so they understand you were joking).

I do believe I've stated this before..
But.............
My email "red flags"....
Poor grammer and or spelling..

Ok,I understand that menopause could be a sensitive subject,and thats why I am asking.But AGE and Weight???

So we do the FWB thing, take a lover and friend, making sure that those emotional boundaries aren`t crossed, keeping it neat, tidy, something that isn`t going to put our world into an emotional tail spin, or cause strife to others in our life. We don`t take the "risk" of having real emotions or relationships, and we can walk away quite easily, without a whole lot of drama.

So what happens when you meet someone that just grabs your emotions? When you really start to feel for someone, miss someone, want them in your life but there are many complications. Usually it is so easy to just walk away. Is it the adult and wise
thing to just stay away, and let those passionate feelings die rather than to deal with all the risk and issues?

What would you do at this age if you fell for someone hard, after you had pretty much promised yourself to keep it simple and stay unattached because of all the problems of the past with relationships?

What was courtship and marriage like for our distant ancestors? Beginning with the ancient Greeks' recognition of the need to describe more than one kind of love, inventing the word "eros" to describe carnal love, and "agape" to mean a spiritual love.

The only part that concerns me is the potential for "an erection that lasts 4 hours or more".

I have other things I need to do

The topic is about whether one chooses to be in a "relationship" if it involves a lot of criticism? In the OP, the pov put forward is that if people choose to become involved with each other, it is not reasonable to "accept" that one should be subjected to criticism for habits, traits, viewpoints, etc.. that were known by the other, when he/she chose to be in a relationship with you.

While women are finding more and more competition in all facets of life. If married they are older and not looking like a Pretty Young Thing (no matter what they do). If unmarried they see all the singles dances and activities filled with women.

Is dressing for comfort instead of style and fashion really a crime?

sex is ok but I'd rather have chocolate

Sex and chocolate go together don't ya think?

In case she figures out who I am "I love you scurvy".

Perhaps I'm wrong...but I think my basic instinct should tell me...jump...don't stay!

I saw the film today...Francis McDormand's character was a gym instructor who was into online dating (middle aged) she wanted to get plastic surgery, & ignored or was oblivious to the fact that her boss was in love w/ her ( a decent man) & kept meeting & sleeping w/ MARRIED men from the internet!

I've only been on this site for a few weeks, but I have looked at alot of profiles by women, and sex is not on any list anywhere that I can see. I know, I know, every man would read it as "open to immediate gratification", but it would only take one sentence to explain that some other things that need to happen first. If you read these profiles literally, and scour every "list" of what women want, not only is sex not on there, it reads as if every man who has sex on his mental list is an offender, or potential one, and will be reported, blocked, banished, etc. Unless there is some code word for sex that the ladies use that I don't know, I suggest that women be little more upfront, especially if it is a "requirement", high up or low down. lol