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Joined: 4/14/2006

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Perfect man with no dink .. or Absolute jerk with dink? Posted: 5/26/2006 11:30:06 PM
The old me would have insisted on the ass with a dink, lol. No really I wouldn't have wanted Mr. Perfect, how could I have fixed him if he was allready perfect? Ah.....but the me that I have transcended into now would chose to be the man who could fill my soul. Mr. Perfect would love me and I him so closeness and warmth would be natural, cudling essential. Believe it or not, sex to me is awesome, but it's still just sex, whether it be with my hand or a dink.(sometimes it's alot less complicated when it's just me and my hand) lol just kidding u should know by now I live to spoon! Take care all.. Danielle

Joined: 4/14/2006

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Orange County CA Posted: 5/15/2006 10:51:20 PM
Great idea about a local get together.... set up a date and time and I'd be happy to invite my friends from fish. But to be honest, I'm not a fan of raw fish. But hey this is Southern Cali. why not organize a big bbq at the beach or a big park? Just a suggestion......I'll check back. Thanks, Dani

Joined: 4/14/2006

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i wish there were mail order mates Posted: 5/14/2006 11:44:39 PM
I think someone should start a website for finding and purchasing the mate you desire. Money back or at least an exchange option a must. Just check off of a list the attributes you require, personality traits you desire, and swipe your card ta-da fed ex brings you the mr. right.( or mr. right now if he doesn't work out for long term) Of course I'm kidding, I'm just sick of this singles shit. I don't like dating, I don't feel comfortabe exposing my life to strangers. I just wanna spoon, any suggestions?

Joined: 4/14/2006

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Losing a loved one to death Posted: 5/6/2006 11:43:29 PM
Oh Gimp - I realize that my reply to your message is a about two weeks late. I pray that your mom is ok. I also pray that you told her what she means to you whether or not she's still in a coma. I lost my mom recently to cancer, and the last 60 days of her life were heartbreaking, I only hope that she realized how dear she was to me and my kids. Please if you are able, tell mom what a great job she did, and how much she is loved. I would give anything for one more chance,,,, my prayers are with you.

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how do single parents get the help and support they need w/out the ex CRAP that goes with it? Posted: 4/25/2006 7:45:18 AM
Dear Kulddo- Thanks for your response. It made me feel a little better to see someone agreed with some of my points of contention. I do and probably always will love my sons father and I'm sure I'd probably not ever keep him from contacting his son(this would not benefit anyone and my son may end up resenting me if I did) As for giving and taking away rights of parents as far as I know only the courts can do that. Where would my son be know if I shared his dad's lack of responsibility? Boy this talking about it really does help..I'm starting to feel a little better all ready! Bless you, Dani

Joined: 4/14/2006

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single mom looking to talk with another single parent... Posted: 4/24/2006 9:14:57 PM
u r blessed than if your son's dad is around enough to give you some free time. I'm a single mom of 3 and my babydaddy stops by my house unannounced biweekly for about 10 minutes.(just long enough to make my 2 yr old really mad). I've signed up here because my sanity was at risk. Chatting helps alot, but I really need some adult time. I'm pretty patient though and I realize my kids will only be young for a little while. Hopefully I'll still have enough personality to attract a grown up when the time comes, lol

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How do you date when your children are your life Posted: 4/24/2006 5:25:21 PM
That is a beautiful poem. It really says it all. Thank You, Danielle

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"unlike most I don't use the greed.." Posted: 4/24/2006 7:43:31 AM
Seph- U seem like an educated individual. Its simple math. U R a man correct? Therefore you automactically make enough money to support yourself and a child. Remember we women are still fighting to make enough to support the family pet. If you have a child in custody or not you have an obligation to provide support for said child. Even if the parent w/custody is capable you can ease the burden other ways. Just keepin it real...

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Child Support: How To Obtain If Whereabouts Unknown? Posted: 4/22/2006 6:05:52 PM
Don't know if this will help or not in Canada. Support Kids is an orgnization that will collect your back and current child support on your behalf as long as you aren't on public assistance. They have their own attorneys and staff and aggressively chase down dead beat dads or moms. They have amazing results because they keep about a third of the $$$, lol. But 66% beats a blank. Good luck

Joined: 4/14/2006

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im sorry.............. Posted: 4/22/2006 5:53:20 PM
I think I accidently hit cancel instead of post. If I didn't then forgive me I am repeating myself. I totally agree that children should be able to see both parents as long as it is safe for the child. But..... I have agreed to allow my ex to see his 2 year old son, however he refuses to abide by any of the things that I have requested. He stops by at his convenience, without calling first, stays long enough to question me about my life (or lack of one I should say), and then leaves . He refuses to take the baby so I can have a break and offers no support of any kind. As far as I can see my ex gets his cake and eats it too. He's still able to control from afar without having to disrupt his "affairs". Anyways I'm venting but I fail to see how 10 minutes of questioning me and asking me to make him something to eat it benificial to my son. There needs to be a balance. I think having a child is a privilege not a right. Thanks for letting me let it go!

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