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cuddley kitten

Joined: 4/15/2006

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What is love? Posted: 5/14/2006 7:40:38 PM
I have been in love it is when you do nothing but think about the person that you are in the relationship with . You feel little butterflys in your stomach . I for one got all jittery when i was around them . I will have to say someone telling you they love you is not such a bad thing now is it. but not knowing what love is ! kitten

cuddley kitten

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 5/7/2006 9:59:15 AM
Hello my name is Cuddley Kitten 06 i live in Lebanon,Tennessee. I have the normal 2 kids 2 cats. I work jobs looking to meet new friends and maybe more if the option is open . About me I do belive in God, Horoscopes,Ghost, and the past life . If intested only sane ones need to apply . Thanks again Glad to be here so far . Cuddley Kitten 06

cuddley kitten

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My girlfriend died. Posted: 5/3/2006 7:10:32 PM
I guess neither one of us relized how many people lost their mates . It will be 6 mos on the 4th of this month . I miss him so much . Things are not the same . I feel so empty and depressed . I just found out that my son and his g/f may be preg. I was so hoping that my life was going to be complete .i know it is not the end of the world but why could he not take some one who was bad or cruel. Well enough of me anyway you are in my thoughts and prayers . i have found that going to visit at the grave and talking to him helps and sometimes i feel he is talking back . Even though she may not be there she is watching over you I know Doug is watching over us ! Cuddley Kitten 06

cuddley kitten

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I HAVE A QUESTION ? Posted: 5/2/2006 8:47:28 PM
Well i guess i should have tried to explain this more thoughly . Doug and i met on another site on or about December 13,2004. I was really learry being on the dating site but i thought i would give it a try . It was great we clicked imeaditaly it was like fire works . We continued dating talked of marriage even though he had lost his wife not long before we met but their marriage had been going to pot for yrs . His parent's even confirmed this so i know he was telling the truth. He was raised not to belive in divorce so he stayed with it till she passed . He would talk about her even took me to showed where she was burried . I did not tell him not to talk about her b/c it helped me find out more about him . Just so i set the record straight he asked me i didn't push it even though i felt so ready . I was bursting with happiness. MY mom even saw this after being married to a drunk and a wife beater i actully had a glow about me . I do go out with friends but i feel like a 5th wheel . It is driving me crazy . Maybe i do have low self esteam but i have always been like that not wanting to take chances. I keep telling myself when i met doug i wasn't looking . So maybe that is what i will need to do . I am working 2 jobs and just found out i may be a firsttime Grandma and they are not married so do that tell you who will be doing most of the care . I take a lot of pictures and it some how helps me with the past . Well enogh about me thanks for all the input it helps . i need all the friends i can get . See ya soon CUDDLEY KITTEN

cuddley kitten

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I HAVE A QUESTION ? Posted: 4/30/2006 10:34:19 PM
Yes i have concidered that i know bars are not the places to meet my ideal mate trust me . i work 2 jobs take care of my 2 kids my sons g/f and my 2 cats . I know sometimes i feel like i do not have the me time . I go mostly for the music ,dancing . Yes i know 6 mos is not a long time even though we were not together but about a year .I feel like we knew each other so much longer . I am feeling guilt one because i feel like i am stepping out on him as the old school would say it . Alot of you do not know this but i found him the night i lost him I feel like i did not do enough. Even though my 12 yr old daughter tells me daily that he is watching over us . I truely belive he is . I never have been one to do a lot of smiling with him i smiled every day . He helped me deal with so much . I miss him so much yesterday he would have been 49 i did not get to go to the grave today due to the weather there i go again. His parents are a perment fixture in my life i love them so much. Well thanks for the replys it help to have a good ear . It took me over 20 yrs to find him dont tell i have to wait 20 more . cuddley kitten 06

cuddley kitten

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Losing a loved one to death Posted: 4/30/2006 10:12:20 PM
Thank you for those sweet words .As you may or may not know i lost my b/f in November 4,2005. It means so much to me .But i can tell you this hold your head up . cuddley kitten 06

cuddley kitten

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I HAVE A QUESTION ? Posted: 4/30/2006 12:37:47 PM
D--- has been gone for almost 6 mos how come i do not feel attracted to other like i did him . I go to a bar i frequent but they do seem to be intrested either what is wrong with me ?

cuddley kitten

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3 months Married and now getting a divorce Posted: 4/30/2006 12:24:41 PM
Hey like every one has said it is a bad sitition you got into but i know from my past experience that just because you do not fight does not mean you you do not know one another . I was dating D--- for almost a year and never had a fight not one cross word then he passed on November 4,2005. You need to let him go . I know how difficult it can be.Try getting involved in something that can take you mind off of it . A pet would be good if allowed where you live . The more you stay around him the harder it will be in the long run . Question: how does his family feel about it . Are the behind him or are they right there with you.You know who you are and what you deserve ! If not let me tell you deserve better !! i hope this helps keep you head held up hig and push foward . cuddley kitten 06

cuddley kitten

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HELLO Posted: 4/25/2006 7:07:13 PM
Hey trust me he will always be there but why does it have to be so hard . I love making new friends an yes i have had several dates since he has been gone . I feel like i have stepped all over his feelings . I just hope i can love again . I feel like i will be just in due time . The 29th of April would have been his 49th bd i plan on going and spending the day with him. thamks for your reply it helps !

cuddley kitten

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Friends with the ex? Posted: 4/15/2006 8:52:40 PM
I think it is grat to be friends with your ex. I have several that just call me to ask me what i think . I would never try to hurt them just because we did not make it does not mean that they can't be happy . I look at it like this one of these day's i may need a friend just to talk to . Been there done that ! cuddley kitten

cuddley kitten

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HELLO Posted: 4/15/2006 8:36:48 PM
HEY THANKS I NEED ALL THE SUPPORT I CAN GET . EACH DAY SEEMS TO BE ALITTLE BIT EASER BUT IT NEVER WILL COMPLETLY STOP . . I FEEL LIKE MY HEAD IS ALWAY'S SPINNING .

cuddley kitten

Joined: 4/15/2006

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HELLO Posted: 4/15/2006 7:52:40 PM
SORRY GUY'S SPELLING NOT ONE OF MY STONG POINT'S LOL

CUDDLEY KITTEN

Joined: 4/15/2006

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HELLO Posted: 4/15/2006 8:27:44 AM
Hello, as i said in my profile i just lost my phoncey but i know he would not want me to be alone mentally and phyically .I go to the grave offten if this is a big deal do not apply . i still do not know how i going to deal with this ,but i will just have to see how it goes .

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