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Joined: 4/15/2006

Msg: 35 (view)

why do the good ones never work out?????? Posted: 6/26/2006 9:50:04 PM
This might sound juvenile on my part, but what the hey: we all turn into super-dorks when we start falling for someone. We're at their house at their back and call. We pretty much agree with whatever they state. It's all about them. If we all could learn to just back off a little and let stuff happen and not get ahead of ourselves, then our hearts would not be out on a limb as much. The only problem: the heart wants what the heart wants. The heart usually wants stuff ASAP, too. I don't know of a remedy for smittenness. I do know what it looks like, though.

Joined: 4/15/2006

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why would a man do this advice please Posted: 6/26/2006 9:45:35 PM
Yeah, I have found when a guy stops calling out of the blue, that he has found someone else. That is all. It's not you. It's some other woman that likes him less than you do.

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where are all the real women? Posted: 6/26/2006 9:42:08 PM
Define "real woman".

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Anyone in here serious? Posted: 6/4/2006 9:24:54 PM
Yeah, this place seems like all talk to me sometimes. :)

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Falling asleep after orgasm?!?!?! Posted: 5/18/2006 7:52:57 PM
I fall asleep afterwards, too.

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Has anyone ever been falsely accused of something, Posted: 5/18/2006 12:47:39 AM
I was in traffic with my mom in the town she lives in and apparently I happened to be behind a guy I had a "crush" on years prior to the incident. I mean, I didn't know it(?!) So, we're driving along and the car in front of me just stops reeeeeal quick and pulls over to the side of the road, no blinkers, no maps, no nothing. I turn around to see what kind of neurosis this guy had and it looked pretty much like him, I guess(?) All I'm thinking is 'Lord Almighty', now I'm gonna be coined 'stalker' all over the mother f***ing tri-city area. Greeeeeat. Never get a (sane) date again. I'm still rather annoyed and concerned, but hey, what can ya do? Whatever. Geez. That's life! I mean I don't really know if that was the person at all. I didn't stay to find out! It horrified me! I guess I'm always kind of worried what my rep is...? Paranoia much?

Joined: 4/15/2006

Msg: 28 (view)

What is the real reason your last relationship ended? Posted: 5/11/2006 8:15:50 PM
My last relationship ended because he didn't love me, didn't want to marry me and was interested in pretty much the entire county.

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Is It OK to Date your Best Friend's X????? Posted: 5/11/2006 8:13:07 PM
Too many complications (best friend's ex)

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spying on me with another account/profile Posted: 4/28/2006 9:54:47 AM
No, not formally spying on me. Just a random guy who wants to know if I'm interested in other guys besides himself.

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spying on me with another account/profile Posted: 4/26/2006 3:21:29 PM
I feel very suspicious about a guy that's messaged me. He IM'd me a few times then his account was deleted. Before it was deleted, he sent me an email saying "That's what I thought." I feel like it was someone else on here spying on me by posing as another guy. Any way I can find out? It freaked me out.

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 4/21/2006 9:57:00 AM
My name is (see profile) and I need to get away from this pc.

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where to meet in winston-salem Posted: 4/19/2006 9:50:39 PM
That tea place downtown.

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Anyone in here serious? Posted: 4/19/2006 9:49:38 PM
I am all too serious.

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creative work-out ideas Posted: 4/18/2006 5:27:05 PM
I know I get antsy when I do the same thing for too long, or everyday. Who's got ideas to burn calories and tone bodies? Example: cartwheels down the street, tree climbing, midnight Easter egg hunts...

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Ever had trouble moving on? Posted: 4/18/2006 8:39:24 AM
I think I miss the thought of my ex moreso than him himself. I miss the hope for a future together, and the plans we made that we won't ever venture into. Unfortunately, I chose the wrong person to ber with in the first place, by being with him. I just let "us" happen with no hesitation, because I liked him so much. He made me laugh, but not out loud much. He turned me on, but he wasn't irrestistible. In the end, he kept me hanging on, but yet I was also looking over my shoulder (for another).

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 4/18/2006 8:30:47 AM
Ooooh... slightly envious =)

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Post your wackiest, most fun date ideas here! Posted: 4/18/2006 8:24:11 AM
wish my dates were as neat as yours

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What tuns u on the most? personallity or looks? Posted: 4/18/2006 8:20:44 AM
There's plenty of good looking people out there, but if he's staring at me like I'm his next stalking victim then I'm outy.

Joined: 4/15/2006

Msg: 91 (view)

Not interested..would you like to be told?????? And if so, HOW? Posted: 4/17/2006 8:52:12 PM
I just want the guy to say "Not Interested" and don't explain it to me.

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How quickly do you get the HINT? Posted: 4/17/2006 8:50:41 PM
Two weeks or so from the last time they called.

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How do you know if your being used? Posted: 4/17/2006 8:50:05 PM
www.therulesbook.com

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Real Pics Posted: 4/17/2006 8:47:59 PM
Word! Some guy was messaging me and sent me an unclear modeling pic. The next pic he sent me was a much clearer and not so hot/precise pic. I was totally offended that he thought I would be so stupid.

Joined: 4/15/2006

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profile deleted for inactivity? Posted: 4/15/2006 4:07:58 PM
What did I do? my username was dalaurya. Please don't don't delete again! I'll do anything! I clean up my act!

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