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fivecats8

Joined: 4/15/2006

Msg: 74 (view)

Are you afraid of love? Posted: 5/22/2008 2:40:41 PM
I think we are all afraid in some way but mostly of falling and getting hurt. But Not love Remember loving and getting hurt are a part of life, enjoy the moment

fivecats8

Joined: 4/15/2006

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Gym vs. Excercise outside the gym. Posted: 6/17/2007 7:46:36 AM
I prefer exercising at home to Dvd's or on my elliptical trainer, I am the type that is a little self consious and really do not enjoy exercising well people watch you sweating and grunting lol

fivecats8

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Why Don't Women Pick Up Men On Dating Sites? Posted: 6/16/2007 6:30:52 AM
I think it all depends how you where brought up, I very very rarely have contacted a man first. I was brought up that a man should show interest in you first. It may be silly but I still go by it lol. It also depends on the persons profile as well as picture, attraction has to go both ways

fivecats8

Joined: 4/15/2006

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my mother with cancer. advice please Posted: 4/17/2007 5:08:14 AM
I am so sorry to hear about your mother, My advice is enjoy every moment you have with her. 16 years ago my mother was not feeling well and they sent her to the hosiptal for tests nothing showed up, then a week or two they ran the same tests all over. They had discover she had cancer throughout her whole body now, liver, bones, brain, when cancer gets into certain organs it spreads so fast and time can be very short. Once they found the cancer, and knew that there was nothing they could do she came home. The doctors had told us it could be days months or years, It took maybe 1 to 2 months before she passed away from it. Morfein ( not sure about the spelling here) will help to a point, as well as regular massages and most importantly just being with the person. There is not true way to prepare yourself, since there is no love like from a parent. I wish you all the best and if you ever need someone to talk to message me.

fivecats8

Joined: 4/15/2006

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Falling asleep during a BJ Posted: 4/16/2007 4:43:51 AM
OMG hahahahahhaa this is so not funny but it is, wow. I am not sure who as the problem, but i am thinking it is him. If it makes you feel bad then do not do it again until he can learn to keep his eyes open and not fall asleep on you.

fivecats8

Joined: 4/15/2006

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Home Exercise DVD's Posted: 4/16/2007 4:25:31 AM
when you order from beachbody there should be coupon codes inside with the dvd's if you do not have any and are ordering then message me on my profile and i will give you one of mine. Turbo i love now that i actually have the moves down, it will take a few tries before you get it right. Turbo Jam i have the Ab Jam, Lower body, 3T, 4 Cardio, Fat burner (which is a 20 minute high impact )when you do not have the time to do a longer workout.

fivecats8

Joined: 4/15/2006

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Home Exercise DVD's Posted: 4/15/2007 4:25:44 PM
Oh i am still thinking about ordering the hip hop abs i have not yet. I have 7 dvds of turbo jam so i am thinking when will i find the time to do that as well, but i still want it

fivecats8

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2nd worse date in the histroy of dating....and i'm dead serious! Posted: 4/15/2007 6:04:49 AM
Wow hahahhahahahaa, i am sorry to laugh but that is way to funny. But i would suggest for now on you meet the person for a few drinks or coffee for a first meeting. The first date should be considered after you have already met and know that there is an attraction there. Myself will never meet someone for the first time for dinner, make it something simple and if things are going well then suggest that you make your date alittle longer if you are enjoying yourself. So chin up have a good laugh about it and keep on dating.

fivecats8

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how can you tell a women that all you want is sex but that you do keep an open mind??? Posted: 4/15/2007 5:36:07 AM
Say it right from the start, be honest. She may be looking for the same, everybody on here seems to be looking for something different...

fivecats8

Joined: 4/15/2006

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I have a honest qustion and you cant laugh k Posted: 4/14/2007 4:49:29 PM
No, you should be very proud of yourself, wait until you are ready and never let anyone pressure you. You'll know when you are with the person you want to be with for the forst time married or not.

fivecats8

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Home Exercise DVD's Posted: 4/14/2007 8:26:15 AM
I check out the Hip Hop Abs on Ebay and actually for that one it is more expensive i think because it is also US prices but the shipping is more, i think $10, so i think i might buy it today but from Beachbody, since i have the 10% off, anyone ever need a coupon code let me know i think i have 7 and is i order today then i will have more .

fivecats8

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Home Exercise DVD's Posted: 4/14/2007 5:22:24 AM
I also found i did not get the moves on Turba Jam until after the second workout, but know that i have woohoo talk about sweating. When i ordered my Turbo Jam from Beachbody, i was able to select the dvd's that i had wanted and the one's i did not. Also they have the Wowy. com to log onto for your progree and actually i think it is funny if you want any other information from them on eatting, recipes etc the want you to pay to be a member (which i am not willing to do).I looked for the Hip Hop Abs on Ebay a week or two ago and did not see them. I'll have to check it out again. Best of luck in your workouts i hope they work well for you.

fivecats8

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Home Exercise DVD's Posted: 4/12/2007 4:20:22 PM
I have not used the weighted hand gloves either but i figure they have to be better then holding onto my 2 lb weights well my hands are all sweaty lol, they are not a bad price either $15 US

fivecats8

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Home Exercise DVD's Posted: 4/11/2007 5:01:49 PM
What did you think of the Hip Hop abs? I want this but i do not want to buy something i might not use Once you order from beach body your dvd's should have a 10% discount coupon in them which i am sorry i should have given you the code to one of mine before you ordered. I have all turbo jam and have lost oh 6 inches from my waist and thighs as well as 15 pounds since Jan I use to have Pilates but i found i was not flexiable enough and kept pulling muscles in my neck when i had to put my feet above my head (just can't do that one lol) I also had Tae Bo and well i guess i was punching the air to hard because again i was always pulling muscles So know i stick to Turbo Jam which i love and my elliptical trainer By the way did you order the weighted hand gloves? and if so do you like them?

fivecats8

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How many of you have show members I viewed them turned off? Posted: 4/11/2007 5:38:48 AM
I have turned mine off, for the reason that if you view someones profile you are not always interested but have decided to read their profile and look at the pictures.

fivecats8

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The hips and thighs are killing me and I need help: Posted: 4/6/2007 9:59:55 AM
Hhahaha you are going to love the Turbo Jam i want to order the Hip Hop abs but am unsure what do you think of it? I need high energy and i find i get that from turbo jam but that hip hop abs really has my attention also

fivecats8

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Ever met a sexual God/Goddess? Posted: 4/5/2007 8:50:32 PM
Yes, i have and honestly i think i saw god at the time lol wow

fivecats8

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The hips and thighs are killing me and I need help: Posted: 4/1/2007 3:12:41 PM
I have to agree wit the healthy eatting to a point, yes we should all eat healthy but unless you are going to change your eattin habits forever start out with exercise ans see what happens. Myself i eat fairly healthy but am not willing to be a health nut for the sake of getting smaller, so i started out with exercise alone and do it 6 to 7 days a week anywhere from 1 hour to 2. Make sure you have cardio as well as some strenght training to tone. I do not know alot about this so it is only my opinion on what is working for me. Since Jan i have lost 13 lbs from exercise alone. Do what you think is best for you long term

fivecats8

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The hips and thighs are killing me and I need help: Posted: 3/30/2007 4:15:20 PM
Really i am not a huge exercise person myself but try the Turbo Jam video's it is cheaper to buy them at beachbody.com if you buy certain packages you get your weighted hand gloves and tubing for free. This is something that i actually look forward to doing everyday, it is some aerobic kickboxing in it as well as some dance moves fun music. I think i bought all 7 of the dvd's but have only worked out with 4 of them so far, until i get fit enough to go full out. Check out the dvd's it might be something you like as for your shape look at the ab jam and cardio well

fivecats8

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The hips and thighs are killing me and I need help: Posted: 3/28/2007 4:48:54 AM
I have the exact same type of shape as you I just started this in Jan and am seeing results which is keeping me motiveated. Try Turbo Jam they are dvd's that you do at home, cardio as well as lower body with resistance bands, if buy chance you do decise to do this and it is worth it do not forget to buy the bands lol.

fivecats8

Joined: 4/15/2006

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Super Fudge Brownies Posted: 3/10/2007 4:51:46 AM
You are very welcome are they not the best? More like fudge then a brownie and they melt in your mouth hehehhehehehe enjoy

fivecats8

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exercising at night Posted: 3/8/2007 7:11:13 PM
I am the same way and i have read from a doctor a fitness specialist that the reason for this is usually a low blood sugar count and this is why some people feel dizzy exercising in the morning. It does not matter what time you exercise but you should avoid it at midnight. You will not burn anymore calories at either time of the day, exercise to the time that suits you best

fivecats8

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Super Fudge Brownies Posted: 3/8/2007 7:01:57 PM
OMG YUMMY hehehehhehee 6 oz unsweetened baking chocolate 1 cup salted butter, softened 4 large eggs 2 cups of white sugar 1/2 cup all purpose flour 1 tbsp of vanilla extract i cup of semi sweet chocolate chips Preheat oven to 300F. Grease an 8 x 8 in baking pan combine unsweetened baking chocolate and butter in a med saucepan. Melt over a med-low heat, stir conatantly until pieces are almost melted. remove from heat and stir until smooth. In a large bowl, using an electric mixer on medium speed, beat eggs until light yellow in colour - about 5 minutes. Add sugar and blend on low until throughtly combined. Add vanilla and melted chocolate to egg and sugar mixture. Blend on low speed until smooth. Add flour and mix thoroughly. Pour batter into greased pan. Smooth surface with a spatula, and sprinkle with chocolate chips. Bake on the center rack of oven for 45 - 55 minutes. The batter should set and a toothpick inserted should come out clean. Do not over bake cool at room temp. cover and refridgerate for at least 1 hour cut serve chilled

fivecats8

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Homemade crackers? Posted: 3/8/2007 6:44:03 PM
Sesame Cheese Thins 2 cups shredded old cheddard cheese 500 ml 1/4 cup butter softened 50 ml 2/3 cup all purpose flour 150 ml 1/2 tsp baking powder 2 ml 1/2 tsp paprika 2 ml 1/4 tsp salt 1 ml 2 dashes tobassco sauce 3 tbsp sesame seeds 45 ml cream cheese and butter in a large bowl until smooth and creamy. combine flour, baking powder, paprika and salt. Add to to cheese mixture along with hot sauce. Using 2 knives, a pastry blender or your fingers, blend mixture until it resembles coarse crumbs. Turn out onto a lightly floured board and knead lightly to form a dough. Shape dough into a log about 9 inches long and 1 inch thick in diameter. Roll in sesame seeds, press seeds firmly and wrap in waxed paper and refridgerate until firm 2 hours or over night. cut dough into 1/8 inch or .05 cms slices arrange on baking sheet. Bake for 8 - 10 minutes or until the edges are lightly browned. Serve warm or at room temperature These are best the same day they are made. I hope this helps some although there is no wheat I like mine with alot more tobassco sauce

fivecats8

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So how mature was your break up? If it was at all. Posted: 3/4/2007 6:49:50 PM
It was mature, we remain friends after have been together 9 1/2 years. We were totally different types of people he was a partyer and i was not, so we drifted apart. I wish him all the best by just not with me but someone else hehehehhee.

fivecats8

Joined: 4/15/2006

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what has to be for you to stick around Posted: 3/1/2007 7:39:19 AM
There are a few things not just one 1.trust 2.honest 3.respect 4.chemistry

fivecats8

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Is oral sex cheating? Posted: 2/16/2007 8:08:10 AM
Yes it is lol, it is a sexual act is it not. Sex is a pleasure thing and oral sex as well as any other form of foreplay is cheating.

fivecats8

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A Few Extra Pounds Posted: 2/14/2007 3:51:25 PM
Hmmm they might be putting a few extra pounds because the only other thing to put is big and tall and well they might not be. But if you have seen a picture of them then what does it matter, if they like themsolves for who they are and you are not interested then say so. Did you notice some people put athletic and do not look it at all, well i would assume they put that because they are athletic and play sports, some say fit and have a few extra pounds but they are actually fit. So who are any of us to judge go for your type and tell the rest you are not interested and you do not have to be rude about it

fivecats8

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Is It Cheating If Its Only Online???? Posted: 2/11/2007 5:42:21 AM
Absolutely cheating in my opinion. I know there are alot of people who do this and to me that is just wrong you are in a relationship with someone why on earth would it not be cheating? It may not be physically cheating but there are many forms of cheating. This is one of the reasons why people have a hard time trusting, if they are honest with their partner and the other does not mind (to each his own)

fivecats8

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Images not showing up issues here...[Read the OP] Posted: 2/5/2007 5:21:37 AM
hmmmm this does not seem to work for me, i do not know computers all that well 24.226.10.193 i do not have a window popping up asking anything

fivecats8

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Images not showing up issues here...[Read the OP] Posted: 2/4/2007 1:16:59 PM
i can get the first half but am unsure how to get the part after browsing and entering the http://

fivecats8

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Image not showing up issues here... Posted: 2/4/2007 9:29:35 AM
this is a stupid question but where do i find the run button to click on?

fivecats8

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FAQ - Image Problems / Instructions to Upload Posted: 2/4/2007 7:50:04 AM
Hello i am trying to upload a few new pictures but the browse area is not even showing up under the image section why is that?

fivecats8

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CHEESE AND BROCCOLI SOUP Posted: 12/17/2006 6:24:58 AM
Good advice but i do not like cream yuck lol, so i have to use more cornstarch to make it as thick as i like it you are right on the cheese seperating

fivecats8

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CHEESE AND BROCCOLI SOUP Posted: 12/16/2006 5:53:31 AM
Dragon Fire I would think you could use any type of soft cheese go to a deli and see what they have, if you find something please let me know

fivecats8

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PEANUT BUTTER BALLS Posted: 12/11/2006 5:32:39 AM
No do not melt anything, just throw it all in a large bowl and mix it well with your hands. Once mixed well and in 1 inch or larger size ball roll in icing sugar. You will be amazed at how good they are and how much everyone likes them

fivecats8

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PEANUT BUTTER BALLS Posted: 12/10/2006 6:29:25 PM
hahahahaha himmicane you are to funny but yes these are yummy i have heard i look like her but no not in my eyes, i am better looking lol (just joking)

fivecats8

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PEANUT BUTTER BALLS Posted: 12/10/2006 3:20:12 PM
easy and fast no bake recipe Everyone who has tried these love them in a large bowl mix together 1 cup of peanut butter 1 cup of rice crispies 1 cup of icing sugar 1 cup of chocolate chips 3 tsps of butter mix well with your hands until everything sticks togather well then roll into 1 inch balls then roll in icing sugar and put into freezer, keep frozen until day to serve

fivecats8

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Chocolate Macaroon drops Posted: 12/10/2006 3:11:42 PM
dash of salt 1/2 cup of evaporated milk 1 1/2 cups of chocolate chips 2 cups of sugar 1/2 cup of margarine 3 cups of rolled oats 1 1/4 cup of sweetened coconut Mix the first 5 ingredients in a pot and melt, once fully melted add the remaining ingredients. Mix together well and with a spoon drop on a cookie sheet topped with wax, make cookies about 1 inch round and thick and top with a 1/2 of a cherry. Put in fridge to cool then eat or freeze

fivecats8

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CHEESE AND BROCCOLI SOUP Posted: 12/10/2006 2:25:26 PM
Oh i forgot garlic salt to taste enjoy

fivecats8

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CHEESE AND BROCCOLI SOUP Posted: 12/10/2006 11:55:26 AM
This is a great soup and the kids love it as well 1/4 cup of butter or margarine 1 onion diced 4 cups of chicken broth ( i use the premade) 1 package of velveta cheese cut into cubes ( freeze of a 1/2 hr and it will cut better) 1 head of broccoli cut into small pieces 2 cups of milk 3 tsps of cornstarch desolved in hot water saute diced onions in butter, sautee until translusant add chicken broth and broccoli and boil until broccoli is slightly tender add cubed velveta cheese cook until fully melted add milk add cornstarch mixture Stir until it thickens If a thicker soup is desired then add more cornstarch and water I like mine alot thicker so i usually triple the cornstarch If you are watching your waist line this is not the soup for you unless you are looking for a treat

fivecats8

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Shortbread Cookies? Posted: 12/9/2006 8:16:49 AM
Store them in the freezer, honestly they are melt in your mouth good

fivecats8

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Carrot Zucchini Bread Posted: 12/9/2006 8:15:17 AM
1 cup of carrot and 1 cup of zucchini sorry about that I also forgot to mention lightly grease your loaf pans and the lightly flour them this will stop it from burning

fivecats8

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Shortbread Cookies? Posted: 12/3/2006 6:38:58 PM
These are melt in your mouth short bread, my mother use to make them all the time ENJOY 1 lb of butter 1 cup of fruit sugar 1 cup of rice flour 3 cups of flour folded in roll out place on a ungreased cookie sheet Bake at 300 for 10 minutes

fivecats8

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Carrot Zucchini Bread Posted: 12/3/2006 4:01:36 PM
3 eggs 1 tsp of salt 1 cup of oil 2 tsps of cinnamon 2 cups of white sugar 1 tsp of baking soda 1 tsp of vanilla 1/2 tsp of baking powder 1 cup of grated zucchini, unpeeled 1/2 cup of chocolate chips if you like 3 cups of flour instead of zucchini and carrot i have also used wild blueberries and raspberries In a large bowl, beat eggs, oil, sugar and vanilla. Add grated zucchini and carrot. Combine dry ingredients and add to zucchini mixture blend well. Add chocolates chips. Pour into 2 greased loaf pans. Cook at 350 for 75 minutes - check starting at 50 minutes since ovens vary Can be frozen

fivecats8

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Wierdest Second Date! Posted: 10/5/2006 7:18:52 PM
hahahahhahahaa omg that is the funniest thing i have ever heard. The dogs twinkie made you feel you had to leave Sorry for laughing but funny date

fivecats8

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can you trust some one once they cheat? Posted: 9/22/2006 9:18:26 AM
Absolutely not, trust is a major thing in a relationship once it has been broken i honestly think you will never trust that person again. But that is only my opinion

fivecats8

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Returning gifts when the relationship ends Posted: 9/12/2006 6:08:02 AM
First of all GROW UP he paid for the tickets they are his, you said he asked you to hold to them. Secondly he should not have to pay for what is his. You are an adult start acting like on, women like you give us nice ladies a bad name. Give back what is rightfully his

fivecats8

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3 dates and you're out- a mans rule.. Posted: 9/11/2006 8:04:16 AM
Hahhaha well if this is true then i will be single my whole life, so i hope it is not true. If a man respects you and likes what he see's in your personality i am sure he will be willing to wait.

fivecats8

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Find a date at 43 and 230 pounds! Posted: 9/9/2006 5:31:24 AM
sum1reel i think that the choices you have given are very rude. Seriously Never change for anyone, you are who you are and we are all meant to look and be different and that is what makes us attractive. In the end my friend looks fade and we are hopefully with the person we have choosen for more then what they look like, Personality is the most attractive thing not you size.

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