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desert_wolf

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Thank God I didnt meet him Posted: 2/18/2007 10:56:06 PM
sorry to hear about what happened to your computer, but just remember, not all computer nerds (I.E. Moi) are so evil :P

desert_wolf

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Yes Posted: 2/18/2007 10:52:11 PM
be very very careful, but at the same time follow your heart. You don't need to feel obligated to love the guy if you don't feel the same way yet. Just tell him you dont feel that way yet and, you still need to feel out the relationship. but whatever you do don't say "I like you too" that has to be the worst feeling in the world if you're on the other end of that statement. and from personal experence, love has no set time limit, love is love, and it comes when it pleases, but it's up to you to keep it alive when the time comes.

desert_wolf

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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage? Posted: 2/18/2007 10:48:09 PM
I don't think there should be any set standards. really whatever happens happens, because if you push the issue either way, Its just going to end up to be the big elephant sitting in the middle of the room.

desert_wolf

Joined: 4/15/2006

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Do i push the issue???? Posted: 2/18/2007 10:45:54 PM
Seriously, Just ask him. if he gets offended by the question, obviously he has something to hide. consider it a test.

desert_wolf

Joined: 4/15/2006

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Random Question Of The Day Posted: 10/30/2006 10:53:27 PM
The Life and Times of a Dork. New, Unabridged, and Uncensored. Self explainitory.

desert_wolf

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DO WE MEN EVER FALL IN LOVE...... AGAIN? Posted: 10/30/2006 10:26:36 PM
Ive been through the same as you have, and whenever you get your heart bruised, you always feel the same. like youll never be able to love again. But in time it will pass. you just need to dust off your hat and get back up on that horse, cowboy. i know how you feel, but life is too short to mope for too long. I learned that a long time ago. Were all here for the same thing (If i may have faith in the general population of POF) Were here to find love. period. Its like that old Aaliyah song, if at first you dont succeed, dust yourself off and try again.

desert_wolf

Joined: 4/15/2006

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Do men ever fall for BBW? Posted: 10/29/2006 1:44:32 PM
I have noticed quite a bit of difference in attitude between someone that you might say is a bbw and someone who is slender and attractive. Attractive women many times allow their outward beauty go to their head where a bbw is more down to earth and easier to live with. Very well said WRM and besides that It feels so much better when you wrap your arms around one. BBW is usually what I'm attracted to, but if the personality is right, I could fall for anyone.

desert_wolf

Joined: 4/15/2006

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What have you NOT grown out of? Posted: 10/29/2006 9:14:29 AM
Lets see, What have i not grown out of... Well I still sit in front of the TV on saturday mornings with a big bowl of fruity pebbles, the big difference is, I dont wear my ninja turtles jammies while doing so. Yo-Yo's. I used to have big dreams of becoming a Professional Yo-yoer, Ive long since outgrown the dream, but I still like putting on a show at wal-mart or the grocery store when i see a group of kids. it reminds me of how fascinated i was with that, when i was in their position staring up in disbelief saying "Wow, I want to be as good as him one day" its one of my passions, and I believe that if you introduce kids to somthing like that early, its less likely theyll get into trouble later. I still get nervous and shy around girls that i meet, i guess i'll never outgrow that. well, I do, but its on a person to person basis. and last but not least, Comic books. i have scads of them.

desert_wolf

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McDreamy or McSteamy? Posted: 10/29/2006 8:34:11 AM
Well, I don't really have an attraction to too many tv stars/actresses, but one has stood out to me, just because she tears down all the walls and boundries on what the media considers beautiful, and that woman is Camryn Manheim. so to be on topic, Camryn Manhiem Vs. Amy Lee. I would def. pick Camryn, but at the same time i wouldnt mind having Amy around just to hear her sing.

desert_wolf

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Do you feel cheated? Posted: 10/29/2006 8:16:36 AM
I just recently was left by the woman that promised me that we would stick it through, for thick and thin, through better or worse, no we werent married but we might as well have been. but as soon as i lost my job, and had to move back to Baytown from Houston, thats when she decided to distance herself from me, and finally shatter everything that we worked toward. I don't want to go into detail, because the wounds are still fresh, but I do feel cheated. This woman...I used to believe i couldnt live without her, now i've found out that i'm stronger than i thought, and i WILL move on, and i WILL find that someone thats just for me. Tootsie, I can't say that i know how you feel, but i do have empathy for you. Just hold your chin up Tootsie, and everyone else that feels theyve been cheated. today is a new day. and i say the only day i will give up on love, is the day that i'm cold and buried. who's with me?

desert_wolf

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random question of the day promisses Posted: 10/29/2006 7:52:59 AM
If i make a promise, thats that, unless i am physically unable to, I'll go through with that promise, unless i really cant, and in that case I'll make it up to the person at a later date, but first i would let them know i couldnt do it.

desert_wolf

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Anyone from Texas HERE ??? If so introduce yourself Posted: 10/29/2006 1:35:41 AM
Baytown/Houston here. sending love to all of my fellow Texans.

desert_wolf

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god i did not not realise i was such a fool Posted: 7/12/2006 3:13:34 PM
check out http://www.419eater.com/ this place, you will find all you need to know about nigerian/russian scams, and what to do to avoid, or even get back at them! you should read the "hall of shame" youll feel nice and cozy inside

desert_wolf

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What do you guys think about distance? Posted: 7/7/2006 6:42:07 AM
I wont do it, I have before and let me tell you my previous "engagement" with a LDR... We will just call this woman Cassie for the sake of a random name. Cassie and I met in a chatroom, we hit it off really well, we talked on the phone often, we got on cam for eachother, we called eachother before we went to bed, I was in Texas, she was in Maine. well, this went on for a year and a half. our relationship was at an all time peak, i loved this woman with all my heart, well...ive visited her randomly before, taking a plane to Maine and showing up at her door with flowers, ect... Well, this time i decided to surprise her with somthing a bit different. so, i went to the Jeweler and picked up a $3000 engagement ring that i had been saving for, and bought plane tickets. I fly down there...I was so tired and aggravated, from the 12 hour lay over, but i had a feeling it was worth it. boy was i ever wrong. i rang the doorbell, and who answers the door? her "ex husband" in nothing but a robe. Cassie comes in behind him and says "who is it, baby" she sees me, andher face turns pale white. I calmly say through clenched teeth "I dont think i'll bother you two, i'll just head on home now" i stayed at a Hotel for the 2 weeks i planned to spend with her, and took the plane back, as soon as i got back, I took a picture of the ring, then got a refund of it, took a picture of the $3000 (all in 20s), photoshopped them together, put a caption at the bottom, saying: plane tickets $250 Engagement ring $3000 Imagining the look on your face when you realized how bad you Fxxed up: priceless

desert_wolf

Joined: 4/15/2006

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what the...?!?! Posted: 7/7/2006 6:20:07 AM
Sorry to say it, but...if anyone else is like me...youll be hard pressed to find a guy willing to be with you, if youre still that friendly with this guy.

desert_wolf

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what do you think of my profile ? Posted: 7/7/2006 6:15:53 AM
Riley is right, smile, loosen up, take another pic, man. you look like youve been tacked to that fence behind you. real stiff.

desert_wolf

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Interacial dating accepted by Blks & Whts only, how come? Posted: 7/7/2006 5:43:10 AM
who cares what the color of your skin is, if someone else does, well poo on them. Just remember, Were all black when the lights are off.

desert_wolf

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Is it love or lust? Posted: 7/7/2006 5:18:29 AM
Lust is when you can say what you think love is.... Love is when you can never find the words to describe it...

desert_wolf

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transportation Posted: 6/26/2006 11:29:06 AM
like i said, anything is possible if you take the time and effort. thinking youll find that one person who fits perfectly in your "lifestyle" is foolish. youll never find someone who is everything you want them to be. heres a few words of wisdom my sister told me a few years ago. "quit trying to find the man/woman of your dreams and maybe youll find someone real." which coincidentally was said on the show of "8 Rules for Dating My Daughter" one of my favorite sitcoms.

desert_wolf

Joined: 4/15/2006

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transportation Posted: 6/26/2006 11:11:41 AM
I witnessed a car accident that missed me by 6 inches and happened 3 feet from me, metal, glass and plastic pelting my truck as i saw the little nissan AND the driver get mangled by a ford F-150. I saw the woman face down on her steering wheel bleeding from her head, with her baby daughter in the back scared to death and crying her eyes out. from that day, Ive had Anxiety attacks behind the wheel. NOW! would you call that Effeminate?! its pathetic how shallow and selfish some of you are. you say you dont want to feel like a Cheuffer all the time, but its just fine for the roles to be reversed. and to the woman saying shes got a job, single mom, ect... you do have a valid point, but single parenting is NOT gender specific. one of my best friends is in the same situation, and i asked him, "is it manditory for a woman to have a car in your eyes?" is answer was no. you know why? because its so hard to find a woman that can love you for WHO you are, instead of what you have, or how much money you make. to tell you the truth... I would never date a woman that makes having transport is manditory, can you guess why? because it shows where that woman's mind is. in her pocket book. maybe not so in certain situations, but in most, a man not having a car, CAN be worked around. but most of you wouldnt know about patience would you?

desert_wolf

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Surrounded by over weight women in Houston Posted: 6/22/2006 8:13:25 PM
Thankfully there are plenty of intelligent compassionate men in Texas with good taste enough to choose real women to date and we do not have to tolerate putting up with some pipsqueek with a bad case of littleman syndrome who has to belittle others to make himself look good. AMEN SISTER! and like ive said before to people with the OP's attitude, anyone can lose weight but youll always be an @$$hole! outward Beauty fades with age. a beautiful body and/or face does not a wife make. Love is love, and beauty is more than just a pretty face. if you dont take the time to get to know someone for WHO they are, then youll be single for a long time to come.

desert_wolf

Joined: 4/15/2006

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The Problem With Thongs Posted: 6/20/2006 10:19:03 AM
i have to agree with you...thongs just look painful. i'd sooner see a woman in black lace PANTIES than a thong anyway. it just leaves little to the imagination, in my opinion, if youre going to wear a thng you might as well wear nothing under there. its not a big leap from it anyway shrug

desert_wolf

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i need answers Posted: 6/7/2006 5:21:29 PM
sorry to say it, but you were just as at fault in rushing it as he was....

Desert_Wolf

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What's up with young guys coming on to older women? Posted: 5/19/2006 6:46:13 AM
i guess you would say that I am part of that 1%....ive had the experience of a "lean young lass" and let me tell you, it was nothing but drama....

Desert_Wolf

Joined: 4/15/2006

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What is a witch? Posted: 5/19/2006 6:22:46 AM
my Goddess, MysticRogue, will you ever just stop, and maybe let a few other people post for a change? i'm absolutely sick of having to skip over your posts to see a bit of what OTHERS have to say. and I will leave this thread, with this to say. 100 years of research will never ever compare to the knowledge gained of a year of actual practice. get your hands dirty, and do somthing...the facts matter little if thats all they are.

Desert_Wolf

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Would you say yes to a drug test before before advancing in the relationship? How about a lie detect Posted: 5/19/2006 5:30:40 AM
i can understand your point on the HIV issue...MAYBE the herpes issue, but the last time i checked, Poligraph tests, nor drug tests can detect STD's but hey, i may be wrong. Technology advances every day. the point is...what is a lie detector test going to prove if you dont KNOW you have an STD? how about this one? its called an STD battery. now those, i will and i have agreed to take it may hurt like a bi***, but is better than unknowingly transferring AIDs, Syphillis, Ghonorrhea, ect. to your partner, and vice versa. theres nothing wrong with asking your partner to get tested, but its generally more polite and much more comforting if you go in with your partner also. Capiche? Poligraphs and pi$$ tests is just paranoia materialized in my opinion.

Desert_Wolf

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Would you say yes to a drug test before before advancing in the relationship? How about a lie detect Posted: 5/18/2006 12:41:39 PM
I know that all too well...I'm a patient man, Val...but i have a feeling that ive met my One...i just have to meet her again...i need to make absolutely sure :)

Desert_Wolf

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What is a witch? Posted: 5/18/2006 12:34:08 PM
What is a witch? hmm...i think a better question would be, what is NOT a witch. i think that question may clear up a few misconceptions about the Pagan, and more specific, Wiccan religion(s). A Witch is not: always a Woman (and male Witches are not called Warlocks, nor Wizards) always a practitioner of Black Magicks (An Ye Harm None, Do As Ye Will) a hermit, nor a recluse (most of the time) a servant of satan someone who rides on a broom at night an old person someone with ratty old hair and a wart on her nose a mean spirit now, a witch is many things. but not all witches are all things, so I can say another better question is, what can a witch be? a Witch can be: a healer a lover someone very close to you your brother your sister your mother a teacher a co-worker a witch can be many things. Witches are people too, and there are more around you than you know. Blessed Be.

Desert_Wolf

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Would you say yes to a drug test before before advancing in the relationship? How about a lie detect Posted: 5/18/2006 12:06:14 PM
well said Val, well said, indeed!

Desert_Wolf

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Are no men intrested in a heavy woman? Posted: 5/18/2006 11:57:43 AM
Hon, let me put it into simple terms for you. I am just wondering why a man can not see beond they weight and go for some personality. If a woman is good looking weight has to be an issue? Lets change this around a bit. I am just wondering why a woman can not see beyond the color of your skin and go for some personality. If a man is good looking race has to be an issue? all i did was change around a few words. if turning someone down because of their weight is shallow...turning someone down because of their race is equally shallow :)

Desert_Wolf

Joined: 4/15/2006

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ok heres one for the ladies Posted: 5/18/2006 11:36:38 AM
um...werent you the guy thats been saying youve been single for 10 months? (wheres the confused smiley?) I think the title of the thread is "i wish i could find someone soon" or summin like that...is anyone else thrown a bit off by this?

Desert_Wolf

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Prefer Not To Say in profiles Posted: 5/18/2006 11:34:21 AM
hmmm...i can understand, because some dont consider marijuana a drug...

Desert_Wolf

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Why do you read Forums? Posted: 5/18/2006 11:31:17 AM
me? to tell you the truth...I get bored and i try to make myself useful, and maybe give some advice...always good to help.

Desert_Wolf

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Are no men intrested in a heavy woman? Posted: 5/18/2006 11:25:54 AM
ah, but alas, I doth not posess yon coveted skin of ebony. it doth leave yon original poster to a single choice, lest mine eyes decieveth me.

Desert_Wolf

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Are no men intrested in a heavy woman? Posted: 5/18/2006 11:05:03 AM
Edit: ^^^^^hey i stand corrected. i think the topic is oficially useless, since the question...err...in question has now been answered. yes. men (yes plural, myself included) are interested in a heavy woman... Quoted from OP's Profile: Ok let me get this out there so that I waste anybodys time here. I am attracted to black mature men well, there you go...maybe youre missing out on everyone else thats not black....maybe your title should read "Are no Black men interested in a heavy woman?" all i can say is fish come in all colors...youre not going to find anyone with a narrow field like that.

Desert_Wolf

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Why can't guys think of interesting things to do on dates. Posted: 5/18/2006 10:53:02 AM
If a guy ask you out and he cant come up with something creative its because the only thing he is thinking of is how he can get in your pants. He doesnt want to take you out. If he did want to take you out and was the one that asked then he should know what to do and where to go. Gee the internet is a useful tool when finding things to do. And since they all have them to talk trash to us on then they can also use google to find a place to take you on a date. If he cant as much plan a simple date then he surely couldnt plan a life with you either. following that general Idea celina, i would have to assume that every single woman that I have dated just wanted to REALLY get into my pants? i mean...they didnt come up with any ideas at all! or is that a double standard? i have an idea...why not assume that all men have secondary motives, and maybe trust what theyre putting forth? i mean...stupid idea, i know, but maybe...if a guy cant think of what to do....maybe they just cant think about what to do! what a concept. heres a thought too...you know, it would be so nice for a change, if I wasnt solely responsible for thinking of somthing to do. maybe if we put together somthing from both of our heads, maybe it would be twice as fun. Women are intelligent too, so show some intelligence! Dont make a man always choose the Venue! also think about it this way...if you dont like the place, you have no one to blame but yourself...after all...you didnt want to make the decision ;)

Desert_Wolf

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Prefer Not To Say in profiles Posted: 5/18/2006 10:30:22 AM
well, you see...i can understand if youre between average and "a few extra pounds" or some other reason why it might be there, but atleast describe yourself a bit in your profile...or you might have someone like me come across your profile thinking you have confidence issues

Desert_Wolf

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What's up with young guys coming on to older women? Posted: 5/18/2006 10:19:42 AM
i second that question....what would be your generalized answer for that one?

Desert_Wolf

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Would you say yes to a drug test before before advancing in the relationship? How about a lie detect Posted: 5/18/2006 10:09:43 AM
you see...theres where we conflict on things...you dont trust unless you have a reason to, I trust until i find a reason not to.

Desert_Wolf

Joined: 4/15/2006

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Prefer Not To Say in profiles Posted: 5/18/2006 10:05:20 AM
i will never date a woman that has "prefer not to say" in their physical part of their profile. and its not because of the reason you might think. to me looks dont matter. they never have, and i doubt they ever will, but what does matter to me is Confidence. i will never, ever, EVER....date a woman with no confidence in herself, becaue you have to spend most of your time to not make the one youre with feel like total crap about herself. i mean...if you have to spend so much time on inflating someone self-esteem...how much time do you really have to get to know the person for god sakes. that brings me to my summary...if you "prefer not to say" in your profile, you have absolutely no confidence in who you are....be proud. if youre a big woman, say so! do you really want to date the jerks who think big is ugly anyway? its better they know up front, then to actually meet the guy, and have him get up from the table and leave. online rejection vs. real life rejection? i prefer online...atleast here, you dont have to hear them talk about you behind your back.

Desert_Wolf

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Would you say yes to a drug test before before advancing in the relationship? How about a lie detect Posted: 5/18/2006 9:56:14 AM
A drug test? a lie detector test? how about no? And i'll tell you why. believe it or not, i have nothing to hide. in fact, i could TELL you all you need to know. I have a brand new concept for ya. its called trust. if you dont have it, what do you have??? do you hear that? listen carefully.... no, really, its the sound of the answer. thats right! its the sound of NOTHING. if you dont have trust, you dont have, never did have, and never will have a damn thing.

Desert_Wolf

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What's up with young guys coming on to older women? Posted: 5/18/2006 9:33:22 AM
no dear girl i do not have the brightest bulb but it is what it is i'm a dreamer too, so i can sympathize with these deprived depraved horny "old hags" (quote from a 20 year old who was thinking out loud in my presence) i generalize cuz it's pretty obvious welcome to the rat race sigh okay... first of all....Dear Girl? take a closer look please. and as far as being a dreamer...i think that has nothing to do with it. what i do think is...you need serious help. get in touch with reality. HOLD THE PHONE!!!! YOUNGER MEN LIKE OLDER WOMEN??? yes, some do, you might even say some have a preference for it. so, please be kind enough to take that blanket off of me, and speak for yourself?

Desert_Wolf

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What's up with young guys coming on to older women? Posted: 5/18/2006 9:28:13 AM
I disagree...i thig Dolly was a perfect reference. after all, we are talking about making decisions at an early age, not following through with them, or much less, being successful at it. the fact of the matter was...she made her decision at 18 years of age. and as far as being born to sing, ive been told many times that i have a beautiful voice, ive even been in a few bands, and even traveled to Dallas and Ft. Worth to do a few gigs, but i knew that wasnt what i wanted to do. i may have been born to sing, who knows. I just decided not to make a career of it, although i could have followed in the footsteps of Dolly, or then again i could have fell flat on my face. As Dolly could very well have done also. I believe everyone is born to do somthing, whether it be singing, playing football, or repairing computers...everyone has SOMTHING they are adept at. Dolly just found hr thing. as everyone may find theirs. but in the end its all in the decisions you make at the end of the day. some may come earlier, some may come later, i dont believe age has anything to do with anything. its about experience. an to answer your question....computers do become obsolete, computer languages die off, and parts may short out, but computers are ever evolving, just as i am ever learning. computer science is a key example of "when you think you know everything, that just shows how ignorant you really are"

Desert_Wolf

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What's up with young guys coming on to older women? Posted: 5/18/2006 9:02:35 AM
oh but Contraire, Madam Delytful. someone that young can in fact make a decision of what they want in life that early...not likely, and maybe very seldom, but these things do happen. for instance...at the age of 8, Dolly Parton sang in Knoxville, at 11 she had her own radio show, and when she graduated highschool, at the age of only 18 she looked into being a great singer, and she never looked back. look where shes at now. sounds a bit like my life...at the age of 8 I had my first computer...a Tandy, i strted programming on it, learning DOS commands. but mostly playing games. since then i have become increasingly fascinated in computers. Now i have a Bachelor's degree in computer repair and programming, an A+, a MCSE, CCNA, and a CCNP certification. and i'm looking to go back to school for another Bachelor's or maybe even a Master's. at this current juncture ive been offered an Internship with Exxon, but ive had to put that on hold to take care of my disabled father. the internship would require me to move. and thats my $0.02

Desert_Wolf

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What's up with young guys coming on to older women? Posted: 5/18/2006 8:29:07 AM
chicaboom....I have to say that was a very generalized, and if i may add, very ignorant statement. In Psychology, this would be called "Projection"...this means, projecting your thoughts on someone or everyone else, you in effect thinking that everyone thinks the same as YOU do.

Desert_Wolf

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What's up with young guys coming on to older women? Posted: 5/18/2006 8:08:01 AM
“Old people are old-fashioned...” LOL another voice of inexperience making silly generalizations just because they aren’t old enough to know any better. I could tell you stories that would curl your toes hehehe i could tell a few stories myself, but, Alas, a Gentleman never tells of his experiences.

Desert_Wolf

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What's up with young guys coming on to older women? Posted: 5/18/2006 8:03:31 AM
Whats wrong with a younger man, if the maturity is there? I would consider myself to be alot more mature than my cough peers (if i can really call them that) alot of my age group is interested in the proverbial "Wine, Women, and Song" but, i guess i'm different...not any better, mind you, but different. I'm looking to find that ONE and work from there. its not that its not possible for me to pull the one night stand, or have five or more women on call...I just dont find it very satisfying. I get much more pleasure (Emotional, Mental, and otherwise) from finding one woman, and building from there. so, you cant say all of us are little boys. Besides...there are alot of us that DO know what we want of life, and want to find someone else that has their goals in line also :) Reporting from Baytown Texas, I have been Daniel.

Desert_Wolf

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would you date a man ??? Posted: 5/12/2006 4:12:02 PM
What if a man was still livng with his mother, because he was taking care of his father with Parkinson's disease, and also had a job? (I.E: Me)

desert_wolf

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New Here but what's the problem? Posted: 4/27/2006 1:10:48 AM
eh, you get used to it, myself i always message who i can, and if i dont get a responce i dont take it to heart...if they dont want to message me back, theyre not worth my time anyway,....thats the way i look at it.

desert_wolf

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Ever had this happen to you? Posted: 4/16/2006 11:34:13 AM
Have you ever had such strong feelings for someone and then find out somthing sickeningly ugly about them? for instance...there was this girl that i went out with for a while, we started falling for eachother, she asks me out of the blue one day "have you ever slept with a black woman?" i was taken aback, i didnt know what that was about, so i answered truthfully, i said yes. she then proceeded to tell me that if a white man/woman sleeps with a black woman/man, then he/she is tainted for life. i was apalled, i became sick to my stomach because i was falling in love with a Bigot and a Racist. needless to say i broke it off... but have any of you experienced anything like this before? my mind is still reeling from this.

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