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Posted: 8/6/2006 1:43:44 AM First of all I want to address those who have done the name calling of the children. You do not know whether the children were born in or out of wedlock so to call a child anything, you should be ashamed of yourself. I have thre children. Been single for five years. They all have the same father and were born after we got married. Secondly someone spoke about being educated or needing to get educated. Most women worked while their spouce went to get their education and when it came time for tje women to go to college, the men left. This was not my case however. I am getting a degree and have one year left. I was suppose to start college after the children started school. And finally, being divorced is hard enough. Some women their are many different reasons why we are all divorced. It could have been the other spouce was cheating, abuse or drugs. People even grow apart from each other. If a man is not wanting to date a women with kids, that is his choice. He may not be ready for kids or is the kind of person who wants to be able to get up and go when ever he wants to. I do find it funny how some of the men who do not want to date a women with kids have kids of their own. They just do not have the kids 24/7. For those ladies out there who are getting down about this subject, don't. The men who do not want to date women with kids are not the ones you want anywys. They are not being mean or selfish, they just are set in their ways and do not want to change.  wtxmamma Joined: 4/15/2006 Msg: 22 (view)   How do you find out what a girl is really feeling? Posted: 4/19/2006 10:22:35 PM I would just let it be. If she has not one out with you again as of yet, then she is probably not going to. I have a golden rule and that is not to date anyone from work or who comes in to my work on a regular basis. It makes it hard to see the person if things do not work out.  wtxmamma Joined: 4/15/2006 Msg: 4 (view)   How do you find out what a girl is really feeling? Posted: 4/18/2006 6:48:58 PM Honey either she is try not to hurt your feelings and say that she is not interesed or she is not sure about the whole thing. Sorry but my bet is the first. You need to ask if she wants to be just friends and go from there.  wtxmamma Joined: 4/15/2006 Msg: 279 (view)   Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?... Posted: 4/16/2006 3:38:12 PM My son told me to go to Chuckee Cheese and get a dollars worth of tokens to mail to him. Let him know that he can play games there and not with me. The guy is almost 40 and you would think that he would be to old to play games. Hey you live and learn, I learned not to trust so easily.  wtxmamma Joined: 4/15/2006 Msg: 276 (view)   Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?... Posted: 4/16/2006 11:32:24 AM I know just what you are tlking about. I met a man online and we began to date. We saw each other everyday and salked on the phone for hours everyday. We had been making plans to go camping and me meeting his family next month. He "got sick" so I did not see him but we talked on the phone every night for a couple of hours. The weekend came up for us to go camping abd he was still sick so i cancelled the trip and we stayed home. Again, not seeing him all weekend. On Saturday night we tlked for a couple of hours. (until after ten o'clock) the last things he said was that I made him happy and he would call me Sunday night. Sunday came and went with no call. Monday i called he two times and left messages. He did not return messages. This was almost two weeks ago. Still have no idea why he stopped calling. At my age, you would think I would not have to put up with games from men. Why do men play games, I could not tell you. They are not the only ones who do, but we are all suppose to be adult. If people want to play games, go to the football field or baseball field and do it there. Lets leave the emotions out of play.  wtxmamma Joined: 4/15/2006 Msg: 231 (view)   ILooking for someone who wants to party in Plano/Frisco Posted: 4/15/2006 11:35:16 PM single Abilene mom here. Looking to meet new people.   Show ALL Forums