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 Author Thread: A brother like that
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
A brother like that
Posted: 1/6/2008 12:07:13 PM
I think your sweet story confirms my belief that all Canadian men are truly sweet :)
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Why Did The Chicken Cross The Road...
Posted: 1/6/2008 11:59:30 AM
funny wottacatch!!
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 240 (view)
 
how dirty are you??
Posted: 1/6/2008 11:53:36 AM
My fine is 635.60 GBP... which means it is about twice that in $USD.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 27 (view)
 
When is being a stalker ok?
Posted: 1/6/2008 11:34:52 AM
I would say your friend is headed for huge trouble. If he approached me after a long day of work in my car park- I'd kick him in the groin before running away.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 274 (view)
 
WHY ARE WOMEN OVER 30 A FAILURE WHEN THEY ARE SINGLE AND CHILDLESS?
Posted: 1/6/2008 11:24:19 AM
No matter what your age, family size, income, religion, sex, or race... you are only a failure if you truly think you are. No one else is qualified to judge you.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 884 (view)
 
so, why are you still single?
Posted: 1/6/2008 11:21:01 AM
If a guy wants to know why you are still single, just ask him why he wants to know?
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 146 (view)
 
Are you lonesome tonight?
Posted: 4/6/2007 4:57:21 PM
I can't say I'm lonesome- my kids surprise me more often than not by still wanting to hang out with me (they are all teens). I can't really say I'm lonely- I have a lot of friends and family that truly care about me and they all show it. I guess what I miss by being single is the simple connection between a man and a woman who are in love. I don't have that personal, deep connection with a man and I would like to have that in my life.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Does this really turn women away?
Posted: 3/31/2007 11:20:26 AM
It would only turn me away if you never talked about anything else. I like geneology, but I like to talk about so many different topics. It doesn't matter what your hobbies are, so long as they are not the only thing you can talk about. Be diverse, and you won't ever have any problems with most people, men or women.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
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would you date a person that used foul language all the time?
Posted: 3/30/2007 5:31:10 PM
I went out with a guy who not only cursed almost every other word- he thought it was fun to insult people and it was embarrassing. I don't even talk to him now. I prefer being around people who can articulate with words that anyone can find in a dictionary.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
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Why when women get over thirty their more horny?
Posted: 3/28/2007 5:43:22 PM
It's because we are no longer shy about what we want.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 135 (view)
 
Do you still go to the Clubs to Dance
Posted: 3/28/2007 5:41:01 PM
Oh definitely!! I go to dance clubs with my friends and dance til they close the place down! :D As for Hammer pants- I never wore those... I wear a dress or a skirt.. doesn't matter if it's a slinky number or a short tight one, I can still dance in it!
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
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Raising Teenagers.....Help!!
Posted: 3/18/2007 7:32:28 PM
I have decided it is much more fun, and a heck of a lot easier to raise 3 two-year-0lds than it is to raise 3 teenagers.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
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teenage son's
Posted: 3/18/2007 7:31:29 PM
My boys were that way- and now that they both have discovered girls.. they have discovered soap. Their room... the older one is much neater (16 yrs) and the younger one (13 yrs) is still a slob.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 162 (view)
 
does getting older scare u?
Posted: 3/18/2007 7:22:33 PM
of course life changes.. if it didn't I'd be dead. And of course I like getting older.. again if I didn't, I'd be dead.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 862 (view)
 
what is everyones opin on tattoos?
Posted: 3/18/2007 7:17:38 PM
My opinion? I don't want one. Too much hassle.. got to worry about getting a disease from the needles, there's the "wrinkled when you're old" factor, and they fade. Plus, they are too expensive to get rid of when you get tired of em.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
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Is there an appropriate way to handle a woman who calls
Posted: 3/18/2007 7:15:25 PM
You didn't pay attention to what I said.. I said I meet people in person. I just don't have a flexible schedule to meet whenever they want. I asked you, did you let her have the option of setting a time to meet? Or are you less flexible with your time as well?
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
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Is there an appropriate way to handle a woman who calls
Posted: 3/9/2007 5:05:59 PM
I am one of those busy women. How about this? She really does have a lot on her plate. I have 3 jobs, and 3 kids, a mortgage, a car payment, and a school loan. I'm single- no other adult in the house (although my kids are all teens now). But- I still find time to make friends IN PERSON. I just don't get to hang out with all of them all of the time. I even juggle my female friends because they don't always get along with each other all of the time.

My point is this- she might actually like you, but she just has a lot on her plate and her schedule is filled up in most places. I have been on several dates in the last few months because he was willing to meet me for lunch near where I work. Or he is willing to go out on a weeknight for a few hours to meet- weekends are harder for me to give to anyone. Are you asking her to meet you only when it's convenient for you? Or are you leaving her the option of setting the time?
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Would you be offended if he ask you...
Posted: 3/9/2007 4:50:04 PM
I guess it depends on whether or not I'm attracted to him in the first place. And how soon after first meeting he asks.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 108 (view)
 
What's with the low-balling?
Posted: 2/21/2007 7:20:58 PM
I forgot we had a rating system.. sorry- I never voted on that thing before. Run for President- then I will vote! :)
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Do women have to be lonely at the top?
Posted: 2/21/2007 7:00:14 PM
As for the mentioning of women lowering their voices in the corporate world- I doubt it's so much to be like men or unfeminine.. but more because a calm voice (not high pitched or shrill) will garner more attention because you have to pay attention to hear it better.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Do women have to be lonely at the top?
Posted: 2/21/2007 6:56:15 PM
These are all great thoughts! I am finding that the more I want to do well at work- the more time I must devote to it and the less time I have for my family and much less free time to socialize. (because in the short run- I don't mix my social time with my children unless I feel it's with someone who will be around for a while).
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
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Do women have to be lonely at the top?
Posted: 2/20/2007 8:20:29 PM
ubkobalt- thanks for your thoughts on this
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
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Do women have to be lonely at the top?
Posted: 2/20/2007 8:02:00 PM
A growing theory in the female "locker room" is that female executives have a harder time finding men than their less corporate climbing counterparts. This question is for guys- thinking about the women in your life who are strong, successful and ambitious- do you find them as attractive as the women in your life who are more willing to just follow the crowd? There's an old wives tale (belief) that men of lower IQ's are better in bed than their more intelligent counterparts- do you find this to be true of women? Why is it that statistically speaking, women who earn more (or are more successful) have a harder time finding/keeping a mate?
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 197 (view)
 
Guys over 30...do they even exist?
Posted: 1/30/2007 7:15:29 PM
You are in the wrong state.. but don't move to NJ.. keep heading south... FLA is where they are. In fact, we have em in all ages!
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
is it only men who suffer from beer goggles?
Posted: 1/15/2007 8:38:20 PM
I had a guy tell me (on the second meeting) that I was BETTER looking than he remembered.. and he was blind drunk when we first met. The possibility here is that your guy felt the same way about you on your second meeting, and felt intimidated by you.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Confused Men
Posted: 1/15/2007 8:25:49 PM
It's time to blow him off and move on. He needs you for your ears.. if that isn't what you want then do something about it.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Madly in love after... 3 dates??
Posted: 1/4/2007 4:07:36 PM
In my experience- anyone who drops the "L" word in such a short time has low self esteem, is co-dependent, and usually controlling to the point of jealousy and force. Run.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 171 (view)
 
Girlfriend Honks
Posted: 1/4/2007 3:48:55 PM
are they wet honks or dry ones???
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 164 (view)
 
Girlfriend Honks
Posted: 12/30/2006 4:21:40 AM
clickit3- I have met him and he is a good guy- hysterically funny too :)
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 238 (view)
 
Would you let your man shave you?
Posted: 11/17/2006 4:50:05 PM
yes- if he made it far enough to be "MY MAN" then that means he is trustworthy and I would definitely let him.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
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If you had no STD's,Would you consider dating someone who did?
Posted: 11/17/2006 4:48:55 PM
No- I can't say that I would. I hate too much risk.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 136 (view)
 
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 11/15/2006 3:44:38 AM
It's rape if you tell the other person to "STOP" and they don't. Because you are in the same bed, and it has always been consensual in the past- it follows that you can assume it is again. However, once someone verbally says "STOP" the directive must be followed because now it can no longer be assumed to be consensual. Perhaps- until you get to know someone (and sleep/wake with them regularly) you should wake them with a kiss first.. proceed from there to more amorous morning tidings...
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 107 (view)
 
women & bras
Posted: 11/15/2006 3:33:19 AM
Like digirl23.. I put mine on and I reach around back and fasten up.. (then I adjust the "girls") I don't need to see what I'm doing. My fingers are good without my eyes on em...lol. Front clasp? I haven't had one of those since I was in high school. It was ok- but not adjustable.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Christmas shopping?
Posted: 11/13/2006 10:28:18 AM
to: wpg chick 84... you should give him a patch kit this year!!! lol.. that doll might need some patching after all those years (and kids!)
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
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Christmas shopping?
Posted: 11/13/2006 10:26:02 AM
To Douglasinmotown.. if you are offended by Christmas, then why do you add to it by posting in this thread? And I'm willing to bet that your "Atheist" self DOES accept Christmas presents.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
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Profile Review Please
Posted: 11/13/2006 10:14:32 AM
"blatant misusages"? alot of your words are kinda girly... maybe you should just go for direct and simple.. and add a few photos of you in a more human color.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
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Previous Relationships...do they ruin the chance for another?
Posted: 11/13/2006 10:04:14 AM
If you fear that you will repeat past mistakes and can't or won't move forward in your life, then it's time to seek professional help. You have to let go of your guilts and move on. Everyone makes mistakes, everyone has some regrets now and then. You shouldn't forget them because in so doing you will have lost some lessons. But you cannot let them prevent you from trying again, or moving on. Learning from your mistakes is one thing, but letting them rule you and interfere with your life will ruin you.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Why do women always try to redecorate a man’s home?
Posted: 10/31/2006 6:21:38 PM
Funny!! What did you do with all the froo froo when they left??? I'm guessing you kept it because they tossed your stuff and now that's all you have. :P
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
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stinging after peeing
Posted: 10/31/2006 6:15:51 PM
geez.. if you can't afford to go to a doctor, go to a state run clinic (and yes, they are everywhere... look in the govt. pages of your phone book). It could be any number of things, none of which are good,or clear up on their own. And none of which can be diagnosed on here.. good luck to you and your gf.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
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Movies, music or books?
Posted: 10/10/2006 6:24:20 PM
Truthfully.. I need music in my life. I like reading as well, just don't seem to have time for it as often as I used to.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 878 (view)
 
Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met?
Posted: 10/9/2006 6:45:55 PM
not really OP.. I think you are actually falling in love with your perceptions.. which are mostly fantasy. Most people do this until they meet- and when reality is introduced they fall out of love just as quickly.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
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The 'F word
Posted: 10/9/2006 6:39:46 PM
been there.. dumped the guy.. moved on
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
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What to do with that 'useless bag of skin' ?
Posted: 10/9/2006 6:35:15 PM
when you said you felt responsible for her after your breakup, does that mean you were stalking her??
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
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Bald gentlemen
Posted: 10/9/2006 6:07:35 PM
You are good looking with the bald top- I wouldn't change it if I were you :)
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Would you continue to date a man if . . . .
Posted: 10/3/2006 8:30:41 PM
Luckyone.. I stand by my post. Deal with it.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Would you continue to date a man if . . . .
Posted: 10/3/2006 8:23:07 PM
"Obviously she still has feelings for him and even though he says that there is no chance of them getting back together, there is still that red flag.. " the only red flag here is your apparent lack of trust. You need to figure out why you refuse to trust HIM.

Perhaps you should only stick to dating guys who have exes they still adore and get along really well with.. maybe then your relationship will have a rosie ending.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 138 (view)
 
Men love naked women
Posted: 10/3/2006 7:42:01 PM
Is this question for real???
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 75 (view)
 
Do you still go to the Clubs to Dance
Posted: 9/24/2006 4:53:43 AM
MOST DEFINITELY!!! :D I like dancing in the clubs- it's a great way to let off some steam from a long week, and have a good time with friends.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 105 (view)
 
what personality trait do you hate in a man?
Posted: 9/24/2006 4:40:29 AM
I really hate it when a guy gets really grabby in public- grabbing my breasts, etc.. is he trying to tell everyone that he "owns" me by doing this?

Constant cussing is also a trait I dislike. I can see cussing if you drop something on your toe- but it doesn't really belong in regular conversation.
 Sinkist
Joined: 4/19/2006
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How do you get over a man?
Posted: 9/23/2006 2:14:36 PM
Everyone who enters my heart is often still in there, even if I'm angry at them. I don't fall in love easily, and I don't fall out of love easily. It's ok to keep people in your heart and want to move on. The human heart has a capacity greater than simply loving one person... just look at all the family values we have developed!

OP: if you really want to develope a dose of amnesia- tequila works pretty well, and vodka.. but you have to consume large doses, and the effects tend to wear off eventually and all memories can return instantly.

Or... you can try writing down everything in a letter and then burning it- you can call some great girlfriends and have them come over for a girls night (they will have to bring ice cream too)- or you can bury yourself in work, activities.. anything to keep your mind busy elsewhere. It will work- will take time but it will work.
 
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