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Joined: 4/19/2006

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no sex..how long? Posted: 8/3/2008 10:19:41 AM
my ex husband was like that too. when we got together things were great every night, then it slowly changed to 1 time a week. then 1 time every2 weeks. this i could except relationships change and so does that aspect. it got to the point it was 1 time every 2 months which drove me crazy then once were were in foreplay and he whispers im not interested. i kinda knew then it was over. he just giggled about it later and said he wouldn't do that that would be mean. about a month later after months with no sex we had it and 2 days later he asked for a divorce. right after that not 2 weeks we had sex and he wanted to remain friends with benifits i told him no he didn't want me during the marriage he wasn't getting it after the marriage was over. the feeling of lonliness, undesirability,the blow to my self esteeem its a form of abuse. it is a total control issue. didn't take me long to get over the self esteem nor the lonliness once i realized it wasn't me. dude its not you for sure

Joined: 4/19/2006

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They love you, you don't love them, you love them, they don't love you? Posted: 6/11/2008 1:52:26 PM
im in the middle of a seperation where i married a man i loved and come to find out after 1 1/2 years of marriage he never loved me. we are splitting up as friends but its never a pleasant feeling to know. gl everyone. if anyone ever figures this out let me know :p

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They love you, you don't love them, you love them, they don't love you? Posted: 8/29/2006 9:12:07 AM
bucsgirl sometimes it is balanced at first then later they tell you they don't love you but expect you to keep telling them and to be happy with how badly they are treating you. lol. i know im getting out of one of those right now

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Msg: 74 (view)

My therory on big guys(no not talking about his*****) Posted: 6/20/2006 9:32:32 PM
i'm a big woman i go for eyes. i used to go for the mr. perfects but then one day i decided to meet a guy i knew was a big boy and when i say big i mean it in every since of the word yet when i kissed him there was definetly a spark. it showed me that looks aren't everything that the attraction can be there even if the are not perfect of average or anything else

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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 6/20/2006 8:53:34 PM
i always check the profiles myself. don't get me wrong i'll look at a nice chest but give me eyes and a nice smile and ya have won me. sexy bodies aren't all they are cracked up to be. at about 50 they start to sag anyway..lol.

Joined: 4/19/2006

Msg: 34 (view)

Anyone ever thought about quitting? Posted: 6/20/2006 8:26:28 PM
i have been there dude. it gets easier as time goes by. don't give up. i'd start out really just looking for friends and get to know ppl that way. if you meet someone you might really be interested in then great if not you still have good friends to talk to and help you clear your head and get your feelings out into the open.

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Msg: 68 (view)

why do women run when they find out your a single dad????? Posted: 6/18/2006 7:49:01 PM
it really is almost the same thing with single moms. i have alot of guy friends who are parents but don't have custody and they think single moms are great. personally i myself would rather date a man who has kids. he knows how to deal with children and understands the love and attention children need. its even worse for me because i have a child with add and a child who is autistic so not many men wanna be tied to a woman who has a child with a severe disability. or guys will state they can't support my children. it always makes me aggravated because i have supported my children since they were born and never asked them too. if the man wants to its one thing but they are my children and my responsibilty. dude just hang in there somewhere out there is a woman who like me would rather have a man who has children too.

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Single dad,a little lost Posted: 6/12/2006 8:48:31 PM
i would say you shouldn't have to pay. keep all your reciepts. everything you do. and have her show her expenditures in court. my brother-in-law was able to get his support lowered due to his ex- wife spending all the support on herself and none on the kids.

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It's what's on the INSIDE that counts Posted: 5/22/2006 8:16:22 PM
i agree. im a big girl. i don't look at the outside all that much. its not what keeps me warm at night in the dark when it doesn't matter anyway. looks don't love me the person within loves me. and bobbijoe just keep your spirits up. there are lots of guys out there who like larger women.

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