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 Author Thread: Do I tell guys I may be about to file a bankrupcy?
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
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Do I tell guys I may be about to file a bankrupcy?
Posted: 12/8/2011 11:40:25 AM
How would that be taken if I tell them I may be filing bankruptcy very quickly here?
On a first date, 2nd, or maybe wait a month or two? Which makes more sense, or might be the kindest thing? How is bankrupcy seen in dating?
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 141 (view)
 
Hate mail
Posted: 11/28/2011 5:52:12 PM
"haha.. i had a guy write me .. and tell me that i was "too much of a princess".. and that i would suffer thru many useless relationships.. then die ALONE.."

You mean you are a custodian princess? ROFLOL>
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Are Some guys getting dates all over the place?
Posted: 11/28/2011 5:44:56 PM
OMG, that is so funny and is the opposite of what I'm looking for. Maybe they should put a physical type that say, "has no abs."
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Confused? What to say, angry over circumstances?
Posted: 11/28/2011 5:40:42 PM
So if you ended up starting to really get over an x, and then suddenly get thrust into a job right by them, so you have to see them on the way to work on the same block or something? How would you handle it? I wanted to marry him, he's only wanting FWB, I won't even do that because it's too painful. Now well, I'm confused and have to see this person? I got a temp job for christmas and it turns out to be directly across from his work? I want to run like hell, and am basically praying the temp company comes u with a random excuse regarding the company not wanting as many temps or something because they are staying very slow???
It's easy in a circumstance to want to run, but I've not worked in 14 months, and this job only goes 3 more weeks.... I just didn't think I could get into such a strange situation, it's not like it's avery small town I'm living in or anything. And the temp job company is 20 miles away from our work locations?
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
teeth or no
Posted: 11/24/2011 6:23:38 PM
False teeth are the least of many women's problems when it comes to dating men. Given they can have so many behavior problems, drinking, drugging, cheating, etc....
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Do women just go for guys with six pacs?
Posted: 11/24/2011 6:20:17 PM
I see chubby teenage boys and young men on busses with serious wives and girlfriends all of the time. It's a major unrealistic assumption around the tiny percentage of the population that you are making that those are really the most desirable men. I think men who spend too much time at the gym might be developing the only skill/attribute they have which is not that appealing to me.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
the Meet Me feature...what do you think of it?
Posted: 11/24/2011 6:17:20 PM
I'm rarely in any way attracted to any men who click meet me and I get a message sent to my email. I have all but given up on opening those messages at all. *Chemistry seems so unique and in the eye of the beholder.* I'm not finding that part of the site effective for dating.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
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Is saying you're cold sometimes a trick to get close?
Posted: 11/24/2011 6:15:22 PM
If I don't like the guy, I'd not kiss him, but it's also possible a girl could feels he owes you something because you are trying to keep her warm.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
How to flirt long distance?
Posted: 11/18/2011 10:16:07 PM
I'd send her flowers!
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 21 (view)
 
What does a Woman mean by???
Posted: 11/18/2011 10:14:59 PM
She wants you to work for her. But I think she's gone too far and is actually playing power and codependent like games. She may be a "borderline personality disordered" person. I'd look up those characteristics.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 14 (view)
 
What do I do?
Posted: 11/18/2011 10:12:50 PM
I personally use the let's just be friends line when I think it's kinder than saying(or I'm avoiding guilting myself for saying), "I'd rather not bother calling or seeing you ever again," but usually I don't all or bother contacting them ever again anyway.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
25-30 woman not dating younger
Posted: 11/18/2011 10:08:18 PM
I personally find that younger guys usually have young kids for me to raise or they still want them, and I'm done with the whole idea and I never will have them.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 71 (view)
 
Home Nudity?
Posted: 11/18/2011 9:56:40 PM
I once worked where they made doughnuts. For the first few days I found it cool to get the rejects and take them home by the box full to eat. But after a while it was all sugar, coloring, and flour in different mixes. I was satiated..................... need I say more. I've never wanted doughnuts the same way since.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 148 (view)
 
advantages of casual sex vs. premarital abstinence
Posted: 11/18/2011 9:42:47 PM
My sister raised her son as if it were the 1950's. I'm so sad, he's ill equipped to date in this modern world, he's intimidated by a girl who tries to rub her body against him in the slightest during a dance. He is ashamed and repelled by what should be a great gift to humanity and will be all confused over it I bet his whole adult life. As our other family said, he may either marry to have any at all, and marry young, even someone he barely knows, just so it's social acceptable for his parents to even try it !!!! Or he may become the 40 year old virgin.....So sad, when the stigmas of shame over something that makes children and brings one of the biggest joys to a person's life that are largely instigated by the Catholic/Roman/Protestant churches still control so much of the world.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 112 (view)
 
Do women think nice guys are bad in bed?
Posted: 11/18/2011 9:19:31 PM
I had a nice guy once when I was not over my x, and we didn't exactly get to a home run, but from what I did experience, he was damn awesome in bed. I miss him sometimes..
*Go Michael*
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 56 (view)
 
What to do when your libido goes out the window
Posted: 11/18/2011 9:17:33 PM
In Chinese medicine if your yang energy, or Qi(essence in your body) is lacking, you may lose it. Try eating more peppers, ginger, cinnamon, fennel, and wasabi in your meals.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
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Hum? Is there a flirting section on this site?
Posted: 11/18/2011 9:15:03 PM
I'm confused this is a dating site, but in the forum there is no actual flirting forum. *cough,cough* Can I vote that one gets set up? Maybe, a flirting for F w/ F, Fw M, M w M or something if there are bisexuals, as I've seen some women listing wanting women and coming up on my searches. And I wish we had a live chat/flirt group 24 hours a day as well.




No confusion. There are 2 sections to POF, one is the POF Dating Site and the other which you are in now are The Plentyoffish Forums

Read The Following
Posting Guidelines
Detailed Forum Posting Rules

There is only one flirting section and that's using your POF eMail or POF Instant Messenger, or any of the features on the Dating Site - the forums are not for flirting or chatting, but rather for discussion. (See rules above)

If you require answers to how the site works - go to the Plentyoffish HELP and Suggestion forum or use the HELP link.

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 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
They make a date, then quit speaking to you?
Posted: 11/18/2011 9:01:30 PM
We've not exchanged numbers.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
They make a date, then quit speaking to you?
Posted: 11/18/2011 9:00:59 PM
We've only been talking about 7 days, so he went silent almost as soon as we set the date and time 3 days ago.

I found we were both very into the same sorts of studies in general and were both intellectual, but he might be scared off by some of my spiritual studies, and he said he was solidly in belief of a Christian Tri-whatever it is, Body Spirit, etc.... and I admitted I do not follow that stuff at all anymore or believe in it. Maybe I'll just refocus on non-religious types that are for sure non-religious, as I think he said he was non-religious and then brought that up almost immediatly when we spoke.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
They make a date, then quit speaking to you?
Posted: 11/18/2011 8:36:11 PM
So a guy and I made a date, and figured out the details, then he went radio silence two days ago. Do I show up on the date location at the appointed time or not. He hasn't responding to two emails now in two days?
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
This is the story about a girl...
Posted: 11/15/2011 10:57:10 PM
I'd just offer your number/email addy. and say you're leaving, so that she may stay in touch if she'd like. Then see how that comes across.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Unexpected romance, now i dont know what to do. Long Read!!!
Posted: 11/15/2011 10:33:16 PM
I'd let her read THIS post you wrote, exactly as it is!
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
need support
Posted: 11/15/2011 10:28:07 PM
Your dating picker is broken, I'd go to a therapist first.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Need fashion help...
Posted: 11/15/2011 10:21:07 PM
The color of blue jeans matters. If you put a dark colored shirt with a pale colored blue jeans it won't match.
If they are middle of the road blue jeans, you can usually get away with just about any color.
I'd just avoid all stripes and concert t-shirts. Stick with polos, plain decent T-s or Button down dress shirts(not PLAID).
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Do I qualify?
Posted: 11/15/2011 10:17:55 PM
Personally, I'm only rarely attracted to men with darker skin tones. It's just a visual thing for me.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Approaching in public
Posted: 11/15/2011 10:09:07 PM
I'm actually pretty shy myself. I do find it difficult to act open towards a guy so he gets a hint.
If I'm really desperate I just start babbling small talk or ask them the time.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Call me when you're ready...am I right?
Posted: 11/15/2011 10:05:52 PM
Eat what cake? If the other guy is not in the picture as well?
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Testimonials on the bottoms of profiles?
Posted: 11/11/2011 10:12:35 AM
So I see a testimonial on a profile, and well, all I can think is she's likely an x. And I don't want any references to nor photos to see of women's he's slept with before me. Its' actually a turn off. Now if I knew she was his best friend wife, that would be another story.
What would you think if you saw male testimonials below a girls ad?
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Should I give him-a no show a piece of my mind?
Posted: 11/10/2011 3:17:16 PM
I met someone and he stood me up.
I've not blocked him. Would think it's appropriate to give him a piece of my mind?
At least say, I think your choice of behavior was very rude!
Clearly I'm frustrated and angry, I then cancelled out on someone else because I don't want game players in my life wright now and it's like he dashed my hopes and I want to just quit dating for a while and I just hid my profile thinking I'll give up and take a month off over getting my hopes up and just getting let down by creeps like him or other weird game players who are clearly not able to do any kind of relationship but are on this site anyway????
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Do guys do FWB exclusive with girls?
Posted: 11/7/2011 5:57:30 PM
First, I know all about the whole Communism stuff, hilarious to have it brought up here.
Second, what if I found a FWB and we enjoyed ourselves for a year, no one would get hurt.
Who said it would have to be super temp?
I tried this with a roommate and he morphed into wanting super serious commitment and was a great guy but there were history issues of his past behavior(like being a dead beat daddy) I wouldn't live with. I think it's a sexual double standard to expect a girl to sit around just using her vibe for months on end cause Mr. commitment isn't around! It's 2011 and women now have the right to enjoy and persue sexual relationship and have their needs truly met in or out of a typical romance!
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Hoodie?
Posted: 11/7/2011 3:55:40 PM
A hoodie, I don't care personally, but it's the MC Hammer falling down but crack showing-pants that freak me out!
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 75 (view)
 
Do women have too many options?
Posted: 11/7/2011 3:53:07 PM
You are repeatedly picking a certain type. And it's a super picky type NOT a laid back type!
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Do guys do FWB exclusive with girls?
Posted: 11/7/2011 3:49:33 PM
I want serious, but while Mr. Right is not around, well I don't feel like going without forever and ever. "Craigs list, cough, cough" No never trust men from the CE section no I don't think so!
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Do guys do FWB exclusive with girls?
Posted: 11/7/2011 3:26:50 PM
I'm ideally willing to do an ibetween relationship exclusive FWB sitatuation. Should I say it openly on my site? Will me be so much less likely to committ to this sort of thing? Or do you think I'd mostly get players who are just seeking lots of Casual Sex?
I guess I'm just trying to be careful about trusting so I don't get into a jam if I try it.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 16 (view)
 
confused...
Posted: 10/27/2011 12:03:05 PM
Yes, even jobs that are for the public get put up and advertised like cops uniforms for sites like this or CL, I think it's super unprofessional an I'd be annoyed if I were their boss.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 11 (view)
 
What does it mean when a Guy asks you out..
Posted: 10/27/2011 11:54:05 AM
We had a long chat about this kind of guy just the other day, it's on another thread.
This is a form of a player, I won't tolerate! If they have inappropriate boundaries with other women who only supposed to be friends, they have i-n-n-a-p-r-o-p-r-i-a-t-e boundaries, you won't be the only woman ever in their life, this is how they roll and you mise well roll on out and find a better guy right now.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
What's the point?
Posted: 10/27/2011 11:49:50 AM
You do know you can report these guy for the things they say, that they are not private on this site? They can have their profiles deleted my mgt.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Please review my Profile
Posted: 10/25/2011 6:42:17 PM
I believe I don't have to accept unacceptable men to make anyone happy other than myself. I added a clearly dated recent photo. But no, I won't date men with young kids. And you are not going to force me to date H.S. drop outs/former stoners who only love sports and are Christian.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 22 (view)
 
How best should ask for a metrosexual type?
Posted: 10/25/2011 1:03:17 PM
CDN,

You said, Why not say " Im looking for a stylish guy, takes pride in his appearance, well groomed, likes manicures and pedicure and his idea of fashion isnt wearing a Nirvana or Stones T-shirt with Levi jeans and pumped up kicks?

Much more what I'm looking for. Honestly jeans are fine, the rediculous t-shirts are OUT.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 21 (view)
 
How best should ask for a metrosexual type?
Posted: 10/25/2011 12:59:55 PM
I guess I want a guy to lean way into the metrosexual style of living, so not sure I'll word that but I will for the future. I'm not into facial hair, dirty clothes, men who work on cars for a living(I'm chemically sensitive). I like to talk, to be with men who are really talkers and intellectual! Cerebral types!
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Guys Asking for Exessive Photos?
Posted: 10/25/2011 12:57:31 PM
So when men respond to my ad I frequently get this guy...

Guy X: Hello, how are you, do you have a photo?
(photos is in in ad, he's already seen full body shot in fancy party dress)

Me: Well, why don't we meet and get to know one another?

Guy: Sure maybe soon, um....Can I see more photos of you first?

*At this point I quit and block them and never talk to them again.

Is he

A. Looking for porn shots to use and wouldn't meet me anyway?

B. Fearful that at some point one of the shots will show I'm actually a BBW, which I am NOT in real life....

Anyone?
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Please review my Profile
Posted: 10/24/2011 6:09:09 PM
I'm not sure what message I'm getting across here in my profile to guys. Can a few interpret it for me from their perspectives? I just changed it from seeking long-term to just dating and didn't really rewrite it to focus just on having a good time. But I'm no longer(after so many failures to find men I'm super compatible on here) expecting to find the love of my life here. I am happy if I just date for entertainment purposes at this point. Maybe I should say that outright, I don't know.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 357 (view)
 
small breast appreciation
Posted: 10/24/2011 5:46:38 PM
I can name at least one sex industry career where it's an advantage to have less body weight to carry ones-self physically around by their arms on a pole and they make lots of money in spite of their flat chests.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 73 (view)
 
permanent chastity
Posted: 10/24/2011 5:42:42 PM
Are you gay? Why would a normal guy with normal testosterone and all the other right chemistry not want sex? I'm confounded!
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 41 (view)
 
Deepthroating help!!!
Posted: 10/24/2011 5:33:55 PM
I can understand and so should men if you have a reflex problem! Don't trigger it, take care of yourself.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Facials: Real or Porn Only?
Posted: 10/24/2011 5:16:06 PM
Once, and I thought I was going to be suffocated. Will never happen ever again.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 1 (view)
 
How best should ask for a metrosexual type?
Posted: 10/24/2011 5:01:26 PM
I if I used the phrase I just get 25 men asking me what it means, but if I describe a metrosexual no one replies to my ad at all. I'm starting to think that my type is simply not on this site and I should seek another.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 2893 (view)
 
what is everyones opin on tattoos?
Posted: 10/22/2011 7:50:36 PM
I'm almost 40 with multiple tasteful tats, and like them on men as well.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Love its 50 mile radius
Posted: 10/22/2011 7:45:15 PM
I was taught during my BA in Psychology the most predictive factor in who you marry is proximity to where you live.
 EasyPeasy72
Joined: 11/15/2009
Msg: 162 (view)
 
Do older men fear dating a woman with chilren?
Posted: 10/22/2011 7:43:30 PM
I've met men who clearly want instant families and you'd be perfect for them. Now it's just finding one, if that's what you want....
 
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