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devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 36 (view)

Things to do and NOT do on a date! Posted: 11/2/2008 7:44:40 AM
Not sure I agree with all that. all I say is. Be yourself. Treat the date like an old friend. An easy atmosphere and a bit of humour always makes a good impression. Oh, and smell nice!

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 209 (view)

why men run away when they see a pic Posted: 11/2/2008 7:42:39 AM
First of all, women run too! And why not? To pretend appearance doesn't matter is pointless. Call it shallow if you like, but when you realise what works for you, maybe you'll accept what works for others. They may miss out on a glowing personality. But on a web site, it all starts with looks, doesn't it?

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 37 (view)

Do you believe in fate????? Posted: 11/2/2008 7:38:49 AM
It's an illusion. Notice how it only works retrospectively. A romantic ideal, but wholly foolish. Sorry!

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 111 (view)

My boyfriend and I don't have sex. Posted: 9/13/2008 8:13:59 PM
One reply you received is ALL WRONG. I doubt it's a case of him not having respect for you. however, you have needs , and he has a serious neurosis! Speak to him about it and make sure you're both open and honest. If he can't step up, start watching porn! Soon enough, his jealousy or fear of inadequacy will either having him facing his fears or it'll help speed an inevitable,somewhat painful ending to your, (sorry to say) dull relatinship. good luck. Not an easy one!

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 232 (view)

Men who avoid attractive women?? Posted: 9/13/2008 8:10:08 PM
I am attracted to attractive women, inside and out. I cannot conceive a woman being TOO beautiful under any circumstances. Any such women reading this, I keenly await your message! LOL

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 35 (view)

Do you judge a woman before speaking with her on her star sign?? Posted: 9/13/2008 8:08:05 PM
I am an Aries too. I think Aries women are the best on the planet. As for being judged by your star sign, that is plain stupid! star signs are only a guide, and anyone judging someone on such flimsy evidence, in my opinion, is narrow-minded, ignorant, rude and unacceptable. You're lucky to have avoided him!

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 45 (view)

How many guys will wait until marriage for sex? Posted: 9/13/2008 8:01:50 PM
There are much more important things in a relationshop than sex. but to assume that SEX is something that can be addressed after marriage, I believe to be a big mistake in this age. I think it's wrong to make the whole issue of sex such a big deal. STD's, pregnancy and other concerns are minor, easily overcome concerns. but a poor sex life, for the rest of your life would be disasterous! Besides, like most men, I lke sex and would consider such a consideration wholly unacceptable. I wouldn't go elsewhere for the sex. I'd go elsewhere for a fiance!!!

Devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 104 (view)

Rape victims compensation cut because they had been drinking Posted: 8/12/2008 7:38:54 PM
How can a government institution allow its judgement be affected by how vulnerable a woman allows herself to be? Drunk or scantily clad, what does that matter? Any man who would CHOOSE to abuse somebody is dead wrong. Anyone entertaining the discusison of a women drinking too much, acting or dressing tarty or even flirting being tantamount to inviting rape is a DISGRACE! Any woman who feels guilty that she may have inadveryantly been responsible for what happened to her needs to listen to the sense written on this thread! No is No. Drunk or drugged is No. Scantily clad, ideally in heels is all good!!!! The law should protect the rights of everyone. But for rapists, bring them to me. I have a special kind of justice for them!

Devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

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Would you shop a fellow POF who was drunk and drove? Posted: 7/28/2008 2:45:51 AM
YES. How would you or even he feel waking up knowing a 6 year old kid and their father didn't make it home that day because you did nothing. Call the Police and tell him before he gets in the car. Do whatever it takes! Life's short enough. Let him kill himself away from your conscience!

Devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

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Is It Racist To Call A BMW A Black Mans Wheels?.... Posted: 7/28/2008 2:42:16 AM
BMW is the top selling brand in the UK, so to say Black Men crave them is obviously a stereotype. Stereotyping is WRONG. But we all do it and need to check ourselves as often as possible. That includes: "once you try Black, you don;t turn back". "Do you guys all have big****?", "You lot dance better than us." even if it were true, I'd rather not be given compliments based on the colour of my skin. [Why not dance with , then sleep with me first. I'd appreciate it more then]. Having said all that, humoour SHOULD allow people to drop the PC crap we all suffer these days. Know the context, know your audience and know the limitations. PS: ALl Nigerians know that BMW stands for "Be My Wife!"

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 127 (view)

i cant cum! Posted: 6/1/2007 7:31:27 PM
WHAT!! Why do you women let this happen? We men live by our ego's. Tell a man he ain't getting the job done and he'll do whatever it takes to be "the man". Believe me. Tell your boyfriend how you need it done and he will get it done. If not, lose him & give me a call! Incidentally, at your age, don;t despair. I have heard of women twice your age who have NEVER had an orgasm, with a man or by masturbating. You got plenty of time. Remember, with age, comes technique!!!

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 50 (view)

would you actually date someone you met on the internet? Posted: 6/1/2007 7:18:04 PM
Whether you meet at a bar, club, the shops, street, Internet or newspaper ad, the same rules ought to apply. After you've met and had a proper conversation etc, if the chemistry's there, you take things further. Why should the Internet be any different. All the suggestions that the Internet is a dangerous place ignores the fact that picking up someone in a bar is, in my opinion, potentially much more dangerous. As for judging those who date via the Internet, that's old-fashioned now. So many people do it, even though it is still somewhat taboo. Plus. If you're kinda ugly, get an ambiguous picture of yourself and win him/ her with your charm. What an opportunity. And you'd never get that in a bar without half a bottle of vodka down her neck, and that might get you arrested!

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 22 (view)

How to ask g/f to shave/trim her public hairs Posted: 6/1/2007 7:08:09 PM
If you can't be open about sex and other personal issues, you need to take a close look at the whole relationship. If, for now, you need to drop hints, tell her that when you're going down, you'd prefer not to floss at the same time!

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

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How long should good sex last? Posted: 6/1/2007 7:06:09 PM
When I was 18, I used the clock on my video and felt 20 minutes of intercourse was enough. Then I learnt about female orgasms etc and my world changed. Nowadays, from first kiss to last cuddle ought to be anything from an hour. If you have to do long division to hold off the inevitable (like I did when I was 18), then do it. Like Richard Pryor said: "You can tell when you've made good love to your woman, because she will go to sleep. If you finish making love and she wanna talk about computer components, you got some more f**king to do!"

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 87 (view)

***LONDONS 80s DISCO/PARTY NIGHT 5TH MAY 07*** Posted: 3/23/2007 7:04:27 AM
About time somebosy sorted out exclusivity. Anything less is pointless. Now I will definitely attend! And if anyone's coming down for the weekend, there's a couple of late night clubs, just walking distance away.

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

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do men like women that make the frist IM (move) Posted: 12/26/2006 9:00:53 PM
Who cares if the woman makes the first move? I think it's a great thing. I loke women with self-confidence, or a sense of advneture, or courage. Any man who doesn;t like that is old-fashioned and something of a fossil. Women should be free to express themselves exatcly as men do. Besides, I am tired of always being the one to make the first move [subtle hint].

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 33 (view)

Can't you tell when a girl is or isn't into you? Posted: 12/26/2006 8:53:22 PM
Sounds like you're blaming him for not picvking up on your dishonesty. You're playing shy worked at the time and he thought he still had a chance. No big deal. As for him getting assy when you said "let's be friends" LOL, well he's just a a***. In answer to your question, it isn't hard to tell, but some PEOPLE are what you might call die-hards and until you tell them, " I DON'T FANCY YOU", they can put it down to anything from a flu bug to your Great grandmother's religious beliefs. The truth may hurt, but it's always the best way. If a woman tells me she don't know. That means NO. If it's any different, she'll have to work to correct my asumption.

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

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Are Women More Critical Of Their Bodies...... Posted: 12/26/2006 8:48:21 PM
LOL. When I read the way some women describe their body-type on here, I think some need to be a little more critical! Having said that, I think women are far too critical. In my experience, however, what women are prepared to do about the things they are not happy about always falls short. If you want to lose weight, drink less alcohol, eat healthier, do exercise. Asking a guy to lie about the size of your butt is no solution. One final point. It's a pity men aren't critical at all. Most of us are a real state and think it shouldn't matter. We take advantage of the fact that women are not as affected by physical changes as we men are. As a man, I am gratfeul, because I can be lazy too. Haven't exercised for 2 years!

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 29 (view)

why guys rush Posted: 12/26/2006 8:42:16 PM
What you call rushing won't be rushing to the woman who has the right chemistry with that guy. As for being obsessiveness, men & women are both capable of that. I think that comes from insecurity. Sad really, becasue it's a big turn off for most. If you really cared for the person, it wouldn;t be interpreted as obsessive.

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 47 (view)

Why do most guys go on what a women looks like Posted: 12/26/2006 8:38:35 PM
What a daft question! WE ALL Go on what people look like. At first anyway. Call it shallow if you like, but it's natural. Do you think Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp would be as successful if they looked like Winston Churchill? IF the guys aorund you only like thin blondes, then they're idiots. Beauty comes in all shapes and looks. Somehow though, I don;t see any of them turning down Ciny Crawford or Halle Berry if they got the offer. Know what I mean?

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 174 (view)

Oral sex the first time you make love Posted: 12/14/2006 8:22:25 AM
What!!! Oral sex is an integral part of love making, or whatever you choose to call it. If you're gonna have intercourse, be sure you give oral too. And that goes for women too! What on earth would the point of holding out be?

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 41 (view)

why do men call us women birds? Posted: 11/22/2006 1:08:50 PM
you have got to be joking! There are nicknames or everything. I ut wish women had more for us men. don't take offence. Calling a woman a 'bird' is no different from calling a man a geezer, or a phone a dog.

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

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Do you do drugs? Posted: 11/22/2006 1:01:33 PM
I dont care if people do drugs, though I don't do ANY. for me it's the same with alcohol. I dont drin but don't care who does. However, the idea of of being off your face doesn't appeal to me at all. I ca have a great laugh without stimulants to let go. Why people feel it's okay to get pissed out their minds but frown upon those wo do take drugs, is hypocritical. Having said all that. Do what you like. ust be happy and don't hurt anyone!

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 152 (view)

If rejected why do SOME men immediately believe women are shallow, that it's all about looks? Posted: 11/3/2006 6:49:40 AM
Hilarious! All this rubbish about being shallow. WE ARE ALL SHALLOW in some respects. Nobody wants to date someone with a face like a smacked a***. we'd always be drawn to the attractive ones. We don;t even choose that, it happens. As for someone calling men or women shallow for doing exactly that should learn to be funny and sensitive. with tenacity and diligence, they'll get somewhere in the end. PS: when I read a statement that says ALL men/ women, I know it's the words of someone who's at least a little ignorant.

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 28 (view)

Am I Being Selfish? Posted: 11/3/2006 5:58:31 AM
It's funny in this day and age, that if the tables were turned it would be okay for a woman to expect what he asks for. Having said that, I agree with all the ladies. If you come to the table empty handed, you're not welcome. Sometimes a pretty smile and a sense of humour isn;t quite enough, especially if you want the relationship to have any longevity!

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

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GLOBAL WARMING - DEAL OR NO DEAL Posted: 10/6/2006 6:35:08 PM
A climatologist told me that by 2025 we'll ALL suffer serious consequences of global warming. By then it will be too late. I doubt Governments will do enough before it's too late. Short term monetary interests always come first. Prepare yourselves. It's gonna get hot and wet. How sad: women leaving the 5" heels in the closet and wearing wellies to work!

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

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Jack Straw v The Veils Posted: 10/6/2006 6:33:17 PM
All this Islamic talk is getting out of hand. People should and can wear what they like. Jack shared an "opinion" which most of us agree with. The fact that we're not used to dealing with people who are faceless is not news. The overreaction is wrong. Though with all Muslims have suffered around the world over, especially in the last 20 years is understandable. But they shouldn't get carried away. This makes us less sensititve to their plight and eventually, we'll resent everything Islamic and roll on WW3!!!!

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 100 (view)

Difference between Making Love & Fcking Posted: 10/6/2006 6:27:49 PM
Making love is not wiping your****on the curtains, or making her sleep in the wet patch. Jokes aside, eye contact has a lot to do with it. I like to make love, but have to have some passionate action in there. Otherwise I'd never get to the vinegar strokes!!!

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 43 (view)

When are women the horniest before or after there period Posted: 10/6/2006 6:22:13 PM
Before, during and after. I think it's becasue God's a practical joker! Why else would he put a man's G-spot up his a***.

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 79 (view)

Have you ever been embrassed by a screamer? Posted: 10/6/2006 6:20:16 PM
I can't say I was embarrassed, but this girl made noise! I thought she was taking the piss, being in my home and all. Waking my flat mate and the neighbours. But she was just as noisy at her house. I have never heard anything like it. It was like a horror film. Gotta be honest though. It does massage the ego nicely.

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 113 (view)

what is the nicest or sweetest thing someone has ever said or done for you? Posted: 10/6/2006 6:18:26 PM
Women seem to think waking me up with a blow-job is heavenly. Actually, a bacon sandwich, a cup of tea and the paper would be heavenly. Especially if the blow-job came after she's done the dishes!

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 31 (view)

Holding sex back- Does waiting make you lose interest or build up desire in anticipation for it? Posted: 10/6/2006 6:16:43 PM
Go with your instincts. I know some men judge women who give it up easy, but they're fools. My best relationships were with women who came across early. Making me wait NEVER makes me more keen for a woman. I am just looking elsewhere while she plays games. And when she finally does step up, it has no consequence on the relationship, even if the sex is great.

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 29 (view)

Is it offensive to be overly honest? Posted: 10/6/2006 6:08:18 PM
Normally I'd suggest you be tactful and make your excuses. But if someone posts a pic that old. you should tell that they were dishonest and disrespectful. And then feel free to throw a tantrum and leave! The same thing happened to a friend of mine, on this site too. She was about 50lbs bigger! Needless to say, the date didn't go as planned.

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 68 (view)

why is it that white men tend to like skinny, white women? Posted: 10/6/2006 6:03:28 PM
ALL men should like curvy women. Big chest, small waste and big hips. It's all good. It's natural. In fact, we're built to be attraceted to tits and big hips. And to wind you women up more. That's what tits are there for. Don;t believe, go do some research!

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 33 (view)

sex Posted: 10/6/2006 5:51:30 PM
The net is like a night club, for me anyway. I take what life offers me. I am always interested in sex, but not with just anyone. If I meet someone and the chemistry's there etc. I'll be happy to have sex. If there's more of a connection then a more meaningful relationship may develop. Anyone looking for love, is taking a big chance of being hurt.

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

Msg: 76 (view)

Question for the guys...Should us women say NO SEX on the 1st date BEFORE the date? Posted: 10/6/2006 5:49:06 PM
Ninki! What are you talking about? So if a guy has sex on a first date he isn't decent? You're very judgemental. Being explicit about no sex is good. Boundaries are always useful. It encourages openness which I think makes for a good relationship, physical or not.

devilsa

Joined: 4/23/2006

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What do you think of a guy who is in a relationship and is still active on a dating site? Posted: 10/6/2006 5:47:05 PM
He's most definitely up to no good. Maybe he has different ideas bout your relationship with him. But if you're supposed to be in a full-on, he's up to no good. Lose him!

DevilsA

Joined: 4/23/2006

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Biggest Turn - ons Posted: 5/20/2006 5:54:01 AM
Confidence without arrogance. good posture. Good shape. Nice smile.

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