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Msg: 40 (view)

-GAMES AFTER 45- Posted: 11/25/2008 3:00:03 PM
I don't think that anyone should play games. Games are what was played when in high school and guess what folks we are not in high school any more. I am just me and don't play games pretending to me someone I am not and sincerely wish everyone would be the same way.

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Pictures Posted: 11/11/2007 9:36:43 AM
Why is it that so many men and women put pictures on their profiles that are so old? True it might be a good picture of themselves way back when but they don't look like this now. I think that if it is a picture that is not recent that they should put on their profile that this is the most recent picture I have even though it is x amount old. So what do you think?

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Best bumper sticker Posted: 11/11/2007 9:22:05 AM
I saw one I liked and never found one like it so I had it airbrushed on a t-shirt. If you think you are perfect when is the last time you walked on water. Think about it - it's a good bumper sticker. lol

Joined: 4/23/2006

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Long hair on older women Posted: 11/11/2007 9:10:34 AM
I think that the length of the hair style should be what the person is most comfortable with and not have to go by what everyone else thinks. For years I wore my hair long because I wanted to and about 9 weeks ago I cut it to shoulder length because I wanted to. A person has to be happy about themselves and how they look.

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slow dance poem written by a teenager with cancer Posted: 11/11/2007 8:58:29 AM
This is a very beautiful poem and should be passed on for others to read.

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if a man/woman have a disability should they post it on their profile Posted: 11/11/2007 8:56:02 AM
I think that people should be upfront when they talk to someone.

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Cooking for one Posted: 10/28/2007 6:30:48 PM
These are some really good recipes. Thanks everyone for sharing them.

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internet dates from Hell Posted: 3/4/2007 1:30:41 AM
I would recommend always meeting in a public place and always make sure that someone knows where your going and who you are going to meet. Everyone has cell phones and they should be used to let someone know your ok, etc...

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Poems by me- let me know what u think! Posted: 8/5/2006 6:34:59 PM
Good poems it sounds like you have put your heart, soul and feelings into each one and that's really what poetry is all about. Keep up the good work.

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if a man/woman have a disability should they post it on their profile Posted: 8/5/2006 6:31:19 PM
No I don't think that they should post it on their profile as it might discourage someone before they got a chance to talk to the person. But I do think that if they start communicating with someone that they should let them know and be upfront. That might keep hurt feelings down if they meet and the other person don't know about it.

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ok ladies question for you Posted: 8/5/2006 6:28:55 PM
No I definitely wouldn't say that men are pigs. I have met some very nice guys from on line and made some friends. I did have a bad experience and was lucky about it but over all experience has been good in meeting and talking to men from online.

Joined: 4/23/2006

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internet dates from Hell Posted: 8/1/2006 9:22:22 PM
From reading what everyone has wrote it sounds like alot of other women have been thru the same thing and much much worse. I had never wrote a article before and hoped that what I wrote has helped or will help someone else. The ones that told of experiences that they have went thru and my heart goes out to you in what you had to go thru. Nobody should have had to go thru what alot of you have experienced. My experience was minor compared to what some of you have went thru. Of course there was some negative things but then that is expected when you get alot of people who have different opinions. I do appreciate everyone taking the time to read what everyone wrote and voicing their opinions and sharing their experiences with others. God Bless all of you.

Joined: 4/23/2006

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internet dates from Hell Posted: 8/1/2006 9:10:08 PM
Tick Tock I can't believe you. First of all the man would have been considered attractive but what he did would not under any circumstances be considered romantic. So you think what he did is the way to start a relationship - wow I hope the women you meet read this first and know that you think the way to start a relationship is to attack a woman.

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internet dates from Hell Posted: 7/19/2006 6:08:39 PM
Mickey - thank you for what you wrote. I really do hope what I wrote will help someone else from making a mistake.

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By Choice We Became Friends Posted: 7/19/2006 6:01:36 PM
Your poems are beautiful. You definitely have alot of talent for it as I can relate with this poem.

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Remember When Posted: 7/19/2006 5:55:50 PM
That was definitely a very beautiful poem. Your definitely very talented.

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Does your child still believe in Santa? Posted: 7/19/2006 4:03:53 PM
Enjoy your child believing in Santa as long as you can. When they are grown you will miss the excitement they had as kids. They was so excited about santa coming and what santa brought them. It is not the same when they get older so believe me as I speak of experience of two grown boys.

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Best bumper sticker Posted: 7/19/2006 3:59:12 PM
The one that I saw that I liked the best was "If you think you are perfect..... when is the last time you walked on water"

Joined: 4/23/2006

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internet dates from Hell Posted: 7/11/2006 8:27:47 PM
Sinsrus I accept your apology. I guess maybe I am a little naive about things as I was married for over 20 years and I want to think the best about people and give them the benefit of the doubt. I realize that it was a mistake that I made. The reason I even wrote the article was that I thought that maybe my experience might help someone else from making the same mistake and them not being as lucky as I was. I am going to take the good advice that guitarchick gave me and contact verizon to see if there is a way to block calls and tech messages from him as I have received several since that happened.

Joined: 4/23/2006

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internet dates from Hell Posted: 7/11/2006 2:59:22 PM
Sinsrus have you never been to someone's home that you thought was a friend. Or do you think that if someone comes by where you live that gives them you the green light to grab them, etc... Get real.... He was so excited about getting a new apartment and moving out of the hotel that he wanted to show it to someone. Have you never wanted to show someone something new that you got? He did not even have any furniture and was not staying there. So no I was not going to see a rock concert, have a cup of coffee or clean his apartment. I went over as a friend because he wanted to show off his new apartment as he was excited about it. I hope that if you meet someone from online that they realize that if you invited them to your home that you think that gives you the green light to grab them or anything else. How would you have felt if someone had done that to you, or your sister, or your mother or to one of your friends? I bet you wouldn't have liked it then. Would you then have automatically assumed that they was asking for it?

Joined: 4/23/2006

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My first internet stalker Posted: 7/10/2006 4:32:21 PM
Yes I have had that happen. In fact I posted an article about it recently. I would definitely make sure that she knows that if she calls again or come by your work, your home or anywhere she knows you will be that you will take out a stalking report. You can also check with your phone company to find out how to block her number for one. Two you can ask them what the code is that you dial (here is Tennessee with Bellsouth it is *57) as soon as she calls you have to do it before anyone else calls and they keep a record and after so many calls will send you the code numbers that you will need to give to the police to have charges taken out about phone harressment. Good Luck to you and watch yourself.

Joined: 4/23/2006

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internet dates from Hell Posted: 7/10/2006 4:26:40 PM
How can you block numbers and tech messages on cell phones? A friend told me that you couldn't do that. I have verizon so if anyone knows I would definitely appreciate it.

Joined: 4/23/2006

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Red Flag to end relationship? Posted: 7/9/2006 10:37:13 AM
This guy definitely sounds married and just looking for a fling on the side. With him dating you this long etc... he wouldn't mind introducing you to his family, friends, etc.. My suggestion on this would be for you is to cut your losses and move on before you end up getting hurt from this relationship (which you may already have gotten hurt).

Joined: 4/23/2006

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Why are people afraid to meet in person? Posted: 7/9/2006 10:31:39 AM
This has all the earmarks of a married man. Cut your losses and move on. Word of advice though don't give out alot of personal information to people such as were you work, live, etc.. there are a lot of good and nice people on line but then there are some really strange, weird and bad people on line too. You have no way of knowing if the picture you saw is really him or if he stole if offline, etc... Be very careful when meeting people from online.

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internet dates from Hell Posted: 7/9/2006 10:24:18 AM
I met this guy from on here that I thought at first that he was a very nice guy. The first time we met he invited me meet him at a local restaurant for a drink. He paid for his and I paid for mine. He seemed like a nice guy so I gave him my cellphone number. I am the type of person that listens to what people have to say. He said he had been married twice and first time was divorced and second time he wife had died. I felt sorry for him as from what all he had to say it was obvious that he really loved his deceased wife. Later on he talked abou another ex wife so that made 2 ex wifes and 1 deceased wife. We went out a couple of times more and the more I listen to him the more I decided I didn't believe alot of what he says. He said he has done this and done that, etc.. He had been living in a motel as he said that he was just starting all over here in the Chattanooga area with a new job, etc... He was originally from here and his parents live here. He couldn't stay with his parents because of some health problems that his mom has. The last time he text messaged me about meeting we met at a public place and sat and talked. He was real excited about a new apartment he has just got and wanted me to see his apartment. I didn't feel uncomfortable with him at this point so I went to see his apartment. While there he grabbed me in the hallway and started kissing me. He was holding me against the wall and I was feeling trapped and scared when he said something about breaking in his new apartment. I got him to let me go in a nice way and got the heck out of there. The next morning when I was taking a shower I noticed that one of my arms had a bruise on it from where he was holding me with his hands. I guess I took the chicken way out and just ignored his emails and text messages after that. He kept on sending text messages for me to call him that I finally figured I needed to call him and get it over with in letting him know that I am not interested. He was extremely rude and the next day I get this email that I must have met someone else and that I just lost a good guy. Trying to be nice I sent a reply back that I wished him the best of luck and hoped he found the right lady for him. I figured that would be the end of it but he sent another text message that he was there. I don't want to change my cellphone number as I have had it a long time and my family and friends have the number. I know I can block him from emailing on here and guess I will just have to ignore the text messages until he figures out that I am not going to answer back. Sooner or later he will have to get the message.............

Joined: 4/23/2006

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Feeling bad Posted: 7/9/2006 9:25:09 AM
Online dating can be a scary thing as you never know for sure the type of person that you meet and if they are for real or just playing mind and head games. But then again it is the same if you meet someone other ways too. I wouldn't let one bad apple spoil things for you. My advise is to get over what happened and don't let it sour you on other people. You may meet several people before you find someone that you both click at the same time with. Your an attractive gentleman and you won't have any problems finding the right lady for you. Look at it this way it's her loss that she lost out on really getting to know a nice guy.

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