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 Author Thread: Racism on my date
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Racism on my date
Posted: 10/26/2009 10:35:36 PM
^^^^^Sun Devil...Thank You...

Basically what I am saying is a guy could be a doctor and overall great guy, the opposite race and the family can have a problem with it....

But the guy could be abusive and crazy but be the same race and the family would rather see their loved one with a guy like that then to date someone out of their own race.

Hmm and who said that OJ was an overall great guy...clearly he had some character flaws that were apparent way before he may or may not have killed her...and for sure when he went in to rob those guys....hmm hence the reason why they were divorced or separated! Not to mention that somethings like being a PRO FOOTBALL player can override racism! Oh dear your daughter is dating a black/white/hispanic guy! Yea and he is a famous professional football/basketball/baseball/ player!

A prejudice family would get over it real quick if number 23 for the Cav's walked in holding their daughters hand!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Racism on my date
Posted: 10/26/2009 8:57:32 PM
What's sad is this...

I have noticed a big difference in whites, blacks and Hispanics when it comes to accepting interracial dating. For instance...if a black or Hispanic female who normally messes with guys who are thugs or lowlifes, brings home a white male who is clean cut drives a respectable vehicle, has a job and is taking care of home. Everyone is like oooh she got a white man who is taking care of her...a white boy who handles his business. Hey you go girl I ain't mad at cha.

Now flip that...You get a white girl who usually dates, drug and alcahol abusers. Ain't had a job in god knows when, likes to put his hands on women. Lives with his drug addicted friends in a filth drenched house...in and out of jail monthly...and is always walking around town looking for the next lick so he can get his fix...oh I could go on and on. Let her bring home a nice clean cut black or Hispanic male...who is clean cut, drives a respectable vehicle, has a job and is taking care of home and the family....FLIPS! They would rather see her with any jacked up white guy than someone black!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 441 (view)
 
Pregnant girl threatening
Posted: 9/12/2009 11:51:52 AM

Hey, If you think you can raise a child on $400 a month, you are NUTS!. Let's see ,we have doctors, dentists(probably braces) clothes, school lunches, school fees,school books, school supplies, athletic equipment & fees, gas to get them to school & outside activities, food, utilities, health insurance, later, car insurance, dances, school pictures and probably more than I can't think of. This cannot be done on $400 a month, I don't care where you live. And just hope they don't break a bone or anything, geezzzzz with a deductible and co insurance left over after health ins. pays is still gonna be $4,000 where I come from.


Ok think of it like this as a father who pays child support. The $400 a month is for basic needs, everyday living! Use your head please! My son wanted an Xbox 360 got that and still paid support. He wanted a Playstation 3, got that and still payed support. He needed $2000 for a school trip to DC, I paid half and still paid support.

Only women cry about the things such as utilities, car insurance and bills such as those. You forget...we as men have to have those things or the women who cry about them would hang us out to dry. I can't have my son with me for the weekends or summers if I don't have utilities, or a car with insurance! But the day to day things to raise a child should be covered on $400 a month by the father. The mother should at least match that making it $800 to raise that child a month!

To the OP...well my friend...you make your bad...you have to lie in it!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Help! I fear the internet has ruined my social skillz...
Posted: 7/23/2009 12:38:45 AM
Ok, well my advice is search for people with something in common...hmm I don't know like ah well TATTOOS might help! I see you have at least one....sooooo that is a great conversation starter. If I am correct everyone loves to show off and talk about there tats..even the jail house ones have a story!


Signed,

The lone, lonely, loner.

That's a lot of lonely!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 82 (view)
 
Do Women Know If She Will Sleep With You In 10 Secondes?
Posted: 7/12/2009 7:45:59 PM
I don't know anymore. As I have gotten older I am a lot more hesitant to have sex with a women. I know right away if I would have sex with her based on that level of attraction. Soon after that I start thinking about her and all the cons that may come with a night with her or even a few nights or more. There seems to only me one PRO but always many CONS!

Besides here are so many other fun things to do than having sex!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Dating and Curses! My Theory!
Posted: 5/16/2009 11:19:08 AM
I am not wishing ill will on anyone...And I am sure that getting pregnant by someone who goes of and gets himself 21 years in a federal prison before your child turns 3 is not something most girls hope and dream for.

And I have learned that bad association spoils useful habits...and my definition of BAD is just that...there are 2 kinds of people good and bad...it is that simple and that easy. Sometimes we think we are good until we come to that point and take that darker path instead of the light...and sometimes we thin we are bad until we come to that point and and take the lighted path.

Good and bad is determined by the actions we do alone...when nobody sees. Not the actions that are apparent to everyone. Basically when pushed...most of us will be bad! I am even guilty of that...
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Dating and Curses! My Theory!
Posted: 5/16/2009 8:33:08 AM
When I was young I used to think that dating me and leaving me would be leave a person cursed. Yea, I know, it sounds crazy but it always seemed that after a girl broke things off with me...things just got worse for her...Things would happen like...she would get pregnant, or I would find out she had become a drug user, getting beat and abused by the guy she was with before me, going to jail or prison, the new guy cheating on her the list goes on and on.

Has anyone else ever experienced anything like this? Well after I grew up...I realized that it was not a curse. See usually when these girls left...it was on a bad note...not like they came to me and said lets be friends it's not working out...they just totally kicked me to the curb and did some really fked up stuff in doing so! And I am cool with that. Well like I was saying...as I got older I realized that it was not a curse but their thinking. It was their reasoning ability or lack thereof. Not that they left me but how they left and why they left. If you could treat a person, who has done nothing but good to you, like crap! What is your thinking and what is your reasoning! Not to sound or not to good...so when you move on to find that next person...Your reasoning in looking for that person will not be good either.

And when you think of it...It is usually the GOOD person who is chasing the BAD person. Good men and women always try to see the GOOD in everyone but BAD men and women never look for the GOOD in anyone. So when you find yourself asking where are the GOOD men/women...look at yourself and start looking for the opposite of what you have been searching for. Try to find what you need not what you want!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Ha Ha I Got Blocked! When Does A Person Deserve To Be Blocked?
Posted: 5/12/2009 5:01:15 PM
mthomjmark:


you should be blocked if you are communicating with someone that doesnt' want to communicate with you; with your attitude about being blocked, it was probably warranted.

So many guys are inappropriate to women and then they get blocked and wonder why.


Mthomjmark...your a dweeb! Uptight, ignorant, arrogant...ect. Wait, I don't know you and I don't know your attitude just like you don't know mine but you think you do. I guess people assume the worst from people and that's sad. Really, I am not all that worked up that she blocked me....I just wanted to see how people would respond to my post. Most respond like they do with anything on POF...like jerkfaces!

Metalvixxn...I have actually never said anything mean, or nasty to you or anyone on P.O.F.....YET!!! I pretty take everything on here with a grain of salt...but there is no fun if you can't shake things up once in awhile now is there?

Lil Brooker...your right I don't have a clue how women think...only the crazy ones. Besides anyone who sends and email and then blocks is a coward. Yea I said it! Have some balls and block them after they send you an email...That stops it right there...but again no...people love to get in that last word!!!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Ha Ha I Got Blocked! When Does A Person Deserve To Be Blocked?
Posted: 5/11/2009 11:01:50 AM
AnneCarol:

I didn't even KNOW you could see my nips thru that shirt. But normally, that's exactly what I wear when I'm working...a light weight, short sleeve cotton tee shirt and a pair of jeans and of course, Nikes.


Girl you better train those!!!

Metalvixxn:


We reply, we don't reply - doesn't matter because obviously we can't win.
I don't think it was about getting in "the last word", it's about stopping annoyances.


Guess who's back, back again, Vixxns back...tell a friend..vixxns back vixxns back vixxns back vixxns back...lalalalalalala!

Ohh Metalvixxn...my nemesis...or at least one of many! Girl you are sexy, beautiful and pretty, maybe I emailed you and maybe I didn't put we have sparred some on the forum...yet for some reason with words that have been passed between us...I am almost 100% sure that you have not blocked me! And I have probably said more nasty and harsh stuff to you than any person on here other than Ursulaminor!

My grandmother told me when I was little..."boy be careful how you treat a stranger, you may have just crossed paths with an Angel" I added "or a demon"
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
When a Female Friend Tries to Hook You Up!
Posted: 5/11/2009 10:45:12 AM
Maybe it is just me or maybe there is the RULE that men don't know about. But has anyone ever had a female friend try and hook them up?

I find that when you let your girl hook you up...she always finds someone who is not as pretty as she is...and then when you look at her like she is CRAZY she is like, "what? I think she is cute"or"well, I would do her she's a hottie?"

So is there a RULE somewhere that says' a female must NEVER hook a male up with a girl that is prettier than she is?
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Proper Blocking etiquette
Posted: 5/10/2009 8:42:52 PM
*nats*,

Those seem to be really go reasons to block someone....
I had a girl who emailed me and wanted to know if I she was my type. She liked what I aid on my profile and seemed like she just needed to talk. I told her that I was not really interested in dating her but I do not mind chatting and making new friends.

Anyway after a few emails back and fourth nothing romantic just general conversation...she stopped emailing me...maybe she was trying to gain my interest thought continued communication but I think when she noticed that I was not working...she moved on. It NEVER crossed my MIND to BLOCK her...I really think that would have hurt her feelings and it didn't cost me nothing but 1 minute a day to return her emails and answer her questions.
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Ha Ha I Got Blocked! When Does A Person Deserve To Be Blocked?
Posted: 5/10/2009 8:34:32 PM
Thank you annecarol:


If this is your first time to email a woman you should NEVER say, "Wow! I love those tits! How big are they"


Anne what kills me is the women who put there breast in your face all out there in photos....and then complain when someone makes a breast comment. I have seen a lot of profiles where the girls complain about the comments men make, but they are half naked and all exposed in their photos!

I think that any smart observant person can read my profile or read any of my posts and know that I am not going to be rude and nasty just because someone says they are not interested. At best I will say something witty or cute and playful but that is the limit.

And maybe we try again because we hope that we find someone like Startle


i only block guys who express anger....if they are starting to go insane i don't want to hear about it...some guys allow themselves to get obssessed which is unhealthy...also i don't email guys if i am not interested...if i don't respond that is your answer....however, sometimes i don't respond because i am busy and forget...if a guy is persistent, that can be flattering.


But there is a fine line between persistence and annoyance...we have to be careful not to cross that line and I really don't think that I was being annoying. Not even to persistent...really all I wanted to know was a little more about her and then my curiosity would have peaked and I would have moved on to someone a little more interesting.
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Proper Blocking etiquette
Posted: 5/10/2009 3:10:24 PM
I have been on here for 3 years now and only been blocked 4 times:
1. By a girl because she used the word Wigger in her profile and I emailed her about using that word and the way she used it int.

2 By a women that was upset with me I believe because I told her I am interested in knowing more about her but as for as dating...I thought maybe our age difference would be a factor.

3. One women because I guess I made the mistake and assumed she didn't date black men. I didn't come across nasty at all with it...more playful than anything...but she emailed me this nasty letter of how she is hooked up with a black man darker than me and blah blah blah...probably was a like but who knows.

4. Today I was blocked I guess because she sent me a not interested email and I replied back with some questions...and then she replied with questions also...in all she wrote me 4 emails and on the 4th one I guess she had enough and of course the last word so she blocked me.

So what I gather from this is that most women who block people have come kind of issues. Or either the person she is blocking has some kind of issues. Cuz your an idiot if you think blocking someone is going to cut down on the emails you get daily...ha ha...sorry ladies but new people join POF every minute
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Ha Ha I Got Blocked! When Does A Person Deserve To Be Blocked?
Posted: 5/10/2009 2:03:32 PM
Excuse me and I am so so sorry I keep forgetting what I am dealing with on P.O.F


so she responds politely to you and then after spending her time writing to you when she wasn't really interested, (after having already told you that) she finally writes to you one more time to remind you and wish you well in your search

then she blocks you because you're persistent and she didn't want to spend more time in writing to you


Yes, she did say she was not interested in my first attempt. So I hit her back with a question of exactly what it was in my profile...in truth I already know exactly why she was not interested...I think I would be safe to say I am just not her "type". But I believe that it is not a matter of me sending her emails...it is a matter of getting the last and finale word. Come on know...someone please tell me that women don't like to have that finale word.
So when I email her back of course she replied ASKING ME a few questions...she didn't say well thank you I am not interested she asked ME some things...and so I answered...maybe she did not like the answer but I gave her what she asked for. Right there should have been done...she should not have never replied...or she should have blocked me right then and there...but she takes a minute of her precious time to waste on me to tell me once again she is not interested and then drives it home by blocking me....ha ha Gotcha Sucker...I love how women think!!!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Ha Ha I Got Blocked! When Does A Person Deserve To Be Blocked?
Posted: 5/10/2009 12:54:40 PM
Well today I have been blocked...yea I know it is hard to believe but sweet little old me got the BLOCKED!

It is funny cause she had expressed not being interested and so I queried a little bit into why and also she sent me a one of her (private) photos, ha anyway! We actually traded a few emails and in one she asked,

"Is that your son in one of your pics? He's cute. Is that your Hummer in a picture as well? What is this about administering porn sites?"


Hmm maybe it was the porn site admin...like I care! Anyway I replied back and also asked her 3 questions,"What kind of teacher she was? What was her heritage?(because she said she was from a mixed heritage) Did she plan on going back to school to further her education? (she has a bachelors)

Anyway I didn't get an answer but what I did get was this:

Thanks for the interest. I have had way too many emails on here and would like to focus on the men that I would be more compatible with and I think I'd have more physical chemistry with too.

Good luck in your search.


When I want to tell her thank you for the photo she sent and for the conversation and that I wish her much success on finding Nemo....I was BLOCKED!

FAKE PEOPLE, populate P.O.F a guy who is really trying to learn more about you gets the same treatment as a guy who makes a rude comments about your breasts in a photo or how he wants to have sex with you and blah blah blah! Maybe they think they are being nice but I would have rather had a person not reply to my email at all then to bounce back a few emails and then block me! I am not a stalker or a Bug-A-Boo if you do not want to hear from me a no reply will always do!

What it is, is peoples lack of judgment when it comes to how to treat people. Then we all sit at home at night and wonder why we are single or why he or she did this or that to us. Karma...remember it is a ****..oh and do on to others, as you would have them do to you!
Hey we can do as we chose block who we want for whatever lame reason we decide. My question is:

When Does A Person Deserve To Be Blocked?
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 228 (view)
 
I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly
Posted: 5/10/2009 12:05:02 PM
Yea she is still using POF but just not in the forums. I wanted to get an update from her also but I am restricted because of my age....
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Women- does the Mirror Affect work for you in dating?
Posted: 5/10/2009 11:37:20 AM
Mirror Mirror on the wall!

Rules only apply to those who are playing that game. You can't use the rules of football in basketball even though they are both sports. The same goes with dating, you can't use the same rules for someone who is dating long term as someone who is casually dating or just out for a booty call.
The problem with most people is that they always want to have some rules...which means they are playing a game. And with a game usually there has to be a winner and a loser and of course...who wants to lose? Not to mention, usually both fools are playing two different games...bringing golf clubs to a baseball diamond...WTF!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 630 (view)
 
Does having sex when you meet for the first time ruin a chance for a real relationship?
Posted: 5/10/2009 6:52:09 AM
Sorry episodeiv....that was Starwars the first movie...
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 629 (view)
 
Does having sex when you meet for the first time ruin a chance for a real relationship?
Posted: 5/10/2009 6:50:33 AM

I am open to the possibility of it happening on the first physical meeting after we have already spent hours emailing, chatting, talking on the phone. Or it may require 3.1416 dates more or less.


Hmm episodeiv it's as simple as pie...and you are an Empire Strikes Back fan.

For me it is like this...women are always worried about crazy men...but being a man I know a lot of crazy women. I know some women that after getting to know them better it was a very good decision not to have sex with them on the first, second, third or ever at all! Because a women will not usually release her crazy gene on a man unless she has had sex with him.

I have a few female friends who started out with a date or two and it grew to a friendship from there. So maybe I missed out on some good sex...but I can say that so far I do not have a female friend that I wish would have been more than friends. Once you become someones friend you start to see how they are and why they can not make a relationship work.

For a lot of people...whether you have sex on the 1st date or the 21st date...they still do not know how to make a relationship work nor know how to chose a person who knows how to make a relationship work. - Ender330, Labeled a Fool
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 61 (view)
 
I Caught You Looking: Is looking at a profile a green light to make contact?
Posted: 4/12/2009 11:45:05 AM
EbonynVoluptuous,

Can't send you an email because I am to young and youthful for you...but I was reading your profile and thought it was really nice...but I had to read halfway through to find your preference in the race of men you are interested in dating...

Hey we all have our preference as I have mostly dated white women and Latin women. The only thing I would change about you is putting your preference closer to the top of your profile...perhaps the first line...cuz I was reading and reading and then BOOM...just a waist of time even reading such a nice profile....

Just my thoughts beautiful women...just my thoughts...

Most of the women who email me are on stealth mode...cuz I never see them looking. Sometimes I go days and days before I see someone looking...at first I was like damn...nobody likes me... but then I realized I got em looking...just in stealth cuz they know they can't handle me
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Watching Porn vs Webmaster for Adult Sites
Posted: 4/11/2009 9:12:38 AM
Ok so I am worried about what my EX thinks because we have a child together.

mikem1968

I do not justify what I do or how I make extra money to pay the bills and do more for my family and friends. It is what it is...work....wrong or write

I can say though imagine if the world stopped doing things because of people being addicted. People are addicted to porn as they are food, TV, work, drugs, alcohol, cigs, sex, traveling, shopping, gambling, money and the list goes on and on....all these things can be very harmful to a person and to their family and a lot of these things are morally wrong...yes over eating is gluttony...smoking is defiling the body...I could go on and on as to why the things I listed are morally wrong.

Also keep in mind that it is not HARD CORE PORN...it is webcam modeling...which is adult material but not truly not out and out PORN. Again I am not trying to justify but I have seen men chat with a girl for an hour and ask her not to get naked...he just needs the company...lonely i guess...some of these girls really effect the life of some of these men in a positive way...it is so much different than sitting and watching prerecorded material.
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Watching Porn vs Webmaster for Adult Sites
Posted: 4/9/2009 8:33:46 PM
I have a situation with an ex. She says I am disgusting and my lifestyle is garbage because for extra money I admin a few adult sites. Simple stuff make sure the site works, and any new material that they send for me to add and find ways to make the site function better.

Now my ex's husband has been busted over and over for watching porn, of course my ex will not tell me this but I have a good reliable source. Anyway, they started throwing around the divorce word because of his porn habits and all the tricks she would try to keep him from accessing porn at home.

So how is more disgusting...the guy who has 2 kids at home and a wife..while he is downstairs sneaking to watch pron. Or the guy who openly admits that he admins a few adult sites for some extra cash?
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 523 (view)
 
Why would anyone want to date you?
Posted: 4/9/2009 11:42:36 AM
I can wiggle my nose...
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 374 (view)
 
Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken?
Posted: 4/9/2009 7:29:55 AM
All of you do realize that this post is OUTDATED! It was from 2005, when people didn't have 2 or 3 mobile phones, family share plans and My Circle.
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
I Caught You Looking: Is looking at a profile a green light to make contact?
Posted: 4/9/2009 7:10:15 AM
When a women looks at my profile. It is rare that I send her an email. But I have a female friend and whenever a guy sees her looking at his profile, they seem to often write to her.

I know a lot of times I click on a profile just to refresh the page. Not because I am interested. I know that women can be shy on here so when I see that someone has checked out my profile FIRST should I write to them?

Basically: Is looking at a profile FIRST, a green light to make contact?
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Talking during sex?
Posted: 4/8/2009 8:28:02 AM
I love it when they speak in SPANISH...you ain't had nothing until you had a Latin Women speaking in tongues
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 192 (view)
 
Men over 30, unmarried no children
Posted: 4/8/2009 8:25:44 AM
Well I have a son and he is 11. I guess I got it over and done early on. Had I not been planning to marry that women. Chances are I would still not have any children.hmm plus now all the ladies know...I make beautiful babies!!!!

I don't not have sex...but I am just a lot smarter than when I was 20.
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 271 (view)
 
Have you ever been caught Masturbating?
Posted: 4/8/2009 12:06:03 AM
Yea everyday!

As if anyone could ever catch me...its called stealth man stealth!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 142 (view)
 
no sex = no dating?
Posted: 4/7/2009 11:56:39 PM
Hmm I say start a website and auction off your virginity for a few MILLION!

So you waited until you are married. Ok then you find out he has been creeping with other girls the whole time....wait...and he catches an STD and passes it on to you on your wedding night....wow...that would SUK.

There is a religion where most of the men are virgins...i know...i was a virgin until I was almost 21! Was waiting for marriage and I thought the the women I lost it to I would marry...she is my sons mother also...

Soo go become a Jehovah's Witness. Most of the young men in the religion are virgins and have no problem waiting until marriage BUT minimum dating t0 marriage time is 1.5 years.
As the longer you date...the better the chances are that you will make a mistake and have sex and they practice NO SEX before marriage....
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Would you date a women if she was unemployed and living with [b]her[/b] parents?
Posted: 4/7/2009 5:32:15 PM
Sorry about the it was to make those words BOLD in the forum but it didn' work.

Anyway...it seems that men are more forgiving of a women if she is living at home and not work more so than women.

Ok...so how would you feel if you had more then enough money to take care of you and that special person...would you require them to work?
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
The List
Posted: 4/4/2009 12:46:07 PM
I didn't think I had a list until I started using this site! And then I started getting email from all these women that was not even close to what I am interested in. Plus some things that I know I don't want. People know who they are and what they are about...my list is meant to be funny but still it is true as to what I want and don't want. But it is not one of those stupid lists...like...she has to be this short or this tall or she has to be funny and blah blah blah...it is so real life changing shiii!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Can you date someone who your not attracted to; but they treat you very well
Posted: 4/4/2009 8:02:04 AM
Hmm here is a twist...what if he is not attracted to you? What if he just treats you good because he views you as a really good friend and wants to keep your friendship. Maybe it is in his nature to treat people very well, people that you like and care for. You do not have to be romantic to treat a person well.

Just a thought...
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 2256 (view)
 
Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 4/4/2009 7:29:48 AM
Hmm, I think I will give it a try just for the experience points!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Would you date a [b]women[/b] if [b]she[/b] was unemployed and living with [b]her[/b] parents?
Posted: 4/4/2009 7:02:34 AM
I had been reading the THREAD:
Would you date a man if he was unemployed and living with his parents?

So I wanted to turn this around on the women. No one wants to date a man who lives at home and is not employed unless he is going to school to be a Doctor. Anything less and he has no ambition!

So what of a women who lives with her parents and is unemployed, would you date her?
Stop me if this thread has been done before.
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Do I Write Women Off Too Easy?
Posted: 3/9/2009 8:22:37 AM
Update:

For all you who were on the females side. I am usually right about people that I meet I think it is something good gave me to protect me form certain people. But I don't always go with my instinct but more and more I learn that I should.

Anyway about a month or so ago I run back into this female again at a local bar. She was on the dance floor so I walked past her once close enough to touch her. Then I walk by a second time I stood right next to her. She didn't even acknowledge my existence. So the third time I stood right in front of her face while she was on the dance floor. The didn't even look at me! She mumbled something about her children's father being there. So I walked over to him and spoke with him and my cousin.

Two weeks later she calls me up to invite me to her birthday party! Ha ha yea right! So from the outset...all she was doing was trying to use me...if you think otherwise...I got a bridge in Brooklyn to sell you.
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 228 (view)
 
Can you keep her happy without spending money?
Posted: 2/25/2009 7:23:52 AM
B.I.G said it best, "mo money mo problems"

Some women are foul, nasty, liquidy shiiiiit that take on the form of any container you put it in. So if you start off by putting her in a kings goblet...and you find that you need to change up a little bit...well after a short period liquidy shiiiit dries up....so getting her out of the goblet and into say the cup of a humble carpenter....won't be easy if you can do it at all. When it does come out of the cup...it will be all dry and crumbled and won't be happy to be there.

I have had many women just stop talking to me even only as friends after I said the most powerful word in the world to them "NO"
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 113 (view)
 
Gold digger and 4,151 emails
Posted: 2/25/2009 6:47:11 AM
Nooooo wayyyy....none of them got a dime from me. I had had enough at that point
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 111 (view)
 
Gold digger and 4,151 emails
Posted: 2/25/2009 12:58:36 AM
HELP HERE!!!

OK sorry everyone! I am not from Cali...I am an OHIO boy! Now keep in mind that I have not met anyone on this site who has been interested in me because of money.

But offline is another story. I am for from broke but just because I have it...women expect for me to give it up to them. And when I say NO...it's always the same thing...I don't care about them or I am stingy and they get mad and ever want to speak with me again.

One month I had enough so called female friends ask me for enough money combined to wipe out my whole pay check for the month! That's when I put and end to helping them out...now keep in mind that I had never had sex with any of these women, at one point I may have dated them but figured it was time to move on.

When does it become ok to ask for money? I started telling them that they need to go find a man and I'm not interested in helping anyone that I am not planning to make my lady. I told another that she would be offended if I asker her for sex and I am offended because you asked me for money...I'm not the guy you should be asking for money...you should go see the person you have been active with(but not in those words)
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 23 (view)
 
My parents having sex....
Posted: 2/24/2009 12:41:37 PM


sweet lady lori:

Ah...I am sure your parents will be so happy to know you posted this about them.

Hey-you're the same guy who started a thread about both ladies pairs of lips~I am kind of thinking you like to get your jollies in here, so I am not going to say anything more.

Worry not, there will be plenty of people who will post here. But I for one respect my parents too much to discuss such a personal thing.


I love and respect my parents to death and anyone who knows me knows this. You don't know my family or my parents our our life and the closeness that we all share! I am sure that your kind for respect and mine are way different.



my happydays:

When you meet my parents...tell them about it. Hey I have a lot of comics in my family D.L Hughley being one of them. Sooo i guess it's just all out of fun and love...they will live.




TOMic bomb:

personally i DO NOT believe a word of the OP's story. i think he made it up. anybody with me on this?


Haha...who needs you to believe them I was there saw it with my own eyes!





Icestorm:

What is this "caught" your parents having sex thing? Are you making them wait until they are a certain age? Are they required to get your permission first? Trying knocking on the door first. Or try getting your own place.

I wonder if they are writing on aarp.com and laughing about you walking in on them.


****...oops did i say that out loud?...I been on my own since i was 21 and taking care of my mother since i was 14. I think in your stupidity you missed the point where they were both stuck on the ground...last time my mother had to call an ambulance to get her off the floor after my father pushed her out of her bed! Stupid people have no reason to live!

Yea maybe I should knock but when you have been a main care taker for so many years...you kinda don't think about knocking...and I bet you come from a home where you parents knocked before they came into your room...ha ha I wish...I come from a black home...in the 70's and 80's way different trust me...way different!

To all the other negative haters...don't hate just go away "poof...**** be gone"
To everyone else...Happy Fishing!!!

Oh and sidwinder154...ha ha you have a thing for walking in on your parents and grand parents....sounds like a fetish
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
My parents having sex....
Posted: 2/23/2009 9:27:00 PM
When was the first time you walked in on your parents having?
Ok, I got to know cuz I want to know if anyone got me be so the thread starts like this if you want go along:

I was xx years old the first time I walked in on my parents having sex!

Here is Mine:

I was 30 years old the fist time I walked in on my parents having sex! At the time my parents were 67 years old. I had walked in my dads house to pick my mom up to take her home and when I walked into the living room...there they were half dressed laying on the living room floor. Now here is the part that scars me for life...my dad is super skinny and my mom is super big and she has slight paralysis on her left side....soooo I couldn't just turn away...guess who was the one who had to pick them both up off the floor!!! Oh my...I was never the same again I called all 4 of my brothers and sisters and said "guess what your parents were doing. I just called you so that I could share the embarrassment , I'm not going through this alone!"

Me and my mom still laugh about it...my dad and I have never brought it up!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 21 (view)
 
The 2 Pairs of Lips: Good for on good for all!
Posted: 2/23/2009 8:57:28 PM

Could the fact that women have pairs of lips explain why they talk before they think while men , with two heads, typically reflect before they talk??


Ok that was funny...but for real..I started this thread just for the reaction I would get I think I have seen enough lips to know but I thought it would be a fun crazy post...all the uptight people need to chill before they have a heart attack! Seriously....oh and last but not least Happy Fishing!!!!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Have you ever heard another couple having sex?
Posted: 2/22/2009 11:40:03 PM
Yea...down in the cheap hotels...hmm almost in any hotel down in Colombia. Mostly in the middle of the day around lunch and little later when the University's let out...
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
The 2 Pairs of Lips: Good for on good for all!
Posted: 2/22/2009 11:33:38 PM
Ok so a long time ago I was told that that the lips of a womens labia is very close to being the same as the lips on her face.

So they say that you can tell by looking at her mouth...weather she has a thick or thin labia. Does this hold true? Can anyone shed some light on this...

And if you bring up that episode of Nip/Tuck....we fighten!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Do Women Know If She Will Sleep With You In 10 Secondes?
Posted: 2/13/2009 12:38:01 PM
Hmm so what I have learned so far is this:

1. Women will know within 10 seconds if she will not have sex with someone.

2. With a lot of men...We can see a women in a photo playboy/dating site/porn site and know that we wouldn't mind having sex with her...most men her seem to say they need to know her first....hmm ok!
...but women under the same situation will always say they would not sleep with a person because they need to know them..hmm!

But SEX sales soooo well.......

I think we are all still lying to ourselves and lying to each other....IMHO
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Do Women Know If She Will Sleep With You In 10 Secondes?
Posted: 2/11/2009 1:10:29 PM
I tried a light weight search on this but didn't find what I am looking for.

I have been told that a women knows within seconds if they will sleep with you. The time ranges from 10 seconds to 60 seconds.

Now don't take this the wrong way....I am not saying that within 10 secs SHE WILL SLEEP WITH SOMEONE but what I am saying is that she knows already if she can see herself ever being sexually active with this person in her time frame. This could be hours, days, weeks, months or years!

Going with this THEORY as that is what it is:

Apply this to P.O.F when women looks at your profile or reads a mans emails. Does she know already she would never sleep with him. So there is no replay or if there is a reply it is only long enough for him to know that she is not interested.

If she knows that she will sleep with him...then the conversation takes on new forms..from emails to IM to phone calls to dates and so on. Unless somewhere along the line she changes her mind and realizes that he is someone she would not get sexually involved with.

I'm sorry but men always get the title of DOGS and that is only because we express ourselves sexually but in an dishonest way. But I find that when we do express ourselves sexually in an honest way...we are still titled as a DOG! Why?

Women are just the same as we are but they lie and hide these things a lot better then men do.

Then again...maybe I have it all wrong!!!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Do I Write Women Off Too Easy?
Posted: 1/20/2009 10:36:48 AM
metalvixxn:


If that's how you really feel about men and women, I TRULY feel sorry for you.


Hey I am a lover not a fighter. But really you know and I know that all women are worried about a guy wanting one thing. Come on you see it all over the posts on every other profile: Im not interested in one night stands; if you just looking for sex move on; if you just want a hook up click next; if you think agree to meet means agree for sex dream on; and on and on and on. Maybe you don't see it because you don't surf female profiles!!!! So again SEX is protected by women.

And as a man and talking with other men. We worry about women only wanting us for money or what we can do for them. That is our main worry. Will she date me if I don't have enough money, if I still live with my parents, if I don't have a care...and on and on all these things that we do or don't have usually have to do with or financial situation....money or the lack there of!!!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Trick Love Da Kids but The Kids Hate Him/Her!
Posted: 1/20/2009 10:25:27 AM
innatelypassionate:


It sounds like you have a very limited understanding of how kids work and probably wont help you out if you want to win them over.


I understand very well how children work. As I have a son and nephews and nieces. Some children are just BAD no matter what the situation is and some parents just excuses their child's behavior.

The whole shooting thing was just making light of the situation...I didn't want the post to come across so serious. I did expect some resistance and some trouble and I came to the decision that for me dating a women with 4 kids is not for me. It's that simple.

So just to clear up with everyone here, MOM or DAD it is 100% your fault why you got crazy children. Ha ha I knew that all along but it's just getting people to admit it is their fault why their child is the way he/she is!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Do I Write Women Off Too Easy?
Posted: 1/20/2009 1:10:18 AM
I don't know about most of you but I go on dates because I get lonely. I would love to find someone to start something lasting with. When I end a date wishing that I had just stayed home playing video games or going to be early....that is negative.

What I am saying it that when you start to count the negatives vs the positives and the negatives start to outweigh the positives....it is time to reevaluate that relationship. I believe that is not healthy.

It's not the feeling of someone whistling and annoying you...it's not petty like that. But what I tell my female friends is...Remember that when you meet a guy...examine how he comes at your from day 1 because usually that is the BEST it will get. If you like romance and roses and he does not come at you with that from the start...then there is a great chance that he will never be the romantic and rose type of person. And things will just downgrade from there.

So when a date asks me for MONEY or to do this or to do that the day after our date....WTF!
I am left with a negative feeling and my level of respect for her drops a lot of points!

Sorry but I think that if a women feels comfortable with you to ask you for money or to buy this or buy that...then you should be comfortable wither her to ask her for sex. Most will try to disagree when I say that Money=Sex and Sex=Money. But to break it down it is like this:

All most every women thinks that MOST men if not All men only want one thing SEX!
All most every man thinks that MOST women only want one thing MONEY!
So women are on guard for men who just want sex.
So men are on guard for women who just want money.
Which means a womens sex is protected just like a mans money!
Sex to women is what money is for men because as we all know most men don't care about giving up sex...but men do care about someone getting into their wallet as women care about someone getting in between their legs!

DISPUTE ME!!!!
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Finding Out About STD The Morning After!
Posted: 1/20/2009 12:39:34 AM
shyevixx:
oh and by the way, you just putting it out there that you messed with a chick with an STD and posting on pof? good luck to anyone on this site that dates you, hope you got tested.lol

Been on this site for almost 3 years ain't caught nothing worth keeping. The site is full of people who lie, cheat, deceive and hide behind profiles. You just prove what someone said in another post. Women want someone who lies to them. Wonder how many people you know that you have had sex with and had an STD and did or didn't know about it. I believe a man would do something like that before a women would.

Unlike you and most of the POFers here...I got nothing to hide and at least people know I am 100% real. I have been tested and regularly and to date I can honestly say that I have nothing and never have.

Good luck to anyone on this site who dates me because they have an honest to gods truthful man!!! And I am the type who is willing to take a test side by side with a potential partner...
 Ender330
Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 33 (view)
 
How important is a well thought-out first message? (for a MSF)
Posted: 1/20/2009 12:14:54 AM
OP- I probably write the best DAMN emails around....no lie...most men on here can't come close to my emails...trust me...I have seen the writing shillz of the competition!

I got my emails to the level that they are soooo good...they rarely get deleted...I believe because the the girls feel guilty about deleting such a good email after 25 emails of HI how you doing. My name is George...your cute!

But even although my emails have substance...It is still rare that I get a reply...they don't delete but I feel the just wait the 30 days cause they know the email will expire and be removed anyway.

A women is more likely to give you a reply if you leave a nasty or degrading email then she will if you hit her with something fresh and original.
 
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