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 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 99 (view)
 
Flooding???
Posted: 11/6/2010 1:44:02 PM

Or maybe it's one of those vogue things people suddenly claim to know all about-- but which don't really exist. Sort of the sexual equivalent of levitation, maybe. If this were such a common occurrence, all the details of it would have been common knowledge hundreds or even thousands of years ago.


Its real and it exists. I've had three partners that could do it rather regularly. When I've asked them what it felt like it was the same. All three commented that it feels almost like you have to pee just before busting loose. Maybe all three lied and maybe they hypnotised me into thinking that there was this squirting thing going on.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 89 (view)
 
Flooding???
Posted: 11/5/2010 3:23:11 PM

Are all women capable of this? I've never had this happen to me before.


Probably. I would bet money the answer is yes.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Do women believe that men can get more pleasure from giving oral than from receiving ?
Posted: 10/27/2010 6:44:48 PM
I like both equally. I am convinced that if there is not exchange, not every time of course or anything silly like that, you will actually wreck your relationship or intimate time with the other person. A woman giving is a lot about her power and desire to please. Deny it at your own risk. Be selfish at times. Let her suck that c*ck. Over and over too.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Online dating more difficult than real life!!!
Posted: 10/27/2010 6:40:10 PM
Absolutely more difficult if not approached right. It is very easy for me to strike up a conversation anywhere, anytime. Getting a date is pretty easy. Getting a date with a woman that really fires you motor beyond her attractiveness is a different matter.

Sex is easy to get. It's someone you can't get enough of that makes it worth the time.

Online that woman can maintain analytical thought while having all these choices is not common in the real world. Most men will just gawk at her and never even get close to her in the real world.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 24 (view)
 
When your S.O. still regularly checks on their EX's facebook/myspace etc...
Posted: 10/27/2010 6:34:51 PM

Would it bug you?


Nah. I'm not bugged by these things. Now if she started getting critical of me on little everyday things or go off on the situation she would be cut loose. At the same time I'm pretty secure and could care less what she checks on as long as she doesn't get critical in any way.

If she is critical I already know she is hiding things and to tell you the truth I'm no longer interested. She has already wrecked it and she is actually looking for something to accuse me of so that her actions are now justified in her own mind. lol
Which is the basis of most criticism.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 77 (view)
 
Flooding???
Posted: 10/27/2010 6:04:36 PM

Don't tell him.. just squirt on his face.
Thats what I'd do.


lol Now why does this idea seem like fun to me?
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 73 (view)
 
Flooding???
Posted: 10/27/2010 11:23:52 AM

In a recent relationship I was with someone who felt quite happy in telling me how their previous girlfriend did this, and this is why men cheat on women if they don't get what they are looking for in bed what they have had previously-made me feel like c**p seeing as I haven't to my knowledge squirted.
Whether he meant to make me feel inadequate or not, he did.


He's not very creative. No need to feel that way but I understand why. Rather tactless and tacky.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 370 (view)
 
Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 10/26/2010 6:07:35 PM

An none of them have been able to make me cum via oral sex. Some of them can get me off via penetration, but NONE via oral sex.


Oooops.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 94 (view)
 
under the sink he had 8 (YES , eight) boxes of Fleet enemas
Posted: 10/22/2010 6:18:37 PM
I should just leave this post blank.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 310 (view)
 
Only 17% of American (USA) women like giving oral sex?
Posted: 10/22/2010 6:06:01 PM
I don't remember ever being with a woman that didn't take care of me. A few that did not want me to cum in thier mouth of course but I would think it's unfair to say that they don't like it when in many ways they like what it does to a man.

A woman who enjoys it is infinately better at it of course.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Flooding???
Posted: 10/22/2010 10:42:22 AM

If he can't move his head you might actually interfere with his breathing air... .


I actually started choking once when the stream hit the back of my throat. lol She was concerned that I would be upset with her until she saw that I was trying to laugh at the same time I was choking. It works best if your not breathing in at the same time.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 51 (view)
 
woman with rigid behavior
Posted: 10/21/2010 7:14:22 PM
Next time she calls say sure...I will cook and you need to be here by 7:00. Too simple. When she isn't seeing someone she gets lonely and calls you.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 58 (view)
 
A Threesome Relationship?????
Posted: 10/21/2010 7:07:11 PM
the best information i've been able to find online from several dozen sources is that infidelity rates among married people in the US is 22% of men and 14% of women. and those figures can probably be applied to our country as well.


this is crap. lol Men and women both cheat but men get caught because they are not very good at it.

As far as the threesome relationship? I don't see why not. Last forever? How often does any relationship last forever?
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
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Flooding???
Posted: 10/21/2010 7:00:33 PM
I personally like it. It's not uncommon. Especially if the man knows how to get it going. I would not worry about it.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 192 (view)
 
Men in diapers
Posted: 10/21/2010 6:50:03 PM

That all said I enjoy a variety of sexual pleasures and some of them might make others go......hmmmmm....Not!!! But of course, TO ME, they don't seem as extreme as the one in this thread.


I agree. It's out there. I just don't want to see a full grown man running around in a diaper and sucking on a bottle. The feces thing? I don't know what you call that.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Queefs
Posted: 10/19/2010 7:58:53 PM
I don't think anything about it. Don't know a woman who doesn't. Not important.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Awesome Sex
Posted: 10/19/2010 7:55:22 PM

Any sex is good sex to the vast majority of us.


I have experienced sex that was not so great for sure. Over time I have learned to weed out sexual incompatibility before it goes there. I just see certain indicators and I shut down and don't take it there. I have no intention of just nailing someone. When I was younger...yes of course but I can honestly say that I have never been with anyone that was caused by beer goggles.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Dumb Q - What is a legal separation??
Posted: 10/18/2010 7:36:02 PM

Its a sad thing when you realize just how lonely you can be within a marriage.


Oh yeah. I helped mine run off. lol
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Dumb Q - What is a legal separation??
Posted: 10/18/2010 7:19:49 PM
My question is..."Why a realationship so soon?" I've been apart for quite some time and when I run into certain types of women I have suddenly have no inclination to go there. lol There are plenty of decent women though.

You restart your life when you say...ok, I'm restarting right now.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 36 (view)
 
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/17/2010 9:01:23 PM
The English language is defintely lacking when it comes to "terms of endearment" as compared to the romantic languages.


Boondock. There are more words in the english language than any other. That got me to thinking...is it the words or how you say them? I love to hear spanish in my ear while engaged in passion. It's tough for me not to loose it . But I also think its how its being said to me.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 164 (view)
 
Dating a Gemini
Posted: 10/17/2010 8:18:53 PM
of course you have never had any problems with yourself....

duh!


lol your not trying to be rude are you? The most savage human being I have ever met in my life was a taurus (sp). She has had two men kill themselves after she seduced them and then rejected them. The most unpredictable was a cancer. The most needy was also a cancer. The most damaged by life was a virgo. I had to look those up. lol

Here is what I believe. Lets say you read something about lets say a taurus (the bull) a person who is a virgo could lie and say to you that they are a taurus and you would be able to see traits and conducts in them as a taurus even though they are a virgo. I think we all have many or even all of those traits.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Would you get involved with this woman?
Posted: 10/17/2010 3:45:43 PM

Her past seems like a recipe for BPD.


OP. All of this psycho babble is a confusing mess of garbage. Let me simplify it for you..."She is trying to resolve a problem in/of the past in present time. Situations and instances that seem familiar or approximate that past problem will cause her to act and shift even her personality in an effort to solve an old problem that took place in the past."
What this means for you is that she will associate you with the past. True, you are not that same past person or experience that she is trying to solve but it doesn't matter. You are now the NEW target!!! Loving one minute and angry and psychotic the next. The psycho babble world tries to label everything.

You will NEVER be the solution. EVER! Nor is ever likely to ever solve it. Well I guess they can drug her.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 162 (view)
 
Dating a Gemini
Posted: 10/17/2010 2:28:54 PM
pandus....
have you ever dated a gemini?


I think so. lol Yeah one that I know for sure. She we got along fine. I wasn't trying to marry her or live the rest of my life with her.
If she got flaky...not sure that she ever did, I probably just wrote it off as a bad hair day and went about my buisness.

I'm a gemini and have never had any problems with myself though. Does this count?
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Awesome Sex
Posted: 10/17/2010 8:54:24 AM

I am having awesome sex with someone the very last thing I would do is tell people on POF about it!


Yeah, I don't either. It just seems a bit tacky. Past experiences are better fodder for discussion actually. Better humor too. :)
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 17 (view)
 
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/17/2010 8:50:22 AM
lol actually not like that. I do talk and use it to bring her to orgasm. You have to guage it. Sounds are always nice as well and important. She needs to know that she makes you feel good.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 69 (view)
 
How do you spot and avoid the emotional vampires?
Posted: 10/17/2010 8:47:27 AM

What do you do?


She thinks you are there to resue her and to fix her and her life. Anytime they talk about thier problems change the subject. If they keep going back to these subjects? You got'em. Her exes and "mean" boyfriends are not your concern and should be looked at as red flags. These have nothing to do with you, they are about her. Tryy to keep her extroverted and out of the sewer. If she keeps falling back in she is a vampire.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Would you get involved with this woman?
Posted: 10/17/2010 8:41:35 AM
First decide what kind of "involvement" you are interested in with regards to her. If you are thinking relationship you are approaching it all wrong. What is she going to contribute to your life? Do you want to spend your life building her up and even more sinister is that she won't stay up and the trouble, work, tested patience, investment that you make will never fix her. There is no rescue. There's a man who will spend the rest of his life with a large section of it trying tofix, repair and make happy a woman who is too busy sucking down energy than to give back to you. Emotional slave you will be.

Now if you want to have fun with her, which is actually more healthy for her, will reap more benifits for both. From this postition she will be exchanging and giving as much as you give. If she thinks you are the rescuer she will not give back. Plain and simple. She will suck you dry...and I don't mean in a good way.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 103 (view)
 
boyfriend going out to dance alone
Posted: 10/16/2010 6:46:53 PM

I would imagine they either had "the talk" or there was some understanding between them that they were exclusive.


Have you had too much coffee miss? lol I am inclined to agreement with your assessment. Doesn't take a very high IQ I would think.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 101 (view)
 
boyfriend going out to dance alone
Posted: 10/16/2010 5:25:37 PM
The OP just wrote that she asked him how he felt if she was to go alone....and he responded by asking 'why would she want to go alone when she's in a relationship?'



Based on this he is in fact hunting. It's a done deal. I guess this ends the debate? Probably not but no one here has enough money to waste on a bet about this one by saying hes not unethical...IF they have an agreed upon exclusive agreement. lol
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 51 (view)
 
What am I doing wrong?
Posted: 10/15/2010 6:11:52 PM
Did you agree with everything she said? Were you so amiable that she lost interest? A story always has at least a bit of conflicting intrigue. Not opposition but a contrasting position on things. If you jumped on the agreement wagon on everything she said you basically changed your reality to match hers.

I know you said earlier that your sunglass were you? You are a composit of many experiences and ideas and thus you have your own reality of how the world is. Your sunglasses are nothing. Who you are is far far more interesting to another person. Glasses are metal, plastic and chemical composits. Junk to be. If glasses are who you are then you have already lost.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Clit spankings...turn on or off?
Posted: 10/15/2010 6:02:49 PM

I've had it a few times... and yeah, I'm like "What are you doing?" Honestly with both guys I thought they were losing their erections and were hitting it on me trying to get it hard again.


lol Oh that's priceless Kaylie.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 72 (view)
 
boyfriend going out to dance alone
Posted: 10/15/2010 5:09:32 PM
If he was not open and up front then he wanted you to not know.

I actually like lone wolf country dancing myself. I don't have to go with friends. But I also know that it is the best way to "hunt". lol That being said it may not mean a thing with him. I would say that being up front and open is the best policy.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 158 (view)
 
Dating a Gemini
Posted: 10/15/2010 5:01:11 PM
There is nothing wrong with a gemini. When asked and I think that's it's important to the other person I won't answer. I do not believe in such things but if you do it's fine by me. Saying any one person is this or that based on aligment of distant suns and planets is pretty narrow. It's like saying a man or a woman cannot be something other that what the stars say.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Thong Fetishes
Posted: 10/15/2010 4:51:33 PM

Victorias Secret has called "cheekies". They show half the butt cheeks, but not as much as a thong. Sort of a half wedgies, instead of a complete one.


Oh I like those. Very sexy.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 221 (view)
 
How to find out penis size
Posted: 10/11/2010 7:59:32 PM

Well now that you said that......
I'll ask. Give it up. HOW BIG?


lol Naughty girl. More than most but not HUGE. Nah...didn't do anything for me. Maybe it's the voice that's missing.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 219 (view)
 
How to find out penis size
Posted: 10/11/2010 6:50:32 PM
I've never been asked right out before. I think I would like that because it's never happened to me before. It would be cute and I wouldn't mind.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Thong Fetishes
Posted: 10/10/2010 6:28:39 PM
I've had a woman or two leave them on the floor for me. lol I find it cute. I charge them "something" to get them back of course. I find the play rather fun.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 88 (view)
 
Men, Does every woman REALLY taste different?
Posted: 10/10/2010 9:16:44 AM
*will* admit to putting scented cream on my legs and thighs as well as arms after a bath before going to see my guy... So, guys, should I NOT do that?


Please continue. Not required I would think but no harm done.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Who really cares about sex any more?
Posted: 10/9/2010 5:51:30 PM

By the way anyone can get laid, its nothing special.


Quality is always special jezebell.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Is she playing me???-Long Story
Posted: 10/9/2010 4:24:44 PM
Most women aren't that trashy .I disagree w/ you totally. I think she's afraid, and rightfully so.


I don't think that's trashy Ellena. In fact it's very common for a woman to be undecided between two men. It may even be a natural instinct. I think she is trying to survive or effect her best possible survival. Fear is the worst and most common cause of this phenomena. She is not trashy...she is affraid. In fact it would be the most effective setup concerning her situation.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Is she playing me???-Long Story
Posted: 10/9/2010 4:15:36 PM
Actually she wants the choices. She will sleep with both of you until something happens to snap it off. The first man to walk away will be the one she will then work to get back and drop the other easy sap.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 22 (view)
 
let's all get real
Posted: 10/9/2010 2:07:25 PM

BTW- since when did being a squirter become a good thing?


lol I do remember a woman who choked me with full stream once. True story. I didn't think much of it in that moment.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
let's all get real
Posted: 10/9/2010 12:24:46 PM
I think much of the time they are conveying what they want to be or want to experience and sometimes how they really are...IF they are feeling a certain way. How do you see yoursef? Your post really isn't about others but really about you. It's cool I don't mind and see it for what it is.

What do you want for yourself? Do you want vanilla sex all your life? Don't want a man to just get hold of you and use the crap out of you and leave you spent? Your buisness.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 5 (view)
 
let's all get real
Posted: 10/9/2010 5:08:03 AM
Well I haven't done the front yard one...are we talking daylight or at night?
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Who really cares about sex any more?
Posted: 10/7/2010 8:51:49 PM

You need a long holiday :)


I believe this is code for time off with excessive sexual activity.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 28 (view)
 
Who really cares about sex any more?
Posted: 10/7/2010 7:00:18 PM
I could see someone feeling that way OP....but it could never be that way for me. I love skin and how a woman feels against me. There are a lot of facets to a persons life so other things must be there in ones life as well.

Really good, high quality sex can be inspiring. It can spark creativity in ones life. It causes dreams to happen and puts that spring in your step. NO sex? NO thanks.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Ex is living with me and I still love him
Posted: 10/7/2010 6:49:14 PM
Date other guys. But keep in mind that it really is a game then. You would be dating other guys and still in love with him. It will work but if you did get him back using this method you will eventually not want him.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 76 (view)
 
Do We Attract Our Parents?
Posted: 10/6/2010 6:53:23 PM
I love my parents and despite any shortcomings they may have they did ok. I'm not like them but I can respect thier lives.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 102 (view)
 
If she gave up sex for a month, would you spaz?
Posted: 10/5/2010 8:55:54 PM
I don't think anyone decent would think poorly of the other who is sick or injured. That would be nuts. Probably insane. These are the exception and not the rule.
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 205 (view)
 
Vegetarians - how do you feel about your SO cooking meat?
Posted: 10/5/2010 5:19:29 PM
Ok, who drug this back up? lol
 
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