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 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 632 (view)
 
Introduce Yourself Here....
Posted: 6/4/2008 4:27:19 PM
Hi there I;m Scotchlassie =[tho I:VE actually been heen here for over 2 years - I met and married my husband from this site I cried thru the whole ceremony cuzI dind;t i'd ever get married again<img src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon31b.gif border=0>
 scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 98 (view)
 
Friends with really young women
Posted: 3/29/2008 7:34:57 PM
SOUNDS LIKE INCEST TO ME
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 922 (view)
 
Calling all 40-60Something Males?
Posted: 1/13/2008 11:47:57 AM
I'm 58 and just got remarried
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Baldness - is it an issue?
Posted: 1/11/2008 5:22:45 AM
The sexiest man I know is bald
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
What do you think of random compliments?
Posted: 1/11/2008 5:01:19 AM

Would you ever contact one of those men, even if they might not have been someone you'd have contacted first yourself?


Oh absolutely would contact him right back - even if it was just to thank him for the compliment - if it went anywhere after that . . . Well . . . Where's the harm and it might be a whole lotta laughs
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 79 (view)
 
What's wrong with sex before marriage?
Posted: 12/29/2007 5:59:54 AM

What's wrong with sex before marriage?

I think there's nothing wrong with it at all . . . . Without it we wouldn't have the expression "living in sin" which until yesterday, when I was married to him - I had been doing very happily for over a year
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Vibes
Posted: 12/9/2007 8:16:11 AM

I dont know about that Lassie.. but I certainly have had more than I can handle in the last 2 weeks.. Id be glad to pass them on LOL... I dont know if it has anything to do with vibes, due to the fact that most of my posts are complete shinanigans.. hehe I think life is what you make it.. so I would say go do yourself up... feel sexy, be sexy, YOU ARE SEXY...see if it works... if it doesnt.. then I guess you have your answer


I thnk this makes ,y point about vibes, you've got more than you can handle right now - so your confidnece is up and you're flying high - well done!!!
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Dominant women
Posted: 11/27/2007 4:22:57 AM
I;m basically submisssive so I need a strong man in the bedroom
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 70 (view)
 
first horror movies you saw?
Posted: 11/2/2007 8:39:05 AM
I recall a friend going to the country for a break and after a night at the pub, walking across a field where Hammer House was shooting a movie . . . 'N' man he blanched when he retold the story - must have been a real scary time for him!
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
How did the social changes of the 70's influence who you are today?
Posted: 11/2/2007 8:23:48 AM
Remember how none of us ever thought we would be 30?


Oh my Lord yes!!!
I remember how horrified I was when I realised that "next year I would be 30 . . . "
I was married when the burning bra thing was in vogue and my very macho husband
(of the time) wouldn't even imagine me doing somthing so terrible - and frankly neither could I . . . But we lived thru all those changes, womens lib etc and I'm not sure we're better off because of them.
I look at my mother's life - devoted to kids and hubby and I really wonder if she didn't have a better life than I do
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 28 (view)
 
If you werent Australian what nationality
Posted: 10/9/2007 9:19:46 AM
if I was Scottish I could finally solve that age old problem of what do they wear under there kilts


Being a Scot myself I can attest to the fact that nothing is worn under a man's kilt - it's all in perfect working order!!
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 133 (view)
 
Is it harder to date now?
Posted: 10/9/2007 7:48:46 AM

I have talked with a couple of guys locally and made some friends but I would actually like to date again. Possibly have a relationship... Am I asking for the impossible?


Absolutely no!!! You are not asking for the impossible, I met a wonderful man right here on POF - so never give up
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 132 (view)
 
Is it harder to date now?
Posted: 10/9/2007 7:48:28 AM

I have talked with a couple of guys locally and made some friends but I would actually like to date again. Possibly have a relationship... Am I asking for the impossible?


Absolutely no!!! You are not asking for the impossible, I met a wonderful man right here on POF - so never give up
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 125 (view)
 
is it true or bulls**t that life begins at 40?
Posted: 10/9/2007 7:28:04 AM
My life began at 50 - and I've never been happier
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Is red hot romance possible after 50?
Posted: 10/9/2007 7:25:18 AM
can anyone tell me if I am nuts to expect to find red hot romance at this age? I mean the kind of thing that inspires you to write poetry or paint pictures, that sort of thing?

Oh no you're deinitley not nuts - I have enjoyed red hot romance (with red hot chemistry) after age 50 . . . you go for it!!!!
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Should you stay in a relationship if the person you love can't show affection?
Posted: 9/11/2007 6:26:45 AM
My ex was a druk and an emotionless SOB - he drained every paticle of my self esteem before he left me for a hunny
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 61 (view)
 
the Wannabees @ Sawbucks- White Rock! That's the Way i Like It aha aha!
Posted: 9/9/2007 7:51:11 AM
We had a great time last night but I didn't see you Samanongshi - too bad, I would have liked to thank you in person for getting it organized
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Fonejacker
Posted: 8/24/2007 4:24:43 AM
I don't make prank calls, but I had a phone call one time asking to speak to Mr Wall . .. "No-one here by that name," I told her. "Hmmmmm . .. Can I speak to Mrs Wall then?" "She's not here either," I told her again. "Hmmmmmm . . . are there any Walls in your house?"
"No!"
"Thne how does the roof stay up?" Giggle, giggle,
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Rev.Jesse Jackson ....Agitator Or Angel ?
Posted: 8/24/2007 4:17:47 AM
I wasn't aware the UK was ever an active participant in slavery . . . ?
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 98 (view)
 
Masturbation while in strong relationships.
Posted: 8/24/2007 4:09:59 AM
I find it a huge turn on to watch my man when he masturbates
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 53 (view)
 
You have your life ,, would you give it up ?
Posted: 8/20/2007 7:03:41 PM
If they are THE RIGHT ONE, then there is nothing to give up, it will all flow beautifully - and life will be good, My ex and I split up 9 years before I met the man I 'm with now - and believe me after 9 years, I thought I'd really resent sharing my space with anyone - but it all came together very nicely for us both
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 27 (view)
 
how do you win back a lady
Posted: 8/19/2007 10:00:52 AM
If she feels it's all happened too quick, then you've obviously made quite an impresssion on her . . . It's her feelings she's battling with - not you . . . I'd say give her a couple of weeks to work things things thru - but when you do phone her, be very understanding with her and give her as much empathy as you possibly can- just don't invalidate her feelings in any way - they are very real to her and must be taken seriously by you if you ever want to get her back
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 95 (view)
 
Will men go down while u r menstruating, will u let him?
Posted: 8/10/2007 5:28:56 AM
I've never been with a man who didn't think that was totally GROSS - as do I
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 140 (view)
 
What do you do when someone better comes along?
Posted: 8/7/2007 5:52:19 AM
If #2 is better than #1. then please tell #1 that there was no spark - or something, please just don't leave her hanging wondering WTF?
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Could someone be in love with two people at the same time?
Posted: 8/3/2007 10:16:03 AM
We can have umpteen kids and love every one of them - so why can't we love more than one of the opposite sex - I love my brothers, my Dad and my uncle . . . Is there a problem with this?
But I'm thinken you're having problems with the situation, or you wouldn't be asking us - if you'd be happier without her - then tell her you have a problem with things the way they are!
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 9 (view)
 
What AM I To Think?
Posted: 7/17/2007 7:35:22 AM
I'm wondering if she's getting HRT after her op . . . ?
Could be that's what she needs as her symptoms sound like hormone withrawal
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Do Scars Turn Men Off
Posted: 7/13/2007 12:21:31 PM
Any man worth having will love you for who you are - and he's more likely to be concerned about the reason and pain behind the scars
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 110 (view)
 
middle aged & multiple divorced- a red flag or not?
Posted: 7/12/2007 5:38:16 PM
I dated a fella who'd had 6 wives - yes S-I-X wives (cuz none of them suited him) that was a major red flag for me and it led to a "BUH-BYE NOW" from me
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 219 (view)
 
OVER 50 And Alone....again.
Posted: 7/12/2007 5:31:00 PM

It seems there are only two types of men out there. Newly divorced men that just want to date around because they haven't been free for so long. They are like a kid in a candy store.....they want a little of this and a little of that. Then there are the guys that have been divorced for 10 yrs or so. They like doing what they want to, when they want to. They will date you but don't want you getting too close. They like their freedom. Am I just meeting the wrong men, or am I right?

I think you're wrong - I met an absolute sweetheart when I was 56 . . .
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 83 (view)
 
Trusting someone in a new relationship
Posted: 7/7/2007 9:41:47 AM
I have huge trust issues now - not because the fella I'm with has ever done anything to warrant my distrust, but because my ex was such a total @sshole and did lotsa things to earn my distrust . . .
I'm living with shades of my past - and it may yet cause me problems in my new relationship
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Widow/Widower-Wearing the wedding ring?
Posted: 7/7/2007 9:35:55 AM

In my family its always been tradition to move the wedding ring from the left hand to the right hand at the funeral

I've heard of this before and think it's a lovely idea - ( gone but not forgotten . . . Never forgotten).

I have a friend who wears both her wedding ring and engagement ring on her right hand and her new s/o doesn't seem to have any problems with this arrangement
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 62 (view)
 
middle aged & multiple divorced- a red flag or not?
Posted: 7/7/2007 9:25:21 AM
recently dishing about people who are 45+ & have 3 or 4 divorces under their belt. Would you date someone who has been married/divorced that many times by 45-55?


As long as his alimony payments didn't mean he'd be living off my pay cheque - why not!!?!
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 66 (view)
 
No makeup on first dates.
Posted: 7/7/2007 4:52:10 AM
I think a first meet is something special, and I usually get all gussied up (clothes & make-up) for something special
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Confident But Ugly Men
Posted: 7/7/2007 4:48:33 AM
I would need a certain something in the looks department before I coiuld get to know him well enoiugh to find out about all this confidence he has . . . But once I'd found it, he could be ugly as sin and I'm all his
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 84 (view)
 
Buying a birthday gift for a girl I've been dating 2 weeks?
Posted: 7/7/2007 4:42:29 AM

A small, yet tastefull bouquet of flowers (NOT ROSES). Don't go overboard on expense, but don't get it at the 7-11 either.
This is a 'boyfriend' type gift but it's also an acceptable gift for any woman, regardless what your relationship is with her.
THIS IS A SAFE GIFT!

The flowers get my vote too - a gal finds flowers very acceptable under any circumstances
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Fit to drop!
Posted: 7/6/2007 7:29:16 AM
I aslo find when i'm running I get bored really quickly and start to ache


I think it's the boredom and the aches that cause most folks not to exercise . . . I have recently been diagnosed with a stress fracture in my toe - due to walking too much when I wa son holiday last month . . . I'm thinken it's a damned if you do - damned if you don't thingie
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Go Grey or dye?
Posted: 6/26/2007 5:41:10 AM
I have my hair 'streaked' to hopefully diguise the new grey that comes in
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Not in trouble really, but it's a little embarrassing
Posted: 6/26/2007 5:31:32 AM
My most failing part is my memory - but what a wonderful excuse it is to pull out of the hat whenever I need it
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 46 (view)
 
The Young Offenders Act
Posted: 6/23/2007 4:11:46 PM
I think if they're tried as adults, they should be treated like adults and not be able to hide behind the YOA
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 18 (view)
 
why is this happening to me??????
Posted: 6/23/2007 3:53:52 PM

I'm happy because i know he loves me but I'm sad that he has to leave. I've never been in love like this before and it hurts so much to think he's gonna be away from me. What should I do?????


Move with him
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Would you stay if there was no sex?
Posted: 6/23/2007 3:31:45 PM

I kinda think that I should wait it out. He is amazing in so many ways. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Just looking to see if anyone else agrees with me or do they think I should move on. And before anyone starts to bash me - NO I AM NOT IN THE RELATIONSHIP JUST FOR SEX.


If he's so amazing and has indicated you'll have intercourse after marriage - and you have his ring on your finger - then I would definitely wait
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Smell, odour, attraction, repulsion
Posted: 6/23/2007 3:19:40 PM

Does anyone else relate to this or am I just a smellophobe?

I think the word is pheramones
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 26 (view)
 
What was your favourite toy or game as a child?
Posted: 6/23/2007 3:15:11 PM
I'm a child of the 50s & 60s so I think my fave was the Hulahoop or the Pogo Stick
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Soaps that have lost the plot
Posted: 6/23/2007 3:11:30 PM

has Claire from Corrie lost it.

Oh definitely she's gone completely gaga
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Sexual herpes
Posted: 6/23/2007 3:03:40 PM
If you knew someone suffered with sexual herpes would it put you off sleeping with them bearing in mind it can only be transferred during an outbreak

Apparently it can be transferred when there's no outbreak - and I binned a fella when he told me he had herpes for that very reason.
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 111 (view)
 
What does your tattoo say about you ?
Posted: 6/23/2007 2:48:14 PM

For me tattoos should have relevance rather than having a tat' just for the sake of it.

I don't have any tat's but daughter does - (just for the sake of it) she has a rose on her shoulder and an anklet of flowers
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Gut Instinct - right or wrong
Posted: 6/23/2007 2:37:33 PM
I believe our Angels are trying to tell us something when we get a gut feeling about something
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Good and evil
Posted: 6/23/2007 2:35:31 PM

Do you think that as human beings we have both good and evil within us? I would say that in the main I am a good person but I have to admit to thinking the most vile thoughts at times, probably things I could never admit to, when I've been hurt by someone or I'm angry about something. I would never carry out the deeds I think of but just the fact that they're in my head makes me wonder whether we're all capable of commiting evil crimes. I dont think I could actually kill anyone but could you ...?

I've thought about many times with my ex - but since he's still breathing, I guess I couldn't
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Selling myself!
Posted: 6/23/2007 2:33:01 PM
I've made a few changes to your original profile - try this . . .

I have a good sense of humour - I love people who can make me laugh! I like doing fun things and am a happy person. I am generally a very lucky person - good things tend to happen to me! :)

I enjoy doing things that challenge me - so I like trying new things and going out to different places. Right now, I'm pursuing a career in tech so that is one of my many interests. I am also interested in Astronomy but am fairly new to it (lots to learn). I also love art and am a very creative person, in general.

I am a fit person - I walk a few miles every day (to work and back) and prefer to walk over getting a bus or car. I also do some light working out at home and my job also involves lifting and carrying heavy equipment quite often. I have an athletic physique. :)

I enjoy outdoor pursuits like walking in countryside and am always up for trying new outdoor activities.

I would say I am a determined person as well as ambitious. I'm a hard worker but I also believe in making time for other things - there are things in life that are far more important (and fun!) than work.

I'd love to meet someone who also has a good sense of humour - laughing at my jokes will be considered a bonus (though groaning at them will also be acceptable!). Someone who is nice, good natured, polite and likes to show and receive affection. I like having quiet evenings in sometimes as well as maybe doing a bit of travelling at some point.

I'm looking for friendship and maybe even that special someone! Does any of the above sound like you? Then get mailing! Send me an email and I will definitely reply! :)
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 49 (view)
 
Help!! Looking for suggestions for a simple, quick, but legal revenge.
Posted: 6/23/2007 2:16:00 PM
A lawyers letter asking for support payments would hurt - and be legal
 
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