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 Author Thread: Confusion
 Wabba
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Confusion
Posted: 4/30/2006 5:08:27 PM
OMG here we go again. Its people like that that give us good guys a bad name. Good guys that want a relationship but turned down cause we are put in the same catagory as them. I have never cheated and would never cheat. So good luck in finding the right guy sweetie.
 Wabba
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Do I really belong here?
Posted: 4/29/2006 4:34:06 PM
One thing i have learnt of the years is you cant go into a relationship with feelings for your ex still. Partners i have been with always talk about their exs and it pushes me away thinking im not really in their lives at all. DONT go into another relationship with these feeling as it will not work out. Partners dont want to feel like they are 2nd in thier lives after exs. It just doesnt pay. Good luck in the future.
 Wabba
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Is there someone out there?
Posted: 4/29/2006 4:10:27 PM
I know what youre saying mdf. I feel the same way. After the death of my wife 19 years ago i cant seem to find another partner. I have now resigned myself to fact that maybe i WAS meant to live my life out alone. I KNOW im a great person and a GOOD guy but women dont seem to want a good guy. They also go for looks and height which leaves me out cause im not the best looking guy around and im short. I dont lie or cheat and never have so i dont understand why women are turned away from me. I have a BIG heart and its made of gold. They say good guys finish last which im beginning to believe. But i say to those women, its your loss. Keep your chin up mate and i wish you all the best. Cheers mate.
 Wabba
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Losing a loved one to death
Posted: 4/29/2006 4:01:17 PM
Hi there. I know exactly what youre going through as i lost my wife 19 years ago. I am now over the pain of losing her but my memories will always remain. At times i wonder why i cant get into another relationship but i guess its the thought of losing my soulmate. I can still feel her around me and know shes guiding me through life today. I was hit with a saying that when you are at your weakest point, thats when you are the strongest ( you fight to stay on top of things) and when you are the strongest thats when you are the weakest (you drop your guard). I miss her so much but life does go on. I wonder what my life would be like if she were still here but at the same time i must go on for the sake of the children. Sometimes i lay in bed and nearly come to tears but i know shes in a better place and well looked after. So i know exactly how you feel. Keep you chin up and know he/she is guiding you through the touch times. GOD bless.
 Wabba
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 102 (view)
 
what do u think of a single dad...
Posted: 4/28/2006 6:01:46 PM
I to am a single dad and raised 3 kids. 2 have left home and the other is with me who has a slight disability. Its been a struggle and a lot of heartache but im through the other side for now. I believe all women need a medal for their efforts in raising children. I also find it very hard to get into a relationship as the most ive dated have run for the hills. Not only is this a problem but i have also found being short, 5'4", women dont want short guys. They want tall masculine guys i guess for protection and security. Us short guys can also do that. So being a single dad has its ups and downs, well for me anyway. I wish all of us (single dads all the luck in the world.
 Wabba
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 2 (view)
 
I Just Get Used
Posted: 4/24/2006 11:12:17 PM
Im, trying to access the replies but they wont show grrrrrrrrrrrr
 Wabba
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
I Just Get Used
Posted: 4/24/2006 10:52:21 PM
Hi everyone. Well my problem is im to kind-hearted and get used. Ive had many relationships but they all seem to think that the grass is greener on the other side. Ive had women come back to me saying the worst thing they ever did was to break up with me. I give 110% to a relationship but still its not enough for them. I guess im one of these guys that they call a Claytons b/f. The b/f you have when nothing else is a around or a play toy they can put on a shelf when not needed. Im caring, loving, VERY faithful and honest but still not good enough. I just cant understand what i may do to turn these women away. I have never broken a relationship off. I know theres lots of guys or women out there in the same boat so i would like to hear from them. I guess im just not that lucky to be with a partner.
 
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