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mustang54321

Joined: 4/25/2006

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Alcoholic vs binge drinker. Where do we draw the line? Posted: 1/25/2007 12:51:55 PM
i totally agree with what JANET4NOW said

mustang54321

Joined: 4/25/2006

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Would you date an ex-junkie who's cleaned up his act? Posted: 7/6/2006 5:40:31 AM
would depend on what kind, how long they did it and how long they have been clean

mustang54321

Joined: 4/25/2006

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Friends or hang out? Posted: 7/6/2006 5:38:05 AM
don't think it would matter

mustang54321

Joined: 4/25/2006

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Let's cut the fat - what is your secret to losing weight & keeping it off? Posted: 7/6/2006 5:31:54 AM
best thing i do is run

mustang54321

Joined: 4/25/2006

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Instant Messenger Help. Posted: 5/9/2006 11:09:57 AM
is there a way to make it so if your on another screen and you get a messag on the IM it doesn't kick up right away.

mustang54321

Joined: 4/25/2006

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not attractive any more, and a few other probs* Posted: 4/25/2006 10:42:53 AM
man im not coming here for andivce again some of you woman are mean lol, now we have been friends for ever, best friends when i had girlfriend probs in highschool even i talked to her we have been friends for 10 years. we started dating a year and a half ago and even then it didn't bother me, and then i was 180 lbs i was in good shape it was around when i gained weight and said scew it im losing weight i started to asked her to join me and she tried but never stuck with it and it was then it started to bother me.

mustang54321

Joined: 4/25/2006

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not attractive any more, and a few other probs Posted: 4/25/2006 10:31:46 AM
lol when we started dating i was 180 so what do you mean when we were both large, also her sister has talked to a counsler before and we have dicussed weather she should or not.

mustang54321

Joined: 4/25/2006

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not attractive any more, and a few other probs Posted: 4/25/2006 9:24:33 AM
ok well thanks for the replys everyone, i just bascially wondering if im a total jerk or not for this but i looks like its a 50/50 situation.

mustang54321

Joined: 4/25/2006

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not attractive any more, and a few other probs Posted: 4/25/2006 9:11:24 AM
easy way out? i said this has been a prob for over 7 months i have talked to her i have excercised and ate right and lost 40 lbs myself and tried to get her to lose with me she didn't try at all i told her to talk to a professional to see if shes depressed or try to get her into some new hobbies and nothing is working.

mustang54321

Joined: 4/25/2006

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not attractive any more, and a few other probs Posted: 4/25/2006 8:52:23 AM
not sure really what im doing here, i guess im just trying to make sure im not being totally out of line here if i end this.

mustang54321

Joined: 4/25/2006

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not attractive any more, and a few other probs Posted: 4/25/2006 8:15:44 AM
we tried that she doesn't want to go for the walks to lose weight, he doesn't want to eat right with me she wants to eat fastfood and lunch and stuff like that.

mustang54321

Joined: 4/25/2006

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not attractive any more, and a few other probs Posted: 4/25/2006 7:38:57 AM
well shes gained a little weight but it isn't the 10 lbs. before i really didn't care but after the first few months of our relationship it has really become bothering and i tried to ignore it and just get over it. she wasn't in an accident or anything like that. now for money i work 70 hours a week i pay all the bills, i own my own home i pay for the grocherys shes helps in some times with things but 95 percent of all bills and food and stuff i buy. which is fine with me and i don't complain about it. when i do laundry or dishes i put them away when im done. when she does them if im not home they sit out cause she says she shouldn't have to put them away by herself when im gone (and when she is gone i do put everythign away) she won't do dishes or cloths or vaccum unless she is asked to do it.

mustang54321

Joined: 4/25/2006

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not attractive any more, and a few other probs Posted: 4/25/2006 7:29:08 AM
well see i have tried ignoring it, why am i a jerk i can't pick and choose who im attractied to, thats something you don't have any control over and i have tried to ignore it and do everything i can, i think i shoudl break it off but when it comes time to do it i don't want her to go.

mustang54321

Joined: 4/25/2006

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not attractive any more, and a few other probs Posted: 4/25/2006 7:14:09 AM
and why am i a jerk?

mustang54321

Joined: 4/25/2006

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not attractive any more, and a few other probs* Posted: 4/25/2006 6:34:03 AM
ok first things first, my spelling and grammer stink and im trying to post this quick lol. ok my GF and i have been together for a year and a half but have been good friends and have known eachother our whole lives, now she has always been a bigger girl. like 5'2 200 lbs now one questions when people say full figured would that be full figured or obise? now i have told her about this, i actially told her about this 7 months ago, i gained a lot of weight and about 4 months ago i lost 40 lbs so im back down to 6ft 200 lbs we fight all the time cause of it and im just not attractid to her at all any more and this is a huge prob. i feel like a jerk and try to ignore it but i can't, she trys to lose but after a day or two she gives up, also we fight a lot cause i don't think she helps enough around the house she is kinda lazy. thinking about breaking this off. any advice would be great. thanks

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