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beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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He Says Lose 30 lbs and He Will Give you an Engagement Ring.....Would Ya???? Posted: 3/20/2008 8:03:07 PM
TOTAL jerk....!!!!

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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Is 30's the dead zone in dating? Posted: 3/20/2008 10:20:15 AM
Think that anyone who can merge together 2 broken families deserve a GOLD medal! Exes can be a real nightmare if they do not get along in the first place! I dated someone from here for a couple of months last fall and he has an awful relationship with his ex. My ex I were bad for the first few years but we grew up and now get along great. It made things really hard because every other weekend was run by his ex and so unpredictable that we could never make any solid plans. She lived 40 mins away and had a real thing for always being HOURS late to just taking off with the kid. He had a stormy relationship with his ex for 8 years and there was no sign that he was going to do anything about it so I broke up with him. I could not live my life that way. My issue is between owning a business and having a 5 year old that I have just decided to send to private school in Sept....who has time??? I recently changed my profile to only being willing to date people who are very local. My life this fall is going to be work, private school, piano lessons, soccer, a nanny, a sitter....and and and....SHEESH! It DOESN'T END! When I do have time, all of my friends for the most part are married. There are not many places to go to meet people my age. Maybe a good soccer Dad this summer...who knows! Its tough out there!!!! sigh...

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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Whats with women that invite their dogs into the bedroom to sleep? Posted: 8/20/2007 5:45:39 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^ GREAT post Betty!

beyondenchanting

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OMG!!! After 6 months, I finally found my fish!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 8/19/2007 3:31:01 PM
CONGRATS!!! Can you send some good fish to Toronto???

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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Your Coolest Friends Feature. Posted: 3/17/2007 6:47:35 PM
Yes, many people add me to their favs, I tried deleting for a while they just add me back. It became more trouble then it is worth deleting over and over. So, yes I can only get to "L" and the 3 friends I would add are all past "L". sniff sniff....

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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Your Coolest Friends Feature. Posted: 3/17/2007 3:34:08 PM
My drop down only goes to the letter "L" so I cannot post my friends...sniff sniff

beyondenchanting

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Fish Personalities..... Posted: 3/14/2007 4:23:47 AM
I like it, great ice breaker convo!

beyondenchanting

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How do you guys stay strong and optimistic in this jacked-up world? Posted: 3/2/2007 5:34:18 PM
Congrats OP for having an open mind! "The secret" is very well done and you have nothing to lose by checking it out. The DVD is WELL worth the 90 minutes of time. I had a poor attitude after my "Steven King Novel" divorce (I am sooooooo not kidding!) I was in a very dark place and hated planet earth for all the pain. It has taken focus, and real effort and getting rid of all the things negative in my life and replacing it with things that made me feel good to get out of the darkness. I even changed the music I listened to! Being happy is a choice!

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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How do you guys stay strong and optimistic in this jacked-up world? Posted: 3/1/2007 5:41:15 PM
Do not pass go and pick up the video "the Secret"!! I have both the book and the video, it has changed my life forever and has helped me greatly with dealing with bad times! I think you will love it! Send me an email if you ever watch it and tell me what you thought. :)

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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Do you still go to the Clubs to Dance Posted: 8/26/2006 5:50:22 PM
I love to dance but have no single girlfriends anymore to go out with. sniff sniff

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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Why did you divorce/split? Posted: 8/26/2006 5:34:59 PM
I could not be in a mother child relationship anymore. When my son turns 5, he will be older then his dad!!

beyondenchanting

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Are people these days 'too picky'... Posted: 7/22/2006 11:31:47 AM
There is nothing wrong with being picky. I "settled" the first time and it was the biggest mistake of my life!!! Now, I want it all or I would rather be alone.

beyondenchanting

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in love with a best friend Posted: 7/22/2006 7:38:53 AM
I struggled with that in my marriage. We were unhappily comfortable, long term it did not work and it is had to let go of the status quo and move on.

beyondenchanting

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Love at first or second glance??Who believes in it? Posted: 7/22/2006 7:35:33 AM
I believe in it but is has never happened to me. I wish it would!

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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She doesn't say I love you anymore Posted: 6/22/2006 5:11:31 PM
SOOOOOOOO VERY BAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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Would u date a single fulltime father..? Posted: 6/18/2006 3:08:53 PM
YES YES YES!!!! My boyfriend has a 16 year old son and they are both the best! i should have dated single Dads earlier!!!

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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why do women run when they find out your a single dad????? Posted: 6/18/2006 3:05:10 PM
My boyfriend is a single Dad of a 16 year old son. When i was looking for "the one" I admittedly was not looking for a man with any children at all even though I already have a son myself. The reason is that I "percieved" that my dates would not have the time to spend with me and that I would be last on their priority list between work and and their family. It appeared to be too much to take on from the outside. I have spent 3 years dating single guys that have never been married looking to recreate starting over as i would like to have more children myself. Many of the single guys that have never been married that I went out with in their late 30's and early 40's I have found there is a BIG reason why they are not married. The biggest reason I ran into is them having no idea how to truly share their lives with another. Not all are like this, but that is the majority of who I met. I finally decided to open up my mind and see what it would be like to date other divorcees like me with children and it has been a night and day difference! I met men that did not fear real commitment, want to be married and do not want to keep looking for the perfect woman as they are much clearer as to what their needs are and understand fully about family. I think you should be proud to be a single Dad and do not hide it. The biggest hurdle is that you need to make her feel safe and that you will have time for her. Do not bring your child (ren) into the picture too quickly. Make sure you are serious about her before going to the next level with your child(ren). Give your one on one relationship lots of time to grow first. I hope this helps, K

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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When a person says they will call or show up and dosen't........... Posted: 6/17/2006 5:49:42 AM
He is "just not that into you"... GREAT BOOK

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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sneaky, stupid or toughtless ?????? Posted: 6/7/2006 9:57:08 AM
Lies! Lies! Lies!

beyondenchanting

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do women look for a provider Posted: 5/30/2006 5:14:36 PM
I think that "providing" is only one of many parts to a marriage regardless of who does it. It is about "what works".

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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Women/Different Types of Orgasms? Posted: 5/22/2006 4:24:00 PM
In my tantra books women can have 10 different kinds and men 7. I have personally discovered 9.

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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have you ever noticed this Posted: 5/22/2006 4:15:47 PM
I think everyones definition of "good" is different. Some think 10 mins and 8 strokes is good, some think hours is good. I have never met anyone that said they were "bad" but I thought they were! lol

beyondenchanting

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Why are men threatened by an Independent, educated woman??? Posted: 5/22/2006 4:04:25 PM
I have run into many men that were intimidated by me. I realized I was making a huge mistake with appearing too bullet proof and not making my needs known. Since I have been doing that my fishing has gone much better!

beyondenchanting

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Would you let someone you just met on here move in? Posted: 5/3/2006 5:07:14 PM
I was in the exact same situation, my ex met this woman the slept together the first night in and she did not ever leave. My first reaction was what kind of woman could give up her life so easily? I did my homework on her and the more I dug the scarier it got. You have the right to know however it is unlikely THEY will tell you or at least tell you the truth. In my case I found out who the exhusband was and went for coffee with him and got the scoop and it went from there. You can always ask her if she will agree to a criminal background check, I asked for this and as soon as she told me to f****ff I knew there was lots to hide. BOY was i right!

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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Would you let someone you just met on here move in? Posted: 5/3/2006 4:16:08 PM
I have been to court over the past year 16 times with regards to this stuff, The facts are that a father thinking with his penis first does not make him and unfit father (legally) nor does the court care about what you know or do not know about this woman. The father has the right to see the children, choose who he wishes to share his life with the length of time he knew her before hand is not relevant. On top of that the custodial parents "opinions" of the situation have no bearing in a court of law without 3rd party proof such as therapists, CAS, daycares, doctors etc that the children are being treated in an unfit manner. The courts view these situations as "he said she said power struggles". You must follow the court order and be generous with visitation unless you have 3rd party proof that the children are in danger. If you do not, you will get HUNG in family court and have a much higher chance of losing custody of the children. Personally I think he is a lazy SCHMUKKKKK... Good thing you kicked him to the curb!!!!

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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He won't meet you..... Posted: 4/30/2006 2:53:10 PM
Dump him baby!!! Put your energies into someon that will walk the walk and talk the talk instead of a cyber buddy...

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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What the number 1 most attractive thing in a guys personality? Posted: 4/27/2006 4:46:24 AM
A guy that knows how to be ALLURING no matter what he does. He is the****of the walk, talks with finesse and oozes the he is an awsome lover just by his presence in a room. (James Bond is also a master of this) YUMMMMMMMMMY!

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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Is my friend a schmuck? Posted: 4/27/2006 4:37:42 AM
I do not believe that "once a cheater always a cheater". I do believe the once you cheat it is "easier" to cheat again. The first time is the hardest. People make mistakes, and there are marriages that survive affairs. (Heck Bill Clinton did!! ha ha)People can learn their lesson and work things out IF they really want to. The question is how bad do they want it and how bad do they want to fix it. Only therapy can determine that.

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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Kids or no kids? Posted: 4/26/2006 5:11:42 PM
The message was for arvana.... No, I do not "talk to my kids that way"... Nor am I "selfish" for having a beautiful son in a "overpopulated planet". It is one thing to not want to be a parent, it is another to insult the rest of us that are.

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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Kids or no kids? Posted: 4/26/2006 1:19:25 PM
The world might be a better place without YOU in it!!! Feel free to be "unselfish" and exit our overpopulated planet...

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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is a strong woman really that bad? Posted: 4/26/2006 6:59:18 AM
I think men have a hard time with women that have it all together because they have a hard time feeling needed in the relationship. Many men like to "rescue" ladies in distress... At the same time women that have it all together tend to appear bullet proof (I have made this mistake) and do not make their needs known. I have been working hard on that and the results have been MUCH better!

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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Is my friend a schmuck? Posted: 4/26/2006 6:31:22 AM
Okay my opinion is going to be a bit different... I do not believe any marriage should not end unless you have turned over every possable stone trying to save it. That is what marriage means, we quit too easy. I think this couple should stay separated and attend councilling and begin to "date" again. There have been many tragic things that made this relationship spin out of control. It needs healing, rebuilding and rekindling. If there is a will there is a way IF they both really want to fix it. The solutions are within their relationship if they want it.

beyondenchanting

Joined: 4/26/2006

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How Deep Is your loyalty Posted: 4/26/2006 6:20:21 AM
I would RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN very very very far

beyondenchanting

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Can you say you have truly been in love? Posted: 4/26/2006 6:18:38 AM
I have never been in love either. I have been in love with the thought of being in love....sigh There is hope as I have several friends that have been married for years and are even more in love now then they were when they were first married!! Sign me up!!!

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