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Joined: 4/26/2006

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Sexual Past - How much of it should you tell? Posted: 5/14/2006 8:15:24 AM
Are you seriously concerned about them having the same first names? oh my god, 2 people with the same name! on another note - if a person is mature he/she won't care much about the number of partners a person has had. (unless of course it is some obscenely large number!) be honest with him/her right from the beginning....then nothing will bite you in the ass later!

Joined: 4/26/2006

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Relationship Question Posted: 5/14/2006 8:08:03 AM
get rid of this girl, because it sounds like shes got something else going on the side. And if she doesn't theres something shes hiding at home....women can be sneaky and play the field too!

Joined: 4/26/2006

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HELP THERES SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME Posted: 5/14/2006 8:04:35 AM
theres probably nothing wrong with you. Be patient, your time will come. I know it's very frustrating....i've been there. I know its hard to push aside your fear of rejection, but you have to, and just ask that mr. right out! life is full of rejections, in relationships, work, everything....you haveto make the best of what you have and if no one wants it then that's their fault. they are the ones missing out on something, not you. you are only 18 and you have your whole life ahead of you! live it, don't worry about things like this, because there are much more important things to worry about!

Joined: 4/26/2006

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At the end of a date and you're not interested what do you do? Posted: 5/14/2006 7:51:53 AM
Ok, so basically i just have a general beef when it comes to internet dating. After you've actually met someone in person and things just don't click, or one of you is defenetly uniterested - give the other person what they deserve - HONESTY. If you really aren't into seeing that person again - TELL THEM. lets be mature here people and quit leading people on and whatever. It's so annoying and rude. grow up, be a man, (or woman) and tell that person you had a great time, but you don't think there's anything there. most normal people can understand that and take it in stride.

Joined: 4/26/2006

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You'll Never Meet a Normal Girl By Dating Online-Is There a Stigma? Posted: 5/14/2006 7:47:33 AM
hmmm.....i think there is a stigma around internet dating that the people you tend to meet are termed 'weird, abnormal, or completely insane'!! However maybe what some people need to realize that in todays society its sometimes hard to meet people any other way. For example I work with elderly people and my coworkers are all female - not a lot of opportunity to meet someone at work. This is true for a lot of people. I mean look at a male electrician for example who works mainly with men, and quite often the women they work with aren't really "dateable" for whatever reason. And don't even get me started on bars not being good places to meet a decent person. Online dating is becoming a little more "normal" and many of the people online are just stuck in a crappy situation where its hard to meet people. When you don't live in a big city its hard as well! So my advice to you, is keep it up because one of these days you will find someone who is normal and nice and that you're even attracted to! I heard there is a 10:1 ratio of men to women on here, so good luck! And by the way - ignorant people are just that, ignorant. they do not usually have very open minds so if that's what your friends are like then maybe its time to start looking for some new friends as well.

Joined: 4/26/2006

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Can men and women be friends without sex? Posted: 5/7/2006 1:32:27 PM
exactly, it can be done. most of my friends are guys. I don't feel the least bit attracted to them, they are like brothers. I'm sure it's crossed everyones mind who is in a friendship like this, but most of the time no one would act on it. Friends are friends, boyfriends are boyfriends, they aren't both.

Joined: 4/26/2006

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why do men lie Posted: 5/7/2006 9:23:03 AM
anyone who has ever been lied to knows this: everyone lies now and then, get over it. also, isn't it sounding like a lot of the guys girls meet online are turning out to be "liers" I wonder what the guys are thinking about us? are we liers too? generally i stick to the truth, personally. but white lies told to keep someone from getting hurt are perfectly acceptable

Joined: 4/26/2006

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Should I dump him Posted: 5/7/2006 9:18:47 AM
I think you need to trust your guy instinct on this. It sounds like your guy doesn't know what he wants. You don't need that. You also don't need someone whois going to take out there own problems on you. And this testing thing sounds very immature. Your guy sounds very depressed and should probably get some help. I was diagnosed with seasonal affective disorder last fall. It is a cyclic depression that follows the seasons. I am usually fine all year, but get depressed from about December to April. However, with treatment I was fine this past winter. I'm not saying that's what your guy has, but just he should look into getting some help. depression is a real disease and needs to be treated. I hope this has helped.....but i want to say once more for you to trust your gut. If you really think it's worth it to put up with all this (keep in mind it's only been 3 months and could get worse the longer is goes on) then you should sit down and talk to him about this. If you really feel it's not worht it, then dump him honey cause you don't need that S**t !

Joined: 4/26/2006

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Do women ever peek at a guy's package? Posted: 5/7/2006 8:58:32 AM
sometimes its just a quick peek, and other times, a little more of a "wowed" glimpse

Joined: 4/26/2006

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 4/27/2006 8:37:28 AM
Generally I like to see a picture of the guy if I'm going to meet him. On one occassion only did I actually meet someone I hadn't seen a picture of. We ended up dating for 8 months. He was pretty hot. On the other hand, I don't have a picture of myself posted. When a guy asks what I look like, i assure them i'm not ugly. I think the phrase "don't worry I'm not ugly" is actually a pretty truthful statement. There were 2 guys I met without showing them a pic of myself. They were shocked that I wasn't a fat ugly girl, but curvy and attractive. I now have a pic that i can show to someone if i want to.

Joined: 4/26/2006

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we are all worthy of love, why can't we get it? Posted: 4/26/2006 1:20:58 PM
My name, "Amanda" means "one who is worthy of love." I beleive I am truely worthy of love, and that most women out there are too. I beleive that if you put yourself out there and love others, treat others with respect, dignity, honour, all that good stuff and if you truely love someone, shouldn't it just be fair that they love you back? Aparently, this is not the case. 2 days ago my boyfriend of 2 months dumped me. It was exactly 2 months to the day. he did not realize this, of course, but i certainly did. He broke up with me because he felt something was missing. Other than the fact that I cannot remember the last time we had sex, everything was going great. So I thought. I got that funny feeling that something wasn't right about a few weeks ago. This guy just didn't want to talk about anything. There was no figuring out what was "missing" just that something was, he didn't know what (yeah right! i'm sure he has some reason he's not telling me) he just ended the relationship. So now I've been thinking. Everytime I go out with a guy, around 2 months or so, something starts to happen and the guy just "turns off." I don't feel as if I'm ever doing anything wrong. And when they dump me, they never give me a good reason as to why they are dumping me. I have been great, amazing to every single guy i've ever dated. I've never cheated. Every one of these guys has ended by saying "you are amazing, pretty, smart....but i just can't see you anymore" damnit, why? i ask? never do I get a straight answer. So since it's just happened again, I'm left wondering "what is wrong with me" I really don't think anything is wrong with me, but there must be a reason for these guys leaving me for no reason. I'm great in bed, i'm honest, caring, sweet, intelligent and pretty....what's not to like? Which brings me to think about being worthy of love. I am worhty of love? yes. any women like myself is aswell. Yet we keep getting skrewed over by these jerks and left thinking something is wrong with us. Nothing is wrong with us. It's these jerks we keep going out with. Unfortunately, the way society is becoming, the nice guys are becoming few and far between. Good luck and congrats to anyone who is lucky enough to find one!

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