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wrar

Joined: 5/2/2006

Msg: 8 (view)

Relationships in General Posted: 9/12/2006 10:33:37 PM
Did I mention that nurses add to hotness in the general area of something like TEN-FOLD?! Like damn!

wrar

Joined: 5/2/2006

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sigh Posted: 9/12/2006 8:28:36 PM
My advice is don't listen to what other people say when it comes to someone who's only faults are their career. Also never, ever listen to someone whom is lazy enough to not bother to type out the entire word "everyone", "your" and/or "people". Waving your finger for two to three additional keystrokes takes about a millisecond. They manage to succefully contract "who" and "is" into "who's", yet spelling a word escapes them...the tragedy.

wrar

Joined: 5/2/2006

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Relationships in General Posted: 9/12/2006 6:10:10 PM
You mean splooge search? Bahaha, type-o's rock. In all honesty, you're going to be a nurse...a nurse. Do you know what kinds of connotations that yields? My stars...I won't even get started. Be optomistic. I'm going to be a teacher, at a highschool eventually, you know what kinds of connotations that has? JAIL...if a student manages to seduce me and/or look like she is nineteen anyway...whatever. feel better.

wrar

Joined: 5/2/2006

Msg: 654 (view)

What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 9/12/2006 6:01:32 PM
I knew perfectly that I could offend someone with my post about christianity. Does it ever occur to a faithmonger that spewing their beliefs might just offend godless heathens like me or even people that just choose to live outside of the grasp of faith? Seldom. That's the answer. Besides, the post in question will be deleted within a few hours. Moderators on this site don't seem to be fond of my "slightly south" opinions. I respect peoples' faiths, generally speaking, but when they start spewing their beliefs like everyone else is supposed to believe it too, that just pisses me off. They're ideas and beliefs, not fact. Understand that, please.

wrar

Joined: 5/2/2006

Msg: 652 (view)

What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 9/12/2006 5:51:07 PM
For the record, what do you say to people that have been contemplating it for years, understand the consequences, have taken meds and seen various professionals, in order to try to treat it?

wrar

Joined: 5/2/2006

Msg: 650 (view)

What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 9/12/2006 5:33:15 PM
F*** catholicism. Catholicism is such a farce. This isn't the time, or the place but purgatory doesn't sound too bad. Alot of cool people go there. I'd rather be chilling with Kurt Cobain, Dead from mayhem, Albert Camus, Hunter S. Thompson,Ghandi and all the other cool people that go there, rather than pederassed priests, Albert Fish and a host of other people that did horrible things and repented before they were killed for the good of society, or whatever else. Screw heaven. I'll stick with living my way and my one way ticket to hell, even though I don't wrong anyone or steal. I just happen to hate the world, whoever made it and I also like lust alot, wether with my right hand or a member of the other gender..it's all pretty good.

wrar

Joined: 5/2/2006

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just woundering why we are all here Posted: 9/12/2006 5:25:49 PM
No, it doesn't... Took me about four months wait...2880 hours...(3024)4. Either way though, it works. Depending on how fat someone is though, it could be nasty, due to loose skin and so forth. Dexedrine is dirt cheap and excercise is free. You also eat wayyy less too. Then again, I was taking the dexedrine to lose weight. Weight loss was just a side-effect. BTW, ROFL@"Just WOUNDERING why we are all here" wtf is woundering? You from Newfoundleand or something. A girl that can spell is a crazy turn-on for some guys.

wrar

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Msg: 645 (view)

What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 9/12/2006 4:49:46 PM
WTF, you can't "win" life. There are a billion things that are harder to deal with than a breakup...like breast cancer, or in the case of dudes:testicular cancer. There's also AIDS, herpes, being tortured literally, living in squallor, having a very painful terminal illness, the list goes on and on. Killing yourself over some **** is retarded. You use the woman/girl as the metaphorical warm, inviting breeze, while you stand at the end of a cliff. You don't use her as your only reason to jump. Duh.

wrar

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just woundering why we are all here Posted: 9/12/2006 4:46:09 PM
Excercise, a better diet and dexdrine cure fatness, fyi. I know because that's how I lost weight...alot of it.

wrar

Joined: 5/2/2006

Msg: 643 (view)

What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 9/12/2006 3:20:26 PM
Did it ever done on you that many beliefs started as new age crap? I'm not saying I buy into any of such ideas, but I am a die-hard for personal freedom. As long as someone is actually meditating upon such a heavy decision, it is ultimately up to them. Way to rebutt the weakest argument, guy above. Also, christianity started as a "new age thing", so did born again christians and "those damned 'witnesses". Tonnes of people buy into that horsest now. Besides, buying into the recycled soul idea is far easier for any conciencous person, than say...a grandiose creater that doesn't seem to give a fk about us and the reasoning for that is that he gave us our own free will. Too bad he forgot to instill a common sense of compassion and understanding in every one of his little images. In conclusion, if someone is willing to take the risk of eternal pain/torment via:hell, I think they are willing to hurt a bunch of people they know. Fool. Leave people to make their own damned decisions, if they don't meditate upon it properly and kill themselves in the heat of the moment, that's awful. On the other hand, if someone is that impulsive and mind-bogglingly weak, they deserve to be their own vessel of escape.

wrar

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Mixed Messages Posted: 9/12/2006 3:12:50 PM
Meh, they're just jerks. I can't even get my rocks off in casual flings without hours of effort, it isn't even worth it. Worst handicap...ever. In case this gives insight, if a guy creates the impression that he is into you and f***s you a few times and continues on his way, chances are he is paranoid about sex diseases and wants to insure that he isn't romping with a whore. Some guys have to get it done raw ...I guess that is sort of a complement to you, on his part. Probably consider getting some VD tests done.

wrar

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just woundering why we are all here Posted: 9/12/2006 3:07:56 PM
Word to guy above. Big chicks that say they are average is rugged. One of the number one ways to avoid being bummed when you meet someone in person off the internet, is by not misrepresenting yourself. If you are fat, say it. If you don't think you are fat, use the entire notion of over 150 and shorter than, say 5'8 or so, you have some "extra pounds". Another good trick; have pictures that actually give a full scope of what you look like. Everyone has mirrors and/or friends to combine with their cameras.

wrar

Joined: 5/2/2006

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just woundering why we are all here Posted: 9/11/2006 11:24:38 PM
BECAUSE SEEING HOW SAD OTHER PEOPLE ARE MAKES ME FEEL BETTER. I ALSO LIKE REPLYING IN CAPS BECAUSE IT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE A CHILD/FOOL. NOTHING LIKE THE UNHAPPINESS OF OTHERS TO ALLEVIATE YOUR OWN THOUGH. ACTUALLY EXPECTING TO FIND SOMEONE ON A SITE LIKE THIS, WHEN YOU ARE UNDER THE AGE OF FORTY IS ABSURD. THE BEST CASE SCENARIO IS THAT YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL F*** YOU ONCE AND NEVER CALL BACK. BE HAPPY THAT YOU ARE PUDGY AND NOT UGLY BECAUSE IT IS REDICULOUSLY EASY TO LOSE WEIGHT...ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS TAKE DEXEDRINE FOR A BIT AND EXCERCISE. JUST IMAGINE BEING UGLY...UGLY/PUG-UGLY/FUGLY PEOPLE ARE STUCK WITH SURGERY. ANYWAY, I AM DONE LOOKING LIKE A 'TARD AND TYPING IN ALL 'CAPS. Yeah, I know that I'm a horrible person. -cheers.

wrar

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Msg: 224 (view)

Do you want the world to know what a jerk he is? Posted: 9/11/2006 11:21:54 PM
There is a website for that, I can't remember the name of it, off the top of my head, but typically, it is used by hot teenage-type girls. If you posted on it, you would be screaming in deaf ears.

wrar

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Mixed Messages Posted: 9/11/2006 11:16:50 PM
Numerous words: Retarded generalization. People give you mixed messages, not just men. I hate to play this card but seriously, send me an IM and I will give you the low-down on some rediculous mixed messages that I have been getting from a chick that I have since, tried to wash my hands of. Men aren't the only ones that do it. Asking why men give so many mixed signals is like a member of the IRA asking why so much blood is spilled between Palistine and Israel.

wrar

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Msg: 61 (view)

Men Suck.. Posted: 9/11/2006 9:27:57 PM
Says you. I suppose you have met them all...wait, you're here. Guess not. Oops.

wrar

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Msg: 641 (view)

What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 9/11/2006 7:54:08 PM
I wish I could clone myself and kill that clone(and fake my own death), so I could inflict the same pain on many people as they have inflicted on me but aside from that, killing yourself over a chick is retarded.

wrar

Joined: 5/2/2006

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Men Suck.. Posted: 9/11/2006 5:15:30 PM
"Some men or still boys". Heh, I agree with other guy. Women are into guys that treat them like shit. They aren't into guys that treat them well and are upfront. When the p.o.s guy jumps ship, the girl pisses and moans how she wants a guy that treats her right and when that guy comes around, he gets**d around and ditched for some ahole. It's interesting how things work out.

wrar

Joined: 5/2/2006

Msg: 639 (view)

What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 9/11/2006 4:28:28 PM
Killing yourself is killing yourself. It is your decision. It is no where near killing another person. People are entirely too wrapped-up in preserving the lives of others. That's why the earth is at its carrying capacity. The people that need and want help don't get it and all the attention goes to your next door neighbor's kid instead, even though they are perfectly capable of helping themselves.

wrar

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Msg: 56 (view)

Men Suck.. Posted: 9/11/2006 4:25:18 PM
That's because aussie girls have a fetich for abusive men.

wrar

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Msg: 52 (view)

Men Suck.. Posted: 9/10/2006 11:12:14 PM
At least you got that out of the way early in the game. Besides, you aren't too bad looking. Women piss and moan about all these dudes being *holes all the time. At least you have the luxury of guys throwing themselves at you and being able to pick and fing choose. Try being a guy with a strong personality, that always speaks his mind. Then you have to take what comes, have expectations and have those expectations crash and burn. Posession of tits and ct=luxury of choosing men. Posession c*k and balls=you do all the work because women don't generally just sort of throw themselves at guys...unless you reek of cash and are at a club and the girl in question is a club slut(most of the girls at a club).

wrar

Joined: 5/2/2006

Msg: 633 (view)

What do you think of a person committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 9/10/2006 11:05:26 PM
People spend entirely too much time worrying about what other people do. Yes, I understand that sometimes those people are people close to you, but threads like this prove that people care about it no matter who it is. Spend less time caring about what people who don't want to be alive are doing and worry about the people that love life even though it is giving them a raw deal. Aka: Underpriviledged kids in the inner-city, people in the third world countries and so forth. If you want to do some good, go for that stuff. Alot of people that want to die go for help themselves because they are little pussies to start with.

wrar

Joined: 5/2/2006

Msg: 41 (view)

Bullshight for girls to read Posted: 9/10/2006 3:44:33 PM
When you say "cancelling at the last moment", that implies that I actually managed to get a hold of her or vice versa. LOL

wrar

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What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 9/10/2006 12:09:34 AM
Unless you've been thinking about it for, like, eight years. It has little to do with thinking straingt...unless you're a complete retard and are going to do it in the heat of the moment.

wrar

Joined: 5/2/2006

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What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 9/9/2006 11:40:39 PM
Way to bring 9/11 into this. We were talking about suicide, you killjoy.

wrar

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Bullshight for girls to read Posted: 9/9/2006 11:35:14 PM
Meh, this girl has me down bad and I have been drunk for like thirteen days straight because of her. I am the man, yes however, I have not felt the same way about a girl since this chick I went out with for two or three years...bad news. I don't want anyone else right now unless she has black hair and was just on Howard on demand with John the stutterer.

wrar

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die from a lonely heart? Posted: 9/9/2006 11:30:44 PM
Meh, not likely....unless you kill yourself. Which you shouldn't do, just over a girl. You should do it because the world sucks ass and you have terrible luck with women...one of the best reasons for staying in this shithole. I mean uhm...suicide is bad.

wrar

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Bullshight for girls to read Posted: 9/9/2006 5:45:30 PM
Cold-hearted honesty> compassion Compassion is why this sucks so bad.

wrar

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Msg: 229 (view)

Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....? Posted: 9/9/2006 4:41:11 AM
Tacone is so fifty. You think he's in his late/mid forties or something?

wrar

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As I sit here listening to Dido... Posted: 9/9/2006 4:38:52 AM
Oh god, Dido?!! You like you own a pair of testicles. At least listen to the cure, Depeche Mode, Pixies or the Smiths. F***ing Dido? Seriously, until this day I had never known people that were/are proud owners of testicles even listened to her. Worst of all listening to that shit actually made you realise that women go through the same things with men, as men with women? Man...I mean...yeah, man...I guess.

wrar

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Msg: 616 (view)

What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 9/9/2006 4:33:53 AM
Where those statistics from? I use the logic that if someone is talking about it, they are looking for a reason not to/attention. The last part of that reply reiterated what I said...are you attempting to disagree with me and stating some sort of counterpoint, agreeing or both?

wrar

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Msg: 30 (view)

Bullshight for girls to read Posted: 9/9/2006 4:28:21 AM
I sort of did...I dunno. I don't really care what happens with us but she seems to. Whatever, I guess I'll see what happens. We didn't get back together or anything as far as I understand but she seems to be ver undecided. In her own words: "I want to you to be my friend but at the same time I want you to be more than that." Whatever that means. Meh, as far as I'm concerned we're done but might as well stoically go about things and see what developes.

wrar

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Bullshight for girls to read Posted: 9/7/2006 11:08:29 PM
She contacted me moments ago...

wrar

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Msg: 224 (view)

Why do Men ask to see your pics then NEVER talk to you again....? Posted: 9/7/2006 1:47:48 PM
Let me see, because they were disappointed by your appearance? Here's a good idea: post your pictures on your profile.

wrar

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Bullshight for girls to read Posted: 9/7/2006 1:45:25 PM
That's me; the headen gem, amongst piles of shit.

wrar

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Msg: 104 (view)

Should I trust her? Posted: 9/7/2006 1:39:38 AM
I'm not reading any replies but I did read the situation. I'd lock it up in the "memory banks" and never speak about it really. Make sure at one point or another, that guy finds out(like really, really finds out that she is taken...as in you knowing he has been told,etc not just her saying she told him) and if anything becomes of it, while you and her are still involved...you beat the everlasting shit out of him for chicken hawking you, then slap her across the mouth for being a cheating/lying whore and get really drunk after and except your cruel fate as being part of the territory of the nice guy, which always gets screwed around. Then again, she could be telling the truth, but girls don't do that often...most guys don't either come to think of it...lame =/

wrar

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W H Y? All opinions appreciated Posted: 9/7/2006 1:33:16 AM
Hmmm, does sound like he found someone else to me. Be miserable for a while, drink, get out of that hole and then find someone else. At least that's what everyone tells me to do. It's a lovely cycle.

wrar

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What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 9/7/2006 1:26:58 AM
No, they do. I know this first hand. It isn't a mysterious sort of mania. People that are going through it are just at wit's end and thinking about ending their life. They're not like a wild beast or anything. In all honesty, someone usually thinks about absolutely everything in their life and will look for a reason to not do it or try to get someone to talk them out of it. The people that you need to worry about are the people that cultivate it and keep it to themself for years and never really talk about it. People generally don't just flip and kill themselves...if someone does...well...they probably had some hefty issues and it was going to happen eventually. Just my opinion, in regards to the last part, but generally speaking, alot of rationalisation goes into the contemplation of suicide. I don't care what that Caroline woman says.

wrar

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Bullshight for girls to read...(at least he's thickskinned!) Posted: 9/7/2006 1:21:29 AM
The internet is a series of tubes!

wrar

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Msg: 606 (view)

What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 9/6/2006 11:22:54 PM
I don't know, it sucks really badly when someone kills themself and you were friends with them, etc. They know what they are doing though. That still sucks though, dude.

wrar

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Bullshight for girls to read...(at least he's thickskinned!) Posted: 9/6/2006 11:19:58 PM
True that. I have a full time commitment though, I like to call it work. Thanks for the [likely] unintentional jab at not having a life. I happen to have a life, it's just rather uneventful. Cheers.

wrar

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Bullshight for girls to read...(at least he's thickskinned!) Posted: 9/6/2006 7:23:21 PM
Meh, not on this website but I am more charming in person. Thanks dude. Cheers

wrar

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Msg: 603 (view)

What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 9/6/2006 1:13:23 PM
You acted as if you knew tonnes about the human psyche, even though you're on a dating website. You were also all like "oh I took antropology and psyche, rabble rabble rabble". Some of us have read the same text books, except have first time experience with it, and that includes people that have honestly killed theselves. Not a text book case, or some kid on the news, or a teenager that talks about it but never acts on it because they are yearning for attention. Here's a really big hint for you, dear...ready? If a teenager really, honestly wants to kill themself, they are not going to talk about it much. In fact, they generally just sort of do it. If someone is crying for help, they are not liable to do it. I have known four different people that have killed/tried to kill themselves. One told numerous people and screwed up by not taking enough pills. The other three kept it to themselves and did it. All I did in my initial posts should not have given ANYONE a "final push" unless they actually wanted to already. In fact, I state that doing it over a breakup is childish. Honestly though, pull your head out of your ass and realize that for some bizarre reason, you can't seem to understand that almost every person that kills themself gives it a long time and digests everything. People take it very seriously. If someone just gets an attack of mania and kills themself, how come they weren't on serious amounts of meds and therapy to start with, that's not something that just happens out of the blue. I am willing to bet that you are completely pro life though. Here's a little phrase that you will probably derisively snort at: "God" gave us free will and the abillity to do what we want with our bodies and our lives. (P.S psychiatrists aren't that great, all they do is talk to you a bit and give you pills. Therapists talk to you a bit more and give you referals to psychiatrists, to get pills. A huge number of young adults that commit suicide were already on ssri's and other nasty intake inhibitors. What does that tell you about how much therapists and shrinks know? You ever really, honestly talked to someone that is on the standard combo of welbutrin/effexor/paxil/diazapam/zoloft?! They aren't the most balanced people...they are arguably shadows of their former selves. Matt and Dylan, from the columbine shooting, were both on heavy amounts of ssri's...what does that tell you? Google it.)

wrar

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Bullshight for girls to read...that way-they can run a mile!!! Posted: 9/6/2006 12:49:21 PM
Funny you say that, Andy, I was drunk yesterday. No, I don't really plan on meeting any girls off this website. Charles Atlas better watch out though because this motherf***er packs a blade. I suppose I could fix my profile a bit, but I don't really care much about selling myself.

wrar

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Msg: 56 (view)

Approaching an anniversary or remembering day that someone close to you passed away.... Posted: 9/6/2006 2:27:00 AM
Get really drunk and/or use some illicit substances. Best way to look at it is that this world, for all of it's wonders, is a terrible place. They are somewhere infinetly better. One day, wether as individual entities, in some sort of B.S christian perception or crazy merging of sentient energy, you will be reunited and freed of this horrible place. Death comes to everyone and it is hard to accept it when it happens to someone, who seems to have been taken too early. It might seem like I have not encountered it much, but I assure you that I have numerous times. Reflection leads to enlightenment. Reflect, lament and cry. Hopefully you will understand (in your own way) or it will kill you inside.

wrar

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breaking hearts not good Posted: 9/6/2006 1:45:50 AM
I REPLY IN CAPITALS AND MUST SAY THAT PEOPLE BREAK HEARTS, PERIOD. OF COURSE YOU WILL ALWAYS BE CHOOSING THE WRONG WOMEN BECAUSE IF YOU CHOOSE THE RIGHT ONE, WHY THE HELL ARE YOU GOING TO BE CONTINUING TO LOOK FOR ONE?!!! WOULD YOU CONTINUE TO LOOK FOR SOMETHING AFTER YOU FIND IT?!! NO! WHY?! BECAUSE SOMETHING IS ALWAYS THE LAST PLACE YOU LOOK FOR A REASON. REPLYING IN CAPITALS ROCKS. /capitals off

wrar

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Bullshight for girls to read Posted: 9/6/2006 1:20:52 AM
true, troublemaker, true. I owe her nothanks though because the same thing has happened to me countless times. How disillusioning it is to knwo that I have another decade of it to look forward to. I meet girls on a quarter annual basis though, so maybe I will find one before the ten year mark...I'm sure I will. Either way though, shit like this just makes it harder for their successors. This one thought that I had trust issues and it is because of ones prior to her. It only get easier. I am almost certain when she gets a hold of me, there will be a good reason for everything, but right now, as it stands, she can eat shit and die and nothing will change.

wrar

Joined: 5/2/2006

Msg: 601 (view)

What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 9/5/2006 11:50:10 PM
Haha, they removed my replies. Basically, what I said was that, I can understand that a person can commit suicide because of a number of factors and the breakage of a heart is one of the adding factors, however the breakage of a heart, on it's own is childish. I like that Caroline later says that she is a psychiatrist etc, however, she used it as some sort of leverage, in a reply to me(which was not removed, might I add). Either way suicide over a long, long hatred of the world=up to the person affected. Suicide over breakage of heart=completely retarded. Hearts were made to be broken. edit: Oh, and earlier, Caro asked me what I would do if my sixteen-year=old wanted to kill temself. My reply was that I would take them for therapy sessions to see if it was just teenage angst or a legitimate wish. At sixteen, they know what they want, however, they do not know what life is about yet, so they need to figure it out but if years pass and they still want to die, that's them. It's not your fault or doing.

wrar

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Msg: 46 (view)

why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!! Posted: 9/5/2006 11:43:20 PM
Both genders do it. Read my new thread. Don't make gender-based generalizations. People are pieces of shit, period.

wrar

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Msg: 302 (view)

When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS Posted: 9/5/2006 11:41:56 PM
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