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Joined: 5/2/2006

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Phrases that put you off someone's profile Posted: 7/5/2008 5:17:26 PM
im not that shallow , lmao but if you like the looks im not going to say oh yes , but unfortunaly youve blown it by yr profile , is their a site that says perfect profiles , but as they say they who laughs longest lasts longest . happy days , nothings perfect not even reflections

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How do you handle not so good things in your profile? Posted: 12/28/2007 6:31:07 PM
humm , crimminal, convict , freeman , who are u now. ? your just you , we change adapt and alter depending on what life teachers , learns us , add in a pinch off hope a gesture off good luck , a tad off bad and what we have is me and you . and if i meet you in a bar or bump into you in the street , your just the person that stands before me now , and guess what , lets see because the you i see is you , im not faultless by no means , but im happy with who i am now , and i kinda feel i can still learn lots more , no bodys perfect but somebodys perfect for me , maybe its somebody like you ? . so be honest just be yourself now and let the past be past , i had a past member off my family , transported in chains , i dont tend to tell everyone or think its that relivant . to me now , but ive gotta past . lol. sheesh profiles , huh takes a bit more than a profile or a past ? to find out who me is , and i guess thats true of all of you ?.

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Slimmer pickin's when you get older? Posted: 6/5/2007 7:49:17 AM
came in late on the post , agree with tinkerbell , if you go and meet some one , anotheir person , who may have contacted me , , it maybe judged a date after the event or it may have been just a social event , one which i might enjoy repeating , without wanting to get that personal , i may just like the person , for the person they are . and if i get a call saying theirs something on at the week end , and would i like to go ( they dont want to go alone ? lol ) be it male or female , ( not bi-sexual ) then thats great . but you dont need p.o.f.to kick start that , depends what you think p.o.f can do for you . i think its great to say , hey im here and im looking and to see who else is , i expect everthing to go wrong , planning is a defonate no go area , but ive no great expectations and as such no great dissapointments . take it as it comes and make the most off what you have , my biggest worry is that some ex film star with loads off money would become as such my stalker , fortunatly thats as yet,not happend . but no point living in fear off it , i will just have to let her down as gently as i can , when it does ?. well i never said i was looking for rich , ex film stars did i . i guess thats the risk you take when u join p.o.f ? your not a film star , ? wow , u coulda fooled me , i guess its dutch then . lol

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Kissing & Mingling in Public @ 50 Posted: 4/30/2007 7:44:57 PM
oh yes , i just act spontainious at times , id arranged to meet at a garden center and without thinking walked up and kissed her on the back off the neck , youd have thought a wasp had stung her , the fragile object that she had been so deeply lost in thought admiring left her hands and at one point i thought it was about to dissapear though the glass roof , only in dismay did i realised it was heading back down , we both had the same thought , though while we were reposistioning ourselves for the catch , i happend to notice that she moved her trim and nimble self with a natural grace and ease , and at the same time the astonished looks from a couple who may have thought we were dancing , the object was caught and replaced on the shelf but while we were walking along a deserted isle i decided id just pull her over close and comfy and place a kiss on those lips , as i did looking over her sholder the same couple came around the corner , both grinned like chesire cats which broadend into a smile , did a about turn and dissapeared . i spent the rest off the day just cautious occasionally holding her hand . and nope we dident feel the need to get a room , just the feel good factor i guess . perhaps within reason we should act as we feel not feel the need to act how otheirs feel we should . i like to think that that otheir couple may have found the time place and encouagement to share the thought and the fredom off expression ( in the best possible taste , ) and perhaps if youd have caught me in the act and tutted yr disaproval , i hope i would have had the grace to reward you with a smile , oh yes the next time i saw her was when she came into the bar , i just got up walked towards the door , as she had not seen me and as we drew close i got a big beaming smile and i did it again pulled her close and kissed her , ( on the lips ! ) goddammit , i never gave any one else a thought . i can hear the tune , bad boys , ringing in my ears . what off those that found it gross nasty and unacceptable , the complaints dept is standing right here , perhaps if i were to walk over to his wife and plant a big warm one on her lips give her a wink and a smile ( lmao ) id see their point off view .

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Moving past initial attraction Posted: 4/30/2007 7:02:09 PM
simple questions can be complex , but to be breif , 1 = yes 2 = yes and at no point the reasons would be why ?.

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I need some help here....and please be serious.... Posted: 3/18/2007 5:53:00 PM
id reverse the situation , if possible , ask her if it had been her that passed away first and her husband was in turmoil grieving because off his loss , and not able to move on , unhappy desolate , would she say well yes thats what i want thats right , though i loved him more than anything would give do anything , now im not their for him , i dont want him to be able to have the chance to build any happyness or try , or have a companion a support , some love , perhaps not the love they had , but perhaps some small comfort . would she want and wish him that . or would she say no , its not a question off what she feels or thinks is right , perhaps the parting last gift he can leave is for her to realise , that if that love was so strong it will never be broken , cannot be , , and as such he would with some tenderness gently ease her back to life , would he not ? . such is true love ? so do for him what she would surely do , kiss him gently , and when in future years she laughs and smiles be sure that he smiles too knowing she is happy content and cared for .

Joined: 5/2/2006

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Ladies. Have you read Self-Made man? Posted: 3/17/2007 4:49:33 AM
nope no cage rattling intended , thats it , statement made and finished , its not up for disscussion but thanks for your opinion , its a little bit difficult to rephrase the point ? . how do you put it polite but firm ? besides if i wanted to rattle cagers theirs chat rooms for that , i will reread my comments and ponder your opinion . if i think i was wrong , then i will admit it , and thank you for bringing that to my attention , if foxx thinks im a *ickhead he is entiteld to his opinion , and i wont take offence or try and change his opinion off me . thats fine like the way you made yr point though its taken on board

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Ladies. Have you read Self-Made man? Posted: 3/16/2007 4:28:50 PM
foxx mulder . i found your post in this secton to backnblack offensive , you have done yourself as a person a disservice , i also amazed that no one has noticed the post also please do not take the liberty off thinking you can apoligise to me for some one else , you may do so if you were to seek backnblacks permission . just as i cannot apoligise to backnblack for yr remarks .

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single versus not single and why are you still on a dating site Posted: 3/16/2007 3:51:17 PM
basically yes its a free dating site , and basically thats what im looking for , i also use a pay site , and then again pal talk , various groups , im in a coup;e off bike groups , not that i ride , and the odd otheir group , its a free site whatever yr reasons are for comming here the site is what it is , use it or loose it , , if i found i basically disagreed or dident like the site , id move on . but you meet people were ever you are talk to complete stranger wont necessary mean yr a friend or a companion , go with the flow , read between the lines , dont think hope is a expectation , take it as it comes , be easy , relax and enjoy the positive side off the site nothing and nobodys perfect , though i could be close ( lmao ) as i was told the otheir day if it wasent bad it wouldent happen thats a great outlook because it has so much potential for improvment ?.

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no car, bad apartment, no cash flow WTF?? Posted: 3/16/2007 3:13:25 PM
whoa and wow , can i ask a question , nope i think not , lmao good debate thanks to all for their input , got me thinking about the cheese , crackers and a dvd thread doing it tomorrow thanks for the thought , and yes i am drinking warm beer with that , its not debatable . you want wine ?

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Do you ever get too 'old' for single sites? Posted: 3/15/2007 7:21:39 PM
well if you feel your loweering yr standards to get a date , thats a non starter , pointless exercise in wasting yr time . dosent matter if its a free site or you pay to join , theirs a fair mixture off all types on every site ?. and conversations a two way thing , some conversations ( all ) are two way traffic , you control part off it , and choice isent limited by age , as they say age is a number , and nope i dont think your the only 60 yr old still breathing , so at yr age with yr wisdom why are you asking me , id say look at yr self doubts , but nope i could appreciate yr company on many levals , but im fairly non critical , faults as seen are sometimes down to many reasons , and as such acceptance off who and what you and your partner are are not as such under ones direct personal control its not as such a individual personal fault ? i dont consider im lowering my standards , if im considerate off individual faults , sometimes the balence off a fault is outwayed by the overall effect the otheir person gives , we all have much to give . you reap what you sow ?. but its nice to meet you and hear your views and share your insight , my own view is not everything goes right all the time , the knack is turning that around , now i must go attend to my faults which are varid and many but looking on the bright side their not as many as their could be , strangly enough what one person sees as a fault anotheir says the thing i like about you ? lol.

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Male logic versus Female emotions.. Posted: 12/23/2006 1:12:46 PM
ah yes i see were your coming from , that fixing a problem is the end result , sucess were as some may see the way you fixed or indeed that you fixed the problem as not being the real issue , but how you react to certain things creates a problem in the eye off the beholder . yr both right in your own ways , its understanding the otheirs viewpoint thats the big problem we all face . i wonder if one dident fix the problem or couldent it wouldent matter that much as long as they approved off the way you did it and its posible they would also appreciate the way one tried and faileld , its a strange world we live in

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