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shadowknyght

Joined: 5/2/2006

Msg: 44 (view)

I fell Awkward Sending Messages to the Ladies!!! Posted: 7/15/2009 6:18:44 PM
The best thing I can suggest is to cruise the forums for someone within your area who said something interesting and comment on it. That way you atleast have something to talk about and both of you atleast know something about each other. That's probably the hardest part of conversing. Commonality, on my profile I mention a movie and then dinner. That's just so during the dinner you know you atleast have one thing in common, that's that you've seen the movie. And maybe that can spark conversations about other things. Atleast for me the worst thing is not knowing what to say. Not knowing whether what I'm saying to the person I'm talking to is clever, interesting, funny, or lame. Also, come up with an awkward silence conversation. That way even if things start to go bad and you're just sitting there not saying anything you have a topic to bring up, because believe me most women have had that moment where she's just staring at a guy from across the table with absolutely nothing to say, so just come up with a way to break awkward silences even if it's just by talking about how weird it is. Now if only I could listen to my own advice. DAMN!!!

shadowknyght

Joined: 5/2/2006

Msg: 43 (view)

I fell Awkward Sending Messages to the Ladies!!! Posted: 7/15/2009 6:09:53 PM
Brilliant strategy. I applaud you for it. Now if only I had thought of if first...DAMN!!!

shadowknyght

Joined: 5/2/2006

Msg: 89 (view)

Blondes Brunettes or Red Heads? And why do we have preferences? Posted: 7/15/2009 6:04:44 PM
It's all about perception. We have a preference because we think the blonde is going to be this way, or the brunette is going to be that way, or the red head...you get it. If you where to switch the perceived behaviors of the three, the people who like blondes would go for the girls with the "blonde personality" and so forth and so on. Or maybe some guys just really like the color red and think, hey her hair is red and I like red...maybe we should date.

shadowknyght

Joined: 5/2/2006

Msg: 143 (view)

If they call us women Cougars, what do they call the Men? Posted: 7/15/2009 6:00:23 PM
Dirty old **er, or guy who's getting played. Thems the two. You know what, I think I'd take Cougar over dirty old **er or fool.

shadowknyght

Joined: 5/2/2006

Msg: 170 (view)

What do I do with a hot lady with a smelly pussi? Posted: 7/15/2009 5:33:05 PM
Okay I just read the post now and...first off, really. That's the best way you could've come up with to bring it up. You might as well said, "Hey ** yo ** stinks." I mean seriously. Apparently the only thing more foul than her vag is your mouth.

shadowknyght

Joined: 5/2/2006

Msg: 169 (view)

What do I do with a hot lady with a smelly pussi? Posted: 7/15/2009 5:27:01 PM
Sex in the shower.

shadowknyght

Joined: 5/2/2006

Msg: 88 (view)

should men be upfront about their sexual fantasies/fetishes? Posted: 7/15/2009 5:26:13 PM
No, no, no, no, no!!!! Never!!! You should probably take your time and gauge the woman. Bring it up in casual conversation. Blame it on a buddy at first. Like so: Okay me and my boy Tom where chillin' out and we started talking about one of his old girlfriends. He was talking about how she used to.... And see how she takes it. Just make sure to keep your tone neutral so she can't tell if you're into it. Friends are always good scapegoats as long as they're not mutual friends.

shadowknyght

Joined: 5/2/2006

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Choking during sex Posted: 7/15/2009 5:20:48 PM
It's cool, as long as you're with the right guy. Just make sure you take all of the proper precautions.

shadowknyght

Joined: 5/2/2006

Msg: 100 (view)

Should foreplay be equal or mostly about her? Posted: 7/15/2009 5:17:21 PM
Mostly about her. I personally don't need foreplay. It can be fun and what not, but it's not a necessity. Anyways, if it starts being about me, then the sex is probably going to last shorter than if it's about her.

shadowknyght

Joined: 5/2/2006

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Why is it single men run the opposite direction when they find out your a single mother Posted: 7/15/2009 5:07:24 PM
It's probably about visions of interrupted encounters, dates, and playing the "daddy" role before they're ready. Not to mention some guys are nervous around kids.

shadowknyght

Joined: 5/2/2006

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What ALL Men Want... Posted: 7/15/2009 5:03:29 PM
I know this sucks, but honestly I'd one of two things. Absolutely nothing and feel like a loser or walk over there, try to have a conversation...fail cause I'm too nervous, then walk away and prove I am one...then think of the perfect thing that I should've said like five minutes later when it's too late to do anything about it.

shadowknyght

Joined: 5/2/2006

Msg: 68 (view)

Does God answer prayer? Posted: 7/17/2007 5:41:37 PM
My guess is yes and no. If God knows what you're going to do and how you're going to respond to a specific situation, he's probably already set things into motion to fulfill your needs. God probably even knows whether you'll pray in one situation and not in the other. Just because we have free will, doesn't mean that God can't/hasn't anticipated what paths our wills will take us and made provisions(spelling) for us. Let's put it this way, if God has a plan, I doubt he's going to allow someone going left instead of right to ruin his master plan. He already knows what we're going to do and what we will need as well as what we'll pray for and what we won't. My guess is that everything that is supposed to work out will and everything that isn't won't, no matter whether you pray for it or not. If anything said here convinces someone not to pray for something...it won't matter because God already knew it would happen and made provisions(spelling)

shadowknyght

Joined: 5/2/2006

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Creation vs Evolution Posted: 7/17/2007 5:31:55 PM
Well as far as Intelligent Design v/s Evolution, they're not direction opposed. It could be as simple as God designed evolution as the mechanism by which to achieve what he wanted. I'm personally not a Christian, but that doesn't sound like it's beyond the realm of possibility. Similar to the BB Theory v/s Creation. The Big Bang could simply be the mechanism that God used to create everything. Alot of people still tend to think of God in terms of "magic" but perhaps it's time to start thinking of him in terms of science instead. Perhaps God sets things in motion so he doesn't have to sit around and manipulate every single minute detail. I mean he as a master plan for goodness sakes. Things fell out of whack so he developed this long drawn out mechanism in order to do what. Get everything back to the way it was before Adam and Eve sinned.

shadowknyght

Joined: 5/2/2006

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Thoughts on cloning. Posted: 7/17/2007 5:20:37 PM
Well one great benefit of cloning would be having another full body of organs just waiting for you. That's assuming that clones, since they have no souls or spirits, would just sit there and be essentially brain dead. Hell if they could get the whole brain transplant thing down, you could be almost immortal as long as your brain doesn't degrade. The "problem" with cloning comes from the whole "playing God" aspect of it. The thought that by changing people or helping them through genetic manipulation of any sort is against Gods will. Of course looking at it that way means that someone shouldn't get treatment for a disease because if they got the disease it was obviously God's will.

shadowknyght

Joined: 5/2/2006

Msg: 70 (view)

Why Doesn't God Destroy Satan? Posted: 7/17/2007 5:10:45 PM
I'm not a bible scholar or anything, but I don't think God can destroy Satan or any spiritual being for that matter. Imprison, yes...destroy probably not. I'm not positive, but I'm pretty sure all of the 1/3 of the angels that fell with Satan/Lucifer still exist. I don't think there were any casualties of the war in heaven, just who got put where. If I'm not mistaken, in the end, Satan is cast into the lake of fire, to burn for all eternity. He's not destroy, just imprisoned. I'm not saying that God can't do it if he really wanted to. He's just limited by what he's already established. So if somewhere along the line he says that he can't destroy spiritual beings or that spiritual beings cannot be destroyed...he could never destroy Satan, unless he wanted to start everything from scratch. Anyone here ever see the movie Dogma. It's kinda like that.

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