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Tom Orrow

Joined: 8/26/2004

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Compatibility Test - How to get it off Profile? Posted: 5/12/2007 5:43:49 PM
I made the test as well. Hahaha, I'm not sure if I like the results, but it certainly was accurate. At least it gave me some things to think about. Is it really added to my profile? I'll have to check that out, but, if the results are in there, I will not delete it. Why should I if I think the result is right? Have a good time everybody! Tom

Tom Orrow

Joined: 8/26/2004

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Disappointed Posted: 2/4/2007 10:20:42 AM
Hi Wanda I just read your profile. Looks ok to me. And I like the picture of your cat. It really tells something about you. The picture of you in front of the lake is very good too. You look relaxed there. So, you just need to wait for the right fish to bite. Don't worry, it will happen, I'm sure. Good luck Tom What might help a bit: Write in the forums, people may get to know you a little better by that.

Tom Orrow

Joined: 8/26/2004

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Why do guys say baby - honey - sweetie Posted: 9/2/2006 6:27:25 PM
hahaha My girl and I call each other Sweety (with a capital) amongst some other pet names. Feels good and relaxes me. And there is an old (girl) friend that has a special name for me too that I wouldn't except from anybody else. But from her it feels good too for I know of the warm friendship that lays beneath that name she gave me. I think it mostly depends on WHO is giving you a pet name. And what it expresses. If my girl would use the same pet names for me and for everybody else, it would certainly hurt me. Tom

Tom Orrow

Joined: 8/26/2004

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How nosy are you? Posted: 9/2/2006 5:29:19 PM
I think I would not notice it at all if my girlfriend is nosy. I don't care a bit, have no secrets for her at all. I even find it pleasant if she is interested in every thing I do. So what's the point? On the other hand, I am not nosy myself. I don't get into her stuff unless she invites me to do so. And I know she keeps things hidden from me...for a while. Finally she tells me anyway, she needs my opinion, my care for her. All it needs from me is a little patience sometimes and in this way we demonstrate trust in each other which is very comforting for the both of us. The moment you find yourself searching through your partners things, spare yourself the trouble and just leave. It's a sign of distrust. Tom

Tom Orrow

Joined: 8/26/2004

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Whats with all the non single or available peeps on POF? Posted: 8/13/2006 2:33:25 PM
So.... I'm not single anymore, but I was when I signed up here. Don't you want to hear that it can be succesful? I dont come often here anymore, I know that my girl, who I met in here is still signed in at POF. She made friends here and is still meeting them in here. No big deal, we don't cheat, neither each other or people who contact us. You should be glad that there are more people here to contact than just the searching ones. It would be like a community with only one single kind of people: BORING! So, relax about it. Ignore the married couples if you want, but if you want to contact them....they are here where you can easily make contact with them. Good luck to you all! Tom Oh bye the way, we are not interested in physical contact with others, only in exchanging thoughts.

Tom Orrow

Joined: 8/26/2004

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Don't waste your time reading this Posted: 8/13/2006 2:14:28 PM
Hi Jon The funniest I read in a long time. Wishing you good fortune in here. Good luck Tom

tom orrow

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Canadian / American relationships.. can it work??? Posted: 1/15/2006 6:26:33 PM
Hey! Are you talking about me? I'm fifty years of age and last spring a Canadian lady send me an email through POF. Ever since my life gained in quality, I've traveled to Canada and we spent some weeks together. And fantastic weeks it were! I don't know if this kind of relation would work for everybody, but it does to us. Oh, by the way, I live in Holland, Europe. A bit more distance than you might have thought in the first place. Don't bother about age or distance boys and girls, true love will make it all less important. And although we can't be together at the moment, we do have a very good contact, several times each day. I love her, she loves me. We help each other just by communication. Age has made us both very determined in what we want. Good luck to all of you! Tom

tom orrow

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JUST GOT MARRIED, 10-13-05 Posted: 10/16/2005 3:34:30 PM
congratulations! Tom Orrow (and Twinklestar)

tom orrow

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Addictions?!? Have any? Posted: 9/18/2005 5:18:28 PM
I already mentioned my old addictions some time ago, but since a little twinkling star started writing me, I have two new ones. * Making pictures for her * Reading her lovely letters. Tom

tom orrow

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how much of a distance makes a long distance relationship impossible Posted: 9/13/2005 4:57:06 PM
We live at different continents at this moment. Six hours time difference and yet..... Yes, it will work! She's willing to move, isn't that a great gift of love? Hehehe, I'm the luckiest guy at POF!!!!

tom orrow

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When is it time to pull your profile? Posted: 9/13/2005 4:36:11 PM
We didn't pull our profile, my sweety and I. I like the forums and she likes to meet friends to chat with. We both are clear about not looking any longer to meet that special person because we found each other. Yes, right here at POF. We trust each other completely and it's not even rare we do for we are so much alike. No need to pull our profiles. Besides, we tease each other sometimes by sending a message through the message service here. I don't doubt her, she doesn't doubt me and we both have our benefit from not pulling our profiles. Tom Orrow (and if you read this, my Sweety.... I love you)

Tom Orrow

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would you date a guy who still lives with parents? Posted: 5/16/2005 3:46:06 PM
So, Jetplague, no harm done. You consider such a girl unfair, well then, would you like to meet an unfair girl? Of course it hurts a bit when you're turned down for the wrong reasons, but you might as well be glad: It's also unpleasant to tell a girl you don't want to meet her again because she's too stupid. Have a good night or day or whatever it is on your side of the world. Tom

Tom Orrow

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would you date a guy who still lives with parents? Posted: 5/15/2005 5:33:32 PM
There's a huge difference between living AGAIN with your parents, or STILL with your parents. And of course the age is a big factor. My sister went very ill after her divorce. I'm glad she got well again by staying with our parents for a few months. There isn't anything wrong with that! Tom

Tom Orrow

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Addictions?!? Have any? Posted: 4/24/2005 4:53:16 PM
Tabacco (cigarettes that is). And I've got addicted to the posts of ltlwhip (she's great). Alcohol? sometimes! But, as being Dutch, my biggest addiction is to liquorice, sweet salted liquorice! Tom

Tom Orrow

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Have you dared to meet someone who never showed a pic? Posted: 4/22/2005 4:28:56 PM
I dated a girl a year ago who had sent me her picture. A rather dark brunette. She turned out to be blond, most possible red. She even didn't want to tell me her real hair color. Painted and shaven. So now I really don't mind about a picture, it can be such a lie. It's more important to me if a new contact is honest and open minded.

Tom Orrow

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Here's a question for everyone... Posted: 4/19/2005 5:03:18 PM
I'd like to keep a smile and the twinkle of an eye in that small bag.

Tom Orrow

Joined: 8/26/2004

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Accurate or Not?? Posted: 4/2/2005 3:54:31 PM
As getting really near fifty, I find myself having less tolerance. Not because I'm a sulky old man, but because I've learned through the years. I have a better understanding about what I want in a partner's character. One thing remains: I would like to find a real good girlfriend again.

Tom Orrow

Joined: 8/26/2004

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Are you afraid of growing Old alone? Posted: 2/19/2005 6:18:08 AM
Not afraid of growing old, but once I was very ill, laying alone in bed and hardly noticed by anyone. An awful experience!

Tom Orrow

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WHAT'S YOUR BEST ONE LINER JOKE...AND BE RUDE AND CRUDE? Posted: 2/6/2005 4:23:48 PM
Last year there was a nut contest in the US. Wallnuts....coconuts..... The first price had to be shared by Bush and Kerry.

Tom Orrow

Joined: 8/26/2004

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Jokes--I need a laugh!!! Posted: 2/5/2005 5:52:07 PM
Thank you all. I had a great laugh! (hope I didn't wake the neighbors).

Tom Orrow

Joined: 8/26/2004

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your favorite place ( in your town) Posted: 2/5/2005 5:18:59 PM
In my town I like to go to the market, it's very international. People from all over the world (well, almost) are selling and buying food. You'll get good cooking advice as well, very funny. But whithin half an hour, I'm at the beach. Lovely that is. We don't have cliffs here, it's all sand; beach and dunes. Looking out over the gray water of the North Sea hmmmmm Tom

Tom Orrow

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Worse dating exp? I think I win. Posted: 1/30/2005 4:47:11 PM
Reading all this.... Pffffff I'm lucky, you all win from me! Tonight I met my ex, had a nice chat and we both went our own ways again. She's doing fine and so am I. Tom

Tom Orrow

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When do you hate being alone the most? Posted: 1/30/2005 4:17:02 PM
The time in bed just before going to sleep; that little hugh, little kiss, saying good night. Falling in sleep together, that's what I miss most. Tom

Tom Orrow

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eating problems Posted: 1/30/2005 4:09:44 PM
This sounds serious, Dawson. Please don't hesitate in seeing a doctor. I dated a girl last year with the same problem. I never found out what caused it, but the result was that she didn't have any energy to face the events, good or bad, in her life. I don't know what has become of her, she was seeing a doctor the last time we had contact, but her healing would take a very long time. Partly she was depressed by the lack of money, or rather the lack of luxury. But it got her down, for sure! So, please go see a doctor and whatever you do, don't stop eating. Tom

Tom Orrow

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If , money had nothing to do with it. Posted: 1/30/2005 3:58:17 PM
I think I would do the same as I do now: trying to fix defective electronics; I like my job very much. But I wouldn't be working as an employee, I 'd be working independently and only helping people who treat me respectively. Hmmm, nice dream! Tom

Tom Orrow

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ducks.... good laugh! Posted: 1/29/2005 4:54:07 PM
Hahahaha I like ducks and jokes, the combination is great! Tom

Tom Orrow

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RIP Common Sense Posted: 1/26/2005 4:49:53 PM
Real love could give birth to a new Common Sense. Let's try to be supporting uncles and aunts wherever we see a trace of this new life.

Tom Orrow

Joined: 8/26/2004

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for Mr Simple Posted: 1/26/2005 12:52:07 PM
The secratary-general Anan, recently stated that only a small amount off promised payments actually are being paid. I heard that the USA has the largest debt to the UN in the world. But maybe I'm wrong, I'm not posting to shock anyone, I'm just sad to see blind people. I think it's a good thing to tell the blind what they are facing, just thought I could help a bit. But blind and deaf is something too much for me, keep walking, the inferno is right in front. Tom

Tom Orrow

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Is the USA a evil Empire? Posted: 1/25/2005 5:42:40 PM
I cannot find anything Christian in the way the USA behaves. Wasn't there something as turning the other cheek? forgiving each others sins? revenge is mine? To me, the USA uses the banner of Christianity to hide the real goals. Being brought up in the same religion is an insult to me. Tom

Tom Orrow

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Is the USA a evil Empire? Posted: 1/25/2005 9:18:11 AM
So far I've read that quite a few options are: The people are good / The government is bad. (Just simplified the opinions so far). But how can that be in a democracy? Aspecialy when the American Army is pushing it into everyone's throat all over the world to get a democratic government. In general I agree with the statement that Amercans are nice and the American government is a bully. But the same nice Amercans are responsible for having elected that very government. Somehow it's confusing. In Germany the memorial of the bombardment of Dresden were in the last days. Keep in mind: this big town has been bombarded at the very end of the second world war, not for tactical reasons, but just because the world was sick of the Germans, who started two big wars. The bombardment was justified by the argument that Germany elected it's dictator and therefor the civilians were responsible as wel for the second world war. And don't think this doesn't count for Americans....it was America and Brittain who judged and bombed with the silence agreement of the western world. If history repeats itself, America takes the risk of being judged and punished in an equal manner. I just hope it will take place so far in the future, that it won't effect my life.

Tom Orrow

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Is the USA a evil Empire? Posted: 1/24/2005 3:59:42 PM
Nothing an be called 100% evil. Nothing can be graded 100% good. In Europe we get more points of view because our many governments and we have direct access to broadcasts from many different countries. At least...it's what we think we have. When there was a communist threatening, it was nice to have this big strong brother watching. But as the threat is gone, this big brother has become the most scaring. Not only because he's so strong, but even more because he is lieing to himself. America is becoming the bully of the world and Amercans don't seem to see this, or even worse, they don't care a bit. The stronger the USA is pushing it's own opinion and rules to the rest of the world, the more countries will oppose. My fear is that finally the opposition wil get strong enough to theach the Amercans a lesson about behavior and respect. In fact, it already started. Don't think suicide-attack is something the Arabs invented. It's behavior of people who are pushed beyond their limits. I know that I don't have all the facts, but maybe the best solution against these attacks is: respect a life for everybody worth living for. Tom

Tom Orrow

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will be off-line Posted: 1/17/2005 3:31:17 PM
Sorry to hear. But you'll be back soon, I hope. Tom

Tom Orrow

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bring it back!!!!!!!!!!!!..................... Posted: 1/14/2005 6:13:22 PM
I liked that feature too

Tom Orrow

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Filling the weekend Posted: 1/14/2005 5:55:43 PM
On saterday I'll have to do my shoppings, fix things in the house, read the mail, look at my financials. On sunday I'll visit my mom or another relative. Most probably one of them will visit me also in the afternoon. If not, I'll have to do some washing and do something about the dust. Still have to do some studies en technical developements (theories I'm gonna test the coming week). Social life ???? Maybe next weekend. I really should visit my xgf one day, long time no see. And there are some friends too I have not seen in months. Tom

Tom Orrow

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Whose your favorite cartoons and comics character? Posted: 1/13/2005 4:24:08 PM
DAFFY DUCK DAFFY DUCK DAFFY DUCK Not for his speaththth-problem, but for being stubborn and having such a big mouth and anger. Really love that creature.

Tom Orrow

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Which angel or demon are you? (quiz) Posted: 1/13/2005 3:28:01 PM
I'm an angel of youth. Hehehe, it fits! (when I don't look at the calender or the mirror) Tom

Tom Orrow

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What kind of alcoholic drink are you? (quiz) Posted: 1/13/2005 10:34:31 AM
I got wine for result But of course it should be genever (our awfull Dutch drink) Tom

Tom Orrow

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What kind of alcoholic drink are you? (quiz) Posted: 1/12/2005 3:35:28 PM
@ltlwhip I couldn't make you a better fitting complement. You're fun to have around.

Tom Orrow

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Having a hard time moving on... Posted: 1/11/2005 4:20:08 PM
It is an experience a lot of humans share Canadiana. Hm, my last girl's name was Diana, it rings bells. Never knowing for shure why he or she broke up is a part of missing the sharing of thoughts I think. But hey, somewhere the sun is shining, somewhere there are friends, people here at POF will listen to you. And although many people have been through the same, a lot of them have found a new life. I wish you well

Tom Orrow

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referred to this by my sis Posted: 1/7/2005 5:28:06 PM
I'm not married, but not looking for it just like you. Welcome Rumad and say "hallo" to Belle from me

Tom Orrow

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The Stupid things we do: Posted: 1/7/2005 5:21:59 PM
Bored: that's what makes you godess human. Hehehe I'm also very human, doing stupid things all the time, mostly keeping things I never need again and throwing away things I'll search for tomorrow.

Tom Orrow

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Bring back the dead! Posted: 1/7/2005 10:34:38 AM
Mike, what you sad about the German gouvernment at the time of the nazies isn't quite tru. The Americans refused to sell helium to the Germans. That caused the disaster with the "Hindenburg". Americans refused helium to Germany because of the war danger it would bring to America if Germans could easely cross the ocean. So, the tru face of the nazi gouvernment was known to the Americans. Tom

Tom Orrow

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How many people on this site have success stories??? Posted: 1/6/2005 4:37:05 PM
Ohhhhh, you lucky lads and lassies! Tom

Tom Orrow

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Muslim Jihadist Killing Everywhere Posted: 1/3/2005 3:19:46 PM
Hmmm.... I think I know a country that's going to be invaded by American troops. There seems to be a country in the middle-east having mass-destruction-weapons, even nuclear! Tom

Tom Orrow

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My 2 Cents - Not supporting the troops BS Posted: 1/3/2005 3:13:57 PM
Joe! Hey, good post. Please let your story be told as much as you can. It's not George Bush I fear, but the lack of knowledge by which he got himself in the Whitehouse. Fight this lack of knowledge. If there is anyone who can, it's you. Thanks Tom

Tom Orrow

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Jokes Posted: 1/2/2005 4:21:44 PM
Tom

Tom Orrow

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Easy way to get rid of pesky bugs!! Posted: 1/2/2005 3:54:31 PM
I've got some bugs in my computerprograms. I'll try the syrup. Bbbbuuuttt ttthhhee kkkeeeyyybbbbooooaaarrrdddd ggggeeettttsss sssttttiiiccckkkyyyy Tttttttom

Tom Orrow

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Muslim Jihadist Killing Everywhere Posted: 12/30/2004 5:52:32 PM
@PoeticPrince I just had a fast look at your profile. D*mn! You'r Canadian! I so wished there would be someone from the US with a healthy brain and the ability to speak so clearly as you do. Well, I keep looking and hoping against all odds. In the mean time: keep spreading your view on the world. I really hope it will make a difference. If there is anything I can do to support you, just let me know. Tom

Tom Orrow

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What Turns You Off?? Posted: 12/29/2004 3:57:27 PM
Arrogant people turn me off, but it's only fair to say that's one of my own bad things as well. (Otherwise I would hardly notice, would I?) And people who are interfearing with my life and way of living I hate as well. Tom

Tom Orrow

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honest thoughts please Posted: 12/29/2004 3:40:53 PM
Beautifull picture Kristen! It's easy to understand your husband is hurt right now, but he'll get over it. It's a hard time for the both of you, try to be together, feel together... Wishing you all the luck in the world Tom

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