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riotprovocateur

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To those who have a long shopping list of requirements does it help your relationship? Posted: 5/14/2006 3:20:02 AM
I wouldn't do all that BS just to please someone's parents.. You either love the package or you... hate it and send it across the continent to Mexico. I would agree to not smoking at the parents place, but I'm not going to lie about it or change my habits to keep them happy. Then again with your mom, spooky... Think I'd go outta my way to stink myself up with tobacee. ;)

riotprovocateur

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Some weird & some wonderful pets! Posted: 5/4/2006 8:02:37 PM
The strangest pet I have right now is a pueblan milksnake named "Snake" oddly enough.. When I was a kid we used to have a lot of baby sparrows and blue jays around when they fell out of their nests and such. Oh and some dead mice in my freezer, they're so easy to care for.

riotprovocateur

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A question for men Posted: 5/4/2006 5:40:58 PM
Life is boring without a game to play every now and then.

riotprovocateur

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Finding a Relationship (Battle of Sexes) Posted: 5/4/2006 5:40:28 PM
I like to fight for power.. but then Im just a volatile person. I routinely rough up my dates.

riotprovocateur

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help he wont leave me alone Posted: 5/4/2006 5:39:27 PM
Walk around the house with the blinds open.. naked... but be sure NOT to shave your legs for 3 months or so. Problem solved?

riotprovocateur

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Initially Dealing With Break Up Posted: 5/4/2006 5:35:26 PM
I suggest copious amounts of tequila.

riotprovocateur

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What exactly defines Good Looking? And what tempts someone in a relationship. Posted: 5/4/2006 5:34:31 PM
A huge, bulging wallet! I kid.. I always find myself attracted to something different everytime, so who knows.

riotprovocateur

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Advice (no relationship, sorry) Posted: 3/21/2006 6:08:24 PM
First I'd like to say don't presume to know what I've been through in my life, secondly.. a brat? I've worked fulltime jobs, I've lived on my own, I am not an ignorant child. I came here for advice, not to have you cut me down and tell me that I know nothing. Staying home was NOT my idea at all in the first place, my Father INSISTED that I stay at home while I was going to school (not to mention WORKING two jobs while I was at it). I don't feel like I should have to keep everyone pleased when I'm trying to get somewhere in the future. I don't feel that working, missing out on opportunities to get myself back on track academically are CONDUCIVE to a meaningful and productive future.. and I certainly don't feel that I should even be defending myself when all I did was ask for some advice. That aside, like I said I've done the whole fulltime school and fulltime (later parttime) job on the side.. I bombed. Sure, maybe I'm not the most organized or strong willed person (like all these single parent students you've been mentioning) but that's the way I am. I don't know what else to say beyond that.

riotprovocateur

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Advice (no relationship, sorry) Posted: 3/21/2006 3:49:31 PM
If they need money then all I have to do is call up the student loan folks and tell them to up the loan. It's not as if I spend thousands of dollars on fun anyway.. I'm already nervous enough (social anxiety) to care too much about being out all the time and I'm already on the verge of shooting myself in the face, which they really don't understand.

riotprovocateur

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Advice (no relationship, sorry) Posted: 3/21/2006 3:43:43 PM
Our agreement before was that I would go to school full time and wouldn't have to work or pay rent, suddenly they tell me I have to work along with school, but don't have to pay rent... er, WHY? It's not like they're giving me an allowance, I don't use their money.

riotprovocateur

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Advice (no relationship, sorry) Posted: 3/21/2006 3:33:56 PM
I've been thinking.. I don't think I can go to school AND work at the same time. My parents want me to be going to university fulltime AND working parttime during the year. While I'm off for the summer they want me to work fulltime. I DON'T WANNA! I want to go take some courses this summer and get them out of the way, catch up and everything. I don't NEED a job like they say I do. It's not even so much that I don't want to do both at the same time, it's more that I CAN'T. I'm so easily stressed out and when I am I just kind of go into this completely retarded state where I accomplish nothing. What do you guys think? Should I: a) Work fulltime all summer, not take any classes and STAY BEHIND b) Take the summer courses, catch up and feel like I'm doing something in life c) Work and go to school, haev a breakdown because I'm pathetic d) Skip town (this is my first choice, really) Pleeeeeease someone help, I'm at the end of my short rope. ps- I don't know where to put this and it's totally irrelevant to anything having to do with relationships, but sorry. You people are smarter than anyone else I would ask advice from.

Riotprovocateur

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Question? Which radio station do you listen to? Posted: 2/4/2006 3:32:24 PM
I used to listen to Power 97 religiously, but I think I've grown tired of the constant talking and over-exposure of certain bands. I'm pretty content with FREQ 107 and their tendency to showcase a lot of local talent.

Riotprovocateur

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You know you had to much to drink when . . . . . . Posted: 2/4/2006 12:53:59 AM
When inanimate objects are mistaken for people..?

Riotprovocateur

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Bars Posted: 2/3/2006 10:53:29 PM
The Dak....... but only because it was a 2 minute walk from my high school. So many lunch hours spent on Tequila wars.

Riotprovocateur

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Blind Date Posted: 2/3/2006 10:37:44 PM
This is so much fun! Like being in an old folk's home except no one is pinching my cheeks (or ass, in the case of the randy old fellers). :P I guess I shouldn't complain though, I'd get more action there than at any bar around here. And in regards to your post, Cowardly.. I have no idea why you can't message me but I'll give you a shout and play match maker anyhow.

Riotprovocateur

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Blind Date Posted: 2/3/2006 3:20:21 PM
Who's up for a completely random blind date tonight or tomorrow night? A good friend of mine got stood up and so I've decided to take it upon myself to find her a new (and improved) first date. She's pretty big on spontaneity, so whatever whomever is up for is pretty much a go. Strippers? Sure. A show? Double sure. A movie? Why not... Yes, I mean anything (short of sodomy I guess.. that's really more of a second or third date thing). Now I've noticed most of the people that post here in our cozy little cranny of a Manitoba forum are old (yes you're old :P) I guess I should be pretty specific here... Someone 18-25ish is preferable. I'm tired of typing this now, so hopefully someone will take notice and message me for pictures and to make plans... I'm such a wonderful friend, give me a medal. I suppose I should also mention that she's 19, about 5'2" and average? I'd bang her if I was into the girl on girl action.

Riotprovocateur

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Dealing with Depression positively? Posted: 2/3/2006 1:45:15 PM
Oh man.. Let's get Tom Cruise in here.

Riotprovocateur

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YOUNG LOVE.....Can it work? Posted: 2/3/2006 12:16:54 AM
My parents got together (officially) when my Mom was 16 and my Dad was 22 and after 25 years they're still together.. so obviously it can work out, but I wouldn't put my money on it. I don't necessarily think it SHOULD either.. I'd feel that I was missing out on things if I met the one person I was going to be with forever (maybe I have, but I'm trying not to get my hopes up here). It seems to me one of you at the very least will eventually want to seek something new, if for no other reason than to reaffirm the belief that you're with who you're supposed to be with.

Riotprovocateur

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Approaching women in bars Posted: 1/23/2006 1:44:22 PM
"Hey do I know you? No? Strange, I swear to God you're my future ex wife" does not work... Nor does "Are you two sexy sisters? Because you have the same eyebrows". Erm.. whaaa?

riotprovocateur

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He's amazing. His looks aren't. Posted: 1/19/2006 10:50:57 AM
I suggest fire.

riotprovocateur

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Lets discuss the content of the book LOVE SMART by DR PHIL MCGRAW Posted: 1/15/2006 2:20:20 AM
I think the country star by the same last name would have better advice... Dr.Phil makes me vomit with rage.

riotprovocateur

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Are You Attending The 2010 Winter Olympics: Posted: 1/10/2006 1:07:58 PM
I'd kill to go watch the hockey.. Maybe I'll just put university on hold for 4 years so I can save up for tickets.

riotprovocateur

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People under age thirty should not be allowed marriage. Posted: 1/10/2006 1:01:10 PM
Hey good idea.. why don't we also revoke the freedom for anyone under 30 to vote or drink alcohol or ride a bike without training wheels!

riotprovocateur

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Would YOU stick around for your love? Posted: 1/3/2006 12:01:37 AM
Well I certainly hope you don't have any children in the future... I get the feeling you would take them to see a backstreet abortionist if they had any problems in their adolescence.

riotprovocateur

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Would YOU stick around for your love? Posted: 1/2/2006 9:32:15 PM
They don't do drugs anymore or even drink, infact I get an earful just for drinking too much... So that's not even a problem.

riotprovocateur

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Would YOU stick around for your love? Posted: 1/2/2006 7:51:02 PM
My problem? A MARTYR? You're right, I'm sure alot of folks just pick up the crazies as a "project" of sorts. That's incredibly insulting.. Would you feel the same way if the person in question was a close friend of yours? No one chooses who they fall for in any case. Besides, I'm no prize pig myself and this person has spent countless hours listening, reassuring, helping. If it weren't a 50/50 relationship I wouldn't stick around REGARDLESS of their state of mind. EDIT: This was directed toward Sam.

riotprovocateur

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Would YOU stick around for your love? Posted: 1/2/2006 7:40:26 PM
So Talitha, you would simply sweep them aside, leave them in the gutter? I think our definitions of "love" differ a smidge.

riotprovocateur

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Would YOU stick around for your love? Posted: 1/2/2006 7:08:05 PM
Would you stick around with someone that has some pretty serious emotional problems? I'm speaking about someone that's Bipolar, has been in and out of "programs" in their youth, is a recovered meth head... They're trying their damnedest to fix their life. You knew what you were getting into when you started a relationship with this person and despite loving them, the fact that you can't help them just drives you crazy.. You want things to get better for them but feel as though they never will. So would you stick around?

RiotProvocateur

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Bizarre love triangles.. Posted: 11/3/2005 2:44:26 AM
Oh don't worry, Carrie broke it to Rob.. and despite the fact he was insanely pissed off with and jealous of Lynn all is getting back to normal. Except the sexy little somethin' somethin' between Lynn and Carrie. COUGH

RiotProvocateur

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Bizarre love triangles.. Posted: 11/3/2005 1:01:21 AM
Your good, under-rated friend sandpaper...

RiotProvocateur

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Bizarre love triangles.. Posted: 10/24/2005 1:18:08 PM
I (oh.. I mean LYNN) is all for the hot lesbian kiss, but Carrie seems to have disappeared. Things are grim indeed. Love (enter shape here)s are no good.. It's time to join a convent.

RiotProvocateur

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Bizarre love triangles.. Posted: 10/23/2005 4:31:38 PM
First of all, drinking is always the solution to everything.. Secondly, I never thought of this as a fantasy cybersex plot, but now that you mention it I'm going to write a harlequin novel and make millions. Thanks. Thirdly, HOTTEST THREESOME EVER..

RiotProvocateur

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Bizarre love triangles.. Posted: 10/23/2005 4:12:02 PM
Carrie's convinced Rob is only going to her because things between Rob and Lynn just can't work... And Rob doesn't know that his longtime love swings both ways (oh my). He'll be devasted by both Carrie and Lynn. Poor Rob.. His old love and his new interest are ditching him for eachother.

RiotProvocateur

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Bizarre love triangles.. Posted: 10/23/2005 4:07:00 PM
What are you to do when a friend (let's call her Carrie) confides in you, explains how the man you love (let's call him Rob),though are not currently with has expressed his intentions to change what Carrie and Rob have into something more. Take it to the next level, as it were. Carrie explains that this is very awkward, as she does not find men attractive, and Rob is no exception. Hey guess what, to make this a little more bizarre let's make Carrie a lesbian! Now Carrie doesn't want to break Rob's heart, can't tell him that she doesn't want anything more than the wonderful friendship they already have. Now here's where it gets really ugly... Rob and you (let's call you Lynn) also have a very good friendship and have had very strong feelings for eachother for years. However Things can't work for a number of reasons, but there is still something special between you and Rob. So Carrie let's Lynn know that she doesn't want rob, she wants, well.. Lynn. Ahh I'll make a long story short (I'm confusing myself): Rob wants Carrie, suddenly. Carrie wants Lynn, but doesn't want to hurt Rob. Lynn wants Carrie but doesn't want to hurt Rob. WHAT'S A GIRL TO DO?!?!?

RiotProvocateur

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One sentance story.................. Posted: 10/17/2005 9:58:18 PM
And up pops Granny from underneath the sheets!

RiotProvocateur

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What are you looking for in the fish pond????? Posted: 10/16/2005 8:25:15 PM
All I'm looking for is someone who I'll remain interested in for more than 3 minutes.

RiotProvocateur

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Plane Spotting Posted: 3/23/2005 5:03:37 PM
I've wanted to get into flying planes for a while now, but as of now I don't know much about them... I lose.

RiotProvocateur

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What are the truly free sites? Posted: 1/2/2005 6:21:01 PM
I always snickered when people mentioned online dating, but now I find myself hooked.. :S Anyways, I started off on www.findsomeone.com It's free, and has an acceptable number of people. Have fun..

RiotProvocateur

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WINNIPEG, MANITOBA Posted: 10/28/2004 12:05:31 AM
Sounds like a plan to me... I'll be sure to pass this on to all my my chronically single friends.

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