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 Author Thread: Swinging i don't get it!
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 80 (view)
 
Swinging i don't get it!
Posted: 5/21/2008 7:23:18 AM
lovlisuzy

I'm totally agree with what your saying. If anyone touched my husband in the wrong way I would pounce on them like one mega ticked off cat! My husband and i use to be into swinging, I didn't enjoy it but he did, he enjoyed seeing other people having sexual encounters with me, however i got very very very jealous and didn't enjoy it at all which made him not enjoy it.

we no longer do it. My thought is if someone really does love the other they will want to be with you and only you not every tom****and harry.
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 97 (view)
 
Pregnant at 11 years Old !!!!!
Posted: 6/4/2007 1:00:32 AM
right, I'm guessing most of the people who posted her are still living in last centry.


Get the parents in court for child neglect. Then have the pregnancy terminated. Then have the lad charged with rape and have her charged for under age sex.


Now this is sad on every level bar one, yes he should be charged with rape, but I'm sorry she should not be fourced into terminating her pregnancy. It is her chose whatever she makes I'd be behind her. I have a 2 month old baby, if she came home at 11 and said mum I'm pregnant I'd be disapointed but I'd support her on every level.

If her mum knew about what was going on, she should be locked up. I'm sorry but I think charging a 11 year old is a TAD BIT EXTREAM!
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 22 (view)
 
how many women, without kids, would date men with kids?
Posted: 2/13/2007 5:48:05 PM
hi there tavic1,
I come from a family with interlectaly disable children in it. Yes they are lots of fun and yeah they can be hard work but it's all worth it. I'm sory to hear about the rude people who didn't even concider it, i hate judgemental people. I am volunteer at a nursing/disablitys home in adelaide its great fun. My mum also works there and my dad works in the same feild of work but his job is a bit harder due to the phyco paths he works with his always got to be on his toes to watch out for himself but at the same time the other people too. I love disabled people they are great and are very caring people, which i guess is where i got my caring side from they tend to rub off on you :). My younger brother is Interlectalt disabled and my soon to be husband and i have had to make our house suitable for him as he comes and stays ever weekend just to get away and hang out with me. I'm pregnant and due in 9 weeks his been a big help around the house when he comes over, this weekend i asked him what he wanted to do he said "Steph, I think I'm going to play with the cat and can we go baby shopping for the baby you know your going to need to do some shopping for it and have food don't you" his so cute and very bright. On Christmas day I went into mum's work and wished eeryone a merry christmas because I felt it was needed due to some of the client families don't see them so they get lonely so my fiane and i went in had lunch with them and really enjoyed ourselves. I hate the fact that some people out their look at disabled people and run a mile, they are just like us on the inside just sometimes the outside isn't the same looking but hey what "normal" people look the same? There was a big fight put up by the locals around me when the council decided to allow a retret center to go out for families with disabled children and i couldn't beleive even my best friend at the time was agenst it. we won and got our center built which has been a big blessing to many people. Well I'm bableing now but just wanted to agree with you and show some support.

In Re: to op yes i would date a man who has children and am! Why because it really shows you who the person really is when they are up front and say no i can't do something this wekend i promised ....... i would take them here. where as you don't when they don't have children well kinda you alo get to see what his like around his children and that gives you a good indicator of what he's like and will be like with your future children if you end up marrid... ect...
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Just found out that im pregnant to my ex
Posted: 1/26/2007 6:10:23 PM
pinebreeze - I agree with you 100% I may only be 18 but I understand where you are coming from, I grew up with my mum and dad fighting like cats and dogs so much so that they were gonna split i had each one baddgering me about who i would live with. They saw that it was tearing my sister and i apart, they went to counselling and 22 years later they are still happly married and now are building a house out in the middle of no where with my brother and sister. I see them and they inspire me to work hard at making things work. I did give up once when my partner and i first found out I was pregnant and he called and told me he loved me then we talked hard and are now getting married, there have been many times when I have beeen ready to throw in the towel so to speak then i think of my parents and how much I am happy they are together, I love my Fiance and nothing is going to change that! :)
So yes I see where your coming from. I'm glad I was raised in the family I was otherwise I could ended up being some no hoper who always quits when doing something they really want.
My family have raised me well, I get shocked sometimes at how they react to new things but they remind me I impact them too just like they do me :)

Steph
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Just found out that im pregnant to my ex
Posted: 1/11/2007 4:52:00 AM
Darn it I lost everything i just typed out to you.

loveangel81, I'm guessing your 26 this year due to the 81 on the end. sorry if i am wrong. My fiance is 26 this year this is his second child and my first. I am glad you are going to give him time to work out his head. My fiance and i talked about your post it reminded us of us. I kept sms and calling him and telling him i loved him ect... that made it worse when i gave up he came round and told me he loved me and wanted me back so my best advice is just act like you don't care. I know it will kill on the inside but i got through it andi know you can too even if i have to give you my email address to keep you strong I'll do it. Best wishes for you and the baby and Good luck hun.

Steph
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 80 (view)
 
Pregnant at 11 years Old !!!!!
Posted: 1/11/2007 4:33:41 AM
I'd agree there to a point if her parents are letting her drink now and stuff like that i don't think they would be a good influence on this baby on the way. Don't you think?
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 94 (view)
 
Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/11/2007 4:28:42 AM
I'm not Violet at all, if you had read what i said you propely you would see what i said was if she has suggested that to my face i would hit her!
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Pregnant at 11 years Old !!!!!
Posted: 1/11/2007 12:02:18 AM
lol poshiam, my sister is 16 and flips when she even see a kissing seen on tv.. lol.. ok I have a right to voice my oppinion and so does everyone else so please hear me out.

I think she shouold stick her baby into Foster care and be able to see it for a hour a week with the family that it's in and take on the role of a mother for just an hour a week, this may (or may not) teach her for sleeping with a guy at 11. It will also teach her to be a LITTLE bit responsable for her actions. To me that sounds fair. However about forcing her to have an abortion i would never tell anyone not even my own flesh and blood if they were that age to have an abortion. Some time in the future she might want to have a child and maybe able to be a full support and a good parent and having an abortion so young could ruin that chance. So i don't agree on that part. But I think what I have said is reasonable.
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Just found out that im pregnant to my ex
Posted: 1/10/2007 11:12:52 PM
loveangel81,
My Fiance and I have an unexpected pregnancey and he broke up with me at first because I wanted to keep it. Then he thought about it and came around now we are getting married and i have 14 weeks left. his been by my side since I was 9 weeks preg. So I wouldn't shut the door just yet give him a while to think about it from a rasional point of view and give him space.

Hope this helps you out.
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 92 (view)
 
Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/10/2007 10:50:26 PM

What are your plans for the child? I hope you're considering adoption; there are a great deal of loving, childless couples that could provide a happy two parent home for your baby.


Gee thats you know making People take resposabitly for their action, I am a God fearing Women and I am pregnant out of wedlock. My pastors also had a child out of wedlock when they were younger. You can not sit back there behind your computer and say what you have said. If you even remotly sugessted to me to my face that "I hope your concidering adoption" I would hit you for being so judgemental that I couldn't raise a child!
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 91 (view)
 
Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/10/2007 10:45:04 PM
WAGOOSH, you are a jackass. I'm sorry but Not all men are like you who wouldn't date a pregnant chick or a mum. I mean get a reality grip!
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Pregnancy = Betrayal....??
Posted: 1/10/2007 10:10:27 PM
ok I haven't replyed to what you said because I have been busy and have had to think and calm down so i don't abuse you before I posted a reply to what you have said.



Okay I never did even try and spell Adelaide...


It isn't Adelaide you spelt wrong it was a lot you spelt it allot which is incorecct.


Secondly you have a Grade 10... Not sure what it's like down there, but here you pretty much can be garanteed nothing above Min wage unless you become a Gen Labourer here digging ditches ext...(Canada).


Yes I have a grade 10. My Fiance is on min wages which is $15 dollars something an hour. Now I have just applyed and have been told I have the job as long as I pass the medical which pays $21.50 an hour. My Fiance graduated and went on through College and gets less then your "average" gaduate. Now do you want to explain that to me? And the job I went for is not a gen labourer it's working at the Adelaide Clipsal (a big car race held every year with V8 Holdens).


Your right not everything you do read in a book is true.. My life is not predictable.. At this point in your life... with very little assets, and a baby on the way your setting yourself up to become 100% reliant on your guy for means of living.


On that topic I'd like to point out that there is such thing as family support (i think you guys call it child welfare but not 100% sure on that one). Second of all his 25 (26 next month) and has no rental history and I do. Our house is in my name and the car is mine and most of the stuff in my house which I'd like to add I worked hard for! I'm not reliant on my man, I have lived alone on a lot less money then I am getting by myself now then I ever have before. I do not Relie on other people.


Not that I don't support 1 person stay at home... But one of the things thats going to lack in your life, allot.. And not sure if anyone has sat down and explained this you... Personal life will go the way of dodo..


I have a very short group of friends due to my chice of not wanting to hang out with druggies and acoholics. I stick to my group of friends and family who live near by. I have a passion for children and nothing you can say or anyone else will change my mind on that! That is why I have studyed and got dagrees in Child Care and beinhg a Pre-School Teacher.


Okay that statement right there illustrates to me that you really do have no clue... I'm willing to bet if you ask anyone on this forum alone who have been out of school for 10 years... If their life is the same... I'll bet you get a resounding no...

I found High School really boring.. I was involved in allot of things... Played teams... Student council... blah blah.. But overall when we had our Reunion last year... I remember sitting in the room, and laughing... Because I had not thought about any of them in the 10 years since Grad...

College is where I got my Identity.. It's where I blossomed into the person I am today. I was 10 time different leaving College, then I was leaving High School.. My realities of what were important changed... My ability to logically think were challenged.. My simple ability to meet new people for the sake of conversation grew..

You say you went off and explored and dated around the country... Not sure where your parents were... But shame on them if they encouraged that instead of you finishing High School.


Ok dude let me point out a few facts about High school which I am sure have not changed since you were at school.
1. You have the popular group, you also have the nerds,geeks,"losers" whatever
my point about that fact is you learnt to judge in school because everyone else was doing it... I did too for a while but then you learn that once your cast out of a certian group and become friends with everyone else "under that group" then you get to see that what that group who cast you out was making up crud to make themselves feel better. Thatss why a lot of people on here cast other poeple in a box "oh someone said this, lets put them in the "iresponsable box" or labels them so to speak. It's crud. I'm going to go see my Faince who just got home I'll Finnish this later.
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Pregnancy = Betrayal....??
Posted: 1/2/2007 1:02:01 PM

There is a difference between Book Smart, and Street Smart.. I to can open a book and learn something.. But experiencing first hand is another thing all in itself. Also at the age of 18-20 you are usually to wrapped up in your life, trying to get it sorted... So much so that you shouldn't be trying to care for another during it..


Dude you know nothing about my life or how I have lived it. I have more street smart skills then anyone I know in Adelaide. I know a lot (which you keep spelling wrong, which is annoying me) and second of all not everything you read in a book is true. I didn't even do year 10 I went out and saw Australia and studyed and dated. No this is not my firt real relationship. I'm not wrapped up in my own little world..


He would of been 24... And not trying to say your an uninteresting girl or anything... But there is no way at the age of 24 I would of considered anyone below the age of at least 19 to even consider dating... And even that would be pushing it.. Why? Well first afraid of breaking the law.. And 2ndly most girls (ans boys for that matter to) in their teens are more concerned about their popularity in the school... Then understanding the social structure in school means nothing outside of it.


Right lets get a few things straight here. Legal age for sex over here in Adelaide is 17. I have NEVER been a popularity person I am who I am or as some people put it what you see is what you get. I have never been matrialistic. And second of all If you work out the structure in a school your pretty much so set for life, because it's the same as the real world. I don't know what kind of world you think you live in but I think you need a reality check!


But what makes me a upset to hear is that your going to pull a child through this entire turmoil of your life... And while your trying to get your life in order... Your going to drag your child through it kicking and screaming... Because you feel it's the right thing to do.


Turmoil, geez you know nothing about me or my partner so please refrain from saying crap like that!


People who chose to make bone head mistakes will get very little sympathy, or empathy from me... It's one thing to be a victim of circumstance... But your not.. Your a willing partner in all of this...


Dude a child is never a mistake and if you want to think that then go ahead. I wouldn't accept sympathy or empathy from you or anyone.


And I'm willing to bet from allot of friends and family they are telling you this is a huge mistake as well.. If they aren't... Then they aren't being very good friends or family members...


Well I'm so sorry but you just lost a bet, because I'm not your average 18 year old and I have no idea what the hell your country is like but please don't judge ours. I have a great circale of family and friends and They are HELPING ME in anyway they can! So Please don't you dare say crap about the 18 year olds or your country because I have NO sympathy or empathy for you but however I do them because it's because of the parents up bringing!
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 28 (view)
 
pregnancy questions (from gulp**)
Posted: 1/1/2007 10:03:48 PM
lol i have just come back from the midwife as i am 5 and a bit months preg. you have to be 28 weeks when you get the tests done as i was told today! I have gained 8kg since being pregnant and most of thats baby and boobs lol. Don't worrry bout it
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Pregnancy = Betrayal....??
Posted: 1/1/2007 9:59:11 PM
ok ok ok i have read a few post from spider and lollipop and have to have some input to this convo. I'm 18 and 6 month pregnant and getting married. Who says that 18 years olds know nothing? lollipop i agree if we think we have a chance the hell go for it. my partner is 26 in 2 months and i'm 19 in 7. his already got a child who we see a fair bit of and we do a great job! And have been told that by many! not all older guys are good but some are great like mine!
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 37 (view)
 
need advice on quiting smoking
Posted: 1/1/2007 9:34:26 PM
DON'T TAKE ZYBAN IT MAKES U NUTS!!! best advice get someone to help you!
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/1/2007 8:41:16 PM
EastSideEddie,
how nice for you, your gonna be in your 90's and still be single for being an JERK! It's people like you who make American's look so bloomen stupid!


Times have changed in the states.



Yeah they have changed and grown up so why the hell haven't you?


There are pressures and tensions now that did not exist then.


THAT IS CRAP! Pressures my A$$. My opa was in the war and can actually tell you how much it HAS NOT changed! I.E The newer generation think oh i made up this word when infact it was round centerys ago! I didn't finnish high school i went out and worked and was Australia and I can tell you It seems to me I know more about the REAL world then you do!


People are losing jobs, thus the income that feeds and houses the family, every day while thie Republican driven greedy economy continues in the downward spiral it has been in for a decade.


So get another job it's not that hard. You work hard you get places you give up you get deeper and deeper into a ditch that you dug yourself. I have lost my job only once and moved on to bigger brighter things. Theres a thing called Centerlink over here i think it's know as welfare over there that helps feed the house and family, also there are places you can go to get free bread and stuff! Don't crap on to me about you life!
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/1/2007 8:28:39 PM
classyhotguy, nice nick but you got the classy WRONG! No way can someone classy say such utter sh!t like you have said! And in regards to

Hey Eddie, I agree with you, having a fiance' at 18yrs. old is way too young. How did they know they were in love before they actually met? Did they have cybersex or something?


We didn't have sex over the net (we aren't as desprate as you are) and second of all YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO INSAULT US WHEN YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW US!
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/1/2007 6:30:47 PM
our mates Rob and Vick married at 17 and 19 years of age and are now into their 50's and have a well ajusted son.

The reason for their succesful marraige? They grew up together, became individuals but learned lifes leasson's together which drew them towards one another.

So how can you say that young couples won't last, I think it's the older couples who won't last as they are to set in their ways!

Steph
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Say Ladies, would you consider dating a guy in a wheelchair?
Posted: 1/1/2007 5:45:15 PM
Hey wheelz61,
this is my second reply to a disabled thing today. Most women yyeah are thinking with their genitals but then again most arent like men i guess. Who cares if your in a wheelchair your still human it's not like they are going to catch it lol. Sorry but i hate the fact that people are rude to disabled people! I'm engaged and on this site to maake friends, i still get people trying to chat me up and i reply no thanks i'm taken. it's not that hard or like it takes a huge chunck out of yoour day to say as you said "sorry not intrested" geez!
Sorry about the way some of us women act it appals me heaps and makes me feel really bad about being a women!

Steph
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 85 (view)
 
my bf's ex wife still carries his last name......
Posted: 1/1/2007 5:10:26 PM
Dear deadenddreamer,
I can see where your coming from as i am ddealing with the same crap atm accept ffor tthe fact that my fiance's ex - wife is still in love with him. Well I personally don't care that she keeps his laastnaame but that she goes around saying they r still married! thats the only thing that bugs me.
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 90 (view)
 
I'm disabled. Should I admit it up front.
Posted: 1/1/2007 4:29:11 PM
Dear r5200iff,
You have brought a smile to my face, I was just having this sort of conversation with my Fiance the other day. I have a heap of disabled friends, who have a varity of disablitlys. My brother has interlectural disabilitys and when people find out they are very judging but my partner doesn't seeem to mind he gets along with my little brother. My brother has ADHD and Autisum (i think thats how you spell it) but anyways he has server mood swings. My fiance's sister has what us aussie's call down's meaning down syndrom just in case you didn't know. My mum in a nurse in a place called minda it is a very historical place and has kept the same name for years even though everyone is trying to change it due to the disabled people in it. I often go in there on my weekends and spend time with mum's clients and have a ball. (I know some of the people reading this will go OMG she has no life But I'd like to point out how many of the people in there didn't get a visit from their family's on Christmas day, I went in on Christmas day with my fiance and haad lunch with them and wished them a Merry Christmas). I feel really bad for the mijority of the population who won't even look at a disabled person and do my best to make up for them but theres only so much one person can do! I would put it in your profile! People come in many forms people just need to learn to open their minds and hearts and see the good in people like you! I can tell you are very caring!

Steph
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 41 (view)
 
second chances
Posted: 1/1/2007 4:14:45 PM
Give him a second chance! He may be crapping you but only time will tell! Parent's and family seem to know it all at times but my family was wrong about my partner. and they have admitted this latley. I'm due in 15 weeks and my fiance has helped me alot even had days off work when i have been really emtional to support me which has made a huge diffrence and also shocked my family! I'd say give him a second chance!

Steph
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 28 (view)
 
How would one go about un-giving up?
Posted: 1/1/2007 4:03:34 PM
Dear thebigid,

ok heres something for you to think about?

Your really hungry and theres no toast like you ALWAYS have for breakfast and theres only wheatbix left in the house and milk and you have no money and you hate wheatbix would you eat them or starve? Sorry about my spelling.

How to get possative. Well heres an idea my counseler gave me when i was depressed and gave up on wanting to live. Write down 10 possative things that happend in your day everyday if you can't think of any sit and think about things like the sun was shinning, it rained we needed rain ect... things like that will change ur mind from a negatve prospective to a possative one.

I gave up on finding love at 16 lol i know sounds stupid but i did i had been hurt so many time. I'm 18 now and engaged. I wasn't even looking for love i actually met him on a Adult Friend Frinder site also known in australia as a sexsite. We just chatted i was only looking to get laid (i didn't care about life anymore so why not get laid) and then i started to fall for him and tryed to danye it for a while but the i got to the point where i couldn't wait for him to get home ffrom work and jump on the net and chat to me I'd wait aaround all day for that message saying I'm home, hows was your day hun? We have beeen together a year and 2 months now and we have a baby due in 15 weeks. He gave up on love too due to his ex. But I find it strange we both gave up on love and were just looking for a fling kinda thing and fell madly in love! We are getting married in 8 weeks.

There are tough times in EVERYONE'S life where they get hurt and feel like they will never recover for the heart ache but I can tell you as so can many others Love is worth it!

Hope that helps and makes sence to you. Hope you find the right person soon and enjoy a happy life with them!

Steph
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 28 (view)
 
What if gf accidently finds your internet porn?
Posted: 1/1/2007 3:37:39 PM
Bigbear72,
lol my fiance and i watched porn on our first date lol i found his porn and said ok lets watch this (well i had a choice between that and cricket) so we did and had some great fun :D
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 73 (view)
 
Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/1/2007 3:22:19 PM

How could you really even love someone you never dated and gotten a chance to know really well. Your acting like a foolish 8th grader who has a crush on the jock at school.


8th grader crush? hello people fall in love and they aren't even dating! my fiance and i met on the net and fell in love before we even freaking met! How old are you? probably too old to know the meaning of love anymore!
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 72 (view)
 
Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/1/2007 3:15:03 PM
Dear Blaze0811,
Everynow and then I like to read whats going on in peoples life's likes yours and enjoy giving my point of veiw so here mine is. Please excuse my spelling.



He must like me, right? Why else would a doctor allow this? If I were him, I'd have had me arrested by now.


Why would anyone allow this? Well I can tell you some people are power hungry and love the fact they have people chasing after them. It makes them feel better about themselves. In my expeircence some guys love to make women think they like them and act all dashing and handsome to "make" them fall in love with them and then leave.


Am I nuts, or what?


No not nuts many women have been in the same place you are, even i thats why i am giving you advice. Only thing that makes you nuts is if you let him keep doing this to you!

Steph
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 1 (view)
 
why not?
Posted: 1/1/2007 2:51:23 PM
why don't you have a forum for pregnant women to talk to eachother about and get tips ect...???
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 45 (view)
 
What is your favorite quick snack?
Posted: 12/27/2006 6:20:32 PM
my Favorite quick snaks are:
1:tomato on toast with salt!
2:Salata buscuites with tomato and salt and peper.
3:CHOCOLATE!!!
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 115 (view)
 
Australia forum
Posted: 12/24/2006 2:00:26 AM
Anyone from S.A?
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Why do people get crabby around Xmas time?
Posted: 12/24/2006 1:59:09 AM
ahh if ur like me, i just moved house in the last 2 days...
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 10 (view)
 
how many women, without kids, would date men with kids?
Posted: 12/24/2006 1:55:56 AM
ok here is my oppinion, my fiance' and I dated a while before I met his child. We wanted to make sure we knew were right for eachother as it is not fair to bring ppl in and out of a childs life. You can offten tell how a man is going to treat a women by the way he treats his child. i.e is his caring, passionanet, loving, kind and tolorant then theres a big chance that you have found mr nice guy! (like me) We have a child on the way now. My best mate has a 9 month old, whos father is a jerk and won't even hold his own daughter when she runs to him or even hug her. She is single and NO ONE will even look at her as she has a child, that annoys me because guys say oh no one looks at a guy with a child why the hell don't they even think about looking at ppl like my mate?

(ANYWAZ that's just my thoughts)
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Foods you like and everyone else hates
Posted: 10/19/2006 5:52:10 PM
Crumbed Fried Lambs Brains (YUMMY)
 tm4sc
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 62 (view)
 
Making your stew thicker
Posted: 10/19/2006 5:50:33 PM
add a teaspoon of cornflower and add a few drops of water and mix it until its think then add it to your stew it always works for me :)
 sexc88
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 100 (view)
 
O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 10/15/2006 4:07:13 AM
I'm sorry if you don't know how to get to know someone without dating them! IT'S CALLED BEING FRIENDS/MAKING FRIENDS!
 sexc88
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 97 (view)
 
O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 10/15/2006 3:49:53 AM
iamtheone39 - Yes there are. I'm for one am one of those. I may have had a bad history with men but now I'm settling down. Yes before i get abused for my age I am 18. Some people take life more serious then others, like me. I don't know if your doing this already but here's my advice:
a) go out on weekends go to a pub or down to a coffee shop and just enjoy the you time if you do that then someone will notice it and hey maybe they are the one
b) Get to know someone before asking them out on a date, get to know their goals and dreams in life.
c) take it slow...
 sexc88
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 76 (view)
 
What do you think?
Posted: 10/15/2006 3:31:09 AM
(sorry to everyone who has had nothing but nice things to say this ISN'T meant for you)

pyjammez - you just proved you have no what so ever check of reialty. Some people in this world do drugs and yes they can get off them ( like I HAVE DONE ) and yes there are ALWAYS going to be "people" out there who wish to bring you down like you who get a kick out of it because they have nothing better to do with their lives.. I personally think you have issues if all you have to say to an 18 year old is


After reading all of this I've now decided that sexc88 is one of the most retarded females I've ever heard of. You've just described your OWN LIFE and CONVINCED us all that you have NO BRAINS WHAT-SO-EVER!

As for saying


I hope none of your family gets the kid. In fact, I hope you miscarriage and your gene pool is stopped before you bring another retard like yourself into this world.


How bloody low can you get??? That is very very low.

And for saying
If you break up with the guy ONCE, it's over. Yes, OVER. It will never repair itself after you've broken up once. You broke up for a reason.


I would HATE to see your attitude towards a marrage, I'm telling you that you won't last longer then a week.
What happens if you have a fight with a mate??? Then become friends again what you won't do that though would you no you would say well no that it's "over". Sorry but you are WRONG VERY VERY VERY WRONG!!!!!

You obviously have no concept of reality you are hidden away in your room and have painted your windows black and sit there on your computers watching pron, instead of getting out there and seeing what it's really like. GROW UP! I act older then most of u self centerd person, It's people like you who changed the world now you can't even go into a shop without getting your bag searched because people like you made the place so untrustworthy.

I don't know how you can live life knowing you just wished apon a woman that they have a miscarriage and that they can't have children.

I hope to God you wake up otherwise your comments are going to get you killed on the streets!

I'm am a strong beleive in God and i know what he has to say about you and how bad it's going to be at the end times for you.No one is better then the other, some just chose to be not so nice people like you have and thats sad. I know the world is only going to get worse with people like you in it but hey I have God and you don't because you chose not to. That is not meant in offence to anyone who doesn't beleive in God, Thats your choice not mine to make. God gave us free will and you are doing what you want with yours and I'm doing what i want with mine. YES i admit i have made mistakes yeah i have made a few, BUT thats doesn't stop me from being a nice person and getting my life in order. I have know people who are a resault of a rape and their mothers were only 15 and had the child and rasied them well. I'm sorry but i dissagree strongly with what you are saying. You never ever say to someone what you said to me. Your lucky i'm taking it all light heartly. Yes i may not be the best speller but i sure passed English because of my ways to express myself threw poems. If you had read half of my book you would cry because I have been through so much and have come out a better person and a stronger one at that. It makes me who i am today a loving, caring, compassionate, forgiving, fun to be around, freindly person.

I have a lot of people here who respect me because of what has happend in my life, A LOT of them have said they would have given up but I kept battling on. Yes i admit i tryed to end it a few times but thats not who i am i like sticking with it and yes like every other human yes i do get depressed but it doesn't get to that point now.

I hope i have made you think and think hard.
Steph
 sexc88
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 73 (view)
 
What do you think?
Posted: 10/15/2006 2:31:53 AM
Thankyou florapost, that was very nice and thats what i have been trying to say all along. I'm not a druggies anymore i gave that up the 29th of june this year 2 weeks before i fell pregnant and everyone doesn't seem to get it and are so quick to judge me because i'm not the best at writting and spelling things. Thankyou for your kind words.
 sexc88
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 66 (view)
 
What do you think?
Posted: 10/14/2006 10:45:33 PM
johnnynoname - you are way out of line, This is sexc88. There is no way you can sit there and judge me and say what you are saying without a reason. You don't know me and you don't know what has happend in my life. I am NO LOSER!!!! I find it very funny what you have said lol i even smsed my dad and told him about it and he LAUGHED at your stupidity. Also to thelady my dad's reply to what you said is "yeah we have seen a lawyer and are going to court next week :P lol" My dad see's both of you as very stupid people who need to get a reality check!
 sexc88
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 64 (view)
 
What do you think?
Posted: 10/14/2006 8:38:21 PM
johnnynoname - Im the BF.

I can understand how you would be so quick to put us into a "worthless looser" catagory, but you are wrong.
She has quit the drugs!

oh, and as for the contraception - do know about depo provera mate? That's the injection that has a 99.98% sucess rate, we just happend to fall through the cracks into the 0.02% that conceive.

I have one child already, and know just how tought this is going to be. I couldn't turn my back on the woman i love, just because she wants to keep it.

I love my partner, and just because she doesn't have the greatest book smarts - you all jump on her - SHAME ON YOU!!


perhaps this once great nation would be a happier place to live if we all HELPED others, not sitting back and tearing them down. Go have a talk to your dad or your grandfather, and they will tell you about how a community use to look after each other!
 sexc88
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 58 (view)
 
What do you think?
Posted: 10/14/2006 6:46:25 PM
What are you trying to say i need a license? I will be a good mother and my partner a good father, i know he is because he has one. and thelady i didn't prove anything, i won't have my child livin in a house where my sister tryed to kill me. She still lives there thats why i don't live there.
 sexc88
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 55 (view)
 
What do you think?
Posted: 10/14/2006 5:48:12 PM
Whole story, my partner and i met on the net in August last year. I was 17 and he was 24. I was on drugs but not as bad as i was after i left this state. We met on November the 11th feel in love not to long after that ended up in bed and spending every moment we had free together, we broke up in Febuary. We remand good friends while we both sorted out where we are going in life and who we want to be with. I got raped in march my partner was the first to know and encourage me to go to the poilce and without that extra push i wouldn't have. My dad has been buying me smokes since i was 16 and came down and got me smokes and i told him what had happend. A month later i went to the airport and rang my partner and said i'm leaving he said ok. I got on a plane and flew interstate to a place where i knew no one and had never been there before. I met a guy off the net and moved in with him and then we broke up because i was pregnant, it was either my ex partners or the rapist so i had an abortion. I lived at the youth shelter up there and did alot of drugs and my partner kept calling me every day telling me he wanted me home and that he loved me, which i didn't listern too for a while. I ended up coming home and my dad picked me up from the airport and taking me to his block on the way home i got a deal of drugs and went and did it at dad's block dad didn't stop me he was there when i did it. My partner and i got back together and i fell pregnant and we had a fight one night and i felt and then he called and we chatted face to face and walah we are together. Dad doesn't like his dad because his done some bad things in the past which i'm not going into as it's not relavate and it's not my place to say.
 sexc88
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 54 (view)
 
What do you think?
Posted: 10/14/2006 5:18:37 PM
Thelady, just a few this


I've clearly been wearing rose-coloured glasses because I've long felt that the young people of today were much more mature than we were at their age.


Yes, some are more mature i.e me. I'm not still going out and doing drugs like the rest of the people i know. I'm the one getting serous with life.




She's 18. She's abused drugs, had a child, had an abortion, lived away from home for two years, is involved in an abusive relationship which they put down to puberty...and perhaps my personal favourite.....finished school in 2003 with an education in child care....she's 18! And she can't string two sentences together coherently, and clearly needs to tuck a dictionary in that diaper bag.


ok few points on this

A) i'm having a child have not got one yet!
B) I'm not in an abusive relationship
C) puberty was long ago for most people and same for me!

now down to the good part which i oh so love...


If I were her parent, I'd be speaking to a lawyer about seeking custody of that poor baby - as my first step.


ah ha ha ha what crap they wouldn't give you my child because
A) ur not the mother and the mother & father is the important person in the childs life
B) u have a child living under your roof that tryed to kill the mother
 sexc88
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 53 (view)
 
What do you think?
Posted: 10/14/2006 5:09:08 PM
Thanks Ella, I needed to hear some kind words after thelady posted that horridable post. I am standing by my choice and dad talked to my partner the other day and let him and i take my little brother out for dinner. My dad has come round and calls me everyday now just to see how i'm doing and do i need any help or anything like that, but my mum on the other hand wants me to call her so i do so. I'm not going to back down and in reply to someone else's post yes we fight sometimes but it's all sorted out within 5 mintues. EVERY realationship has there ups and downs, I have seen this 1st hand and 2nd hand. My parents almost split when i was a child. It almost drove me into the ground, i would be praying while they would fight the same prayer over and over again until they would stop. "God please make mummy and daddy love eachother again and to make them stop fighting for good" They loved eachother and are still together 8 years later.

Steph
 sexc88
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 47 (view)
 
What do you think?
Posted: 10/14/2006 1:59:20 AM
ok can someone plz fill me in on that OP means?

ok last time i'm saying this I have an education i studdies child care. Thats the feild i want to work in...
 sexc88
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 43 (view)
 
What do you think?
Posted: 10/7/2006 5:48:49 PM
No sorry no education for me, I have been out of school since 2003. I am not puttin my life on hold as i am already pregnant and not giving up this child for no one! I have an education in Child care, and am quilifided. I can work in any child care in Aust! It's my choice to have this child and i am. This is my mirical baby, and my dad knows that and so do many others including my partner. As for "maths" yea 18 is a number any number is to do with maths, like i could say i was living at home from the age 0 to the age 16, then i lived alone for 2 years. thats ONLY a number but what you have done in thoses years count big time. ok i'm going to Try put what i'm trying to say into a sanareo.

This girl 15 had a very sheltered life because she had a few "mental" issues , she gets to the point where she is curoius about the world.She is rebelous and stops taking her meds, then goes out drinking everynight and does drugs, sleeps around and knocks gets. His parents find out and try to get her to have an abortion as she is only 17. She decideds no matter how much she loves children she would have an abortion because she was addicted to alot of drugs. she loves the boy and the boy loves her, she had was terrably scared and infected after the abortion and got told she could never have children... She wanted to be safe and went on something like the "pill" that lasted 3 months. She fell pregnant again and decided to get her life straight. In which she did!
 sexc88
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 34 (view)
 
What do you think?
Posted: 10/6/2006 7:52:09 PM
I can't just put my life on hold while i get an education, I'm pregnant and I lived on my own for 2 years and supported myself. With no help... I'm sorry but i feel very unsettled that everyone keeps saying "your only 18" because yes i'm 18 but it's only and a number. + as i have continuoulsy said i'm not ur normal teenager, I'm mature then alot of others because of what i have been through.

Steph
 sexc88
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 32 (view)
 
What do you think?
Posted: 10/6/2006 7:33:39 PM
I'd have to agree with you there at times, but i know they love me. And personally i think that I have made the right choice and i am still speaking to my parents, i made contact with them on Sunday and chatted it out with them and went around and saw them. I'm babysitting for them in 7 weeks when they go away. I'm lookin after my lil bro! My parents are under alot of stress at the moment and my dad apologized yesterday because they have been taking it out on me. Which is not fair in a few ways but hey it's all good. I wrote my last post at 1:30 am here, was very tired and didn't make alot of sence. I was pregnant it was either my partners or a guy who raped me. I wasn't sure, I went intersate and was on alot of heavy drugs because i tryed to kill the pain and then had an abortion. My dad knows if my partner hadn't kept calling me each day saying he loved me and wanted me home i would b dead now. I have been to counselling and sorted out alot, his been there for me alot. My dad even lied to my mum for me and brought me 160$ worth of drugs when i came home because i was so upset. I gave it up the day before my partner and i got back together. Have been off drugs since the 29th of june. My dad knows there have been time where i wanted drugs so bad and my partner has been there and held me and calmed me down. His always there for me when my parents can't be even if they can b his there supporting me. I'm not claming to know the whole world, there is alot out there i haven't seen or done. But there is alot i have been threw. I have lived out of home and in the streets for 3 months. I have been out of home 2 years. I got kicke out because of my sister, they couldn't kick her out as she is younger. We got into a fight one night and i ended up in hospital. We have put it down to puberty. Other then that they are pretty much so great!

Steph
 sexc88
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 17 (view)
 
What do you think?
Posted: 10/6/2006 8:01:35 AM
Joy1966,
I don't think you understand, I have gone threw the stage of thinking from "in between my legs" before and i didn't like it!!!! I'm not prod of it either and i'm defantly not bragging about it! I love him and for someone to say "oh your 18 you don't know what love really is" is BS!!! I'm not your "normal" teenager, I have had a ruff life and I can tell you I'm not thinking from in between my legs, Trust me i'm over that stage!!!! I'm not a party go'er either hate that sene. I just want to settle down and get married, the reason my parents hate him so much is because they are chirstians and the first time i was pregnant i had an abortion and it almost killed me. They beleive my partner had some influence in that but truth is i was on drugs and didn't want to have a child addictaed to drugs. ( I'm not saying this at all in self pitty i'm telling you why they hate him )

His a really nice guy, he works and has a 3 year old already his 25.

Steph
 sexc88
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 12 (view)
 
What do you think?
Posted: 10/2/2006 6:30:09 PM
Orange_Juice_Blues,
Thankyou I pushed back yesterday and they came round and chatted to me for a bit and my dad just rang me and asked me if i want to go out to lunch. Thankyou Also to everyone else and your advise!

StephXoX
 
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