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why do people stay on POF after meeting someone? Posted: 1/19/2009 8:53:28 PM
My experience with POF has been one of making some very special friends. It seems that POf works two ways for me, finding local women to date, in search of a relationship, and making long distance friends. I'd hate to think about giving up those great friendships. They shouldn't be threatening to the woman I'm dating, because I'm not looking to date any other local ladies at that time. You shouldn't have to give up your friends?

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first date sex Posted: 1/18/2009 11:20:50 AM
I think it's best to wait for a couple of dates. Sometimes it's best to have your first meetings be daytime, like coffee or lunch dates. Then you have some time to decide if you really like that person or not. The extra effort usually means there is more to it than just the sex. Plus....when it's time, the sex is always better when there are some real feelings involved!

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what are turnoffs in profiles you have browsed ? Posted: 8/6/2008 6:50:41 AM
The biggest turnoffs are 'old' photos. Many times people put a combination of old and new, and you have to ask your self....why? Another turnoff is, when they list themselves as "Seperated" and looking for....."Long Term?" Hey...take a vacation and...'find yourself' first? Just a thought.......

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When did you fall in love with music? Posted: 8/4/2008 9:29:20 PM
I fell in love with music at my first 'live' concert, the 'Guess Who' in the early 70's. I've never gotten over the 'power' music has to make people happy.

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Proof for the existence of God Posted: 8/4/2008 3:07:14 PM
I always find it 'interesting' to hear non-believers tear down the beliefs and concepts of Christianity. It's so easy not want to 'believe' in Jesus. Basing some of your negatives on Catholic 'confession,' which is not a paractice that is even in the Bible, is even more bizzare. Your fear of 'Hell' should be real, and you say its concept lacks compassion, because it does. But, there is a simple answer, and it involves trust and belief, (Faith) which means you can't teater on the fence and not commit. Jesus lived and died for sinners, he understands our strengths and weaknesses, and gives us an easy option for eternity. Learn about him......love him.....ask for forgivness from your heart, and.......you will have an eternity of supreme happiness! Most non-belivers spend more energy trying to find 'loop holes' in Christianity, than it would take to learn about it. With a little time and effort, many people would have their questions and disbeliefs answered, and experience....(how should I say it?).....experience.....Heaven? It's all up to you.......

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Do older men stay away from women in their 30's? Posted: 7/5/2008 7:19:55 AM
I've tended to shy away from dating women in their 30's for several reasons. It's always very flattering to get asked out, or contacted, but I believe there are major differences there, for me. Most women in their 30's must be very involved in their childrens day to day lives, plus soccer, T-ball, dance classes ect. I've been there and done that, not that there would be anything wrong with doing it again, but, I seem to be searching for a more spontanious and flexable relationship. Plus, the age differences seem to create different interests for music, appreciation for the era we grew up in, and what seems to be our 'common roots.' Women in their 30's are beautiful, and can be very exciting, no doubt, but, my experiences have led me to stay with a closer age range.

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