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lovableladywanted

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Women Confuse Me Posted: 10/5/2012 3:51:34 AM
That is by far the most rediculous post I have seen thus far. That sounds like a very basic and may I add, grammatically incorrect reply. You are criticizing other people's grammar and you can not spell ridiculous. How ridiculous.

lovableladywanted

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Women Confuse Me Posted: 10/4/2012 8:21:37 PM
Too much infomation from some of these women on here. I could not care at all how women behave. Everyone is different and I am far from a prude. I just submit my observations like others. Provacative or not; The best bait that a woman can use to attract me is wit, warmness and a winning smile. :)

lovableladywanted

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Women Confuse Me Posted: 10/4/2012 3:37:01 AM
BRANDON POST 41 Excellent post. You said it better than I could. I will use myself as an example. I am about as socially liberal on issues, including female issues as one can be, yet many of these women have me labeled as some sort of misogynist. Honestly, I do not care and I know there is going to be naysayers . These women should not care what anyone thinks of their profile , as long as they are happy with who they are.

lovableladywanted

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Women Confuse Me Posted: 10/3/2012 3:57:46 AM
You are wrong. I have no problem with how a woman dresses on here. Not saying it is right nor wrong. Just don't be surprised that a woman with more revealing pics and sexy poses will get more lewd comments. It is wrong for guys to do that. I am sure women do not like men that have no shirt on in some pics . It does go both ways. I will contact a woman with whatever pics. I read the whole profile. I am always a gentleman.

lovableladywanted

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Women Confuse Me Posted: 10/3/2012 2:46:55 AM
I truly respect women and believe in a womans right to choose, equal pay and against violence and cheating. The guy on this thread that says he respects his gf but is on here looking for someone else is hypocritical. Yes I know men will get sexual with a lady in a parka . I have never been out of line with a woman in my life. Both women and men , should take the images they post seriously. Good luck in your search, to all.

lovableladywanted

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Spiritual, what does it mean to you? Posted: 10/3/2012 2:44:16 AM
It means being yourself and going against conventional thinking

lovableladywanted

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Women Confuse Me Posted: 10/1/2012 6:27:24 PM
I do not think these women are intentionally looking to tease men. They are using their looks to a degree to attract a man and probably not realizing the consequences. I know men get sexually suggestive with women that do not post such pics. Lets just say the pics fuel the fire even more .

lovableladywanted

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Women Confuse Me Posted: 10/1/2012 6:21:53 PM
If I put this post in the wrong section I apolgize. I did not know where it should go. I digress. I have talken to many women on here and of course read the profiles. Womens number 1 complaint, and rightfully, I might add, is that many men get too risque, too quickly. Many of these same women that complain , have profiles that are very provocative . They have profiles wearing skimpy clothes, or bikinis or whatever leaving nothing to the imagination. Also , many profiles , these women are sprawled on a bed or other sexually provocative poses. They will then complain on profile or whatever about attracting, lets just say the wrong kind of man. I think these ladies should think about the images they post on their file. I am always a gent, but I can understand women attracting the wrong men with certain sexual innuendo pics. Not saying its right, but it is what it is. If you line your yard with steaks, don't be surprised if you have attracted stray dogs. :)

lovableladywanted

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Thurs Oct 4th Bourbon Street New Port Richey Dance Music Ladie’s Night Meetup! Posted: 9/25/2012 8:14:45 PM
How come there are 2 addresses?

lovableladywanted

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More Events not Working Posted: 9/25/2012 6:02:03 PM
For the past 5 days or so, when I click on MORE EVENTS, I am getting profile photos and not the usual event listings beyond my usual , below my inbox events. I want to know if this is just temporary. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks.

lovableladywanted

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Islam: The Untold Story Posted: 9/25/2012 2:41:31 PM
You have bad and good people in any demographic. I judge each person as an individual not as their complete demographic , whatever that demo is.

lovableladywanted

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Finding email buddies, but can't get a phone number? Posted: 9/24/2012 12:34:57 AM
OP you are right on the money. I have talked to some women for about a month, and have not even come within a continent of talking sexual and they still wont give number. Worst is they have added me as fav and/or contacted me first. It truly boggles my mind. I have limited it somewhat because I stress on file that I call a woman first and that I am not looking for email buddy etc. I do feel your pain. All you can do is be the best person you can be and enjoy your life.

lovableladywanted

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Profile in hide mode yet... Posted: 9/19/2012 6:53:06 PM
... I am getting an occasional view and even had a couple of meetme's added. How can that be?

lovableladywanted

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are you glad the hippies have gone? Posted: 7/13/2012 4:03:16 PM
I think it is great to have all different type of people around. Makes the world more interesting.

lovableladywanted

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Some women purposely say seeking intimate encounter. Posted: 7/12/2012 7:00:31 PM
I have mentioned that when I do a general search you do not know someone is looking for an IE unless you read the profile. I do not email such ladies. Of course, most women are not looking for IEs. If there is a filter that stops IE females from even coming through the search engine. I truly would appreciate that. As you can see on my file , I do not accept emails from women that are looking for IE or have emailed IE before. Please give me a break ladies. Not all guys are into the IE thing. I know I am not.

lovableladywanted

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Some women purposely say seeking intimate encounter. Posted: 7/8/2012 10:59:36 AM
To IMPORTFROMUK, with all due respect; I can view your profile not knowing what type of man you are looking just by clicking on the View Profile right from this forum. I am guessing you are a fine lady , not looking for an IE. I do not know for sure unless I view your profile. Yes , I do at times use the Advanced search engines to filter . That said , initially most profiles can and are read without knowing what said person is looking. It is unfair to say that IE profiles come up only if you search for IE. I know nowadays many people want to be presumptuous toward others, usually in a negative way. I am above that and hope most of you folks are as well. You all have a wonderful Sunday.

lovableladywanted

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Some women purposely say seeking intimate encounter. Posted: 7/8/2012 8:55:30 AM
I never said ALL women looking for IE are fake. Some I believe are but certainly not all. Please if you are going to judge my words , at least get them correct. As a general rule I do not speak in absolutes. Thank you.

lovableladywanted

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Some women purposely say seeking intimate encounter. Posted: 7/8/2012 8:53:44 AM
lmao ... I do not search for IE and do not want a woman to contact me for IE. That is part of my profile. Ladies , I am sure you looked at profiles and have seen men looking for IE , it does not mean that is what you want. I would guess you would just go onto another profile and hope the criteria meets yours. I have done the advanced search using things like looking for a long term relationship or marriage or whatever not looking for IE. You can filter IE in advanced search , that is my point . Most of the time I search in my general area and look for pics with a nice heading to proceed. Most women, thank goodness are not looking for IE , at least they say so. Every now and then , inadvertently a profile comes up from a woman looking for IE. I move to the next.

lovableladywanted

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Some women purposely say seeking intimate encounter. Posted: 7/8/2012 8:18:08 AM
Actually . as I mentioned I do not seek IE profiles. Honestly you do not know what a woman is seeking until you read the profile based on a single pic or simple heading . Yes , I know you can search for IE profiles . I do not, nor have I ever emailed one. Just want to make that clear.

lovableladywanted

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Some women purposely say seeking intimate encounter. Posted: 7/8/2012 8:12:24 AM
To Answer poster number 2. I never said all that is first and foremost. Also, You do not know if someone is seeking an IE unless you read that part of the profile. I never ever message such women and have no interest. If you think I am lying and you probably do , because most women are skeptical, that is fine. I am just voicing my opinion , one that you can very well disagree.

lovableladywanted

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Some women purposely say seeking intimate encounter. Posted: 7/8/2012 7:53:23 AM
I will explain. I think there is a high percentage of women that post intimate encounter as either a goof or some sort of educational survey or study. I could be paranoid, but I think the ladies that are goofing want men to message them so they can screw up these men from contacting women they exclude men searching for intimate encounter. Personally I am looking for a relationship, but I digress. Many times the intimate encounter profiles are photoless or outdated photos . Also, some of the IE profiles are so over the top to make them that much more unbelievable. I know some women can be cunning or perhaps even men. Just offering my opinion. Agree or disagree, I would like to hear yours.

lovableladywanted

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the vanishing man Posted: 7/1/2012 4:27:12 AM
Are these men gay? Seriously, Some of the ladies on this thread that have been turned down from sex is astonishing to me. I see beautiful ladies that any straight man would sleep . Wow. Go figure.

lovableladywanted

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"Winning Someone" Posted: 7/1/2012 4:19:11 AM
I have noticed many of the female profiles that allude or come out and say they need to be WON. I find that wrong on many levels. Not the least of which is that everyone, I would hope, are genuine. If you can not be yourself , you have already lost.... See the irony lmao. I know these dating sites are tough and I confess , must be tougher for women than men, with more issues that come into play. Still, I would think whatever happens, male or female respondents would be true to who they are , first and foremost. In all fairness , I do not read male profiles , I would like to see opinions from both genders.

lovableladywanted

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SUMMER FUN IN LAKELAND ON JULY 28, 2012 Posted: 6/18/2012 8:16:59 PM
This sounds great. I have stayed at this hotel and been to Roxbury after Luckys the other night[June 16]. They have Karaoke. About the hotel; It is well worth the money. This is about as close to a 4 star hotel as you can get, at a dive price. This is the only way I roll so I do not drink and drive and can have some fun. It is about a cab price to and fro. Nice pool and breakfast you can not go wrong.Well worth the money. No, I am not on their payroll lmao. I will be in Daytona that weekend so it is unfortunate I wont be able to go. Guess I have other chances since you will be doing this regularly.

lovableladywanted

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FB and POF Posted: 6/18/2012 8:04:18 PM
Social media is a wonderful tool. You can find out alot by googling.

lovableladywanted

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dance party, Lakeland, new venue June 23, 2012 Posted: 6/18/2012 2:02:58 AM
The venue that is free that I am talking about is not in a dance hall. It is in a bar and it is always free. Can I ask why is there a cover charge for a restaurant that is normally free admission? I think this is a reasonable question. Not trying to give anyone a hard time. I seriously want to know.

lovableladywanted

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What makes men fall in love with a woman? Posted: 6/17/2012 12:53:11 PM
We can all make lists of what we want in a mate[male or femal], but at the end of the day love is emotional . Formula for love is respect/friendship/passion.

lovableladywanted

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dance party, Lakeland, new venue June 23, 2012 Posted: 6/16/2012 11:02:37 AM
Its a restaurant and we are bringing them business. What is the reason for the cover? I am just asking. The other venue in Lakeland is free.

lovableladywanted

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Meet and Greet, May 26, 2012 Posted: 5/25/2012 4:48:06 AM
I am interested buty there is not much info here. Please elaborate.

lovableladywanted

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Sizzlin' Summerfest Party @ Luckys: 6-19-12 (Lakeland) Posted: 5/25/2012 4:39:38 AM
I am guessing you mean June 16 . I believe June 19 is middle of the week.

lovableladywanted

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Momma's boy Posted: 5/21/2012 5:49:12 PM
Circumstances are tough for many and I truly feel for the OP. I am wondering if it is legit or not. Very few men would call themselves mommas boy. I am self supporting and if the story is true , I hope the OP can overcome his dire situation.

lovableladywanted

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Venues that charge vs not Posted: 5/21/2012 2:23:25 AM
I am just curious to know if POF has made it mandatory to list if an event has a price ? I went to an event that did not mention a price and it turned out to be 3 bucks. I paid the price because it was not much. I would think with strict rules, that POF would have venue make sure price is listed.

lovableladywanted

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Phone numbers? Posted: 4/12/2012 10:02:44 PM
As my profile states. I am androgynous but , and its a big but. I believe a man calls a woman. I always talk respectful to women and if I do not get a phone numbe or at least a public meeting which obviously leads to a phone number, thats it. If other men do it differently thats fine. I am very confident in what I have to offer to a lady and quite frankly feel that its the ladies loss. No hard feelings on my part. We are all individuals and have freewill and ladies have a right to not give me their number and I have a right to move on.

lovableladywanted

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Is it harder to get venue advertised? Posted: 8/26/2011 4:57:55 PM
Guess advertising was the wrong word lol. Maybe I should have said promoting. Thank you for helping.

lovableladywanted

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Is it harder to get venue advertised?
Posted: 8/26/2011 2:58:28 PM

I am just curious. I notice that some places that used to regularly host events and adverise below my inbox, are no longer. I am wondering if POF has stricter rules to host venues or if POF is just enforcing those rules more? Maybe I am wrong. Maybe certain events were just dropped by the people that used to run them.

Event FAQ, Rules and Tips

lovableladywanted

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Why would someone not want to meet in person?? Posted: 8/15/2011 1:47:09 AM
I understand that and know many men are disrespectful. I think I am not trusted many times because women might see me, in their opinion, as someone who is a player. I am very respectful and mindful of ladies and basically a pull no punches kind of guy. I guess many women over analyze. Still the bottomline is that if I am not going after sex, what have these ladies got to lose?

lovableladywanted

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Don't write that check.... Posted: 8/9/2011 5:32:18 PM
OP I am sorry you got took. I do not lend money or take money from women. If someone asks me for money. I tell them that is what banks are for. Rest assured the few hundred bucks you lost was a life lesson and this faux male seems to have a hell alot more financial issues than you , from what you have told me. I am sure everything will work for you . Take care.

lovableladywanted

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Sept 4th~LABOR DAY WEEKEND DANCE~NYNY Club~CLEARWATER Posted: 7/12/2011 2:26:57 AM
Do not know if I am going yet . I must say NY NY has the friendliest women. Most of the time I am having a great time.

lovableladywanted

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Why would someone not want to meet in person?? Posted: 6/12/2011 6:10:54 PM
I do not understand women that are on here and you can talk for a while and they still wont give you their number, even if you are respectful. I think many women just want a penpal. Unfortunately they are dishonest about their intentions.

lovableladywanted

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Is it possible to be to perfect? Posted: 4/20/2011 5:49:55 AM
JCO I agree . I hate when men, and women too , say that they are shunned because they are too nice. Translation to me is too phony or too boring. People want to date real people not robots. Real folks have difference of opinion, real folks get angry if they are doing most of the leg work in a relationship etc etc. Speaking for myself; I want a nice lady , but a lady that will stand up to me and not be afraid to disagree or tell me if I screwed up etc. Confidence is key.

lovableladywanted

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Is it possible to be to perfect? Posted: 4/20/2011 4:28:58 AM
Am I the only one that caught the irony? In his heading he spells 'too', incorrectly. I guess hes not too perfect lmao. In all seriousness, Just be yourself. I think the number one turnoff for both genders is whininess. Be genuine and do not let folks walk over you and you will be fine.

lovableladywanted

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My eyes have been opened! Posted: 4/20/2011 4:18:48 AM
Any man that asks a woman for money is not much of a man.

lovableladywanted

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Would you date a guy with hands/neck/face tattoos? Posted: 4/13/2011 2:35:44 AM
No offense to the OP. I do believe that people have the right to do whatever they want with their body. The fact is , fair or unfair, people will judge others with tattoos, clothes one wear, hair length etc. There truly are ramnifications with ones actions and people need to think long and hard if doing something to your body is worth the trouble. Just like you have the right to have tattoos, employees have the right to make money and women have the right to date whomever they are attracted. You see it works both ways. Like it or not, this is life. I keep my hair longer than what is considered the norm[ bit above my shoulders], which is out of style now. I realize this will have some women less attracted to me. I know it is something easily changed, if I want. This is still an example. I truly do hope most people and yourself, find your soulmate. I guess, if you truly are sorry about your tattoos, you can have some removed.

lovableladywanted

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Mar. 19, Sat. New Port Richey,St.Patrick’sDay@Venom'sClub Meet & Greet@8:00PM Posted: 3/18/2011 4:52:43 PM
I will most likely be there. Best POF party in NPR area. The other place that has them is not good at all. Venoms rocks

lovableladywanted

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Why didn't he call Posted: 2/28/2011 2:46:30 AM
I do not think there is any one answer. I know that I do not behave that way and try to treat others the way I want to be treated.

lovableladywanted

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What is the female equivelent of creepy..nasty? Posted: 1/29/2011 2:33:50 PM
Golddigger comes to mind.

lovableladywanted

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Posting new ads on craigslist daily Posted: 1/27/2011 12:56:48 AM
I am sorry many ladies have had a bad experience with online dating. I hope things work out for you.

lovableladywanted

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Posting new ads on craigslist daily Posted: 11/29/2010 7:24:48 AM
Deerdog I understand what you are saying but lets be fair here. Any time women meet men from wherever, online, bar, heck even church; No one really knows another person, especially initially. Heck sometimes women and yes even men, find out after they are married with kids how anti-social, for lack of a better word, their partner . The bottomeline is that this is all a big risk for both genders but admittedly more for females.

lovableladywanted

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Does God exist? Posted: 11/25/2010 8:30:51 AM
In answer to the thread title , I say NO

lovableladywanted

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Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters! Posted: 11/25/2010 8:23:59 AM
If there were a law against people tricking you into having sex , then the human species would become extinct.

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