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lovableladywanted

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Scared to look at women Posted: 2/23/2008 2:48:49 AM
That is a horrible phobia. I would suggest that you get some kind of counseling.

lovableladywanted

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What killed Religion Posted: 2/21/2008 3:37:25 AM
The question is not 'what killed religion?" ... it is 'why is there so much killing because of religion' ?????

lovableladywanted

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Why are men so hard to read, Posted: 2/21/2008 2:21:14 AM
.... maybe we hard to read because we are not a book.

lovableladywanted

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RE Obama: Is AMerica Ready for a Black President? Posted: 2/19/2008 6:50:01 PM
There is only one race .... THE HUMAN RACE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lovableladywanted

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How to refuse romance without pissing a woman off Posted: 2/19/2008 4:20:29 PM
How about telling her that she is way toooooooooo special to make love to. Tell her friendship means more than a roll in the hay. I am sure 'said' lady will appreciate that. Most women want a man that likes them in a NONSEXUAL WAY.... if not ALL!!!

lovableladywanted

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Unbelievable! A risk rarely considered... Posted: 2/18/2008 9:19:39 PM
I have found lots of odd behaviour from all arenas of life, nothing suprises me anymore.

lovableladywanted

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Does Friends first ever really work? Posted: 2/18/2008 5:37:11 PM
I am sure it does work. I have had women tell me they would never have feelings toward me one moment than eventually they have. People can not even trust their own heart. Just be yourself and be a good friend but do not be a whiner or kiss a$s and you will be ok with whatever happens.

lovableladywanted

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War on Drugs Politically Motivated? Posted: 2/18/2008 11:24:02 AM
I have to correct my earlier post. I think if pot were legal, people would choose POT OVER CIGS , thus the tobacco companies would lose money.

lovableladywanted

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War on Drugs Politically Motivated? Posted: 2/14/2008 2:28:00 AM
Msg 8 you are right on the money. I would not be suprised if RJ Morris the big tobacco company is bankrolling anti marijuana legislation because its so easy to grow pot and people would choose cigarettes over marijuana thus maybe never even experiment with smoking period in future generations when pot is readily available.

lovableladywanted

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War on Drugs Politically Motivated? Posted: 2/13/2008 2:47:32 AM
Absolutely. I will never ever understand why one can not grow marijuana on their own property in a 'supposed' free country and smoke it on their own property. I believe alcohol is much more socially harmful drug. Government is not supposed to be a nanny state. I am not a pot smoker , I just think logically.

lovableladywanted

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Is it okay to date your ex's friend? Posted: 2/12/2008 5:51:02 PM
Feelings are neither right nor wrong. If you are broke up than you are free to do what you want to do. What is that saying ... Alls fair in love and war

lovableladywanted

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7 of 10 is gone. Posted: 2/12/2008 2:17:15 PM
I have had reasonable threads deleted and that is why maybe I was more SYMPATHETIC to others. Its not rocket science so many people do not even know when they are breaking rules. My problem is that I got no warning but its cool. This should be my biggest problem in life lmao

lovableladywanted

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7 of 10 is gone. Posted: 2/12/2008 4:12:26 AM
So my priviledges were taken away because I voted for threads to REMAIN. LOL . It is subjective anyway if you can just take away peoples priviledges like that . My question remains why even having the vote remain than. Gee what a concept , I err on the side of innocence and I lose my priviledges . I am not bitter because I understand as individual proprietors POF has the right to do what they want.

lovableladywanted

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Mississippi restaurants may be banned from serving obese customers ????? Posted: 2/10/2008 6:04:04 PM
^^^ You people that throw around the word liberal should really look up the word. Liberal means accepting of other people. This is according to every dictionary. Besides all that this so called legislation was started by a republican. Alot of uneducated people just listen to talk radio and do not have a clue . Many of you people should think for yourselves not listen to some right wing radio nut with an agenda.

lovableladywanted

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What team will give the 72' Dolphins their biggest scare this seaso Posted: 2/10/2008 3:36:55 PM
I guess its safe to say that the NE Patriots gave the Miami Dolphins their biggest scare. That 72 team should be buying more than a couple of rounds for the NY Giants and even pay their airfare to Miami F.L.A.

lovableladywanted

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FORUMS: Community 7 of 10 Votes Needed To Delete a Thread is Gone Posted: 2/10/2008 3:11:41 PM
I notice that POF has done away with the 7 of 10 vote. Yea or nay. I am in the middle on this. Many times I must admit it seemed like people just voted others off for the most shallow of their own personal reasons , so from that standpoint its good. On the otherhand I do think there were many cr@ppy threads erased because of the 7 of 10. I guess its up to us to trust moderators judgments of eliminating threads .

lovableladywanted

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the rate of dysfunction in these forums Posted: 2/10/2008 3:07:19 PM
Miss OP I agree with you . There are many negative people . Look at it this way this helps weeding them out for you , thus making the field more narrow for you to choose from by the process of elimination.

lovableladywanted

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1 night stand, to real love? Posted: 2/9/2008 2:35:27 PM
Live and let live. If others want to have one night stands that is certainly their right .

lovableladywanted

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How unlucky are you??? Posted: 2/9/2008 4:00:52 AM
I am so unlucky , I was the first person to read this lousy thread

lovableladywanted

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Dating Etiquette Posted: 2/9/2008 3:59:02 AM
Being on time a must but call if there is an emergency. Most have cells. Its spelled gawk no gauck, but I agree with you there. Sex on first date ...... Why not , if there is a connection- waiting when one wants to indulge equals game playing , not being yourself . I do not expect to go dutch on first date. I am a little old fashioned and believe as a guy I pay for the first date. When I pay I do not expect anything from a lady, though most women are frisky little devils lmao . I will leave it at that

lovableladywanted

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How will gay marriage destroy society, in light of so much evidence? Posted: 2/9/2008 3:49:46 AM
How about lets go the other way. Lets get rid of marriage all together. Its only a piece of paper righttttttttttttttt ?????????????????????

lovableladywanted

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1 night stand, to real love? Posted: 2/8/2008 3:45:33 AM
If people want one nite stands thats their business.

lovableladywanted

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How will gay marriage destroy society, in light of so much evidence? Posted: 2/8/2008 12:28:01 AM
.... the answer is wont. People that are bothered by gay marriage are homophobes and insecure about themselves. Seems to me the biggest threat to marriage is infidelity and the ultra high divorce rate. Its the old adage... people should worry about themselves and their own situations and just MYOB. Most of the worlds ills would be gone or at least minimal if people just tended to their own lives and stop and smell the roses.

lovableladywanted

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Is appropriate to sleep with your ex to get closure? Posted: 2/7/2008 8:37:26 AM
Whatever 2 consenting adults do is ok , so long as no one is deceiving others.

lovableladywanted

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I said I would take it slow for her, worried about being a friend Posted: 2/7/2008 3:35:26 AM
The kiss of death .... being a friend , so called taking it slow. My experience with ladies is that you do not be a weenie. Sure you may have a great friend but nothing more. You need a mystique not to be her shrink. If sex/romance does not occur fairly early on in the relationship more often than not it wont come at all. She will actually respect you and 'yearn' for you more if you are not always at her call.

lovableladywanted

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Classy? Posted: 2/6/2008 3:04:48 PM
At least I am honest in mine... I am ugly, stupid and boring

lovableladywanted

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Mississippi restaurants may be banned from serving obese customers ????? Posted: 2/6/2008 3:02:12 PM
Exactly right up there with seat belt laws, anti growing of marijuana on your own property and banning people from buying drugs[for health] over seas. It never ends . Interesting to note you said it was started by a republican so they can not throw the word liberal around. Incidentally those that do throw the word around do not even know the true meaning ... they are brainwashed right wing radio listeners.

lovableladywanted

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ENOUGH ENOUGH!! Exxon Mobil Profit Sets Record Again Posted: 2/1/2008 3:02:56 PM
^^^^^^ The hell with supply and demand. I never go to Exxon mobil. Its very easy to do. If everyone or most people just boycott the **stards ... there is a competitor on 3 other corners of the same intersection

lovableladywanted

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does Karma really exist Posted: 2/1/2008 2:45:29 AM
Karma exists to an extent. I shall explain. If one thinks positively it is usually mirrored.. for example a smile. If you smile at someone they will automatically smile back like pavlovs dog theory. Conversely if you are negative than negative things are more likely to happen. If you want to accomplish in life you need to be positive. Whether its making money, losing weight, making friends , finding romance etc. The list is endless.

lovableladywanted

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transgender boy can use girls restroom at school Posted: 2/1/2008 2:30:14 AM
I think every bathroom should be UNISEX. Human beings , particularly in the western world are too uptight about nudity. Maybe this is a case we can learn from 3rd world nations. You do not see any other animal put clothes on , than why do humans???? No, I am not a nudist but just thinking logically. Seems to me clothes should be optional though .

lovableladywanted

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how come he won't stay friends after we break up? Posted: 2/1/2008 2:24:47 AM
Seems to me OP , you want your cake and eat it too. You broke up with the guy and want to 'torment' him by being his friend. If you really cared about the guy at all even as a human being , you would stop and think how he feels and want him to be happy. You sound to me like a selfish , control freak. Try a bit of EMPATHY for others. Let the guy go on with his life. I bet you are the same type of person that would complain an ex is STALKING you too .

lovableladywanted

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Mets get Johann Santana Posted: 1/31/2008 3:51:02 AM
Sure the Twins probably could have gotten more for Santana from the Yankees or Sox, but the fact is the Mets are in the National League. If the Twins will be haunted it would only be in an occasional interleague game or WS game , which if Twins got that far they would not care , because most likely it would be help of prospects they got from the Mets.

lovableladywanted

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Here this, cause its a good one. Posted: 1/30/2008 8:20:50 AM
I am not trying to offend women . I am just stating the obvious. I have found that most women will sleep with men early on , it should not be suprising if some or most of these women are sleeping with multitudes of men or at the very least a couple. Do not twist my words around. I never said all. I believe women have as much right to date many men as possible if there is no commitment, let alone sleep with them.

lovableladywanted

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Mets get Johann Santana Posted: 1/29/2008 2:37:59 PM
NY Mets get Johann Santana for 4 prospects. As a NY Mets fan , its about time they made a move . Great job Omar . The Mets will sign the guy to a longterm contract now and be set for a while with a worthy ace.

lovableladywanted

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Female losers? Posted: 1/29/2008 2:38:02 AM
I would say HILLARY is a winner . The lady has a law degree and has risen to magnificent heights. Even if you do not like the lady at least be objective. Thus someone that judges success as a failure , surely has to be someone as a loser .... male or female.

lovableladywanted

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Why do women date mutiple guys at once? Posted: 1/28/2008 3:55:33 AM
Heres a shocker .... Most of these women are probably 'sleeping' with most if not all of these men they are dating. Again its females right .

lovableladywanted

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Female losers? Posted: 1/28/2008 2:56:00 AM
I really do not believe ANYONE are losers, male or female. We are all capable of doing great things as well as bad. Remember people are a product of their family environment, genetic make up[handicapped,short, missing limb etc] and social circles[town, school etc.]. It is what people do with their situation. Plus the fact one persons so called 'loser' might be anothers dreamboat. It is not simple as putting a label on someone. Besides many people live up to labels even bad ones so try being positive to all

lovableladywanted

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Why do women date mutiple guys at once? Posted: 1/25/2008 5:36:38 PM
....... because they can anddddddd because women are promiscuous little devils= do not kid yourself to believe otherwise.

lovableladywanted

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is the Democratic party suicidal Posted: 1/24/2008 6:23:34 PM
I think Hillary can win. The right wing radio crowd is loud but most people are onto them right now . Also , Florida has paper trail this year so it will be hard to fix election

lovableladywanted

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Bigger threat? Terrorists or Corporations? Posted: 1/24/2008 1:33:38 AM
Definitely corporations. They abuse the environment, support illegal immoral wars , and steal from their employees as well as abuse when they can get away with it.... especially in 3rd world nations or China.

lovableladywanted

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tattoos and baby bumps Posted: 1/23/2008 5:42:05 PM
^^^I have made no personal attacks . Forums are about voicing ones opinions. If people are SECURE about their choices than they would not give a rats arse what I think or feel. I can handle personal attacks because I know that I am great looking and that I treat others with respect. If people, men or women want to get tattoos thats their business. That statistic I pointed out is TRUE , people with tats are more likely to commit crimes.

lovableladywanted

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How about Super Bowl Saturday! Posted: 1/23/2008 4:38:55 PM
I think the superbowl should be played on Saturday not sunday. Think about it logically. They wait 2 weeks between conference championships and the superbowl.It makes perfect sense. Tradition is not in play because most sports have played even opening games out of country at some time or another. The NFL would be doing a great service to the loyal fan base as well as the casual fan by making the superbowl on Saturday. People work on monday , so I think this is a relatively 'minor ' concession the powers to be can do for the general public.

lovableladywanted

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tattoos and baby bumps Posted: 1/22/2008 5:37:14 PM
Agreed with some here. Tattoos on women are stupid. I would never do it and I am a guy. Why women think its COOL to f*** up their feminine bodies with that crap is beyond me. As I have said earlier, Angelina Jolie is a disgusting f)))))) pig. How an utterly gorgeous woman like that can do that to herself is quite sad really. I will never understand the mentality of women that do that to their precious bodies , especially since women USED to be generally vain about they way they look. I guess its further proof of how our society is sinking and oh by the way look up criminal statistics. Studies show people with tattoos are more likely to commit crimes.

lovableladywanted

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FBI Violates the Law over 1000 times? Posted: 1/18/2008 3:24:32 AM
Mr. OP I understand what you are saying but the sad truth is that this has been happening for most of American history. Need not look any further than watergate. It happens in every nation thruout humanity. Freedom is just an illusion , it always has been and always will be. I know I am going off on a tangent here but really whats the govt business if you grow a marijuana plant and smoke it in your own house. You are not bothering anyone. My rant is over. I guess we still live in a pretty good country compared to others and there is no utopia on the horizon. I suggest reading LORD OF THE FLIES or at least watch the movie; and that will give you a true lesson on how man always behaved- really a timeless tale. As long as you have govt you will always have corruption.

lovableladywanted

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Pretty people get overlooked too you know. Posted: 1/18/2008 3:17:32 AM
I see some mean comments directed toward the OP. The lady is confident and there is nothing wrong with that. I think that may be why some people get overlooked. Alot of people shy away from confident people. That , my friends, is due to the LACK of confidence in themselves. Personally , I like strong minded women that stand up to me . Everyone is different so carry on.

lovableladywanted

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contacting users looking for intimate encounters then being blocked because of it by other users Posted: 1/18/2008 2:54:59 AM
I do not see anything wrong with it. A lady has the right to block people for whatever reason as does a man for that matter. I block picless people and I have heard picless people complain they should not be blocked . It amounts to the same thing.

lovableladywanted

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Should what you post on the forums be included on profile page? Posted: 1/17/2008 7:14:47 PM
I do not care if others see my posts on my file. I hide nothing . I know I can be an arrogant SOB. I am me and I make no airs about it. Worst thing one can do is run away from themself.

lovableladywanted

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Drinks on a first date? Posted: 1/17/2008 7:04:11 PM
I notice somewhat of a contradiction Mr. OP . You say you like to have a drink to be yourself and relax on a first date. That is an unbelievable sentence when you analyze it. You basically are lying to yourself. If you need a drink to relax to be yourself than WHO THE HELL ARE YOU ???? You really need to answer that question. I think I would like to hear the ladies side of this sordid first date story . HMMMM

lovableladywanted

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tattoos and baby bumps Posted: 1/16/2008 3:29:27 AM
As a matter of fact KLeigh yes . I think Angelina Jolie is a disgusting pig how she disgraced her body. Its quite sad because shes a beautiful woman. Laser removal is a big deal now and many women are starting to get upset with the tats they have gotten. In fact I have had ladies contact me on here from time to time telling me how they regret their tattoos. I love the way someone bashed my shirt lol. Thats a hundred dollar Tommy Bahama shirt that is very stylish , but even so I can remove it . Tattoos are permanent unless you go to trouble to remove them , which most tattoos people do eventually and than your skin is never the same.

lovableladywanted

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Fiance says Party to get it out of your system You have 16 days. Posted: 1/16/2008 1:12:37 AM
Its obviously some kind of 'test'. Thus to me a deal breaker. I do not like being manipulated in some sort of gamemanship.

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