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Joined: 5/15/2006

Msg: 36 (view)

~WHY DO MEN WANT TO PLAY GAMES~ Posted: 7/2/2006 2:59:21 AM
I met this guy through my friend's husband. Not a good experience at all. We hit it off nice. He bought me flowers, took me to his place and played music and made my favorite drink, apple martini, blah blah blah. Everything was great. We spoke on the phone for the first week after. Then one day I call and he doesn't answer. Now we have spent a lot of time together and I thought things were great but you know the saying "if everything is too perfect, it's usually too good to be true." Well this was definitely the case. I found out he had a girlfriend and she found out about me. Drama, Drama, Drama..... He told me he was dating but not serious with the chick. It was terrible. Turned out he was only using me for sex because he said she wasn't appealing to him anymore, or ever. I was crushed but I learned fast that I had to give this guy up and I did. I would have never gotten involved with him if I knew he was really with someone. It hurt really bad and it turns out they are still together even though he claims they broke up after the first drama scene. I wonder why men have to play games like this. Give me the choice to be with someone with a girlfriend or not.

Joined: 5/15/2006

Msg: 27 (view)

is it being fake? Posted: 7/2/2006 2:46:10 AM
I smoke when I'm around people who smoke. If I'm dating a guy that doesn't smoke, I usually don't smoke at all. I can do that because I'm not addicted either. You're not being fake.

Joined: 5/15/2006

Msg: 148 (view)

interracial couples Posted: 7/2/2006 2:38:04 AM
I haven't had that problem really. I guess it depends on where you are located. I'm a black woman and have been dating white men for the last 8 years.

Joined: 5/15/2006

Msg: 54 (view)

Does having sex when you meet for the first time ruin a chance for a real relationship? Posted: 7/2/2006 2:27:12 AM
My ex and I had sex on our first date and fell in love. We stayed together for a year and he's the first guy I consider to be my true best friend. So I guess it depends on what you're looking for or what you talk about before the first date.

Joined: 5/15/2006

Msg: 26 (view)

Fun girl VS girlfriend Posted: 7/2/2006 2:15:27 AM
I have the same problem. I am always the fantasy girl. I am smart and have a brain. I love having deep conversations. It seems to me that once I give it up even after deep, long, and mature conversations, the guy goes nutts. It's like he forgets I have more than just sexual needs. I admit I am very sexual but what turns me on the most is intellectual stimulation. If a guy can have a discussion about anything other than sports, women and cars, that turns me on the most.

Joined: 5/15/2006

Msg: 201 (view)

Suggestions to avoid players/con artists Posted: 7/2/2006 2:00:35 AM
I totally agree with this one. You definitely do not want a guy who can only talk about sex and himself. That's a sure sign to stay away.

Joined: 5/15/2006

Msg: 60 (view)

HELP! Meeting a guy from here and then he's mean the next day? Posted: 7/2/2006 1:58:34 AM
Um....... He's nutts. Sorry

Joined: 5/15/2006

Msg: 48 (view)

Older men dating younger women --- does it work?? Posted: 7/2/2006 1:56:11 AM
I love older men. I prefer them actually. I'm 25 and men who are 40 and older are just plain hott but it depends on the personality. I think it's the mature mentality of most men 40 and over. I find that most of the ones I meet are emotionally and financially stable. That's a turn-on for me. I love to have deep conversations and it's hard to find men around my age who can stimulate my intellectual side. I've been dating older men since I started dating. I don't think I can be with a guy around my age. I've tried it recently and young guys just don't do it for me.

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Msg: 45 (view)

honest traditional women Posted: 7/2/2006 1:44:54 AM
I used to be traditional but I'm still honest and faithfull. It's hard to be traditional these days.

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Msg: 99 (view)

Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash? Posted: 7/2/2006 1:18:44 AM
I've been with men with money and without it. To tell you the truth, I just want a man who is financially stable. He doesn't have to make big $$$$. As long as he is financially stable and can have fun and enjoy life, that's all I care about. If he's stressing too much about money then he can't enjoy life or me. So yes I want a man with assets but he doesn't have to be filthy rich. I think that is what most women want. And these days, men want the same thing from women. I know. When I had nothing, successful men didn't want me. Things are different now. It's sad but true.

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