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Joined: 5/16/2006

Msg: 28 (view)

God IS GOOD Posted: 9/2/2006 1:10:15 AM
I envy all you doubters and atheists with your abosolute, set-in-stone belief that there is no God. What amazing faith you have in nothing. OP: may the Good Lord bless you in all areas of your life & may you forever walk in his favor

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love without strings Posted: 8/29/2006 10:46:18 PM
Love without strings is caring for someone no matter what. You just feel it inside and know it when it's there. The closest way to describe the feeling is that it's like a mother's love. It can't be changed, decreased, or stopped. It exists from the first moment it is felt until the end of time.

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Need advice - cheating partner - HELP!! Posted: 8/28/2006 11:43:47 PM
Some advice, revenge is never a good thing. It ALWAYS backfires. Let things take a natural progression and you will be redeemed. She'll get hers and you'll fell bad for her. It's the way things are ment to be. A Word on the actual acts froma different prospective: If she was the emotionally attached one & your SO was constantly telling her how great you are, then it sounds like he either didn't want to be involved with her and was trying to let her down gently or he was using this other woman as an experiment of sorts. Having been involved in many NSA relationships with married and/or otherwise attached men I have found that most of them were intregued by the things I would do that their partners wouldn't. I also found it incredable that our post-sex chats often led to us discussing the guy's wife or girlfriend and how great she is. Most of the time he'd tell me how wonderful & amazing she is then he'd say "I love her but..." and mention some minor flaw that really got to him. That minor thing is what counciling is for. Men often aren't that great at communicating so they often do something stupid instead of talking about the problem. It takes time and lots of work to get past something as big as this. If you think this relationship is worth saving, you'll need to look into yourself to find out why this is REALLY leaving you so unsettled. You"ll need to figure that out even if you dump the **stard just so you can have a healthy relationship in the future. He can't do anything to change the way you feel, you are the one who is responsible for that. OK, so forgive my Dr. Phil mode, but I really think that those words needed to be said.

Joined: 5/16/2006

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seriously.. no more carry-ons Posted: 8/12/2006 10:44:58 AM
No carry-ons, hmm. That makes things difficult for those of us with health conditionsthat must carry certain items that won't fit in our pockets, if we have them. Safety is important, but the security measures aren't that helpful. sure it makes things more "difficult," but it can't stop those who want to do serious harm.

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Why are we so afraid to put the ethniticy of the person we want to date in our profile? Posted: 7/27/2006 9:12:36 PM
If everyone in the world used logic, then no one would have trouble putting what ethnicities they'd prefer in their profiles because no one would be offended by it. The reason I don't have my ethnic preferences in my profile is because I would constantly have to defend my choices. I don't want to have to explain to every "why" response with a long, drawn-out explination. It's just easier to not respond to those who don't float my boat. Some people may think it's rude, but it saves me the time it takes to type it all out (esp. since I'm a slow typer).

Joined: 5/16/2006

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What's Normal!?!?! Posted: 7/13/2006 11:36:43 PM
men 20 % women 4 % thats 16 % difference there ... so who are you guys sleeping with if its not women? every one of the 4% of the female population

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Dating is all about income Posted: 6/20/2006 1:56:46 AM
Dating is not about income. I dated a really nice guy for 3 months. Neither one of us had a steady job at any point until the end of the relationship. The only reason it ended was because he was cheating. My current minimum standard for a guy is that he has a job and a vehicle. When I become a millionare, he'll just have to have a current driver's license.

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How long did you wait for the love of your life? Posted: 6/13/2006 3:05:21 AM
When I was 12, I developed a crush on a family friend that was 9 years older than me. He popped in and out of our lives for years. When I was in HS, he won a trip from the local radio station. He called in and gave a review of the trip when he got back. He told the morning show people that "the person I wanted to take was too young, so I took my roomate." I knew he meant me when he said that (and admited it to me privately later on). I was 16 the last time I saw him. When I was 15, I told my best friend that I had found the guy I was going to marry. He was also 9 years older than me and was on staff at my church camp. We became great friends but we lost track of each other. I was 16 the last time I saw him too. I was 24 when I met my first boyfriend. I loved him with all my heart. It was over in 3 months when he cheated on me. I last saw him about 18 months ago. I thought all of these guys were "the one." I've waited a long time for any of them to realise it.

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Anime Fans Posted: 6/12/2006 3:01:10 AM
It's been a week since the local anime convention. I relised that I have a lot to learn and catch up with. But I do have my favorites: Anime: - Speed Racer (oldie, but good) - Canadate for Goddess/ Pilot Canadate (short 12 epi run, But I enjoyed it) - Cowboy Bebop (am currently watching the DVDs loaned to me by my best friend's fiance) - Outlaw Star (haven't seen it in a while) - Saiyuki (all versions) Manga: - Cross - Saiyuki - Chrono Crusade

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rude emails that spoil your POF experience Posted: 6/12/2006 2:52:35 AM
I don't get a whole lot of mail on here. I've had no hatemail. Most of my messages are from those just wanting to hookup.

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Muffin Tops...sexy? or just plain wrong? Posted: 5/28/2006 2:24:15 AM
I'd heard the term "muffin tops" before, but I didn't know what they were talking about. So, I have them and there is nothing in the world that can make them not be visible. Even my underware makes them appear. Usually, they ARE covered, though. But I do have a hard time finding shirts that are long enough. My body length suggests that I should be about 6' and my leg length says I should be 5'7". I guess that's why I wear t-shirts so much.

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Comments: your GF is Your MOM Refference Posted: 5/28/2006 2:10:06 AM
The only thing that I've had happen is people thinking my step-dad is my husband (He is only 10 yrs older than me. My mom is 17 years older than him). That happened more when I was 14 than it does now....

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Feeling rather Bitter here-what ever happened to Karma? Posted: 5/28/2006 1:58:25 AM
Have you ever thought that the situation you are in may be karma? I'm sure you are not totally innocent. When I got my actual boyfriend, it was great. When we broke up, it was the opposite side of the coin that was similar to a situation that happened with the person I lost my virginity to. Some people are just wo-faced and you can't tell who they are until it's too late. I wish nothing but the best for my ex and that's the best revenge of all.

Joined: 5/16/2006

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The Ultimate sacrifice? Posted: 5/27/2006 2:51:18 AM
You didn't mention if this couple has children. If they do have children, make her think about what she would be doing to them. If there are no kids, make her think about what is going to happen to her other family and friends. Tell her that suicide is a selfish act committed by selfish people who can't think about anyone else but themselves. Really try to offend her and make her mad. When she feels something other than sadness, then she will snap out of it.

Joined: 5/16/2006

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subserviant women?? Posted: 5/27/2006 2:44:18 AM
As a female in a evangelical church, I must make you aware of the fact that the evangelicals were the first group of Christians that actually had female preachers. Also, women are not to be subserviant. They are to submit to their husbands but that doesn't mean he can walk all over her or she must obey him or she will be punished. Marriage was created to reflect our relationship with G-d with the male representing G-d as the provider and the female representing all the rest of us on earth (yes, even the men) as the companion to the provider. Also, the reason for pain in child birth is due to the original sin. Adam was cursed to work hard and by the sweat of his brow, he could produce food to eat. Eve was cursed with great pain in childbirth and also cursed with the desire to let her husband rule over her. According to Jewish oral history, the curses put on Adam and Eve were never meant to be a permenant punishment and they would lessen as it got closer to the "end of the world."

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BBW'S...WHATS UR OPINION OF US GUYS??? Posted: 5/26/2006 1:47:13 AM
As a gal of larger proportions, I have personally found it hard to find a date. Apparently, the only people intrested in BBWs around here are either 15+ years my senior or they have less-than-average intellegence. Either way, it's really hard to find a person that is interested in me that doesn't give off the creepy vibe or just wants to hook up. Part of that may have to do with my less-than-stunning chest size and my flat-until-I-bend-over a$$. I gusee you could say that I'm not properly proportioned. The only person I ever dated was very attractive and was also very thin. He was a musician, very smart and was all the things I was looking for except for the fact that he lacked a job and a car. The relationship ended because he also lacked a backbone when it came to standing up to his father.

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Lose weight first, then date? Posted: 5/23/2006 4:42:05 PM
My experiance is this....Females on this site are sooooo shallow in most part that it does not matter. If you do not have that right look to you then your hooped. Its all about looks and nothing else, I have seen this time and time again. So what happens if for some reason you gain weight or whatever....Let me tell you this much, from what I have seem you will be dumped and thrown in the trash like yesterdays news paper. It seem the females are all interested in looks only, you could be the worlds bigest A$$ hole, but if you have the right look then your in....... If not then your out...! Its all about what the package looks like and who cares about what is within... Just telling you what I have been seeing over and over and over on here. About 98% are shallow to the bone. You are so wrong. Women are WAAY more forgiving than men. IRL, women are more likely to give the heavier guy a chance. Try to go out and find someone and you'll have more luck than trying a dating site. The only thing to judge a person on the internet is a picture or the description than is in your profile.

Joined: 5/16/2006

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What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys? Posted: 5/22/2006 8:50:57 PM
I have been attracted to guys of all shapes and sizes before. Most of them I never even got to hug more than once let alone hook up with. My preference is skinny or muscular guys close to my age who are taller than I am, but guys like that that like me are hard to come by. In fact, I've only found 2 in my life. One I dated for three months before he wouldn't stand up for himself against his father and started living with the girl his father chose. The other guy was married and was dating my best friend at the time. He also was sleeping with at least 2 other girls that he admitted to me about. Sexually, I prefer skinny guys because they fit better with my frame. I've also been with "fat" guys and found some of them worked well because they had bigger bits. I've never been with a muscular man.

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