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vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

Msg: 25 (view)

Fetishes Posted: 6/30/2006 12:29:16 PM
BRAD II ........i love the way you put the difference between kinky and fetish!!! quote...know the difference between kinky and perverted? kinky is using a feather to tickle your lover... perverted is using the whole chicken. first class!!!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Do u expect to have sex on a first date or as a first date?? Posted: 6/30/2006 12:25:14 PM
It depends on the person....some will some won't........dont think you should be judged if you do,its personal choice!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Female Bisexuality Posted: 6/29/2006 12:32:37 PM
i have in the past been with women and couples i loved it!.....it wasnt planned but it happened and i dont regret it ...would love to do it again but not sure if i,d feel the same with my hubby.....it would be kind of cheating!,even if he was there!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

Msg: 25 (view)

favourite relationship activity Posted: 6/29/2006 12:22:06 PM
for me its off roading with my jeep!.......love it!.....all the mud,the challenge of tryin to drive on riduculous angles without tipping over!....the fact that it can scare the hell out of you but you keep going.......probably boring to most but love it!.......second would be drag racing ...the awesome cars,the speed,the noise!!!!...wow!!!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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What's with all the dishonesty? Posted: 6/23/2006 1:03:03 PM
Couldnt agree more!!....i,m honest on mine i say i tease and thats what i do ....i tell people i,m married and won,t cheat on my hubby and i,m honest from the start!......i have met ppl off the net before i was married....my hubby came from a chatroom!!!!,but i have had so many ppl in the past lie to me and when you meet them its always different!!!....hope you find what you want hun and if you get bored....i,m up for a chat!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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its harder for an attractive woman to find real love Posted: 6/23/2006 12:56:17 PM
Dont know about anyone else but i would soon someone like me for who i am and not what i look like.......seems vain to want someone just becasue they fill the ideal of looking good!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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dating; friends; talk/email; long-term ....perceptions of these terms Posted: 6/23/2006 12:53:45 PM
quote.....Friends = Casual sex E-mail/Talk= Talking about sex THEN having casual sex Dating = Going dancing then having sex Long Term = Not getting any more sex. Have to agree with stoneside at the end of the day no matter what most put...even if soe are genuine by sayin friends (as i am!) people percieve it as wanting sex just because you are on the net in a dating site!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Does stress make you horny? Posted: 6/23/2006 12:48:56 PM
when i get stressed the last thing i want is sex!!...let me unwind 1st!!....you cant shag someone while your thinkin of things you need to do at work!!!...not good!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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As I mature Posted: 6/18/2006 8:17:08 AM
Ive learnt you should believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see!! its easy to read the wrong things if you only see half the story

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Women Over 40 Biggest Concerns Posted: 6/18/2006 7:52:35 AM
For me its the time when i have to leave loved ones!...not that i want to live for ever i just dont want to leave them!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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just for girls Posted: 6/3/2006 10:44:28 AM
ive got a broken rib and am in bloody agony now ive been on here!!!! it was so worth it though!!!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Third wheels Posted: 5/30/2006 10:54:44 AM
you tried locking the door!!.....failing that just sit her down as say you want some time alone,be nice,tell her you can maybe set out days when she can come round but you cant be there 24/7 for her to walk in on when ever she feels like it.....sounds like she doesnt have any friends so maybe you could introduce her to some of yours?....just to get her out n about n not in your bedroom!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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actions or words ???? Posted: 5/30/2006 6:20:02 AM
definately actions,you can say so much with a look, a smile,i gentle touch etc...

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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canadian/american peanut butter cookies!!! Posted: 5/23/2006 11:48:22 AM
thanks! how excellent is that site!!!!...ive put it in my favourites,there,s so many recipes on there i,m gonna have a go at!lol

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Cooking over an open fire Posted: 5/21/2006 11:29:38 AM
i dont know if you get them over there but we have different types of burning bricks...flavoured i guess you,d call em!!,apple wood etc....they can add a great taste to food on an open fire!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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canadian/american peanut butter cookies!!! Posted: 5/21/2006 11:26:15 AM
I used to have a ccokbook of my mothers,she was canadian and i know the book was form canada...it was one with great cookies and biscuits etc in...anyway does anyone have a recipe for oeanut butter cookies...i no longer have the book and always used it for that recipe!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Do you communicate well with your partner? Posted: 5/21/2006 11:10:55 AM
to be honest i dont see the annoying things very often!...i tell him the truth then i cant get caught out!lol....he knows i flirt on line,who i talk to,wot i talk about(if he wants to know!)....be honest with him because holding it in will only make it worse!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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finding your boyfriend on another internet site Posted: 5/21/2006 10:51:52 AM
Have you ever tried typing a name into your pc using google!......if you type in the e.mail addi or name they use on line you,d be suprised at the results you can get!!!...i,m not saying it works on all because some dont do it or if they did they use a different name,the first think i do nowadays is do a search just to see where they go!!lol

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/19/2006 2:32:01 PM
i met my hubby from a chatroom rrom neither of use knew what each other looked like,although we had described ourselves....as long as your honest and so is the other person no prob!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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relationships with best friends ex,s Posted: 5/19/2006 10:50:21 AM
lol no not my legs huni!!....and its not me i,m askin for i wouldnt do that ...it like a silent code dont go near ya best mates ex,s!,which is a shame cause some of em were quite nice!!lol

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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relationships with best friends ex,s Posted: 5/19/2006 10:37:38 AM
If you it happened by accident,and it was you best friends ex girlfriend/boyfriend,you didnt set out to sleep with them, but shit happens!!....would you tell your best friend or say nothing and finish it before it got too serious?

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Has anyone ever used ice cubes for sex? Posted: 5/19/2006 10:28:57 AM
my hubby loves an ice cube bj!!...all i,m sayin!lol

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Looking for honest opinions on my profile Posted: 5/19/2006 6:39:33 AM
try smiling hun!!...then take a photo!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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I keep wonderng why Posted: 5/19/2006 6:38:33 AM
i think you should have the 5th pic as you main pic,its a nicer photo and would prob attract more viewers

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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All shapes & sizes... Posted: 5/19/2006 6:31:39 AM
ive been with all shapes n sizes..it doesnt matter to me as long as they have a great personality.....my hubby however is fit n had great body tone,we just clicked and he obviously likes big women although he also has been with all shapes n sizes!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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city life or country life? Posted: 5/18/2006 11:42:25 AM
country.....i always lived in the country from birth to about 5/6 yrs ago now i live in big town and hate it,you cant see the stars at night because the street lights block them,yo dont have the birds,wildlife etc......i miss the country village life!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Your idea of heaven Posted: 5/18/2006 11:39:21 AM
somewhere peacefull,with someone you get on with and comfortable enough with that you dont always have to talk!,away from the ppl who drain you with thier constant questions about life........

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Ok Oral Sex - Could you be in a relationship without it? Posted: 5/18/2006 11:34:17 AM
I've alwaya been told you shouldn't refuse a gift!.....surely to spit it out is just ungreatfull!!!....and it is good for you all that protein!!lol

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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ok heres one for the ladies Posted: 5/18/2006 4:41:16 AM
you should never tell someone you love them unless you mean it.....even if its wot they want to hear.....as for telling her she was a slut....she alwasy going to think thats your opinion of her!....you will have to do some work to get her back ...proove yourself to her,sit down and tell her the reasons behind your outburst and hope you can rebuild wot you had!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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How to get rid of a stalker? Posted: 5/18/2006 4:31:20 AM
on the net report them to the server in real life report them to the police...easy as!!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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the “take-it-b*tch” thing Posted: 5/18/2006 4:27:50 AM
you dont have to say "take it ****" thats not much of a turn on!!lol...more like whisper wot you,re gonna do to her...that you love the way she feels when your in her...stuff like that not insults!!lol

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

Msg: 414 (view)

Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met? Posted: 5/17/2006 4:08:23 PM
oh hell yes and i prooved it last week as an experiment!....yeah it was cruel but worht it to show the guy wot he,d been doin to others!!...only took him 4 days to tell me he loved me!!,point prooven and i felt like shit!!lol

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Oral sex the first time you make love Posted: 5/17/2006 4:00:39 PM
it would depend really ...if you feel like its leading that way then why not!!.jesus ive done alot worse than oral on a date!...but thats a whole other story!!lol

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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best insult... Posted: 5/17/2006 3:53:00 PM
this would be a retorte!...... i,m fat so twats like you dont find me attractive and hit on me!!

vicilou

Joined: 5/16/2006

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Scared? Posted: 5/16/2006 2:07:32 PM
hmmmmm....well i,m no expert but it looks to me like he,s the one thats scared!,scared of making that extra step,scared of it all blowing up in his face if it doesnt work out.......maybe he thinks if you sleep with someone its a commitment!,and the fact that you have been honest with him is telling him that you are independent and can quite easily cope on your own and dont need to have a man to be complete!.This can be scary for a guy, after all they do like to think they are in control even wen we know they aren,t!!lol

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