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flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Profile review again Posted: 6/5/2006 12:49:36 AM
well, i've just had a read of ur profile, and i must honestly say that it seems perfectly alright to me!! Its not too long winded, tells us wat u are looking for, and i think u should get far with wat u have submitted in ur profile, even tho i didnt see the 1st one. Good luck!!

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Laser Vaginal Rejuvenation Posted: 6/2/2006 10:57:03 AM
i would definately have a "designer Vaginer" lol...its one piece of surgery that i wouldnt mind paying for, cos most of the women who have had it done, have said how much her sex life has improved, along with her partners!!! I really dont like the way my ****looks, let alone wat a sexual partner would think, and i must admit that it stops me from having Cunnilingus, as i am so worried about how i look "down below" i so want surgery...

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Were you really in LOVE ???? Posted: 6/2/2006 10:27:19 AM
i have only truely been in love once in my life time, with a gut who accepted me as i was then ( slightly overweight, going thro bad patch with an abusive ex, and problems with my daughter). we were only together for 8 months, but he showed me how to love myself again, and restored my faith in that not all men are as obnoxios, aggressive, abusive physically/mentally as my ex was, and this guy also showed me wat making love was all about, and i lived and breathed him, until the day he decided he didnt love me anymore, and moved it with another woman. i cried like i have never cried before, even waking up to tears i shed whilst asleep, drinking out of his mug, sitting in his favourite place on the sofa, just trying to keep his memory alive by treading in his long gone footsteps, hoping with all my heart that he would come back to me... He didnt come back, and i look back and understand why he left me, and i really dont blame him in the slighest. although we were only together for 8 months. it was the most intense relationship that i have ever had, even comparing it to relationships i'v had for years, and i learnt a hell of alot about myself, and have managed to move onwards and upwards, striving for a love that i know exists, and trying to find that kind of love again..

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Please keep your pictures updated, or at least Posted: 6/1/2006 8:43:48 AM
i'v met ppl who have not been totally honest with their pic, espec 1 guy, who had pix up where he looked stunning, and he even sent me other pix, where he looked much the same, until i met up with him, and saw that not only were the pix he sent me 15 yrs out of date, he had gained considerable weight since takin the pix, so the only way i could identify him, was by pulling up the pic he sent me, then doing a comparison with him in real life! only way i did know it was really him was by his crooked tooth and his odd shaped nose!! So Yes, pls keep ur pix up to date, cos its nothing more than false advertising, and we all change over the years, so dint b scared, just show us the REAL you!!!

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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older women younger men Posted: 6/1/2006 8:37:42 AM
speaking from experience, i have dated guys younger than me, and i found that most were too emotionally immature for my liking, but it hasn't put me off dating guys who are younger than me, as i know that every guy is different, and i'v even met guys my own age who have been more immature than even my 13yr old daughter, so in my opinion, it's not really the age that bothers me, just the mentality of the guy i am dating.

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Meeting people Posted: 6/1/2006 8:13:01 AM
hmmm...i would love to meet someone speacial full stop!! dont care where or when just as long as he's gorgous, fit and ready to be loved and cuddled for the rest of his days!!!

flik66

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Grouping by Roaul Posted: 6/1/2006 8:05:06 AM
i wouldn't even bother considering the 3 sum with another guy or woman..if thers a problem in the sexual dept, then thers plenty of other things to try, without resorting to involving someone else!! well thats the way i see it anyways..lol

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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What is your biggest turn on Posted: 6/1/2006 7:57:37 AM
my biggest turn on is being kissed & nibbled on my neck & shoulders...MMmmmmmm...garunteed to get me on my knees

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Why are you single? Posted: 6/1/2006 7:42:41 AM
i think the reason i'm still single, is that 1. i dont go out very much, to pubs or clubs, 2. i dont have alot of money to waste on the going out to any of the above, 3. i have become "fussy" who i want to date now, after having too many disasterius relationships, ( not all of them, but most). I have come to want to choose v.carefully who i want to date, introduce to my daughter, and who i can trust? i suppose using internet dating sites havent really helped me, cos i have most definately become more aware of people and their hidden motives ( not All ppl, just the select few who are just looking for sex) Mayb my patience wil pay off 1 day? i hope it does, and i really hope that i do meet a guy who i can spend the rest of my life with, cos i dont wana b on my own forever..

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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If you've had cancer or an illness at what point in a relationship do you tell Posted: 6/1/2006 7:19:11 AM
thankfully i havent got nor had cancer, but i do suffer from Osteoarthritis in my lower back, which i have had for around 12yrs. I am totally honest and open about it right from the start, so that it wont surprise/shock any guys from getting to know me, then me telling them. I prefer to be honest right from the start of the relationship, so that gives the person concerned, a chance to make their own minds up as to whether they want to date me or not?!

flik66

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Would u date at guy or marry guy who is in the military? Posted: 6/1/2006 7:13:24 AM
yes i would date a guy in the forces, and i can guess that it takes alot of trust between the 2 of u, that the relationship is going to be kept to 1 partner, and not say "a girl in every port". My dad was in the navy, so i have experience of having to wait for months on end, for them to come home, plus the fact that they can have plenty of other women whilst their away from their loved ones! It would b hard going, but as long as the guy was trustworthy, then i would date/marry a guy in the forces

flik66

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having your wall up Posted: 6/1/2006 7:07:03 AM
iv had my wall up for quite a few years now, although i have taken a few bricks off wen i'v met someone i trust, but once that trust is broken, i add the bricks back on again. I dont think that thers anything wrong wit ppl putting up a wall, bcos u gota have sum form of protection against the ppl who tend to go around hurting others, as long as u are prepared to let others over it, every now & again.

flik66

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theres and old saying that seems to go on for ever Posted: 5/30/2006 12:28:34 AM
yeh, i believe its a true enough saying, and yes, iv wished for stuff that has come true, then wished i'd not wished for it in the first place.. Confusin, eh?!

flik66

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Annoying couples Posted: 5/30/2006 12:22:31 AM
i dont really find couples annoying, i jst get a lil sad that i'm not doin the sorta things they are, like holding hands, cuddling, sharing a private joke, enjoyin each others company! Guess i jst gota change to a different line, cos not even the tiddlers are biting at the mo...

flik66

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What's Better? No father or Loser role model father? Posted: 5/29/2006 7:14:29 AM
after all the Sh!t my ex did to me, ie..mental and physical abuse, i never once stopped my daughter from seeing her dad, as i thought that wat happened between myself and him had nothing to do wit her. I am glad i left it up to my daughtre to make her own mind up, as she has seen her dad in his true colors, which is a shame, but it just means that she had the freedom to make her on mind up, and she has decided that she wants nothing more to do with him.. So to answer ur Q about weather a child shud grow up with a good parent or without a bad 1, i think it comes down to personal choice, plus me personally. think its better for the child to make their own mind up..

flik66

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Cat or Dog person Posted: 5/29/2006 6:53:18 AM
i'm most definately a Cat person and i love em so much, that i'v got 3 of em!! They are independant, and can look after themselves, plus i dont have to pick up their poop. as they do it in other ppls gardens!! lol

flik66

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Why do some women back away from fingers? Posted: 5/29/2006 4:45:38 AM
......Needs Some loving right now.... Argh... lol

flik66

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older women younger men Posted: 5/28/2006 3:22:07 PM
i am so shocked at how many younger guys are into older women?!! its amazing wat age can do for a woman..lol although from my experience, iv found alot of younger guys just want the sexual experience with the older woman..which is a shame..

flik66

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Sex Drive after 35 Posted: 5/28/2006 3:18:57 PM
yerr...i can agree wit that!! My sex drive has just excelled as i got older, and i definately enjoy it more, for sure!! if only i knew back then wat i know now!!

flik66

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Loners - what gives ? Posted: 5/28/2006 3:15:09 PM
mayb the guy is just content with his lot in life?

flik66

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I dont think Ill get married ever again./YOU? Posted: 5/28/2006 2:54:21 PM
ginibin, yes u did make sense, and i just want to add to my reply, that marriage isnt the be all and end all in my life, i wud b just happy having someone special to share it with....

flik66

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I dont think Ill get married ever again./YOU? Posted: 5/28/2006 2:49:29 PM
Aahhh...Woe is moi!!! iv never ever been Married, let alone Divorced..so i cant complain about either, tho the chance wuda been a fine thing!! im just hoping i dont die a Spinster, wather Unmarried or Hitched?

flik66

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Vinyl vs. CD Posted: 5/28/2006 12:09:24 PM
i prefer cds for thier size, but must admit to owning a fair few vinyl too, such as original Pink Floyd "relics", hawkwind, Mickey Dread, Led Zepplin, Pet shop boys...can go on, but wud have to drag em all down stairs to finish off my list..

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Women who left Verbal/Emotional Abusers... Posted: 5/28/2006 11:47:22 AM
i left a verbal/physical relationship, several times, but it wasnt until i had my daughter, and the guy hit me once too often in front of her, that i decided to leave him!! i had left several times before, but ended up goin back as he wud promise he wud change, or that it was me pushing all the wrong buttons? people wud tell me to leave him, but i was blinded at the time, and so didnt listen to their advice. how i left him was i was in contact with a very close friend, who knew wat i was going thro, and i had my sister help me also, so that wen he went out for the day, i packed mine and my daughters stuff into the back of my sisters car, left him a note saying i didnt love him anymore and was fed up wit his violence, then left, going 200 miles away from him, and it was the best thing i ever did do! he found out wher i had gone tho, and tried harrassing me, but i got in touch with the womans refuge, who came nd picked my daughter and me up, and put us up in a safe house.

flik66

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anyone else though with dating Posted: 5/28/2006 11:37:34 AM
im getting fed up with the dating thang too... its the same old, nd i get frustrated with myself, as i dont go out much, so am limited to how i can meet ppl, espec guys. i have been using the internet for 3 yrs now, nd havent had alot of luck with the dating thang...it seems to me that most guys are just looking for an easy lay, or pic swap, so am wondering if im looking in the right places now? If ur only in ur 20s, then u have ur whole life ahead of u, not like me, whose almost hitting 40 and is still searching for "the One"

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Cartoons, joke pics, Cats Monkeys etc. ARE BANNED. Posted: 5/28/2006 7:50:09 AM
when users can edit/delete, accept, decline, crop white background, does it actually work, or are we just doing a job that has no effect wat-so-ever? reason i ask is that i was sorting out ppls pix last night, and came acros several that should not be seen, ie..a guy sitting 100% naked on a sofa, plus various others like Cartoon pix, car/truck pix, all of which i refused. sorry if any of them were urs (to the ppl in this thread). So have i made a differance to PoF or have i just passed the deleted pix onto someone else?

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Sex and anti-depressants Posted: 5/28/2006 7:37:16 AM
i'v had problems like not being able to orgasm before, due to the medication iv had to take, and the only thing i can suggest is that u explain to ur partner wat the problem is u are having, and she/he should understand, so taking the pressure off of u a lil? its a difficult 1, cos at least us women can Fake orgasm, but i dunno if men can? just try nd relax, and not think about...What if i Dont come?... work on the Getting there!!

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Do women actually need men anymore? Posted: 5/28/2006 7:31:11 AM
lol layer3switch...mine does once iv put fresh batteries in it!! haha..

flik66

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Women...would you pay for sex with a man? Posted: 5/28/2006 7:25:19 AM
i think if i was desperate enough, then Yes, i would pay for sex, cos i would hope that by me paying for it, i would b garunteed at least 1 orgasm, if not Several?! lol...Plus he aint gtg sleep straight afterwards!!

flik66

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Do women actually need men anymore? Posted: 5/28/2006 7:22:55 AM
I need a man!!! Yes, i own a Rampant Rabbit..that substitutes the real thing ok, but it will never replace the feeling of someone giving me kisses, cuddles, laughter, and general support in life...so if thers any guys out ther, who have read this, nd wana know more, then Please Please PlEeeease..contact moi

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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do women look for a provider Posted: 5/28/2006 7:18:37 AM
the only thing i look for in a man is Self sufficiency..being able to cook, clean, look after himself if i am having a bad day, etc, plus for some Love & affection, cos its been a long time since i had sum decent snogs nd cuddles...sigh. Thats not much to ask for, is it?!

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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100 logins later... Posted: 5/27/2006 1:31:17 PM
does this happen when a User decides whether to delete another users pic or just wen Admin decide wether to accept it or not?

flik66

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IM Posted: 5/27/2006 1:22:27 PM
i have allowed pof... i stil get the same problem..iv turned imoff for now, as i got fed up wit not being able to connect

flik66

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IM Posted: 5/27/2006 1:08:37 PM
i'v been having the same problem, except that the im tries to connect, but then stops for sum reason? i am using my mobile phone as a modem, via pc, so am not sure if this has anything to do with it? i wud love to use the im to chat to my bud, but i get as far as "Connecting" then nothing.... i'v not had a problem on other sites with this kinda thing, so i dont know wat else i can do? i have done the tests, and everything is up and running, so i am lost...Thanks in advance...:hug:

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Instant Messenger Help. Posted: 5/27/2006 12:56:26 PM
i'm having the same problems as some others here...i have checked that the flash player works, pop ups allowed, everything up and running correctly...i have a window open up, which informs me that its connecting, but thats as far as it goes! would using my Mobile phone as a modem, via my pc, have anything to do with these problems? i have wanted to use my I.M wit my buddy, but i havnt had any luck wat-so-ever. Please can u help me? Thanku in advance

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Instant Messenger Help. use with Mobile as Modem Posted: 5/27/2006 12:55:48 PM
i'm having the same problems as some others here...i have checked that the flash player works, pop ups allowed, everything up and running correctly...i have a window open up, which informs me that its connecting, but thats as far as it goes! would using my Mobile phone as a modem, via my pc, have anything to do with these problems? i have wanted to use my I.M wit my buddy, but i havnt had any luck wat-so-ever. Please can u help me? Thaknu in advance

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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TOUCHING! Posted: 5/27/2006 11:07:46 AM
i think Touching is really important in a relationship. and i went out with a guy for 3 yrs, who didnt like cuddles, kisses, snogs, massage, stroking or anything like that, and not suprisingly. the relationship ended, due to other reasons also, but i put up with it for 3 yrs, then decided i had enough! i Need to b shown affection, and i also enjoy giving it as well, so i am 100% certain that the next relationship i have, will have plenty of the above, and more!!

flik66

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Bald v shaven heads - and is bald beautiful? Posted: 5/27/2006 10:32:50 AM
if it suits the guy to have a bald head, then ya wont hear any complaints from moi! i just dont like guys who insist on a "comb over" or wantin to look too much like a hippy, cos thats not the way to go in my opinion

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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What book are you currently reading? Posted: 5/27/2006 10:19:18 AM
im currently reading "Cabal" by Clive Barker. almost finished, nd im enjoying it greatly

flik66

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Anniversaries Posted: 5/27/2006 10:14:41 AM
the only anniversary i remember is the 24-10-91, cos that is wen i gave birth to my Still Born daughter ;(

flik66

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100% certainty Posted: 5/27/2006 10:12:17 AM
wat a scary thought that is!!!! It makes me even happier that i am All Woman!!! lol

flik66

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Smoking Prefer not to say Posted: 5/27/2006 7:53:32 AM
well.. I can finally say...No! to Smoking! Woohoo.. I gave up last november, nd havent lQQkd back! Groovy baby...

flik66

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I need some advice on a touchy subject Posted: 5/26/2006 3:17:10 AM
congratulations on bringing ur kids up in such a great way! i have kept all my court documents from years ago, so that my daughter can see exactly wat went on all those years ago, & believe me, it Did come in handy, wen my ex kept putting me down and accusing me of things which i never did, so i showed my daughter exactly wat happened, & it was 1 of the best things i have ever done!! She now knows the truth, & i think its important for kids to have some knowledge in wat happened cocerning their parents breakup...

flik66

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OOOOPPPPSS Sorry FunnyGirl. Posted: 5/26/2006 3:08:13 AM
it was hard pamela, but i couldnt bring her up in a relationship where there was constant arguing 7 aggressivness. it urned out that my daughter saw wat her dad was like, unfortunatly, wen he had another relationship, & she went to stay with them in the holidays. she would com home with all the wories of the world on her shoulders, after seeing her own father being abusive o his partner. my daughter is now aged 13, and she has made the decision not to see her dad so often anymore, bcos of wat he is like, & his other partner finally left him too, after suffering the same abuse as i did.

flik66

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women what do you like a hairy chest or a smoth chest ? Posted: 5/26/2006 2:30:31 AM
i rather like a hairy chest, as long as its not Too hairy & the hairs stay on the front & not grow on the back...oh.. no thanku!

flik66

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Kissing fools in grand style at that Posted: 5/26/2006 1:55:46 AM
theres nothing better than having kisses & cuddles anywhere that u wish, as long as ur partner enjoys it too, and i so love giving & recieving lots of love & affection...

flik66

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Thank Crunchie it's Friday Posted: 5/26/2006 1:50:25 AM
my favourite day is Friday, as it means ya got the whole wkend to lQQk forward to, plus 2 days of doing wat U want to do!! WooHoo!!

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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OOOOPPPPSS Sorry FunnyGirl. Posted: 5/26/2006 1:29:37 AM
i have found thro experience, that an abusive person is often Charming, but quick to criticise others for their own mistakes. i was in an abusive relationship for 6yrs, then after the birth of my daughter, i found sum inner strength to leave him, as i didnt want my daughter seeing the violence that was happening, plus saving her from going for the same type of person!

flik66

Joined: 5/18/2006

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brutal honesty much appreciated Posted: 5/26/2006 1:11:01 AM
hmmm... i just read ur profile, nd i thought it was ok, but could do wit a lil more depth as in wat u wud like to do on a 1st date, wat sorta tings u have done wen u have been spontanious? but fair play to u for puttin urself in the firing line to begin with, cos i wouldnt of had the guts to!! ;) hope these comments helped u btw..

flik66

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what is with the people on here... Posted: 5/22/2006 12:56:40 PM
if i have ever recieved a email from someone im not really interested in, then i have replyed just to be polite, but i have then found that they tink im encouraging them to talk to me, nd iv not got the heart to say.."sorry, ur not my type". i get stuck between a rock and a hard place sometimes, i tel ya!! lol

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