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banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

Msg: 58 (view)

Want some advice to succeed? Posted: 5/30/2006 9:23:29 AM
Dont take dating seriously, just date anyone, for fun, and practice. Dont think every girl has to fall in love with you. Tell yourself up front, your not going to let it develop into anything while you are "practicing". ONce you get the skillz to be a player, then you can use your finely honed skillz to attract the woman of your dreams. By then you should have developed some passion in your life, be interested in several things. Do well in your job, save some money, live beneath your means, etc. Clean your car and your house / room. Thats when you truly got it going on.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Dont forget about the Coffee Shop! Posted: 5/30/2006 9:13:57 AM
The problem with some guys is all they think about is sex. Yet, you cannot bring this up in conversation in a first meeting with most girls. So, whats left to talk about? You need to prepare a list, think of some generic topics. Meet or take her to a coffee shop. After a couple cups of coffee, and the caffeine kicks in, I guarantee you'll both be having motor mouths, or the next cups on me.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Need some advice Posted: 5/30/2006 9:03:05 AM
You could try to see if his cell phone got disconnected and pay to have it reupped. You could try calling from another number, using a calling card to disquise your caller ID, to see if hes done with you.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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your best pick-up techniques...... Posted: 5/30/2006 8:40:48 AM
I walked up to this redhead for a friend who doesnt do so well with the ladies, and said, See my friend over there, he likes red-heads, and since theres three of you, and three of us, Id thought Id flip a quarter to see who gets the other two, So I flipped a quarter high in the air and it landed on my arm, and I said, "Call it". LOLOLOLOLOL Can you believe I actually got away with this ladies?

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Women want a guy with confidence so.... Posted: 5/30/2006 8:36:59 AM
My $.02: I think I can easily explain this one. Women want a guy with confidence, but what they dont realize is that it takes practice or (playing) to get that confidence. So after a guy has successfully been with say a hundred women, then he has finally obtained the skillz to woo the woman of his dreamz having proved it in the field. Until then, hes playing ya to get there. After all, women have set the limit yourselves, when you said, he must be confident. You say you want your man to know how to make you feel special? Guess what, this is another SKILL that is learned and practiced. Most of us players start out with the over weight ones, or dog faced tight bodied ones, and then work our way up to our dream girl.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Double Standard? Posted: 5/24/2006 6:45:37 PM
If i did that, she would say, awww, thanks. I do it all the time. heres another favorite line of mine.... Man you are really cute!!!

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Double Standard? Posted: 5/24/2006 6:14:41 PM
Obviously the OP never really tested his "theory". Women do like to be told they are sexy. I guess, he just was guessing, because hes too shy to find out for sure.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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age difference Posted: 5/24/2006 7:55:52 AM
personally, i got no problem with any age getting with any other age, as long as they are willing, regardless of the legal cutoff.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Do men not understand that they have the ability to hurt people? Posted: 5/24/2006 7:49:25 AM
Dont take it personal, everyone is just out looking for there special someone, guys and girls. However if you dont want to be racked with emotional torment, try not giving it up until after you are married, then it dont matter much who you go out with, guy or girl eh?

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Would this attract you? Posted: 5/24/2006 7:47:08 AM
well im no lady, but id say dont get your hopes up, go hit on some other "shrek" type gals, and youll do fine! But occasionally a shrek type guy can get lucky with a beauty when she is inbetween boyfriends. a friends with benefits type relationship, or playing to her emotional needs can pay off for a while. i.e. catch her on the rebound, when she is most vulnerable.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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what do you say to a woman that has nothing in her profile? Posted: 5/24/2006 7:43:33 AM
how about, "hey hon, how fat is that ass?" You wouldnt happen to have any size 2 girlfriends do you? LOLOLOLOOLOOLOOLOLOL

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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THE LIST..........Which one would you say you are? Posted: 5/24/2006 7:35:26 AM
As I have posted in other chat forums, there are two major categories of people in the dating arena: those who spend all their money trying to get laid, doing drugs, seeing who they can screw next, gaining just enough skill in the workplace to survive. These tend to jump from job to job. And there are those who were brought up in a christ like home, taught morals, and that peace and prosperity is reserved for the righteous. These people are not interested in when they are going to get laid next, but rather, develop a passion for life. They obtain careers and not only stay at their job for years and years, they are the main source of people today that stay married all thru the nurturing of their children until they leave the nest, and beyond. Check out the church singles groups. In my church we have singles groups in every city in the country, and in some states, entire churches are built just for singles people. And not only there but every college and junior college in the country has singles groups set up called Institue of Religion. These are the mormons, who are known for family values. "By their works ye shall know them" the scriptures say.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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age difference Posted: 5/24/2006 7:16:42 AM
FROM MSG 154: nothin like giving a lady a compliment and she respnds, "thank you, u are nice, good luck to you. in other words she aint interested in you! LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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how to pick older ladies in their 40s Posted: 5/23/2006 8:26:10 AM
If only men were more like Hugh Heffner, and women were more like his 50 years younger girlfriends!!!

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Pictures do make a big difference Posted: 5/23/2006 5:52:46 AM
or, to put it more honestly if your ugly a picture makes the difference of NO RESPONSES, and if you is attractive, then the difference is you get PLENTY OF RESPONSES.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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advice - nothing in 3 months Posted: 5/23/2006 5:24:41 AM
Dude, work out at the gym and post a pic of your new tight bod... Thats what girls like! At your age, you have to lie to get the girls, until you get about a hundred of them, then you can start being yourself, and all this is because they want a guy with confidence. But like with an employer that only wants experience, so it is with a girl that only wants confidence. You might try with the fat or ugliest girls, and then in a couple of years, you may be ready to trade up to the skinny and cute ones. The skinny and cute ones have way too much competition to compete for. They are going for the older guys, because they have confidence, so by the time you are older, you can have your game ready. Thats how it was for me when I was your age too! Couldnt get a girl my age, but after years of practice, I can smooth talk by way with any age! Try dating younger ones too, and by the time they are ripe, you can be the first to pluck their tender fruit! he he he he he.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Would you change your looks for someone to become more attractive to them? Posted: 5/22/2006 4:41:25 PM
Well seeing as how IM more SHALLOW than alot of you, HELL YA! ID DO WHATEVER I NEEDED TO GET THE HOT GIRL. After all, its initially about the sex, then the companionship! I see ugly girls all the time, and they just dont do anything for me. So if I had to get a penile enlargement or what have you, then its as good as done. Fortunatley, however, petite girls, cant handle much bigger than average, so no worrys there, he he he he he.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Dont Post your telephone number or address. Whats the difference from any name in the phone book? Posted: 5/22/2006 8:20:45 AM
Just cause someone is "online" we shouldnt know their address or phone number? Big deal, its like who cares? Might as well pick any name at random out of the phone book and call them, or go to their house! Ive put my name and address on an internet chat room several times, and although a person or two called to check it, they never called back, who cares?

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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It's not your profile, it's.... Posted: 5/22/2006 8:12:45 AM
What's a tool? ? ? ? ?

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Rich American Stud looking for younger submissive foreign girl Posted: 5/21/2006 10:04:05 PM
ya but your already in america, I was thinking about offering her US citizenship in exchange for her hottiness. LOL

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Couldnt handle other men looking at you? Posted: 5/21/2006 9:57:50 PM
^^^Confusious say, it is better to share a hot girl than to have an overweight one all to yourself!

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Rich American Stud looking for younger submissive foreign girl Posted: 5/21/2006 9:51:44 PM
I think its high time us guys use our wealthy position here in america and bring in some young foreign girls who will appreciate the opportunity this land affords them as My wife! LOL

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Lose weight first, then date? Posted: 5/21/2006 9:43:03 PM
Let me simplify it further.... when your having sex with someone in shape you get harder hard-ons. I speak from experience, Ive had both.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Dating mixed race women Posted: 5/21/2006 9:36:04 PM
IM not concerned with what people think of my date as to her race. As for me going with a black woman? I dont like dark skin. Only light dark, Id consider. Maybe if a hot bodied black girl got me drunk, id let her ravish me. Otherwise, hey Id love her like my sistah!

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Dating mixed race women Posted: 5/21/2006 6:38:51 PM
funny, Im white, am Im not attracted to most black women, but mix in some other blood, and woo hoo, theres a hotty!

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Why is Confidence so Important? Posted: 5/21/2006 5:37:19 PM
Since God made us humble but women desire "confident men" its there fault when we become players and sleep with as many women as we can so we can have the "confidence" when the right woman comes along!

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Lose weight first, then date? Posted: 5/21/2006 11:48:01 AM
Whats wrong with posting "Dont contact me if your overweight". Newsflash, guys like sex. Another newsflash, some guys cant get it up for an overweight girl".

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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WTF? Posted: 5/21/2006 10:37:33 AM
> Random guy, I finally took the time to read your long post, and came up with a serious response... It sounds like "redneck" is the key term here. Sounds more like these people are into drama and getting effed over. Im guessing they live in a trailer also, am I right? Man if im right about that, im just getting too good at this stuff. > Too sum up, she may have a tight little white trash trailer ass, but it seems like she doesnt know what to do when a man in a higher class comes along. This may be a sign, that she's not really ready to settle down. Good thing theres billions of other women out there. Do you realize how many that number is? Whew! and you only can have one! LOL >Just remember true discernment comes from the heart, not from the beefed up drama of what someone else says. A testing tool for the good people of today!

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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WTF? Posted: 5/21/2006 10:05:06 AM
Thats what you get for putting all your eggs in one basket, remember like you, women are looking for their "one mate" and until theres a ring on the finger, anyone is fair game. I try to date several partners at once, so if one drops off, I just fill her slot with a red head, or a blonde, or a brunette. LOL

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Lose weight first, then date? Posted: 5/21/2006 9:40:59 AM
Good point about waitin till your perfect before you date there lonely mamma. As for the guys that cant get a date, dont overlook the fact that you are a "rich" american an can woo a philipino girl half your age. A friend of mine who is approaching 60, not very attractive, and kindof heavy married a skinny cute philipino woman whose in her 30's and they just had their 2nd kid together.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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How do you greet on First date? Posted: 5/21/2006 9:34:49 AM
I agree, a handshake is appropriate, you get to feel some warm flesh, and hands are used to touching some strange things, strangers included. he he he

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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a little confused here... Posted: 5/21/2006 9:29:22 AM
oh ya, ive been meaning to get back to you to say: "sorry about that" but at the last minute my first choice date became available, thanks for being my backer!

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Lose weight first, then date? Posted: 5/21/2006 9:19:12 AM
The first 15 -20 lbs are the easiest, and the last 15-20 lbs are the hardest. Seriously, you need to go twice a day now, for at least the next 6-8 weeks to get down to the washboard abs. You can do it! Remember 6 days a week, 2x a day, and if you can go 3x thats even better, (add in more aerobics if the muscles are tired). Then your sweet thang is months away instead of years!!!

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Is chivalry dead and gone? Posted: 5/21/2006 9:14:34 AM
Im of the old fashion arena, where women walk 3 paces behind the men, and in the case of door opening, she needs to recognized who her "KING" is, and I expect her to run forward to open the door for me. This shows a sign of great respect for her future father of her children, and breadwinner, that will provide the substinance for her daily living. Without the strength of man to till the ground, there wouldnt be enough food to sustain the weaker sex woman. I find it very attractive for a woman who submits to her man, receives gentleness in like manner.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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what makes young puppies think older women are desperate? Posted: 5/20/2006 12:26:22 PM
who cares whose desperate?

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Qualitative analysis Posted: 5/20/2006 12:23:30 PM
What was that a mistranslation from ancient Egyptian?

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Let's Hear The Other Side...Muscular Woman Posted: 5/20/2006 8:10:53 AM
Id like to take one along with me, when Im out hitting on chicks, just to see how it would affect my batting average. he he he.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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This is kindof a spinoff of "guys cant get there own age are losers" posted by someone earlier Posted: 5/20/2006 7:33:05 AM
Let me put it another way, since most american familys dont teach their youth how not to become a slut in an effective enough manner, the hot girls are gonna have lots of experience, having been with lots of guys, if you dont have experience, you cant even compete for her attention. (confidence can be substituted for experience here as they are interchangeable) I think when a girl says she wants a guy who is confident, what she is saying, is she wants a man whore, (a guy that knows how to treat a lady)? how bout a guy thats been with a thousand women? LOL However there is a group of hot girls who are not sluts, they usually hang out in church, and were brought up in a strict moral responsible family. An average guy, who hasnt slept around much will stand a great chance finding a good mate there.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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How muscular do you like your guys? Posted: 5/20/2006 7:27:11 AM
Maybe the question should have been, how muscular to hot girls like their men? The answer would be the same for us, we like hot teenage bodied girls, and girls like the same, thin, with lots of muscle, not a ginormous muscle man like the incredible hulk.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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shy guy and popular girl Posted: 5/20/2006 7:17:20 AM
In the one of the previous posts a girl mentions a shy guy, but failed to mention the popular, (hot) girl. In reality, the day these two hook up will be like in the movie End of days. Pray that a meteor will hit , and be ready to lead your sweetheart to safety, and if all the hot guys are destroyed, then you will have your hot girl, if not, then you may have to wait until the next life to have sex with a hot woman.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Well Ill tell you right now, I dont trust anyone of you farther than I can throw you... Posted: 5/20/2006 7:05:11 AM
Do you trust me? NO, you dont even know me, so trust is something earned, so why not ask for a test up front, its not like im gonna trust you if i dont know you anyways.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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How do you approach a girl? Posted: 5/20/2006 7:00:45 AM
Some of these responses are HILARIOUS! Seriously heres an easy one..... walk up to her, and say, wow your really cute, (or something else you like about her, and then say, "can i get your number, maybe we can hook up sometime" (if this doesnt work, its cause your not good looking enough, and it means you need to work on your personality, cause this almost always works for me).

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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New to the Whole Online Dating Idea.... Got any suggestions???? Posted: 5/20/2006 6:49:37 AM
if you had a body like hillary duff, or britney spears (before she got married) then Id recommend showing some more suggestive pics. If not, then you ought to try being really aggressive and flirty with your would be suitors. Oh, and if your big, try going for a big guy, start out with the biggest and work your way down. I used to start with the fat and ugly chicks to build up my self esteem, now I can get either a cute fat girl, or dogfaced hot bodied girl. Im hoping that some day I can merge these two.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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What is Most Important in Life??? Posted: 5/19/2006 5:20:06 PM
i saw a show on people with migraine headaches, and they have been having them for 20 - 30 years, and they say they feel so bad that its like needles sticking in your eyes from the inside of the sockets, and yet nothing can be done, again, id rather have my health and be alone, than have family and suffer like this all my life.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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What is Most Important in Life??? Posted: 5/19/2006 3:27:42 PM
I agree, a healthy body is good, warm sunshine on the health body, good oxygen to breath in the healthy body, great food for the healthy body is good, shelter for the healthy body, the 2nd nicest thing to add to the healthy body is another healthy body, where they two join together and become as one flesh.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Single again, dont know what to do! Posted: 5/19/2006 2:25:24 PM
I recommend getting on the phone to a local church singles group, most of them have something, I know the mormons sure do. Its a start.

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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16 years Posted: 5/19/2006 2:17:04 PM
If only more women would be seen with younger men, then maybe the'd get off my back about being with the legal age limit. Every years theres a new crop to choose from!

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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What's up with young guys coming on to older women? Posted: 5/19/2006 2:05:59 PM
It's always nice to ht on an older woman now and again, after striking out on the young ones. Like real estate young females in shape are hot property, and it takes alot of work before you can own one, but occasionally now and again, when a man needs some reassurance to his self esteem he can pick up on an older women. They tend to be more desperate, thinking the love clock is ticking, their bodies are getting flabby, just the thing a young stud needs to refuel his self esteem before hittin the market again on the "hot properties". He He He

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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Again - Accussed of being too polite. Posted: 5/19/2006 1:57:23 PM
OP and eleven, are you kidding? What do you think alcohol was invented? To lower the inhibitions of women, it works every time. You need to understand this, cause you both lost out on an opportunity! If it looks like they might pass out on you, try talking them into taking a shower with you, that usually will wake them up enough to start something, and since your already naked, who cares if she passes out, once your in her. Nothin like waking up the next morning with her naked. Just remember to tell her when she says you took advantage of her, that, she insisted, and you were just trying to be a nice and "giving" guy! LOL

banannaman

Joined: 5/18/2006

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I need some good advice what to do? Posted: 5/19/2006 1:51:05 PM
are you kidding, theres lots you can do. save some of those messages and call the cops, He can be arrested just for threatening you! 3 days in the slammer ought to calm him down! Its illegal to make a threat against anyone, and the fact that you have proof is all you need to start cleaning up the trash. We as a society appreciate when you help keep our streets clean! LOL

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