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Posted In Forum: All Forums Alabama Alaska Alberta Arizona Arkansas Art/Music Ask A Girl Ask A Guy Australia British Columbia Broken Hearts California Colorado Connecticut Dating & Love Advice Dating Experiences Dating Sites Delaware District Of Columbia Event Hosts forum Florida Georgia Hawaii Health & Fitness Humor Idaho Illinois Indiana Introductions Iowa Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Maine Manitoba Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Mississippi Missouri Montana Nebraska Nevada New Brunswick New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico New York Newfoundland News/Current Events North Carolina North Dakota Nova Scotia Off Topic Ohio Oklahoma Ontario Oregon Over 30 Over 45 Pennsylvania Plentyoffish Get Togethers Plentyoffish Site/Suggestions/Help Poems And Quotes Politics Prince Edward Island Profile Reviews Quebec Recipes & Cooking Relationships Religion/Supernatural Rhode Island Saskatchewan Science/Philosophy Sex and Dating Single Parents South Carolina South Dakota Sports Stories/creative writing Technology and computers Tennessee Testimonials Texas Uk Forums Utah Vermont Virginia Volunteer Moderators Only Washington West Virginia Wisconsin Wyoming Home   login   MyForums   Show ALL Forums      Author  Thread: Dating Yourself  heyoooo Joined: 5/19/2006 Msg: 48 (view)   Dating Yourself Posted: 5/22/2006 12:47:53 AM If only all the "down on love" people on POF would read this and do this and stop posting topics that all use the same answer: move on. Thanks JustBeHonest! I think a lot of people should do this! Cheers  heyoooo Joined: 5/19/2006 Msg: 31 (view)   wife left and still trying to hold me on Posted: 5/20/2006 5:58:11 PM Well it's hard to fix people that have gotten into something bad, especially when they are loved ones. Sometimes you just have to let it go - especially since she is using meth, that shit's hard to clean up. And since she is staying with the guy that got her hooked, her chances of getting cleaned up are slim to none because that guy will always be there telling her it is good for her and she needs it to feel better. Move on buddy. Cheers  heyoooo Joined: 5/19/2006 Msg: 5 (view)   how do you move on??? Posted: 5/20/2006 5:48:21 PM Have you told him how you EXACTLY how you feel? If you have and he still is not "looking for a relationship" then maybe he is not the right one. But on the other hand, he might just be saying that because he really isn't, and he is just dating other girls for the sex. He might tell you that because he quite possibly might want to be with you and he is afraid that if he jumps into a relationship too soon he might end up hurting and losing you forever. There are so many possibilities in this that the only true way to figure this out and stop your pain is to just talk to him about all of it. It will help you get over him (if needed) or help him to get into you (lol pun not intended). But anyway, I hope that your sadness will get over soon so that you can continue on with your life, with or without this guy. Cheers  heyoooo Joined: 5/19/2006 Msg: 13 (view)   finding your boyfriend on another internet site Posted: 5/20/2006 5:24:27 PM Well Kempenfelt K, I just think that you two were not on the same page. You may have been looking to him for more of a long-term more serious relationship, and he may have been looking to you for a short-term quick relationship or friendship. Also, how do you know that he is not reading what you say on POF? You say that he did not deal with the confrontation in a mature way, but spying on him for weeks was not very mature of you. And you were whack-o enough to remember the exact days? Coming from a male standpoint - if a woman had been spying on me for several weeks and then called me up confronting me about something that I was apparently not "supposed to be doing," I would stop calling too and back off. He's probably scared that when he does meet you, that you might start stalking him soon after. I'm gonna be blunt here: you sound creepy. Cheers  heyoooo Joined: 5/19/2006 Msg: 16 (view)   Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 5/20/2006 5:13:19 PM Hey I'm Junior but most people call me Jay or JJ. I just moved to Middleton, Idaho from Brooklyn, New York a couple of months ago. I am married with one child and another on the way. I'm really just here because of a friend of mine that posts in the forums, but why not make some cool new Idaho friends while I'm here, eh? Cheers!  heyoooo Joined: 5/19/2006 Msg: 5 (view)   rules upon entering Idaho Posted: 5/20/2006 7:37:54 AM Damn I just moved to Idaho and this is so damn true!  heyoooo Joined: 5/19/2006 Msg: 14 (view)   top 10 list #2 Worst places to try and drive Posted: 5/19/2006 9:22:01 PM Try driving in Boise, Idaho..these people drive like a bunch of jackasses! They want to have a big city but they don't want to learn how to drive like big city drivers. They should all fly up to Seattle or over to New York or down to LA to learn how to drive. Then maybe they wouldn't be so damn agressive!  heyoooo Joined: 5/19/2006 Msg: 22 (view)   What is a soul-mate? Posted: 5/19/2006 9:19:13 PM A soul mate is someone you connect with on an equal level. A soul mate doesn't even have to be your significant other or lover.   Show ALL Forums