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 Author Thread: Losing a loved one to death
 blueyes085
Joined: 5/20/2006
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Losing a loved one to death
Posted: 5/20/2006 12:35:51 PM
How long has it been since your loved one died?

Losing a loved one is very difficult.

I lost my husband 2 1/2 years ago. He died while he was watching tv and I was fixing dinner.

My first year was truly extremely difficult. The only thing that saved me, was getting a puppy to love, laugh and take care of. The dog didn't take the place of my husband, but just got me to think of something else.

The best thing I can say to you is, just go through the greifing, you will slowly heal.
I found that it is best that you have family and friends to help you through. Keep talking and crying. That is the best medicine. Don't let anyone tell you to get over it! You have to go through the grieving at your own pace.

If need be, go see a professional. They can help you through the hard times.
 
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